Abusive Woman Gets Provoked and Slaps Her Baby's Father

Summary

The video script details a heated domestic dispute escalating to physical altercation between two parents over a potential food allergy incident involving their son. The argument turned violent, with the male recording the incident to document the abuse. Police intervention led to the female suspect being charged with battery but was released on her own recognizance. The script highlights the complexities of domestic violence and the challenges faced by law enforcement in managing such sensitive situations.

Takeaways

• 👨‍👧 A father is concerned for his daughter's care after a domestic dispute involving him and the mother.
• 🚔 On May 28th, 2023, police responded to a call about a family disturbance, initiated by a male regarding a physical altercation with his son's mother over a potential food allergy.
• 🥊 The argument escalated to physical violence between the parents, with the father claiming the mother attacked him first.
• 📹 The father had recorded parts of the incident, capturing the mother's aggression and his attempts to defend himself.
• 🍽 The dispute began over a meal involving butternut squash, which the father believed caused an allergic reaction in his son.
• 🗣️ Communication between the parents was fraught with tension, with the mother accusing the father of being aggressive and the father claiming he was provoked.
• 👶 The couple has a daughter who was present during the altercation, and the father expresses concern about the impact on their child.
• 🏠 The mother was charged with battery but was not taken into custody, and the situation raised concerns about the family's living arrangements and the daughter's welfare.
• 🚫 The police officer advised the mother not to contact the father or go to his residence to prevent further conflicts.
• 👮‍♂️ The police officer's handling of the situation involved releasing the mother on her own recognizance, emphasizing the importance of avoiding further altercations.
• 📚 The father was provided with custody paperwork to help resolve issues related to the care of their daughter.

Q & A

What was the initial reason for the police being called to the scene on May 28th, 2023?

The police were called due to a family disturbance involving a dispute that turned physical between two parents over their son's potential food allergy.

What was the father's perspective on the argument that led to the physical altercation?

The father believed the argument started due to a misunderstanding about a type of nut his son might have eaten, which he thought caused an allergic reaction, but the mother disagreed and the situation escalated.

How did the father describe the mother's reaction when he suggested the nut might have caused the allergy?

The father said the mother reacted aggressively, insisting it wasn't a nut, and this disagreement led to her becoming physically confrontational.

What did the father do when he realized the argument was escalating?

The father retreated to another room to avoid the conflict and started eating his food, hoping to avoid further confrontation in front of his daughter.

Why did the mother believe the father was being aggressive during their argument?

The mother felt the father was being aggressive because he was talking loudly and persistently, even when she was trying to have a phone conversation.

What actions did the mother take during the argument that led to her being charged with battery?

The mother stomped on the father's rib cage, slapped him, and wrestled over a phone, which led to her being charged with battery.

What was the father's response when the mother tried to take the phone from him?

The father resisted and bit the mother to get her to let go of the phone, which was his daughter's.

Why was the mother not taken into custody despite being charged with battery?

The mother was released on her own recognizance, likely due to the circumstances and the fact that there were no additional charges filed that day.

What concerns did the police express regarding the safety and well-being of the children involved?

The police were concerned about the children being exposed to the violent altercation and the potential for further disruptions to their normal living situation.

What advice did the police give to both parties to prevent further incidents?

The police advised both parties to avoid contact with each other, especially the mother, and to focus on being there for their children rather than escalating conflicts.

What resources did the police mention to help with custody issues?

The police mentioned that there is a packet available that can assist with custody issues and paperwork, which can be a valuable resource for the parties involved.

Outlines

00:00

👨‍👧 Father's Concern Over Daughter's Care Amidst Dispute

A father expresses concern for his daughter's wellbeing following a family disturbance on May 28th, 2023. Police were called due to a physical altercation between him and his partner over their son's potential food allergy. The argument escalated, and the father describes how he tried to avoid conflict by leaving the room but was pursued by his partner. He records the incident, capturing verbal and physical aggression, including being hit and stomped on by his partner. Despite the violence, he did not report the incident immediately, hoping to avoid escalation.

