Episode 6 - Logistics and Dating
Summary
TLDRIn this video, the host delves into the art of dating logistics, highlighting its importance in successful dating. He emphasizes planning dates in familiar territories close to home, choosing the right time and venues to maximize comfort and connection. Tips include securing convenient parking, selecting quieter days and times for dates, and being mindful of weather conditions. The speaker also advises on the significance of a second venue to create a sense of progression and offers insights on reading cues to gauge a date's interest level, ultimately aiming to create an environment where both parties feel at ease and enjoy the experience.
Takeaways
- 📘 Logistics in dating involves detailed coordination of plans to create a favorable environment for both parties.
- 🏠 Choosing a location for a date that is close to your home provides a sense of familiarity and control, which can be psychologically advantageous.
- 🤝 Building rapport with staff at potential date venues can enhance the experience and show the date that you are a well-known and respected patron.
- 🕒 Scheduling dates on weekdays is generally better than weekends due to less crowd, noise, and chaos, which facilitates better connection.
- 🅿️ Considering parking convenience for the date is crucial, especially in densely populated areas, to avoid unnecessary stress and complications.
- 🎶 The ambiance of the venue, including music volume, can significantly affect the quality of the date and the ability to communicate effectively.
- 👗 Advising the date on appropriate attire for the weather conditions is considerate and helps ensure comfort throughout the date.
- 🌡️ Checking the weather forecast is essential to avoid potential disruptions and to plan the date accordingly.
- 🥂 Keeping the duration of the date reasonable, ideally under three hours, helps maintain energy and interest without becoming excessive.
- 🍹 Monitoring alcohol consumption during the date is important to ensure that both parties remain comfortable and in control.
- 🔄 Having a second venue in mind for the date can create a sense of progression and can be a strategic move to build comfort and connection.
Q & A
What is the primary focus of the video script?
-The primary focus of the video script is to discuss the importance of logistics in dating and how to strategically plan dates to increase success with potential partners.
Why does the speaker compare dating to a complex operation or war?
-The speaker compares dating to a complex operation or war to emphasize the need for detailed planning and coordination, highlighting that successful dating requires strategy and understanding of logistics.
What is the definition of logistics as mentioned in the script?
-The definition of logistics given in the script is the detailed coordination of a complex operation involving many people, facilities, or supplies.
Why is it important to have the date location close to the man's home?
-Having the date location close to the man's home is important because it allows him to be in a familiar environment, which can make him feel more comfortable and confident, and it also provides the opportunity for a smoother transition to his place if the date goes well.
What does the speaker suggest regarding the selection of a day for a date?
-The speaker suggests that the best days for scheduling a date are Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday, as weekends can be too busy, loud, and chaotic, which may not be conducive to a successful date.
Why is it recommended to have a second location in mind for a date?
-Having a second location in mind is recommended because it can create a sense of progression and make the date feel like it's going to multiple places, which can be exciting and engaging for the potential partner.
What is the significance of being familiar with the staff at the chosen date location?
-Being familiar with the staff and having a good relationship with them can be beneficial because they may provide better service, which can reflect positively on the man and enhance the overall dating experience.
Why is it suggested to check the weather before planning a date?
-Checking the weather before planning a date is important to ensure that the conditions are suitable for an outdoor date or to make any necessary adjustments to the date plan in case of bad weather.
What is the recommended time frame for a date according to the script?
-The recommended time frame for a date is to keep it under three hours, with a focus on maintaining a good flow of conversation and activities without dragging out the date unnecessarily.
How does the speaker suggest handling the situation if a girl is ready to go back to the man's place?
-The speaker suggests that if a girl is ready to go back to the man's place, he should be attentive to her cues and be willing to adjust the logistics plan accordingly, potentially ending the date at that point and moving back to his place.
What is the importance of parking logistics in planning a date?
-Parking logistics are important because ensuring that there is convenient and accessible parking for the potential partner can reduce stress and make the overall experience more enjoyable and seamless.
