How to Improve Your Decision-Making
Summary
TLDRThe video script from 'The Art of Improvement' delves into the art of decision-making, using the Netflix series 'Dark' as a metaphor for the complexities of time and choice. It emphasizes the importance of not rushing decisions, understanding the value of time, and learning from past mistakes. The script also touches on the power of silence, the need for self-reflection, recognizing mental heuristics, and aligning decisions with personal values. It concludes by stressing that becoming a better decision-maker is a gradual process that requires time and practice.
Takeaways
- ⏳ Time is a critical factor in decision-making. Understanding its role can improve your choices.
- ⚖️ Avoid rushing decisions to prevent costly errors and regret.
- 🚦 Good decision-making saves time and increases efficiency in daily life.
- 💡 Learning from past mistakes is key to personal development and better decision-making.
- 💼 Decision-making skills can enhance job satisfaction and overall life satisfaction.
- 🤫 Embrace silence during decision-making; it can lead to better outcomes.
- 🧠 Mental heuristics are shortcuts that can expedite decision-making, but be aware of potential biases.
- 🤔 Post-decision reflection is essential for learning from mistakes and improving future decisions.
- 🔍 Recognize what you don't know to make more informed decisions.
- 🌟 Align decisions with your values for consistency and personal fulfillment.
Q & A
What is the main theme of the German series 'Dark' mentioned in the script?
-The main theme of 'Dark' is time-travel and its impact on characters' decisions across multiple timelines.
According to the script, how does the quote from Jonas in 'Dark' relate to decision-making?
-The quote from Jonas suggests that time controls us, implying that we should be mindful of how we use time when making decisions.
Why does the script suggest that rushing decisions can lead to regret?
-Rushing decisions often results in not considering all options and consequences, leading to potentially costly errors and regret.
What are some benefits of making better decisions as outlined in the script?
-Making better decisions can save time, increase flexibility, lead to personal development, improve work-life balance, and enhance job satisfaction.
How does the script use the example of Chinese negotiators to explain the power of silence in decision-making?
-The script highlights that Chinese negotiators are comfortable with silence, which puts them in a better position to secure deals, illustrating that silence can be a powerful tool in decision-making.
What is the significance of post-decision space mentioned in the script?
-Post-decision space is the time allocated to reflect on decisions made, which is crucial for learning from mistakes and improving future decision-making.
Why is understanding mental heuristics important for decision-making, as per the script?
-Understanding mental heuristics is important because it helps identify cognitive biases and shortcuts that can lead to suboptimal decisions.
What does the script suggest about the importance of knowing your values in the decision-making process?
-Knowing your values is crucial as it provides a framework for aligning decisions with personal beliefs and long-term goals.
How does the script advise one to discover what they don't know in relation to decision-making?
-The script suggests figuring out what you don't know by seeking information and understanding your weaknesses to make better-informed decisions.
What is the final advice given in the script for becoming a better decision-maker?
-The final advice is to work with time, allocate time to understand flaws, and learn to overcome them to become a better decision-maker.
Why does the script emphasize the importance of time in the context of decision-making?
-The script emphasizes time's importance because it is a limited resource that, when used wisely, can lead to more thoughtful and effective decision-making.
Outlines
🕒 Understanding Time in Decision-Making
This paragraph introduces the concept of decision-making through the lens of the Netflix series 'Dark', which explores multiple timelines and the consequences of decisions across them. It emphasizes the importance of time in decision-making, suggesting that rushing decisions can lead to regrettable outcomes. The paragraph encourages viewers to reflect on hasty decisions and to consider the value of time in making better choices. It also hints at the broader benefits of good decision-making, such as saving time, learning from past mistakes, and improving work-life balance.
🤔 The Art of Silence and Reflection in Decision-Making
Paragraph 2 delves into the power of silence and reflection in the decision-making process. It contrasts Western discomfort with silence against Eastern practices, like those of Chinese negotiators, who use silence strategically. The paragraph advises using silence to深思熟虑 before speaking, which can lead to better decisions. It also discusses the importance of post-decision reflection to learn from mistakes and improve future choices. The concept of mental heuristics is introduced, explaining how these mental shortcuts can be useful but also lead to cognitive biases if not managed properly. The paragraph concludes by encouraging viewers to understand their values and the unknowns in their decision-making process to make more informed choices.