05:02

📹 Recording the Abuse: A Father's Strategy to Document Violence

The father secretly records the conflict to document his partner's abusive behavior. He captures her attempting to destroy evidence, namely a phone that contains a recording. The partner is heard arguing over the phone, trying to justify her actions. The father is struck by his partner, and he recounts the physical pain he endured, including a stomp to his rib cage. Despite the violence, he did not report it that evening, but later called the police, asking them to stay on the phone with him due to the ongoing conflict.

10:05

🗣️ Escalating Tensions: The Cycle of Provocation and Retaliation

The narrative continues with the father detailing the cycle of provocation and retaliation within the household. He describes how his partner's verbal abuse and attempts to involve their children in the conflict led to further escalation. The father's efforts to deescalate the situation are met with continued aggression, culminating in a physical altercation over a phone. The incident ends with the father biting his partner to get him off, and the phone being taken away.

15:06

🚨 Police Intervention: Arrest and Concern for the Child's Welfare

The situation reaches a critical point with the police's arrival and intervention. The father is concerned about his daughter's safety and pleads for his sister to take care of her as the mother is arrested for battery on a household member. The police officer tries to calm the situation and ensure the child's welfare, discussing the possibility of the child staying with the grandmother to prevent further disruption.

20:08

🏡 Dispute Over Child Custody: The Impact of Domestic Violence

The focus shifts to the issue of child custody amidst the domestic dispute. The father is worried about his daughter being taken away and expresses his concerns about the mother's ability to care for her. The police officer and the father discuss the best arrangement for the child, considering her comfort and the ongoing legal issues. The officer provides information on custody paperwork and emphasizes the importance of avoiding further conflict.

25:09

🙏 A Second Chance: Police Officer's Warning and the Father's Apology

In the final paragraph, the police officer releases the mother on her own recognizance but sternly warns against any further altercations. The father is grateful for the leniency shown and apologizes for his behavior. The officer emphasizes the importance of being there for the children and avoiding potential legal trouble. The video ends with a message from Blue Crime TV, inviting viewers to comment on the police handling of the situation and to subscribe for more content.

Keywords

💡Battery

Battery is a criminal law term referring to the act of physically harming someone without their consent. In the video's theme, it is central as the female suspect is charged with battery on a household member. The script mentions, 'you're going to be under arrest for B on household member,' indicating the severity of domestic violence.

💡Family Disturbance

A family disturbance typically involves a domestic conflict that may escalate to involve law enforcement. In the script, the situation begins with 'a call from a male regarding a family disturbance,' setting the stage for the ensuing events and highlighting the challenge of managing family conflicts without resorting to violence.

💡Food Allergy

A food allergy is an immune response to certain foods, which can cause physical symptoms. The video script mentions a dispute arising from a child's potential food allergy, 'his son having a potential food allergy,' which serves as a catalyst for the argument between the parents, emphasizing the stressors that can lead to conflict.

💡Provocation

Provocation is the act of deliberately inciting anger or irritation in another person. The script describes one character accusing the other of provoking them, 'he likes to provoke me,' which is a key element in the escalation of the conflict depicted in the video.

💡De-escalation

De-escalation refers to the process of calming a situation down to prevent it from becoming more heated or violent. The script includes an attempt at de-escalation, 'trying to decompress trying to myself down,' illustrating the importance of managing emotions in conflict resolution.

💡Custody

Custody pertains to the legal right to care for and control a child. The script discusses custody issues, 'the custody paperwork,' which is a significant concern for the characters involved, especially in the context of a domestic dispute and its aftermath.

💡Dispute

A dispute is a disagreement or argument, often arising from differing views or interests. The video's narrative revolves around a dispute, 'a dispute about his son,' which becomes physical and leads to police intervention, underlining the potential consequences of unresolved disagreements.

💡Arrest

Arrest is the act of taking someone into police custody. In the script, the term is used in the context of the female suspect being arrested, 'you're going to be under arrest,' which is a pivotal moment in the video's storyline and a consequence of the battery charge.

💡Violence

Violence is the use of physical force to harm or intimidate. The script repeatedly mentions acts of violence, 'she stomped on me,' and it is a central theme of the video, illustrating the negative impact of violent behavior within a family setting.