Outlines
🚀 Introduction to Dating Logistics
The speaker introduces the concept of logistics in dating, emphasizing its importance and comparison to complex operations like business or military strategies. He explains that logistics involves detailed coordination and planning, which is crucial for a successful date. The speaker suggests that a man should plan the date to his advantage, ensuring the woman feels comfortable in his 'world'. The focus is on understanding the definition of logistics and its application in dating to make the process smoother and more favorable.
🏠 Proximity and Familiarity in Dating
The speaker discusses the importance of choosing a date location close to one's home to establish a sense of familiarity and comfort. He advises men to invite women to places where they are well-known, such as local bars or coffee shops, to demonstrate social proof and ease potential anxiety. The speaker also recommends living in a larger city with more dating options and ensuring that the chosen venue is vetted beforehand to guarantee a positive experience.
🗓 Optimal Timing for Dates
The speaker highlights the significance of timing when planning a date. He suggests avoiding weekends due to crowded venues and recommends weekdays, particularly Monday to Wednesday, for a more relaxed atmosphere. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of considering traffic and work schedules when setting a date time, allowing the woman ample time to unwind after work. He advises giving a buffer time to account for any delays and ensuring the date does not exceed three hours to maintain engagement.
🅿️ Addressing Parking and Practical Concerns
The speaker addresses the practical issue of parking, especially in densely populated areas, and suggests reserving a spot to alleviate stress for the date. He also discusses the importance of considering weather conditions and advises checking the forecast to avoid scheduling dates during unfavorable conditions. The speaker encourages being prepared for various scenarios to ensure a seamless dating experience.
🎶 Creating the Right Ambiance
The speaker talks about the ambiance of the venue, including the type of music and overall vibe, which can greatly affect the date. He mentions the benefits of being known to the staff and the positive impression it can create. The speaker also stresses the importance of having a second location in mind to transition the date smoothly and create a sense of progression, similar to a second date.
🥂 Managing Alcohol Consumption
The speaker discusses the role of alcohol during a date, suggesting moderation to maintain a comfortable atmosphere. He advises monitoring the woman's drinking to prevent over-intoxication, which could lead to negative behavior. The speaker also shares his personal approach to pacing the date and recognizing when to stop drinking to keep the interaction enjoyable and in control.
🤝 Reading Signals and Adjusting the Plan
The speaker emphasizes the importance of being attentive to the woman's signals and adjusting the logistics plan accordingly. He explains that while having a system is crucial, it's equally important to recognize when a woman is ready to move to a more intimate setting, such as the man's apartment. The speaker shares tips on how to gracefully transition to the next phase of the date and the importance of not forcing the situation.
📢 Conclusion and Call for Engagement
In the concluding paragraph, the speaker invites viewers to share their tips, questions, and topic suggestions in the comments section. He expresses gratitude for the support received and mentions the channel's growth, aiming for 200 subscribers. The speaker encourages viewers to like, subscribe, and engage with the content, highlighting the value of sharing knowledge and experiences in the community.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Logistics
💡Psychological Advantage
💡Playing on Your Turf
💡Plausible Deniability
💡Status Display
💡Vetting Places
💡Day of the Week
💡Time Management
💡Parking
💡Second Venue
💡Drink Management
💡Weather Consideration
Highlights
The importance of logistics in dating is emphasized as it is compared to planning a complex operation.
Logistics in dating involves detailed coordination of plans to create a favorable environment for the date.
The concept of having the date in your 'turf' is introduced to play on familiar ground and gain a psychological advantage.
Strategies for inviting a girl close to your location to minimize travel and maximize comfort are discussed.
The benefits of living in a larger city with more dating options and the importance of being in an 'affordable but fun' area are highlighted.
The significance of choosing the right time and day for a date to avoid weekends and peak hours is explained.
Tips on how to handle parking logistics to ensure a smooth and stress-free arrival for the date are provided.