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Keywords
💡Decision-making
💡Time
💡Rushed decisions
💡Personal development
💡Work-life balance
💡Silence
💡Mental heuristics
💡Self-reflection
💡Values
💡Cognitive biases
💡Flexibility
Highlights
The TV show 'Dark' illustrates the complexity of decision-making across multiple timelines.
Jonas' quote emphasizes the paradox of having time while being controlled by it.
Utilizing time effectively is key to making better decisions.
Rushed decisions often lead to regret and errors.
Reflecting on past decisions is crucial for learning and improvement.
Good decision-making saves time and prevents feelings of wastefulness.
Making better decisions can lead to personal growth and development.
Effective decision-making improves work-life balance and job satisfaction.
Leadership requires the ability to make decisive decisions.
Silence can be a powerful tool in decision-making, as demonstrated by Chinese negotiators.
A moment of silence allows for thoughtful consideration before speaking.
Post-decision reflection is essential for learning from mistakes.
Understanding mental heuristics can help avoid cognitive biases in decision-making.
Recognizing what you don't know is vital for making informed decisions.
Aligning decisions with personal values ensures they are meaningful and purposeful.
Brainstorming sessions can help clarify personal values and guide decision-making.
Making better decisions is a skill that requires time and practice.
Learning to work with time is the most valuable skill for improving decision-making.
Transcripts
To explain how to make better decisions, let us first look at Dark, a German time-travel
science-fiction drama on Netflix.
The show dips in an out of multiple timelines, showing characters interact with different
versions of themselves and their loved ones.
The characters are constantly making decisions with massive consequences in the present day
and in all other timelines.
There's one quote that stands out the most.
One of the main characters, Jonas, is speaking to Marta:
"Why do we say that?”
“To have time.”
“How can you have time when it clearly has you?"
Time does control us - we're simply along for the ride.
But that doesn't mean our journey is without aim.
When making better decisions, utilising your time is perhaps your most effective tool.
Think of a time when you made a decision you regretted.
Chances are, that decision was rushed.
The more you rush crucial choices, the more likely you are to make a potentially costly
error.
The cruel reality is once you’ve made the rash decision, you’ll have all the time
in the world to think about what you could’ve done differently.
However, it doesn’t need to be all doom and gloom.
Understanding time’s place in your decision-making process is vital to becoming a better decision-maker.
As seen in Dark, the time we have may not be as clear-cut as you might think, so working
with it is the only option.
Other Benefits of Good Decision Makers As we’re using a time motif to become better
decision-makers, let’s start with the obvious.
Making better decisions will save you so much time.
On a smaller, less consequential scale, say you decide to ignore a sat-nav and take your
own route.
Not long after, you realise you’ve gone wrong, and spend an extra 30 minutes finding
your way back.
It’s little bits and bobs of time that, when wasted, can eat into a day and present
ugly feelings of wastefulness and failure.
The more time you save, the more options and flexibility you have.
Of course, by making a good decision, you may close off other options, but because it’s
a suitable path, a valuable opportunity may arise.
In a broader sense, being able to make good decisions is a sign you’re learning from
past errors, a critical aspect of personal development.
Then there are the benefits in your work-life balance, as high job satisfaction levels ultimately
lead to greater life satisfaction altogether.
That may mean securing a better salary, or perhaps being regarded as a leader.
Leaders, after all, must be decisive decision makers.
Understand the Power of Silence Moments of silence, particularly in the Western
world, are feared.
You’ll find that people - strangers, even - will overshare information about their lives
just to fill the space.
That’s the first error when trying to become a better decision-maker.
Take Chinese negotiators, for example.
When negotiating with Americans, research has found that the Chinese were more comfortable
sitting in silence, making it more likely for them to secure the deal they wanted.
It’s a good lesson, as silence can be your best friend when used correctly.
There’s a reason the phrase “think before you speak” is so widely used.