💡Police Officer

A police officer is a law enforcement agent responsible for maintaining public order and safety. The script features interactions with police officers, 'police officers, received a call,' who play a crucial role in managing the situation and enforcing the law.

💡Child Welfare

Child welfare refers to the well-being and protection of children from harm. The script discusses concerns for the child's welfare, 'make sure you're there for your kiddos,' emphasizing the responsibility of adults to ensure a safe environment for children.

Highlights

Police received a call regarding a family disturbance on May 28th, 2023.

A dispute over a potential food allergy for the son escalated to a physical altercation between parents.

The male claims the argument was about the son's possible food allergy causing a breakout.

The female insists the dispute was not about a nut, leading to a misunderstanding and escalation.

The male felt the female perceived his comments as aggressive due to miscommunication.

The female called someone on the phone, discussing the situation and the male's behavior.

The male began recording the incident, capturing the female's actions and words.

The female stomped on the male's rib cage while he was eating, causing him pain.

The male reported no lasting physical injuries but mentioned a possible bite mark.

The female was charged with battery but was not taken into custody, released on her own recognizance.

The police officer expressed concern for the children's well-being and the home environment.

The female's sister was called to potentially take care of the child to avoid state intervention.

The male expressed concern that the female might take the child to her parents' house without proper care.

The police officer advised the female not to contact the male or go to his residence to prevent further issues.

The female acknowledged the officer's decision and expressed her understanding of the situation.

The police officer emphasized the importance of being there for the children instead of facing legal trouble.

The video concludes with a call to action for viewers to comment on how they think the police handled the situation.