The role of the bar or coffee shop's atmosphere, including music and noise levels, in the success of a date is examined.
The impact of weather conditions on dating logistics and the importance of checking weather forecasts before a date are underlined.
The strategy of having a second location prepared to transition smoothly from one venue to another during a date is introduced.
The ideal duration of a date is suggested to be under three hours to maintain energy and interest.
The importance of monitoring alcohol consumption during the date to ensure comfort and prevent over-intoxication is discussed.
The psychological impact of moving from one place to another during a date to create a sense of progression and a 'second date' feel is explained.
The need for flexibility within the logistics system to adapt to the date's comfort level and readiness is emphasized.
Strategies for dealing with last-minute resistance and the importance of recognizing when a date wants to end the night are provided.
The value of front work in dating, such as planning and preparation, is stressed as a key differentiator in success.
The transcript concludes with an encouragement to practice and refine dating logistics for consistent success in dating.
Transcripts
thank you
sir
[Music]
hey everyone
um
new care once again uh nice to see
everyone
just wanna to get into Logistics today
and why it's important and why uh
and why um after uh the the anxiety of
approaching a woman why is this second
hardest in my opinion thing to learn and
understand and why it seems so daunting
right but also uh you know we're here to
talk strategies and ways to get your
Logistics to work for you and put
everything in your favor right because
at the end of the day you want to win
and the girl you're on a day with wants
you to win two right so uh let's get
started all right so what is the
definition of logistics right uh we tend
to hear a lot in um maybe complex
business operations that are military
operations um it's very important right
so the definition of logistics is the
detailed coordination of a complex
operation involving many people
facilities or supplies right
um
you know I've always equated dating to
like war or a complex business deal or
something like that
um so Logistics definitely is a word
that a lot of like uh people that date
are players or Don Juans casanovas
whatever you want to call them
um
uh use because a date is something that
a man has to plan right but it's very
like uh much harder than it would then a
lot of guys uh thought about in the
beginning right so
how does Logistics play into dating
right so when you ask a girl out on a
date
um usually you're the one that's going
to be making the plans right 99 of the
time you make the plans right obviously
I've had times where girls are like hey
let's go do this I want to go see this
right and even then you're gonna have to
set the time
and uh set you know all the other things
in place in order for you to get to that
place
right so
um there's several things to consider
when when I'm talking about logistics
right so we'll try to recover as much as
we can today and uh I would say
um the biggest thing about logistics you
have to understand is that it has to
work in your favor and not her favor
right she's stepping into your world so
she has to step into your system and
your way of doing business right
um that it usually doesn't work the
other way around right so what we want
to do is bring her as close as where
you're what area you're familiar in
whether it be your city or medium-sized
town or whatever that way you're playing
on your Turf right when um
when you're playing sports or when you
have a battle or whatever or even a
business deal you're doing a business
deal you want to do it in a place where
you're familiar with the surroundings
right and uh that's the psychological
thing humans feel more comfortable and
confident
uh doing battle or dating or having a
business deal go down in places where
they where they are familiar with right
and it gives you a huge Advantage so
first off I will say always
invite the girl as close to you as
possible right now if you live in a big
city
this could be park in front of my
apartment complex Let's cross the street
and go to the bar right
um
yeah so always she's stepping into your
frame stepping into your world you know
um you're you're inviting her to
Disneyland Disneyland is where you're at
right you are the excitement she's
driving to you not the other way around
right
um
so you want to find a place that's close
to your apartment now if you live in the
middle of nowhere then tough you're
probably gonna have to find some place
within driving distance right I always
suggest as a young man do what you can
to live in a bigger city that's also
affordable but at the same time it
offers you a lot of choice in terms of
women to date right it's the one of the
best things I ever did as a young man
and I think it'd benefit anyone right so
distance from your apartment very
important right so the closer you are to
