Why Young Men Can't Grow Up

Summary

The video script argues that societal and governmental forces are undermining men's health, wealth, and relationships. It cites a study where a woman lived as a man and found it difficult, highlighting the paradoxical expectations placed on men. The script further discusses how environmental estrogen, plastic use, and misdiagnosed depression contribute to lowered testosterone levels in men. It also points out societal biases that disadvantage men in education and the job market, and sets unrealistic standards for an 'ideal man,' leading to a rise in porn addiction and relationship struggles.

Takeaways

• 🚨 The script suggests that societal and governmental structures are perceived as undermining men's health, wealth, and relationships.
• 🧬 It claims that over the past 50 years, men's testosterone levels have been deliberately lowered by societal influences.
• 💧 The water supply is said to be contaminated with estrogen from birth control, which can affect men's testosterone levels when consumed.
• 🌱 A natural supplement called 'Shilajit' is recommended to counteract the effects of estrogen and boost testosterone.
• 🍼 The use of plastic bottles, especially those containing BPA, is said to contribute to the decrease in men's testosterone levels.
• 💊 The script warns against antidepressants, stating they can lower testosterone levels and are overprescribed to men.
• 💼 Society is described as promoting women's financial independence while still expecting men to be the primary financial providers.
• 🏫 It is argued that educational systems may be biased towards girls, giving them better grades and opportunities at the expense of boys.
• 🤝 The script implies that societal and relationship expectations have become unrealistic for men, affecting their self-esteem and interactions with women.
• 🌎 Cultural differences in the age of sexual initiation are highlighted, with some regions experiencing later ages due to various societal factors.
• 📉 The rise of porn addiction among men is linked to the lack of sexual activity and the pressure to meet unrealistic standards set by society.

Q & A

What did Nora Vincent do to understand the challenges men face?

Nora Vincent disguised herself as a man, using makeup, prosthetics, and changing her voice to live as a man for 18 months. She then wrote a book about her experience, highlighting the difficulties and pressures men face in society.

How did Nora Vincent's experience as a man affect her mental health?

Nora Vincent felt alienated and disassociated, leading to depression. After her experiment, she checked herself into a mental hospital for treatment.

What is one way the government is said to be lowering men's testosterone levels?

The government is accused of lowering men's testosterone by 1% every year through various means, including the presence of estrogen compounds from birth control pills in the water supply, which can increase estrogen levels and decrease testosterone.

What is the role of plastic bottles in affecting men's testosterone levels?

Plastic bottles containing BPA have been scientifically proven to destroy men's testosterone levels, contributing to the overall decrease in male hormone levels.

How can men counteract the effects of estrogen compounds in their daily lives?

Men can counteract the effects of estrogen compounds by taking natural supplements like Shilajit, which is said to increase sperm count and indirectly boost testosterone levels.

What is the impact of anti-depressants on men's testosterone levels?

Anti-depressants have been proven to lower testosterone levels in men, further contributing to the decline in male hormone levels and potentially exacerbating feelings of depression.

How does society's expectation of men as financial providers affect their wealth?

Despite women earning as much or more in many relationships, men are still expected to pay for more things, which can hold them back financially.

What is the gender bias in education that affects men's academic and career prospects?

Studies have shown that girls are often rated higher in mathematics and English solely because of their gender, leading to better grades and university opportunities for women, while men may face disadvantages in education and job opportunities.

How have societal standards for an ideal man evolved over time?

Societal standards for an ideal man have become more focused on physical attributes and financial status, with expectations such as height, body fat percentage, income, and physical appearance becoming more stringent.

What is the impact of delayed sexual experiences on men's mental health and relationships?

Delayed sexual experiences and a lack of healthy relationships can lead to feelings of inadequacy and an increase in destructive habits like pornography addiction, negatively affecting men's mental health and relationships.

How does the global society's expectations and standards affect men's ability to thrive?

The global society's unrealistic expectations and constant attacks on men's health, wealth, and relationships make it more challenging for men to thrive, requiring them to be stronger and more resilient than in the past.

Outlines

00:00

😔 Societal Pressures on Men's Mental Health

This paragraph discusses the societal and governmental pressures that negatively impact men's mental health. It highlights the misconception that men are weak, while in reality, it's the societal structures that are causing distress. The speaker references a study where a woman, Nora Vincent, lived as a man for 18 months and found life to be difficult and depressing. She faced rejection and felt alienated, leading to her seeking help for depression. The paragraph also introduces the idea that society is actively working against men's well-being, setting the stage for further discussion on how men's health, wealth, and relationships are being undermined.

