For Men Only! | What Your Dad Did Not Tell You. | Please Tell Your Sons
Summary
TLDRDr. Charles discusses the profound impact of financial status on a man's life, emphasizing how lack of money affects respect, relationships, and decision-making. He illustrates how financial insecurity can lead to strained family dynamics, social exclusion, and personal dissatisfaction. The speaker advocates for financial planning and the importance of money in gaining respect and making choices, concluding with an invitation to a seminar on aging and wealth accumulation.
Takeaways
- 💰 The script emphasizes the impact of financial status on a man's behavior and societal perception, suggesting that a lack of money can lead to being seen as senseless and lacking in taste.
- 👗 It suggests that a man's financial situation influences his wife's respect for him, with the implication that financial struggles can lead to a lack of respect and potential infidelity.
- 👨👧 The speaker believes that a man's financial instability can affect his children's respect for him and their future, including the likelihood of his daughters experiencing teenage pregnancy and his sons marrying below their desired social class.
- 🍽️ The script implies that without money, a man has limited control over his diet, eating whatever is prepared for him without choice.
- 😡 It is stated that financial instability can lead to a man having a short temper and getting angry over trivial matters, feeling disrespected by his wife.
- 🏡 The speaker shares a personal anecdote about choosing his meals freely due to financial independence, contrasting it with the situation of a man without money.
- 💵 The script suggests that buying a car for one's wife can be a way to assert one's role as a husband and gain respect, indicating that material possessions are tied to respect in relationships.
- 👫 The speaker asserts that even spiritual women appreciate money, and that the way his wife greets him changes when he gives her money.
- 👪 The script implies that a man's financial status can affect his children's marital prospects, suggesting they may only be able to marry within their financial class.
- 🏛️ It is stated that in a church setting, a man's financial status can influence how seriously his suggestions are taken and how leniently his sins are treated.
- 👴 The speaker warns of the suffering that can come in old age without financial security, urging planning for a better future.
Q & A
What does Dr. Charles suggest is the impact of a man not having money on his behavior?
-Dr. Charles suggests that a man without money may behave in a way that appears senseless, as he is forced to settle for less and may be perceived as lacking common sense or taste due to financial constraints.
How does a lack of money affect a man's relationship with his wife according to the script?
-The script implies that without money, a man may not receive respect from his wife, and his temper may become unnecessarily high, leading to conflicts and a lack of harmony in the relationship.
What are the potential consequences for a man's children if he does not have money?
-The script suggests that a man's children may not respect him, daughters may be at a higher risk of teenage pregnancy, and sons may not be able to marry into the class they aspire to without financial support.
What does Dr. Charles imply about a man's diet when he does not have money?
-Dr. Charles implies that without money, a man does not have the choice or the ability to select his diet; he must eat whatever is prepared for him.
How does the script describe the effect of a man's financial status on his community involvement?
-The script suggests that a man without money may be used by his community to do various works and may not have his suggestions taken seriously in community meetings.
What does Dr. Charles suggest is the impact of a man's financial status on his role in family meetings?
-Dr. Charles suggests that if a man does not have money, his suggestions in family meetings may not be taken seriously, and he may not be the one dictating the pace of the meeting.
How does the script relate a man's financial status to his influence in a church?
-The script implies that a man without money may have his suggestions and opinions dismissed in a church setting, and his sins may be dealt with more harshly compared to a wealthy man.
What does Dr. Charles say about the importance of planning for old age in relation to financial status?
-Dr. Charles emphasizes the importance of planning for old age to avoid suffering due to lack of money, suggesting that financial stability can lead to more respect and a better quality of life in old age.
How does the script suggest a man can regain respect from his wife if he does not have money?
-The script suggests that buying a car for his wife can be a way for a man to regain respect, as it demonstrates financial capability and generosity.
What is the script's perspective on the relationship between money and respect in various social settings?
-The script suggests that money plays a significant role in gaining respect in various social settings, including family, church, and community, and that without it, a man may be overlooked or dismissed.
Outlines
💰 The Impact of Lack of Money on a Man's Life
Dr. Charles discusses the profound effects of financial instability on a man's personal and social life. He emphasizes that without money, a man may be perceived as lacking common sense and taste, and may struggle to maintain respect from his family and society. The script touches on how financial hardship can lead to strained marital relationships, influence children's behavior and life choices, and limit personal freedom, including dietary choices. It also highlights how a man's temper may flare due to the stress of poverty and how financial status can affect his standing in family and community settings, suggesting that money is a key factor in gaining respect and making choices in life.
🏦 The Power Dynamics of Money in Social and Religious Circles
In the second paragraph, Dr. Charles extends the conversation to the influence of money in social and religious institutions. He points out that a wealthy individual's suggestions are more likely to be taken seriously in church committees and family meetings, while those without money may find their contributions overlooked. The script also suggests that the consequences of moral failings are treated differently based on one's financial status, with wealthier individuals receiving more lenient treatment. The paragraph concludes with a call to action for the audience to register for an online seminar on the realities of aging, emphasizing the importance of financial planning for a respected and secure future.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Money
💡Respect
💡Choice
💡Diet
💡Temper
💡Family Dynamics
💡Teenage Pregnancy
💡Self-Respect
💡Church
💡Old Age
💡Community
Highlights
A man without money may behave in a way that appears senseless due to societal perceptions and personal limitations.
A poor man's choices in life, including clothing and lifestyle, are often dictated by financial constraints rather than personal taste or common sense.
Lack of financial stability can lead to a loss of respect from a man's wife and children, potentially causing family dynamics to shift unfavorably.