your apartment the better so if you can
get this girl within walking distance of
your apartment to go to a bar with you
it opens up a new possibility right so
what happens let's say the date goes
well
um she's giving you the you know do you
live around your eyes or something you
can just simply say give your plausible
deniability hey you want to go come to
my apartment I will play guitar for you
or you want to see my dog or I want to
walk my dog real quick or whatever you
got to say right
um it's gonna be much easier for her to
come back to your place knowing that
it's within you know she doesn't have to
move her car
um you seem very familiar and
comfortable with the area so she's gonna
feel safe and also it's a it's a it's a
huge uh you know show of status and um
if you live in a nicer area and you
you're closer to where the fun is at
right she's gonna see you as like oh
this is where the guy is where all the
fun is at that's just like you know he's
a fun guy so he he lives we're in the
fun area right so
it's very important that you consider
you know so going forward find several
locations and bars coffee shops or
whatever that are very close to your
apartment where you know the staff well
you know and before going to these you
know before using these places for a day
don't just blindly go to this place
right kind of go out and vet that place
first like look at the staff is it super
trashy is it super bougie you know is it
are are the bartenders really cool
um tip well before you go to these bars
it helps a lot to
um
tip well become kind of friendly with
the staff and maybe well known because
when you bring a girl in they'll
cooperate knowing the El guys guy's cool
he tips well he's a local he's you know
he's a he's just a cool guy and I want
to see him win right and that has helped
me
um in the past right so vet vet your
bars vet your coffee shops whatever
videos you want to meet at
um
and then when it's time to decide a
place to go you can go to these places
right
um
so another thing is the the time you
decide to go to one of these places
right so a lot of guys you know we're
busy you know usually most people have
uh free time on the weekends Friday
Saturday Sunday right
um but keep in mind keep in mind these
things when you
excuse me
when you go out on the weekend right
um when you go out on the weekend the
bars are more packed you know the the
bars in the coffee shop the more packed
the staff is more stressed
you know drinks are going to take longer
right on top of that the parking
situation is bad might be bad right so
she's going to be already kind of
frustrated with parking it could be
difficult you might have to get involved
and find her parking and you know you
may have to pay more or she may have to
pay she's already paid parking so she's
already like well you don't have to pay
for parking
um so
um weekends are tough right and then it
it it's just there's so many people
around it's more chaotic
um it's loud here's a big one when uh
during the weekends bars and coffee
shops are louder more packed less
seating so you're gonna maybe you have
to wait and then like that'll you know a
girl will be like man like I drove all
the way out here just to wait 30 minutes
for a chair you know they'll be cool
with it they'll be like oh it's fine but
deep down you know subconsciously be
like oh you know
um so and then you know there's a the uh
the the problem that it's allowed so
you're trying to have a conversation
with this uh with this girl and you
can't
you you keep raising your voice and
that's going to change your intonation
and it's going to just make it harder to
connect with this person right so
weekends do not recommend for going out
I know that you know during the week we
have to wake up early to go to work but
sometimes you just have to bite a bullet
right you just have to take it the
weekends are very tough to go out
it's very packed it's very loud there's
a lot of chaos everywhere you're not
going to get drinks on time there's you
know the little intimacy you'll get from
um
from going to these places when it's
quieter and you know the staff is more
relaxed is gone right so
the best days for for choosing a date or
choosing a date to go take someone on a
date is Monday Tuesday Wednesday
Thursday and Friday Thursday you're
already kind of pushing because Thursday
is a lot of people's Friday
um and a lot Thursday people like like
to go out to right but Monday Tuesday
Wednesday you set up the date Friday
Saturday Sunday is for girls you already
know that are in your frame that you
know that no matter what happens you're
still taking them back to your apartment
you're just having fun you know or for
girlfriends for serious
um for serious girls right but like
Monday Tuesday Wednesday are for the
prospects right so
um day of the week very important right
um time so on the weekends
uh like again I like again it's not
ideal but let's say you have to do it on
the weekends right if you're gonna do
something on the weekends try to do it
as early as possible right so don't set
