Horror Hinge Date Goes Very Weird 👀 | CATERS CLIPS

Summary

The narrator recounts a disappointing first date with a man met on Hinge. Despite initial attraction, the date quickly sours as the man obsessively talks about his ex, uses her name in a disrespectful manner, and complains about the cost of dates without expecting intimacy. His stories of excessive drinking and lack of consideration for the narrator's caffeine sensitivity add to the red flags. After discussing with a friend, the narrator decides not to pursue a second date, concluding that one should not date until fully over their ex and to avoid discussing past relationships on a first date.

Takeaways

• 😌 The narrator had a great initial conversation with a guy on Hinge and was excited for their date.
• 😳 The guy turned out to be attractive but also intimidating to the narrator.
• 🚶‍♂️ They went on a walking date, which the narrator enjoys as it facilitates easy conversation.
• 🗣️ The guy immediately brought up his ex-girlfriend and their breakup, which was a red flag for the narrator.
• 🤬 He spoke negatively about his ex, which made the narrator uncomfortable and seemed immature.
• 💰 He mentioned spending a lot on a date and expecting physical intimacy in return, which was off-putting.
• 🍻 The guy talked about getting excessively drunk at events, which was another red flag.
• 🚫 The narrator felt that the guy was not over his ex and was still hurt, which was evident in his behavior.
• ☕ The guy disregarded the narrator's caffeine restriction by ordering his own coffee without offering to buy one for her.
• 👭 After the date, the narrator's friend helped her realize that the guy's behavior was not normal and he wasn't a good match.
• 📢 The advice given was not to go on a date if one is not over their ex and to avoid discussing past relationships on a first date.

Q & A

What was the initial impression of the guy the narrator matched with on Hinge?

The initial impression was very positive. The guy was described as cute, attractive, and a great texter, which made the narrator excited for the date.

What did the narrator find controversial about walking dates?

The narrator mentioned that walking dates are one of their favorite activities but acknowledged that this preference might be controversial, implying that not everyone might share this view.

What was the first red flag the narrator noticed about the guy during their date?

The first red flag was when the guy started talking negatively about his ex-girlfriend, calling her names and expressing anger, which made the narrator uncomfortable.

Why did the guy's behavior regarding his ex-girlfriend make the narrator uncomfortable?

The narrator felt uncomfortable because they believe one should not speak ill of an ex, especially to a stranger, and they themselves would not do so.

What was the second red flag the narrator noticed?

The second red flag was when the guy referred to his ex by her first name while talking about past events, which the narrator found weird.

What did the guy say about his previous date that made the narrator question his character?

The guy mentioned that he spent $240 on a date and was upset because he didn't get laid, which the narrator found disgusting and vile.

How did the guy's behavior about his drinking habits make the narrator feel?

The guy's constant references to being 'blacked out' at events made the narrator feel that he was the opposite of the person they were looking for.

What was the narrator's reaction when the guy ordered coffee without offering to buy one for the narrator?

The narrator felt a bit disappointed and surprised when the guy made a mobile order for himself without offering to get something for the narrator as well.

What advice did the narrator's friend give after hearing about the date?

The friend advised the narrator not to see the guy again, pointing out the glaring red flags and that his behavior was not normal.

What conclusion did the narrator come to after reflecting on the date?

The narrator concluded that the guy was immature and still heartbroken, and decided not to go on a second date with him.

What advice does the narrator have for people who are not over their exes?

The narrator advises people to not go on dates if they can't get over their exes, suggesting they should take time to heal and reflect before starting to date again.