Transcripts

that is my daughter my baby care of her

let me explain to what's going to happen

on May 28th 2023 police officers

received a call from a male regarding a

family disturbance when officers arrived

on the scene they are greeted by the

male who explains how a dispute about

his son turned physical according to the

maale this argument was about his son

having a potential food allergy and who

might have caused the breakout however

this dispute allegedly becomes physical

between the two parents parenting can be

tough but violence is never the answer

let's see what happens um I was like

well what did he eat I asked her she

goes like squashing hazelnut some type

of nut I I don't know what kind of I

never heard of the nut's name so I was

like oh well that's probably I was like

it's probably because of that nut and

she goes

it's not a nut and I'm like what the

like so that's when it twisted

right there cuz I guess she thinks cuz

like I don't know because the music was

playing but I was talking regularly but

I guess she took it like I was being

like like aggressive towards her or

something so she like sideways she it's

not a nut and I'm like okay like what

the and after that uh I was like dude

why you going to get she's like why are

you doing that I was like why am I doing

what why you going to get all mad over

cuzz I say it's not a nut I was like you

know so we start going back forth right

here right right I'm in the kitchen

still she's right there I get my food

when I noticed she she not going to stop

cuz she always wants to have the last

word when I know she's not going to stop

I just get my food cuz I don't want my

daughter's my daughter she was she you

know I don't want them here so I'm going

I get my food I go to the back room

right here in this room um I you know

after that that's when I'm going to

start eating my food and she's just

she's on the uh she ends up calling

someone on the phone she's talking a

whole bunch of crap whole bunch of crap

and like I'm telling her she's telling

them like everything like the whole

situation I was like yo like uh I was

like tell this about uh not before she

started hitting me but uh tell it tell

it right like if

you're to whoever you're telling them to

like don't make me look bad tell so I

have don't record I knew like I started

recording when she uh once I knew she

wasn't going to stop cuz she just shut

the how she was going to end up going

south you know so I like I always I've

been recording and recording and this is

just one of those incidents where i c i

got this one on tape um I have other

ones too but not where she hits me but

anyways um and like I guess she like

gets pissed off like cuz she's the phone

she comes to she called me back to the

room telling me like she can't be on the

phone cuz uh I'm over here saying or I'm

talking to my daughters about her

that's another thing that brought her to

the room like cuz she was back and forth

to the to her room and the girls room

but if she was in the living room then

she wants to stay following me and gets

closer then she goes to

the so I tried closing the door and

she just going off talking a whole

bunch of in front of my girls you

know I'm like dude you're talking about

you over here acting showing my girls

how to you know but anyways um after uh

like uh like you know when I'm telling

your tell story right uh like some

eventually something triggered there I

have to hear what I said but something

triggered her that I said that she

she uh no no well I did that I have it

on video that part but she attacked me

before she came into the room um and I

uh she tried to attack this is the first

time but it's not on video but she tried

to attack me and I went like that I

flinched you know and I I I'm not I

didn't swing I flinched I put my elbow

up and she I don't know which arm she

hit me with but uh she hit see I felt

her hit me good you know with her swing

and impact against my elbow that I

felt her um anyways that was that and

she swung she swung at me twice but she

only hit me once okay but she didn't hit

me like anyway just on my elbow anyways

can I see it did you like bruise or

anything like that no I'm sure there's a

bite marker on my back though like

officer wanted to take a picture of me

um okay so she that okay after she does

that she leaves me alone it's recording

it's recording like I say about 3 4

minutes in um that uh uh that's when she

comes into the room she doesn't know

know it's recording though um she that's

when she comes and flies on my ass right

um and she starts that's uh that's when

she start she she Stomps on my uh cuz

like I'm I'm sitting down eating my food

and she ends up like she got she on top

of me she stomped on me here my

rib cage hurts right here she stomped on

me and I don't really remember what else

like I was telling the officer I don't

remember what else kind of hits I just

remember the ones that hurt me but

eventually I told her I'm recording when

she when she hit me I told I was

recording I'm glad that she did that I

was like I'm glad you hit me you know

like I'm glad you hit I got all

this on camera so when she when I

did that when I told her that she tries

to get my daughter this is my daughter's

phone she tries to bring my daughter's

phone she's over here slaming against

the I'm recording her is that the

recording on that camera I'm recording

her everything's on this one I was using

cuz I didn't want her to know that I was

recording so I had my phone right here

and I guess she thought was recording

right she's like oh acting like your mom

talking you know cuz my anyways

it's irrelevant

um so I'm recording and I she didn't see

it on my phone but here's here's one

video I have a few videos I didn't know

it

sucks watch you could just hear her

talking in the background but when I

fast forward it Butternut that's

probably why my son's allergic and you