up a day on the weekend at 9 00 pm right
because 9 p.m things are getting heated
uh the bars are getting packed people
are starting to pour in you know do
things uh if you can you know 5 p.m 6
p.m it's the weekend right they probably
don't work 5 p.m is the bars are
probably kind of full depending on what
type of bar or coffee shop it is it's
not going to be that bad right during
the week though Monday Tuesday Wednesday
um
those those days
um yeah I mean you can show up late
obviously there's work and and other
thing but the timing on is important on
Monday Tuesday Wednesday because there's
traffic from her job right so imagine
her wanting to meet you right and she
has to drive
home let's say she gets off at four
drive home 30 minutes in traffic she's
already stressed from work she's gonna
get dressed get ready she probably
didn't even eat you know whatever
because you said you wanted to meet her
at five right so during the week try to
give her a time where the traffic dies
down she has time to come home eat relax
kind of unwind like 8 P.M would be great
8 30 you know it's the the bars will not
be full on a Monday or Tuesday or
Wednesday right so
you give her that plenty of time because
we between
um the time she gets off work and
um the time to meet up and she'll feel
more relaxed right and also always tell
her like hey there's no rush like I
don't need you to be here exactly at
eight right
um and I know a lot of guys will say
well like no you have to she has to show
up on time and all this stuff here's
here's the here's the thing by her
coming to you you've already solved the
problem of his she flakes because if she
flakes
you oh you're in you're you're steps
away from your your your apartment or
your house right there is almost no
investment if she shows up 15 minutes
late it's okay because
um she'll probably text you hey I'm 10
minutes away and then you'll put on a
shirt you'll probably be shout already
put on a shirt and you head out and if
she you know you'll you'll know if she
Flakes and that's why it's so important
to choose a place
um near you because it solves that
flaking problem you know a lot of girls
do flake
um but if they do
um
flake what you know you you haven't lost
anything obviously you're probably
sectioned off uh uh your afternoon or
night to meet up with them right but
it's not like you drove 30 minutes 25
minutes got dressed got ready put
everything on you know put your dog in
the kennel turn off all the lights no
you you could simply sit in your house
and wait till she says hey I'm parking
or hey I'm 10 minutes away to get up and
be like okay she's actually gonna show
up so that's why it's so important to
choose a place near you and also day of
the week right
um
so yeah we covered time of the date
so
now now that we've gotten time and the
distance from your apartment under you
know um figured out let's talk about
um
uh other things that you don't really
account for but you should right like I
mentioned before parking right so make
sure she has a place to park
um if you lived in a pack City
um here's a little trick that I do right
I live in a I live in a kind of like
area where the you know there's parking
on the street but it's kind of hard to
come by right so what I do is during the
day if I get back home early or I just
circle or get back from the gym that day
I will circle around and park my car in
one of those spots
and then
when she shows up I tell her hey I'm
waiting outside I saved the spot for you
right because a lot of people have
especially in bigger cities they have a
lot of anxiety or finding parking
um in a in a you know especially in a
more dense area like you know like my
city like Dallas so
um what you do is like you Scope a
parking out a couple hours earlier like
maybe you just got back from the gym or
you're just out out and about walking
your dog and you see open Parking Spot
park your car there when she shows up
you just slide your car out and be like
I'm gonna circle around get and you know
your own
um you know your apartment should have
their own parking you park in your
apartment she has her parking spot right
in front of your apartment see
um and then you guys head out and walk
to wherever right you don't have to tell
her you live there exactly right that's
probably unless you asked I don't really
say but now for Logistics
you can bring her back to your apartment
she's like oh my car away but what about
my car it's just like your car's right
here it's safe like it's okay so you
know you're solving all these problems
by just following this strict Logistics
plan right so parking is very important
I know you know like if a girl likes to
see you she's probably not even think
about that but why not make it less
stressful and let her let you be the
focus not like what other things let
take as much offer
um as you can and make sure that tell
her the only thing you should worry
about is looking good and showing up and
that's it right so parking is very
important keep that in mind
um obviously not all cities are the same