05:01

💪 The Attack on Men's Masculinity and Wealth

This paragraph delves into the ways society and the government are undermining men's masculinity and wealth. It starts by discussing the societal push for women to earn more, which indirectly holds men back financially. Despite women earning as much or more in many relationships, men are still expected to be the primary financial providers. The paragraph also addresses educational biases against men, with studies showing that girls are rated higher in academics due to gender bias, leading to fewer opportunities for men in higher education and the job market. The speaker then moves on to discuss unrealistic standards set for men by society, such as height, body fat percentage, income, and physical appearance, which further contribute to men feeling inadequate. Finally, the paragraph touches on the late age at which men in certain regions lose their virginity, and the impact of this on their relationships and potential addiction to pornography.

10:01

🌟 The Strength of Modern Men in a Challenging Society

In this final paragraph, the speaker acknowledges the challenges faced by modern men in a society that is increasingly demanding and critical. Despite the pressures on their health, wealth, and relationships, the speaker encourages men to recognize their strength and resilience. The comparison is made between the past, where men's roles were more straightforward, and the present, where men must navigate a global society with high expectations and constant criticism. The speaker emphasizes that those who continue to strive for their goals in the face of these challenges are inherently stronger than their predecessors.

Keywords

💡Men's Health

Men's Health refers to the overall well-being of men, encompassing physical, mental, and social aspects. In the video's theme, it is portrayed as being undermined by societal and governmental actions. The script mentions how societal expectations and pressures can lead to depression among men, highlighting the importance of addressing men's health in a holistic manner.

💡Depression

Depression is a mental health condition characterized by persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and a lack of interest or pleasure in activities. The video discusses the impact of societal and governmental actions on men's mental health, suggesting that men are more susceptible to depression due to the complex standards and expectations placed upon them.

💡Testosterone

Testosterone is the primary male sex hormone responsible for the development of male reproductive tissues and other secondary sexual characteristics. The script alleges that societal practices are leading to a decrease in men's testosterone levels, which can affect their health, mood, and vitality. It is suggested that this decrease is part of a broader societal effort to diminish men's traditional roles and strengths.

💡Estrogen

Estrogen is the primary female sex hormone, responsible for the development of female reproductive tissues and secondary sexual characteristics. The video suggests that the presence of estrogen in the water supply, due to birth control usage, is counteracting men's testosterone, leading to health and fertility issues. This is part of the broader narrative of societal mechanisms allegedly working against men's health.

💡Shilajit (Sheiling)

Shilajit, referred to as Sheiling in the script, is a natural substance found in the Himalayas believed to have health benefits, including increasing sperm count and boosting testosterone levels in men. The video recommends it as a natural supplement to counteract the negative effects of estrogen exposure and to support men's health.

💡BPA

BPA stands for Bisphenol A, a chemical used in certain plastics and epoxy resins. The script warns that BPA in plastic bottles can leach into the water and negatively affect men's testosterone levels. This is an example of how everyday items are portrayed as potential threats to men's health in the video.

💡Anti-depressants

Anti-depressants are medications used to treat depression and other mood disorders. The video suggests that these medications are over-prescribed to men, potentially lowering their testosterone levels and contributing to a cycle of dependency and health decline.

💡Gender Bias

Gender bias refers to a preference or prejudice for one gender over another, often leading to unfair treatment or opportunities. In the context of the video, it is claimed that educational systems favor girls over boys, leading to men having worse grades, fewer university opportunities, and ultimately, less financial success.

💡Financial Provider

The term 'financial provider' refers to the traditional role of men as the primary earners in a household. Despite societal changes, the video argues that men are still expected to fulfill this role, which is becoming increasingly difficult due to societal pressures and economic challenges.

💡Pornography Addiction

Pornography addiction is a compulsive behavior characterized by an excessive and unhealthy reliance on pornography. The video suggests that a lack of sexual activity and societal pressures are leading to an increase in pornography addiction among men, which can have negative impacts on their mental health and relationships.

💡Unrealistic Standards

Unrealistic standards refer to expectations or criteria that are not attainable or reasonable. The video discusses how women's expectations of men, in terms of physical appearance, financial status, and other attributes, have become increasingly unrealistic, causing stress and dissatisfaction among men.

Highlights

The media often portrays men as weak, but the real issue is the government's role in undermining men's health, wealth, and relationships.

Nora Vincent's 2003 experiment, where she lived as a man for 18 months, revealed the difficulties and depression associated with societal expectations of masculinity.

Society imposes contradictory expectations on men, such as being strong but not violent, emotionally available but not complaining, and seeking help without appearing weak.

The government has been allegedly lowering men's testosterone levels by 1% annually over the past 50 years through environmental and lifestyle factors.

Estrogen compounds from birth control can enter the water supply, potentially increasing estrogen levels in men and decreasing testosterone.

Natural supplements like Shilajit (Sheila G) can counteract the negative effects of estrogen and boost testosterone levels in men.