Often, a moment of silence can feel awkward, not least because someone will likely say
that and make it so.
When, in fact, a moment of silence is a moment to think.
When you give yourself a chance to think, the resulting decision is more likely to be
better for you.
Give Yourself Some Post-Decision Space Of course, there will be plenty of times when
you need to make a snap decision.
You won’t have time at that moment, but your work toward your quest for better decisions
will serve you.
Becoming a good decision-maker is all about learning from your mistakes.
That will never happen if you don’t allocate time to reflect on them.
Thinking about bad decisions you’ve made would be understandable if you dwelled on
past errors and were too self-critical.
However, that’s not what concentrated periods of self-reflection are for.
Understanding why you made a decision and where it leads will help you evaluate why
some decisions proved more beneficial than others.
One of the top ways to do this is via talking to someone who firstly has high emotional
intelligence and, secondly, understands you.
Usually, verbalising your thoughts can be a breakthrough for decision-making and subsequent
personal development.
Understand Your Mental Heuristics Put simply, a mental heuristic is a shortcut
used to solve problems quickly and effectively.
For example, investors and financial professionals use a heuristic approach to quicken investment
decisions and analysis.
For example, representativeness heuristics are when you make decisions using your knowledge
of past events that apply to a present situation.
Investopedia provides a useful model: “Fast Food ABC expanded its operations to
India and its stock price soared.
An analyst noted that India is a profitable venture for all fast-food chains.
Therefore, when Fast Food XYZ announced its plan to explore the Indian market the following
year, the analyst wasted no time in giving XYZ a “buy” recommendation.”
However, the website goes on to highlight the potential issues with this:
“Although his shortcut approach saved reviewing data for both companies, it may not have been
the best decision.
Fast Food XYZ may have food that is not appealing to Indian consumers, which research would
have revealed.”
Unfortunately, this can lead to cognitive biases.
For example, reading about selfish behaviour may make it easier to find selfishness in
the people around you, perhaps to a fault.
This is why it’s essential to understand which heuristics to use.
It starts when you think about what prompts you to make a particular decision.
What led you to that point?
Taking a step back and considering the other possibilities, and analysing why it is you
didn’t go for them can help you see those trigger points later down the line.
What Don’t You Know?
Let’s put one thing straight: you don’t know what you don’t know.
So how can you ever know you’re making the best decision possible if you don’t know
your weaknesses?
By figuring out what you don’t know, you can only figure out what needs fixing.
Let’s use an example.
One of the typical ‘big’ decisions you’ll have to make multiple times in your life is
job hunting.
Say you have two options but don’t know what your long-term career prospects are like
at either company.
Finding that out will give you the information you need and put you in pole position to make
a better decision.
Or, on a more personal note, if someone comes to you for advice on their life and you don’t
know all the facts about the situation, acquiring that information is likely the key to deciding
what kind of advice to give.
Know Your Values Ultimately, your values are the umbrella all
of your decisions fall under.
By knowing them, you can align your decisions accordingly.
As we live in a world requiring quicker decisions, knowing the direction you want to take your
thoughts and decisions is a useful tool.
For example, if you value supportive people, the type of person you interact with and become
friends with will align with that.
After all, you don’t want to waste time with people who don’t provide you with what
you need.
You can start with a simple brainstorming session.
Take ten minutes to get a journal out and note down what you feel is essential to you.
This works in the short and long term, as you can influence your subconscious when you
make your values known.
Or, if you’re specifically preparing for a decision, brainstorming your values can
help steer you in the right direction.
Making Better Decisions Is Simple, Really Of course, learning to make better decisions
doesn’t happen instantly.
It’s a skill that takes time, as we discussed at the start.
All of these tips have that in common.
Sure, you can watch this video and note them, but they're useless without proper time to
work.
As you learned at the start of this video, learning to cooperate with time will be the
most valuable skill you can acquire.
At the end of the day, if you ensure you’re putting time aside to notice and understand
your flaws, then learning to overcome them will be the next inevitable step.
After all, time won’t wait for you, so it’s time to become its ally.
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