maybe in your city the parking is great
or maybe in your town parking is not an
issue right but if you're living a big
metro area especially in a downtown area
parking will be an issue so make sure
you get that taken care of before uh
moving forward all right so
um I mentioned this before the type of
music and just the vibe of of a bar can
kill it
you know um
there's bars or clubs or you know
whatever that play the music really
really really loud and you can't talk to
somebody so keep that into account
um there's a
there's bars where like if if they know
you to tip well they'll bring you extra
shots they'll give you extra shots and
drinks and the girl will feel like oh
this guy knows people this guy's popular
you know the bartenders like them so
um uh uh so yeah keep that into account
like choose your bar wisely but also you
know put in a little work and effort
into finding These Bars before and and
it'll pay in the end right some some
bars will bring you your drinks in a
nice little treasure chest and a nice
little little get up and then the girl
will be like wow like you know this is
you know she'll feel happy because she's
there for entertainment she's there
you're her entertainment for the night
right so
just like you're throwing a show or a
venue you want your guests and your fans
to have the most comfortable experience
coming in and and focus on the show not
all the logistics right you want to have
ample parking you want make sure that
the volume of your music is right and
all these things right same same concept
so uh yeah noise uh very important to
think about
um weather so here's another thing like
weather like check the weather if you're
going out that day check the weather
make sure it's if it's raining or if
it's going to be very very cold you know
sometimes it's just the weather's so bad
that you just have to cancel like the
you know it's pouring rain everything's
coming down
um sometimes you just have to be like
hey like
like roads are closing and streets are
flooding like you know let's cancel you
know and then it just sucks you know
like obviously
um some girls are like no no I still
want to meet you and then that's you
know proceed from there but sometimes
the weather will come into account so
keep keep an eye on the weather too
especially if you live in like a city
like mine where the weather's kind of
erratic sometimes
um so yeah weather will will have have
uh have a say in in your date night
right
um
and if
if you're going to um
dress for the weather make sure she
dresses for the weather too like realize
that women don't really be don't really
think about dates and Logistics at all
they just show up right so make sure to
tell her hey it's gonna be kind of cold
might want to pack an extra jacket or
we're gonna actually drag it and all
that stuff because you know it sucks
when a girl is like constantly
complaining she's cold and she's
shivering and you have a cold drink in
her hand it's just you know like uh take
a little bit of like you know initiative
and ask tell her hey make sure you dress
for the weather bring an umbrella if it
rains and all that stuff um
Pro tip a lot of bars have happy hour
when it rains so look into that too
right
um so you got weather
what else uh well weather Texas and how
you dress
um
and all that
I would say that uh
another thing for Logistics here
okay so this your second bar right so
another a powerful tool in any uh and
any uh successful dating
um
is to have a second place lined up for
because psychologically speaking if you
move a girl
from one place to another it will feel
like she's on a second date so it builds
that like it's like a fast forward like
a Time Warp or right so let's say I take
it to a bar that's semi lab but
semi-popping there's like a lot of cool
people there we're getting like we got a
free shot she think she thinks I'm cool
but I tell her like
um
hey uh you wanna go you want to go next
door it's a little quieter let's and she
most of the time I get a yes you know
and they're like yeah yeah okay so we do
that
and um
you know usually a second place is
quieter or it's like fresh and we order
another drink
um
so make sure that your second bar isn't
too far from your first bar your second
coffee shop or whatever second place is
not too far from the first right because
she may have heels on you know you don't
want to go walking through the heels it
may be raining it may be really cold it
may be really hot you know make sure
that these two are maybe no more than
three blocks
you know also you're probably gonna be
walking in the dark and she may feel
kind of you know like I don't know this
guy and we're walking in the dark right
so that is that comes into account right
so make sure your second venue
is as close as possible right
um
and then we also have to talk about time
so how long should you be on a date
right I think anything over three hours
is excessive you know
um try to keep it I'd say try to keep it
under two
um keep the drinks flowing and don't
push drinks down her throat like don't