talking to her the phone she's on the

phone she's talking trying to make

her look like is's a good one but she's

on

that's

she does this phone

have

connected has a I can sh is that when

you block it with your oh no this this

one so let me see this is probably at

the beginning where she comes into the

room like it wasn't recording when she

slaps you where do you think you get

slap no when you right there okay this

is the second time she came at me but

where did she SLA you on your person

like where did she hit you at when she

went at you to slap you heard you hear

the slap I don't know like I said I

don't know cuz I would remember what

hurt I remember the ones that like

really hurt me you know and it's my ribs

in my back where she didn't so let's go

all the way to the to where we were just

were like okay come here

I to the same oh my

God that's probably one of my son's

allergic and you want to freak out going

right baby with the link you're going to

be able to upload videos to the sa to

your album right yeah okay she was

trying to destroy it look at the phone

she where did she hit this at against

the wall in the room cuz she's trying to

take it from me and she's like so he's

going to send you that's a good number

her on this one that's

it's old yeah she me there with my in

my did you report this that evening no I

didn't report it it's cuz I don't want

to I didn't want to take it this far I

hoping she could just

K she needs and you called or she called

today I called I called right yeah I

called and I even asked the the dispatch

to stay on the phone with me cuz we're

about to hang up

my my parents where's that

at oh up the

hill just she doesn't

stop the link to this yeah cuz I want to

feel I feel like she's trying to like

Trigg me to like meanwhile another

officer speaks with the female suspect

to hear her side of the story how you

doing I've been better

honestly is there anybody in the

bathroom right now no is anyone else in

the house besides him outside no okay

just you two uhhuh okay um are you able

to no this is my witness as to she was

on the phone the whole time okay got

hearing everything all right I just want

to get some basic information off you uh

first off do you need medical attention

or anything like that no I don't think

so okay just goad and tell me what

happened so it all started because I was

eating I had made a soft food the girls

were playing in the room and I T this

that my daughter had hide my son had hid

from whatever he was feeding him and

he's like well what what was I feeding

him I said butternut squash and he like

he I'm a dumb idiot oh no that's

probably why that's literally what

started it because I talk to me like

that like what is your

problem so the whole time I'm sitting in

the living room he's walking back and

forth between the room checking on the

girls in the living room talking to

me okay the person I have on the phone

her me telling him leave me leave me

alone shut up and leave me alone let me

talk let me have my conversation leave

me the no he wants to go and start

literally like talking about me to

those kids one of them is my daughter

okay so I'm telling him dude like shut

the how hard is it to just

shut yeah why do you have to say

anothering me when I'm actually calm mhm

because that's what he likes to do he

likes to provoke me when I'm calm and

I'm elected telling him just shut up and

leave me alone dude just leave me but

then when I lose my and I pop the

so he wants

to let me just call the cops let me

record her because to the way he's

treating me okay the minute I told him D

just get your get your daughter get

the that's when he wants to start

screaming at me I'm on the phone the

whole time he doesn't know that he

starts at me like what am I supposed to

do when I'm sitting here trying to talk

to my sister trying to calm down and

he's from the other

room so obviously I pop the go to my

doorway and I'm telling him dude shut

the find your business leave me alone if

I want to call my sister and B to her I

can do that leave me alone he gets up

and is like oh am I screaming at you now

he didn't know I was on the phone still

am I screaming at you now now his bit

literally landed in my cuz he's in my

face in the doorway just how he's

standing I was in the doorway and he's

screaming at me getting in my m so I

mushed his face and I said do away from

me leave me the he goes in the room oh

you know what I have this all on camera

I said go ahead dude then it's going to

have on camera when you're seeing here

screaming at me from the other side of

the house even when I come in my room

I'm trying to come talking

like he thinks he's going to scare

me when all it's going to show is him

provoking me anytime I try to calm

myself down and deescalate the situation

there he goes talking about me

to got you so yeah I went in there and

I'm like dude what is wrong with you

leave me the how hard is it to just shut

yeah hey leave me alone I'm in room

leave me alone

each other in front of the kids and he's

like oh waving the face I got it all on

camera this time I got it all on camera

I said dude

I I have you on camera in front of my

daughter M but did I press charges no

was that today he put it put that was a

different time that was a complete

different time you but it's just a

pattern of behavior with this dude right

he likes to provoke me and then when I

that's what he's like oh let me get her

when she's

looking I don't have these issues dude

with nobody but him and his

family him and his family are always

doing this to each other that's why

because he does this to his mother his

mother does it to him they do it all to

each

other and I'm just like straight up I'm

fed up with

it a behavior reactive abuse is a

real and I'm just done so I get your

dude and you and your daughter can

wait over there for your mom cuz mind

you I had already texted his mom to come