The quality of Shilajit varies, with the original found in the Himalayan Mountains, and caution is advised to avoid counterfeit products.

Plastic bottles containing BPA have been linked to a decrease in men's testosterone levels.

Anti-depressants, often prescribed for stress and depression, can also lower testosterone levels in men.

Society pushes women forward economically while holding men back, with women in major cities out-earning men by up to 20%.

Gender bias in education, with girls rated higher in studies, contributes to men having fewer opportunities for higher education and employment.

Unrealistic standards for an ideal man, such as height, body fat percentage, income, and physical appearance, have increased over time.

The average man's attributes often fall short of what women desire, with less than 1% meeting all the criteria for an 'ideal man'.

Men's lack of sexual activity, influenced by cultural and societal factors, can lead to issues such as porn addiction and relationship difficulties.

Despite societal challenges, men today are stronger and more resilient than their predecessors, navigating a global society with heightened expectations.

Transcripts

the media keep saying oh men are weak

but the truth is your own government is

destroying Men's Health their wealth and

their relationships in fact I'm even

surprised men are even surviving today

let alone thriving in this Society this

image is exactly how the government is

destroying your life and it all starts

with hell number one being a man will

make you depressed you see Life as a man

is already hard but Society will

constantly tell you oh no life as a

woman's much harder but I'm going to

show you why this is in true with

scientific proof you see in 2003 a woman

named Nora Vincent disguised herself as

a man she wore makeup Prosthetics and

even changed her voice to live as a man

for 18 months afterwards she wrote a

book about her experience in the book

she talked about how difficult life was

as a man no one would ever notice her

she felt very depressed and she was

constantly rejected When approaching

women she said that being a man was

impossible due to the impossible

standards women want men to be strong

but not violent men should be in touch

with their emotions but never complain

they can cry but only in certain

situations they can ask for help but

they should never be weak she bu so

alienated and disassociated that after

her experiment she checked herself into

a mental hospital for depression now you

can start understanding how strong you

are just by making it this far but there

are still five more things that society

around you is actively doing that is

potentially destroying your future

Number Two the government is destroying

your manhood and this is a problem for

them which is why over the last 50 years

they have been lowering men's

testosterone by 1% every year just

enough to make a difference without

anyone realizing that they're even doing

it and they're doing this in three ways

in your life and you don't even notice

first they put as many women as they can

on birth control you see when these

women go to the bathroom large amount of

estrogen compounds which is the exact

opposite of testosterone enter the water

supply which is what you're drinking

when this gets into your system it

starts to increase your estrogen levels

while simultaneously decreasing your

testosterone levels making you less

fertile now these estrogen compounds are

everywhere but the good news is you can

offset these Effects by taking right

supplements and it doesn't involve you

going to the doctor you can use natural

stuff an amazing one that I always

recommend is called Sheila G folic acid

in men increases your sperm count while

indirectly boosting your testosterone

level now the problem with shig is that

it's a very hard natural ingredient to

get the stuff that you see on Amazon

most of it is fake the original Sheila

Jeet it's found at the highest

elevations of the Himalayan Mountains so

to get the real stuff the stuff that

actually will boost your testosterone

it's borderline impossible so you have

to be careful the one that I've been

using quite recently is called the

original resin I use it because I know

that they're sourcing directly from the

real stuff and the cool part is that I

just use it to enhance my warm drinks in

the morning so whether it's coffee tea

or warm water I just add a bit of that

into my coffee and I use it every day

now the second way they're destroying

your testosterone is by all the plastic

that's around you see most men would

think okay I won't get any estrogen from

the water supply I'll just drink

filtered water from a bottle but plastic

bottles that contain BPA have been

scientifically proven to destroy men's

testost levels you see what's happening

one of the most fundamental things that

a human being needs to survive which is

water they've attacked both the water

supply in the container of the water so

now wherever you look you're always

going to be micro doing estrogen which

will affect your testosterol this is why

I'm telling you get yourself on a

natural supplement that can counteract

these daily attacks that they're doing

to your masculinity for example with

sheiling which is natural it contains no

added preservatives no heavy metals and

95% of men who take it have seen an

increase in their testosterone level 91%

have seen improved sleep and 90% have

even seen improved strength thingss in

the gym now this is the third way they

attack your diser once you start

realizing all this and that you're

feeling more depressed because your dyso

levels are low this is what's going to

make you freak out so some might end up

going to the doctor for this but this is

where they trap you you see when you're

stressed when you're depressed you lack

motivation they're not going to connect

you with the counselor they're really

immediately going to push you towards

anti-depressants these are also proven

to lower your testosterone in men it's

basically an allaround attack on your

masculinity and here's the thing

according to a study published in pupm

about 40% of men that have been

diagnosed with depression has been

misdiagnosed in reality most men are