be like hey next drink next drink you
know you know I think after the second
drink be you know tell her hey would you
like another one or are you good you
know that's when you start doubting her
you know to let her know like hey you
know because most girls buy the second
drink is when they're Tipsy and if you
if girls keep drinking
you know a lot of girls are more fun
when they drink but a lot of girls you
know acts more silly start you know
getting emotional and thinking about
their ex or you know they just start
acting rude or some some inner bad part
of them comes out right
um so you want to monitor her drinking
and make sure that like after the second
drink start asking her like would you
like another drink are you good you know
um and for yourself too like you don't
if the date's going good like drinking
more isn't going to add to the day right
so if you know you still find yourself a
little like not loosened up and not
um
not feeling it
um maybe another drink will help but
like if things are going well and the
conversation is Flowing you've only had
one drink and you know things are
looking like she's coming to come back
to your place then you can stop there
you know you save money and all that
stuff
um and then you go from there
um
so yeah Logistics is very very important
I know this seems like a very daunting
task and why does it seem daunting it's
because a lot of people have never
planned this much I was in the military
and I had to plan maintenance and
certain evolutions and uh classes and
trainings and all that stuff right so
it's not easy I'm not saying it's easy
right but here's the thing once you get
this system right down pat this is a
system it's not going to only be for one
girl this is going to be your system in
which girls step in and you run them
through the system and eventually you
get back to your place right and I know
at first it seems like oh man I like so
many things to worry about right I know
but once you have the system in place it
runs itself it's like an algorithm you
you take a long time building code or an
algorithm it sucks because you have to
like perfect it and it has all these
issues and Kinks that you got to work
out but once it's running and once it's
it's solid that it will run whatever you
put into it right so you've had a
beautiful eight out of ten girl that
you're like holy crap I hope this works
just running through that system
and it works right and then you have a
maybe you have a five out of 10 girl
that she's awesome but you don't feel
like you feel like oh she's just five
out of 10 girls she's not that hot
um
it will work too
you know like both of these systems will
work uh sorry one uh both of these uh
girls will step into your system and it
will work right you just have to perfect
it at first get get your get put on in
the front work right because a lot of
like dating and getting girls is putting
in the front work everything that
happens after is just a consequence
Right girls are a lagging factor of
success so if you want success put
yourself in a position to win right if
you go to a loud bar and a Friday at 9
00 PM it's harder to win than when you
go on a Tuesday at 9 00 p.m and there's
plenty of parking and she just parked
right in front of your apartment you
step next door and you know
you know yes she has work in the morning
right but it's it's still you know you
it's still much better than on a weekend
where you can't even get a word in
because you know they're blasting music
right
um so yes Logistics is very important
and you have to keep in mind that
everything has to be in place now is
this is the logistics supposed to be a
solid
um
is logistics supposed to be super solid
like a girl cannot step out of it or you
have to you have to follow it through to
its termination no and I I have this
issue sometimes where like it's works
for me so well sometimes that when a
girl is trying to step out of the system
I don't see it and I see it like no no I
try to push her back in right so I've
had women that like buy the second drink
are already like looking around asking
me where I live which is basically a
green flag to say hey let's go back to
your place right
um
you know instead of me saying okay I
I've won like I've got you know she's
comfortable she wants to go back to my
place sometimes I'll just
um no no let's go to a second bar right
and spend more money and spend more time
she's kind of already getting tired she
wants to go back to my place you know so
when notice when you've gained her
enough and she's comfortable coming back
to your place or notice when she's not
really into the date or notice when uh
she feels uncomfortable doesn't want to
be there or you know just pay attention
to these things if you don't really see
anything that pops out of you continue
running the system your Logistics but at
the end of the day like don't
um you know if a girl is giving you like
the hey take me home Vibes you know like
you know like for example here's an
example like I'll mention my dog like
hey yeah he's my cute and I show