and pick them up when he started

screaming at me okay so I told him get

your dude get

the starts talking to me like that

doesn't sound like to me the same person

that's out there talking to your guys oh

yes sir yes sir that was not at all how

he was before you guys got here I get

that yeah I get so I'm like it's just I

know how this goes dude like I've dealt

with this

dude doing this to me I've never

been in trouble with other than with

him so it's for me because when I tell

you it's a

behavior it is

like but anyways we literally started

wrestling over the phone in there I had

to bite him on his get him off of me

because I had the phone in my hand and

he would not unless he ripped the phone

from my hand okay so you were s you in

you're in a living room area no no I was

in mil when the arguing started okay at

some point I came in here and I shut the

door and I was all the

phone when he starts provoking me

screaming at me talking

that's when I was like dude like I

leave me the mhm you say you don't want

to fight like but I'm literally here

trying to decompress trying to myself

down talking to my sister because she

can call me down right and he's

provoking me still provoking me so after

you come in here you close the door

that's when he he comes in here and try

to take the phone away from you no he

like and he's like oh um why don't you

tell the whole story tell her what you

were telling to me yeah like come on

dude I'm not at this point I wasn't even

with him anymore I wasn't even paying

him any because I was on the phone with

somebody that could hear everything too

that's when he wants to okay he came in

here slammed the door open he didn't

come in here like he stood at the door

and was just my sister's like dude what

the hell is going on like okay and after

after that he goes to his room back to

the kids's room talking them oh don't be

like your mommy okay Isabella don't be

like don't be like this don't treat

people like this so you know like

provoking me so I'm like dude like every

time that he provoked me it got for like

I just bro like yeah I get that I can't

put up with that when I'm sitting here

trying to deescalate my anger and my

problem trying to keep from letting it

get that far right and he like just kept

going so at that point I went in there

and I'm like what is your just like that

so what is your you want to be doing

this in front of the kids we can do

it I said I dude I just want you out of

my I don't care and at that point we

start wrestling over the phone cuz

that's my daughter's phone right like

not his so I grabbed the phone and I'm

like that's fine as do that M he didn't

like that no he starts wrestling me to

the ground in front of the girls and

literally me I had to bite his to get

him off of Me Okay and like literally he

snatched the phone out of me

like and that's where it ended once I

saw that that like he got me exactly

where he to react like that I said dude

just get the didn't like go here like he

didn't break contact with the phone he

you guys were both fighting over the

phone together and that's when you fell

into the wall and then did he fall on

top of you or did you fall on top of him

at that point that's when we started to

spin around because when he pushed me

into the wall I wasn't letting go of the

phone yeah and then you guys spun there

and then do you remember if he ended up

on top of you first or did you end up on

top of him when yall end end up on top

of me okay so he ended up on top of you

and then how was that where was your

head in in the room do you remember his

butt cheek was on my face right so was

your head near the wall or near the door

no my head was right

here okay so you fell and I was like

flat yeah and how did he get on top of

you that way when he got on top of me he

was like this trying to get the phone

from me okay so he was standing over you

after you had fallen on the ground and I

wouldn't let it go and that's when he

sat on me and he was forcing the phone

out of my hands and I was like dude get

where did he sit on you at right here

like on your person on your body no like

he literally like basically teab bagged

my face he was just like this trying to

pull the phone up okay so he wasn't like

sitting on your chest obstructing your

breathing or anything like that no did

he did he make contact with your face

yes but was on my face okay I was just I

didn't know if he was like squatted down

and you you reached up to bite him or if

he actually like no like he was pushing

his weight down not enough to like choke

me or seriously like injure me but he

there no obstruction of your breathing

like you didn't have to change how you

were breathing this is how you normally

talk after you're upset or cry or this

is like your normal voice right yeah

okay um and

uh okay so at that point he kind of like

sits on your head you bite him he gets

up with the phone m mhm at that point I

like let go cuz I'm just like dude get

the that's when you go back in and stay

on the phone with your sister until we

show up mhm they're literally breaking

the law all they're letting him kidnap

my daughter he's not on the birth

certificate understand that he's never

signed enough for David dude he has no

right to take my daughter okay calm down

for a second let that is my daughter my

baby I Tak care of her let me explain to

you what's going to happen right now

okay right now you're going to be under

arrest for B on household member okay

wow yes ma'am no

to call my sister to come get my baby

have the please hands on your back no I

need to call my sister to get my baby

please she's down the street please

please let me just call her let me just

call her you can't go to the state

please my sister's just down the

street be fine put it put your phone

down look look at me I'm getting

arrested for

him that's funny everything's going to

be figured out right what I need to do