The risk of teenage pregnancy for a man's daughter increases if the family is financially unstable, as she may seek a better life elsewhere.
Growing up without money often results in settling for less in life, including relationships and personal choices.
Financial independence allows a man to make choices, such as selecting his own meals, which may not be possible without money.
A man without money may have a shorter temper and get angry over trivial matters, feeling disrespected by his wife and others.
Respect and recognition in a marriage can be influenced by a man's financial status, affecting how he is treated by his wife.
The speaker suggests that providing financial support, such as buying a car for his wife, can improve respect and recognition within a marriage.
A man's financial status can impact his children's future, including their potential marriage prospects and social class.
In family meetings, a man without money may find his suggestions and opinions not taken seriously, regardless of his age or experience.
In religious settings, a man's financial status can influence how his actions are perceived and the consequences he faces for wrongdoings.
Old age without financial security can lead to suffering, emphasizing the importance of planning for the future.
A man without money may find himself overlooked in social gatherings, such as old students' association meetings.
The speaker promotes an upcoming online seminar on the reality of aging, highlighting the importance of financial planning for a better life in older years.
The speaker shares personal anecdotes of how financial stability has improved his life, including his relationship with his wife.
The importance of taking action and registering for the seminar is emphasized, with an invitation to join a WhatsApp mentorship group for further guidance.
Transcripts
I am your friend Dr Charles
aokin I was discussing with my friend my
my my lawyer this
morning um some things that happen when
a man does not have
money when a man does not have
money he behaves in such a way that you
think he is
senseless my mother used to say that a
poor man knows the dress that is
befitting and what is beiting but it's a
matter of money that's why he's settling
for what is less than defeating you will
think that he has no common sense he has
no taste it's a matter of
cash when a man has no
money he has no respect from his wife
very few women and that respect has a
limit
somebody rightly said that you can feed
a woman for seven years 50 years but if
she feeds you for 5 months the whole
world will
hear if you don't have money as a man
your children will not respect you they
will drift towards their
mother if you don't have money as a man
the tendency for your daughter to have
have teenage pregnancy is
high because she will want to leave that
congested apartment to go and stay with
a boy where she can watch
television
and eat a good food eat good
meals if you don't have money as a man
growing up you are most likely to settle
for any woman you
see that is immediately available
because you don't have choice and you
don't have alternative and you are not
attractive if you don't have money as a
man you do not choose your diet at home
it is whatever is prepared for you that
you
eat this
morning I finished recording I went to
check what was on the dining
table I didn't like it I went to the E
Tree near me I bought moo
e mo mo with some rice and sauce and
drank a glass of
wine and that's drank a glass of
wine received visitors and I came back
to start recording I can choose my meals
I can choose what I want to eat if you
don't have money as a man your temper is
unnecessarily High you get angry over
little little
things you feel that your wife wife is
insulting
you if you have money as a man and
people respect you outside if your wife
does not respect you inside you see her
as being foolish and you ignore her but
if you don't have money as a man they
don't respect you outside they don't
respect you inside you start introducing
yourself to your wife don't you know I'm
your husband don't you know I'm your
husband if you want to prove to your
wife that you are the husband buy her a
car and I no matter how spiritual they
are no matter how spiritual they are
they like money
women when I give my wife money the way
she greets me is different if you don't
have money as a
man a woman will deny your right to
Jerusalem
anyhow it's only when she feels like
that the gates are
opened you must enter her gates with
something in your hands and then there
will be Thanksgiving in her
heart if you don't have
money your children are most likely your
sons are most likely not going to marry
into the class that they want to marry
into into the types of women that they
want to marry into unless you give them
the potential to build themselves like
as my father gave me potential to build
myself and now my children can marry
into any class
if not you will marry somebody
that does not you just marry what is
available and your children might repeat
the same
process if you don't have money as a man
and you are the most senior in your
family the meeting can continue the
family meeting can continue without you
and all your suggestions are just ideas
because are not backed by money if your
last born the last born in your family
has the money he dictates the pace of
the meeting even you you will say yes
sir if you don't have money as a
man in a
church all your suggestions in the
church committee are not taken seriously
the pastor will say I know I know you
that's okay um Elder please talk the
Elder that has the financial backing
like the Good Samaritan is the person
they listen to if you don't have money
as a man in a church your sins are dealt
with very
harshly you commit adultery they will
suspend you expel you treat you very
harshly but if a rich man commits
adultery if a rich man commits adultery
they will use scriptures to EXP explain
it they would say that even David
committed
adultery that God did not kill
him if you don't have money as a man in
old age you will
suffer you will
suffer so start to plan your
life if you don't have money as a man
when you go for old boys association
meeting old Students Association meeting
you'll be very
quiet you will be the one introducing
yourself to
people you don't have money as a
man your community uses you to do many
Works send you
message that's why you must send me a
message on plus
234
70 52 13 6 7 63 to register for the
online seminar coming up on the 1st of
May by 700 p.m. on the reality of Aging
I'm making more money as I get
older getting more respect on the bed
here and I put two bottles of wine there
and I put 10,000 n brand new notes that
my wife likes somebody give them to me
I'm leaving them here and I'm going to
the farm she will see them she will be
very happy with me she will say now why
for you who know like better who like
better F you keep
faing register for that seminar by
sending a message to me on plus
234
7052 1367
63 I will send you the flyer you will
register then I will add you to my
WhatsApp mentorship group if you are not
ready to register for the seminar I
won't add you now me get the seminar now
me get the group now you if you have
money if you have money when you advise
your wife you advise your children you
advise people around you and they refuse
to take you can tell them now you shall
be God bless you I'm going to the farm
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