pictures of my dog you know like maybe
uh you want to meet him sometime and she
gets really excited like yes yes I want
to meet him and that means hey she's
probably like hey uh I want to go to
your apartment I want to see your dog
but also I want you to see if you want
to make a move on me right and I do
um so just you know I know it seems very
complicated but remember this is more of
an art than it is the science right so
you have to practice it a lot and you
have to go out there a lot and then
eventually you know it'll click but just
make sure that don't get stuck in your
system if a girl is ready to go back to
your apartment drop everything and just
go just say pay the check be like yeah
let's do it hold her hand take her home
and then
um in the elevator kiss her and then
whatever you gotta do and go on from
there right
um
other than that keep your system to the
end
um
and then uh you know it might not work
you know like not you might have done
done everything right and you still you
told the girl hey you want to go back to
my place at the end of everything
perfect she's and she says no
um you know I'll offer her to walk back
to your car to her car if she says no
Then or she's fine she's probably not
into you or she's she's just you know
not ready for for you to kiss her right
now you could take that any way you want
I mean I can't I'm not going to be there
to coach you right but usually for me if
if I'm on a date and
um I run my system and she doesn't want
to come back to my place that's fine you
know whatever
um
but I I offer hey you want me to walk
walk you back to your car she's like
iffy about it or you know she says no
Then I realize okay there really isn't
she wants no other opportunities she
wants to leave like she's done right so
I just okay have a good night thanks and
I just walk away
a lot of times I walk her back to her
car
here's another little neat trick right A
lot of times I'll walk her back to her
car and that's where I I make my move
right I make my move there we kiss
um and then she says you know uh and
then I ask or shut a lot of times they
offer hey do you need to ride back to
your place I'm like yeah sure I'll take
a ride and then she'll be right back to
my place and then I ask her hey you want
to come up because I've already built
that Kino
and that like connection I already
kissed her she's starting to feel
comfortable that attraction Surge and
you know it's like she's right there
like there's my apartment
she she may be aroused I smell good
she's two or three drinks in her she has
to make a split decision there right not
a forced decision not like I'm pushing
or not but like I put her in a position
where she would want to spend more time
with me right
um now if I go to her car and she's like
I kiss her
and
you know I I hey can you bring me to my
apartment
and then I drop her off and I ask her
hey you want to come home she says no
Then okay that's not terrible right it's
not the end of the world but like she
had a little bit of last minute
resistance right but these are just
little tips and tricks
um it's something that I do it works
pretty well and sometimes you know like
you can be kissing a girl it could be
the most passionate kiss but at the end
of the day it's gonna like she's still
gonna insist no I have work tomorrow I
have to leave I have to leave right say
after the third time or second time
asking just let it go say thank you and
then just walk home right
um yeah and you know
yeah it gets a little complicated right
I know it seems like uh it's a lot of
work but at the end of the day you have
to like
um
you have to put in this front work you
have to put a little thought into it you
know you girls aren't just gonna fall
into your lap you have to put a little
thought right because
you know you're we're competing we're
all competing right and one of the best
ways to compete outside of like your
things that um like you know you're
Physique in your game and you know other
and things you can't change like your
height and
and how much money you make whatever
right you're also competing for amount
of how much you care and how much work
you put into this right because that's
that's the biggest thing I noticed like
I put in a lot of work to put to get
these Logistics in place I moved into a
big city and I lived in a very a very
cool fun area you know where there's
bars all around
um
I made sure what the visitor parking
situation was in my building I made sure
what bars were good to go to what not
good to go to I made I always check the
weather when I go out just like everyone
does but for a date I checked the
weather
um I made friends with all the staff and
I tip well every time I go
um I vetted all these places and then
now that I know all this data the girl
stepping onto my turf and you know
things usually get go in my favor right
so make sure you guys put in the work
do a little thought about this if you
guys have any tips or questions about
logistics comment below
um and I'll answer them
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