probably just feeling a bit depressed

and not clinically depressed and most of

the time when you're feeling depressed

it's due to your low testosterone level

which is why for you if you're under

attack if you feel like your energy

levels aren't where they should be I

want you to take a natural approach

first get that fix try something like

Sheila Jeep if you don't know where to

get it because it is difficult or you

don't know if it's the real stuff I

recommend you use original resin I'm

going to have them linked down below

it's the best value you're going to find

because the real stuff is expensive and

I promise you a month of this you're

going to start noticing an increase in

your energy and better sleep almost

instantly you guys want to check them

out they're going to be linked down

below with a special discount up until

now society and the government around

you has destroyed your heal leaving you

only with your wealth and your

relationships to fall back on and of

course you might feel good you're still

standing but not for long cuz I'm going

to show you exactly how they're going to

attack your wealth and then finally

attack everyone you know this takes us

to part two your wealth number three

Society will push women forward while

holding men back you hear it all the

time see Society will constantly tell

you women want men with money and yet

Society is actively holding men back

while pushing women forward so they can

earn more and here's the proof you see

according to a Serv conducted by Pew

research 71% of women still believe men

should be the financial providers yet in

45% of relationships almost half of all

relationships women earn as much or more

than the man this means that despite us

earning roughly the same amount of money

men are still expected to pay for more

things which is holding you back but

this gets even worse if you live in a

major city because according to peer

research women are actually out earning

Men by up to 20% in these B cities

number four your teachers want you to

fail you see fewer men are graduating

high school and because of this fewer of

them are being accepted into

universities now you might think oh it's

because men are simply not trying as

hard but it's actually much worse during

a study conducted on 39,000 students

they found that girls were rated both in

mathematics and English higher solely

because of their gender and this wasn't

the only study because the same gender

bias was found in a University of

Toronto study and in a study conducted

in the British Journal of sociology the

point is that girls are being put ahead

in school simply because of their gender

and teacher bias this leads to us men

having worse grades and worse University

and job opportunities without good jobs

you earn less money and now we talked

about it women are no longer going to be

interested in you you as a man are

literally living life in the hardest

mode possible but Society isn't going to

stop there because now they're going to

come after your relationships

number five you see 10 years ago you

would have been part of the top 1% you

see you might feel kind of inadequate

with women like you're not good with

them but this is because the standards

for an ideal man are only getting worse

for example the average height for a man

is 5'8 but women want a 6ot guy the

average body fat percentage of a man is

between 18 and 24% but women want a guy

with 12% body fat in a visible six-pack

the average man earns around $45,000 a

year but women want a man that earns

over 100,000 a year the average male

penis is around 5.1 in but women want a

guy that's 6 in Plus finally the average

man starts losing their hair around 21

years old but women want a full head of

hair by the time they're still 30 out of

all of you watching this video less than

1% of you have all the qualities a women

wants I want you to watch this video

with me and compare it to what women

wanted in the past why do you call him M

by the way can I just say how crazy it

is that we're still asking the same

question

L I think the is notice how back then

women were more focused on the

personality traits oh a kind man a good

father which are traits that are way

more valuable this takes us to the last

and final way they'll ruin your

relationships men from these countries

they're not even having sex you see the

country you're born in will determine

when is it that you're going to start

having sex and if you're going to end up

using porn to cover it for example in

South America countries like Brazil or

Colombia young men are are losing their

virginity around 18 in North America

countries like USA or Canada the average

age of losing virginity is around 19 in

countries like Europe or Oceania the

average age is also around 19 in Africa

it can be as late as 20 years old and in

Asia in some parts as late as 22 years

old but these numbers are skewed and

they get worse because these are the men

that are actually having sex but

according to a study that came out of

Indian University up to oneir of men

between 18 to 24 aren't even having sex

this lack of sex destroys your future

because every man needs a healthy

relationship and when you don't have it

you feel that void with destructive

Habits Like pornography this is exactly

why men that have been addicted to porn

has been continuously Rising

dramatically since the 2000s and I get

it look porn addiction it's no joke

nothing to laugh about it's not only

hard to break but it's it can be

shameful to talk about because the

easiest way for a man to ruin their life

is to be obsessive over sex now you

might see all of this and get a little

bit discouraged to even try in life but

don't be if you're still here and you're

still working towards your goals then

you are much stronger than the man of

the past for example all your dad had to

do was wake up go to work and find a

girl to settle down with in his area but

now you have to do the same in a society

that is global and is attacking your

health your wealth and your

relationships where women have

unrealistic standards and they're

constantly telling you that you have it

easy so if you've made it this far

you're much stronger than you think you

are