now is turn around turn around turn turn

around put B back I swear dude you guys

are so sh sart you have shoes he took my

daughter and he even have right to her

hold

on do you you have shoes somewhere dude

they're arresting me come get my son

please she please don't let him go in

the state please he's not going to go

with the state I I promise you I promise

she's not going with the state who's

your let me see this who's your

sister I'm swe she can call my other

sister they're arresting me that'sand

uh-huh that's your sister you need to

call Manda he's Chris I'm going to call

you right back here in a second okay the

right now get dude they're arresting me

like CH Crystal I'm going to call Amanda

right now

okay what's up

from my

daughter

cuz how how much clothes do I take from

my daughter so here's a another scenario

for you Joy okay

um what's the

likelihood of of cuz this is where your

little girl knows his home right um yeah

but she's fine with me I know I'm not

saying she's not fine with you but I'm

just asking like this is where she lives

that yeah well permanently right this is

our home yes um but she's always asking

to go to her Grandma's house so like

she's comfortable at both places I know

I get that um and I'm not here trying to

tell you what to do and what not to do

yeah and I know it's a tough

situation

and everybody's uh everybody's still

kind of fired up about what happened

earlier right is that probably pretty

accurate representation of what's going

on yes s okay

so I know we worked and pulled a lot of

strings today yeah to get

people and to ensure the safety of your

son yes and to get people situated in

places that they're going to be

comfortable at right yes sir so my

daughter like I said I I know she's

comfortable comt I know she's

comfortable with you and she's fine with

her mom too but like I said when my

question my concern would be all of your

little girls amenities bed this is her

normal way of life right here at this

house I would hate to disrupt that and

have her have to spend an extended

amount of time at Gram and Gramps if

there

wasn't a

sufficient uh way to care for her up

there I'm not saying there isn't yeah

and I'm not saying there is but you know

like taking somebody out of their house

can really cause some stuff we barely

been here a month I know but this is

what she's comfortable with and used to

right now right yeah some she more she's

Al like I said she's always want she's

there too my concern is if you take her

up there yeah this is going to blow up

again and okay your baby mama might end

up going up there okay no matter what I

tell her no matter what I say yeah if I

tell her that I pulled strings to get

her out of handcuff today she's going to

want that little girl and I don't want

you guys to get involved like I'm not

going to keep her I know I know I'm just

uh like but to to alleviate any more

problems and

issues it might be a good idea for her

to just kick it here yeah well she's

getting out of um yeah that's fine yeah

so she's just going to get o so um if

you're comfortable with that I don't

want to feel like I'm I don't want you

to feel like I'm forcing you no no

you're not forcing I just know like but

I know I know like I said

she's and I'm a fulltime job with my

with my son right so therefore she

hardly watches my daughter mhm you know

when she's with my son she don't really

give attention to my daughter right and

those are the same concerns that she's

voicing to me about there not being a

bed up there and there's a whole and

whatever right everybody can they can

say whatever they want to say but my

concern my house my parents house is

pretty big it's way bigger than right

right my concern is that she's going to

end up back up there and there's going

to be a whole another issue that arises

yes that doesn't need to arise if you're

little girl stays here with Mom you know

I understand what you're saying so um

just to like alleviate like just so you

guys don't have to see each other until

she goes through her court stuff yeah it

would probably be smart for every body

for your little girl to stay here if

that makes any sort of sense to you no I

I totally understand what she and then

you already have that packet that helps

you with the custody issues yes sir and

the custody paperwork and that's going

to be your uh that's going to be a

good resource for you so that you don't

have

to or so there's no more issues you

know something different when I uh

angles off

relax please please please please do not

contact him please please please do not

go up the hill

okay I stuck my neck out for

you because we were worried about the

kids and there's going to be a lot of

people that aren't going to be happy

with my decision

decisions if you go up that hill and get

into another

altercation this is a onetime deal for

you you guys continue on and this

happens again I cannot promise you that

you will get let out your this is your

lucky day I don't know what is going on

in the world for you today but there's

something that helped you out because

it's called prayer myom prayer this does

not happen

okay I cannot guarantee you that this

will ever happen

again I appreciate your cooperation I'm

glad that there were no additional

charges that we have to file

today okay thank you guys I'm again Sor

have any questions for us no thank you

and I'm sorry for the way that I treated

you I'm not here it is what it is

everybody goes through a tough time make

sure you're there for your kiddos

instead of potentially getting locked up

yeah

go hang out with

your thank you of course okay rest of

your

day the female was charged with battery

but not taken into custody and released

on her own

recognizance what are your thoughts on

the situation how do you think police

officers handled the release comment

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