8 Personality Tricks To Make You More Attractive
Summary
TLDRThis video script reveals eight secrets to cultivate an attractive personality, categorized into rewiring your brain, changing actions, and lifestyle adjustments. It emphasizes the importance of a positive attitude, confidence through scents, open-mindedness, humor, kindness, composure, and mastering small talk. The script also encourages viewers to actively seek social experiences, even if they're introverted, to enhance their social skills and overall attractiveness.
Takeaways
- 😀 Attractiveness is not just about physical appearance but also about building a positive personality.
- 🧠 Rewiring your brain is crucial for developing an attractive personality, starting with maintaining a positive attitude.
- 📈 A Chinese study showed that individuals with positive traits were perceived as more attractive, emphasizing the importance of positivity.
- 🐜 To become more positive, replace negative thoughts with positive achievements to prevent them from festering.
- 💪 Confidence is key; it can be boosted by using fragrances that elicit a specific emotional response.
- 🌿 Certain scents like Neroli and grapefruit can have calming effects, while citrus notes are uplifting and sandalwood makes you feel comfortable.
- 👂 Being open-minded involves active listening and showing genuine interest in others' ideas and perspectives.
- 😂 Making people laugh activates the brain's reward system and can enhance your attractiveness through shared positive experiences.
- 🤝 Kindness is highly valued and perceived as attractive, but it should be balanced with strength to avoid being seen as weak.
- 🧘♂️ Staying composed in social situations can make you more attractive, as calm individuals are often seen as more confident.
- 🕊️ Mastering small talk is essential for making positive first impressions and building connections with new people.
- 🤗 Actively seeking social experiences can help overcome introversion and improve your social skills, leading to a more attractive personality.
Q & A
What are the three main categories mentioned in the script for building an attractive personality?
-The three main categories mentioned are rewiring your brain, changing your actions, and changing your lifestyle.
According to the Chinese study mentioned in the script, what impact does having a positive attitude have on physical attractiveness?
-The study found that positive traits associated with an image drastically increased the perceived attraction of that individual.
What is the suggested method to replace negative thoughts with positive ones in the script?
-The script suggests 'killing ants', which means to step on a negative thought before it festers and replacing it with a positive achievement.
How do scents influence one's mood and state of mind as discussed in the script?
-Scents have the ability to directly influence the central nervous system, affecting mood and state of mind.
What is the significance of the fragrance 'Bon Revivant' in the context of the script?
-Bon Revivant is highlighted as a fragrance designed to elicit a sociable response, making it an ideal party fragrance.
What are the different types of notes in fragrances and their effects as mentioned in the script?
-Neroli and grapefruit are calming, citrus notes are uplifting, and sandalwood makes one feel more comfortable.
How does the script suggest using fragrance as a confidence booster?
-The script suggests using fragrance to reboost energy and confidence midday by carrying a sample amount and applying it when needed.
What is the importance of being open-minded as per the script?
-Being open-minded is a sign of a higher IQ and involves being a good listener, which is easier to deploy than one might believe.
What does the script suggest about the perception of humor in relationships?
-The script suggests that men prefer women who laugh at their jokes, while women prefer men who can make them laugh.
How does the script define kindness and its importance in attraction?
-The script defines kindness as a trait highly ranked by women in a partner and emphasizes that being kind does not mean being weak.
What is the 'four eight breathing technique' mentioned in the script and its purpose?
-The 'four eight breathing technique' involves breathing in for four counts and out for eight counts, repeated two to three times, to induce calmness and reduce nervousness.
What are the three unbreakable rules of small talk suggested in the script?
-The three rules are: having positive body language, practicing active listening, and finding common ground.
How does the script encourage introverts to seek social experiences?
-The script suggests joining groups that force interaction, attending events, and always saying 'yes' to invitations to practice and gain social experiences.
Outlines
😀 Building an Attractive Personality
The first paragraph introduces the concept that attractiveness is not solely about physical appearance but also about personality. It outlines eight secrets categorized into rewiring the brain, changing actions, and lifestyle adjustments. The speaker emphasizes the importance of a positive attitude, backed by a Chinese study that shows people with positive traits are perceived as more attractive. To cultivate positivity, one should replace negative thoughts with positive achievements. The paragraph also touches on the influence of scents on mood and confidence, recommending the use of specific fragrances to enhance these feelings.
😄 Enhancing Confidence and Open-Mindedness
The second paragraph delves into the importance of confidence and how it can be boosted through the use of fragrances that elicit specific emotional responses. It discusses the impact of certain scents like Citrus and Sandalwood on mood and suggests carrying a fragrance for midday confidence boosts. The speaker also stresses the value of being open-minded, advocating for active listening as a way to demonstrate this quality. The paragraph concludes with the assertion that being kind and strong are not mutually exclusive traits and are essential for attractiveness.
😁 Mastering Humor and Social Composure
The third paragraph focuses on the power of humor and kindness in making individuals more attractive. It suggests planning fun dates to create laughter and strengthen bonds, as shared laughter activates the reward system in the brain. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of being kind while maintaining personal boundaries, advocating for speaking up when necessary. Additionally, the paragraph discusses the perception of calmness in men as a sign of attractiveness and offers the 4-8 breathing technique to manage social jitters and maintain composure.
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Keywords
💡Attractiveness
💡Positive Attitude
💡Confidence
💡Fragrances
💡Open-Mindedness
💡Humor
💡Kindness
💡Composure
💡Small Talk
💡Social Experiences
Highlights
Attractiveness is not solely about physical appearance but also about building an attractive personality.
Eight secrets are discussed to enhance one's attractiveness through personality traits.
Positive attitude can make a person physically look more attractive, as proven by a Chinese study.
To cultivate positivity, one should replace negative thoughts with positive achievements.
Confidence can be boosted by using fragrances that elicit specific emotional responses.
Fragrances with certain notes like Citrus can uplift mood and energize, aiding in confidence.
Carry a sample of fragrance to reboost confidence during the day.
Open-mindedness is a sign of high intelligence and can be improved by being a good listener.
Making people laugh activates the brain's reward system, increasing attraction.
Humor is perceived differently by men and women; planning fun dates can enhance mutual laughter.
Kindness is ranked as the top trait by women in a partner, according to studies.
Being kind does not mean being weak; it's important to stand up for oneself while being kind.
Staying composed in social events is perceived as attractive and can be achieved through breathing techniques.
Mastering small talk is crucial for making a good first impression and involves active listening and finding common ground.
Seeking social experiences and joining groups can help introverts improve their social skills.
A bundle offer for a fragrance line is available, including a solid cologne, lotion, and body deodorant with the same notes.
Using the 4-8 breathing technique can help remain calm and composed in stressful social situations.
Transcripts
if you think attractiveness is merely
your style your haircut your genetics or
your height you are wrong so today I'm
going to show you eight secrets to build
an attractive personality and to make it
easier for you I broke it down into
three categories rewiring your brain
changing your actions and changing your
lifestyle starting with number one you
have to have a positive attitude people
will be more likely to connect and
remember that one person that is just
positive to be around there's more
negative people in the world that are
positive this is why people that are
positive or have a positive personality
can physically look more attractive and
this was proven by a Chinese study they
took 60 participants pictures and they
got those pictures rated by three
independent groups the first group rated
the 60 pictures with positive traits
underneath the second group was neutral
there was no traits underneath and the
third group had negative traits
underneath each picture to their
surprise positive traits associated with
the image drastically increased the
perceived attraction of that individual
now if you want to become become more
positive you have to start killing ants
next time you have a negative thought
carving into your mind I want you to
step on that ant before it can Fester
into something then I want you to
replace that negative thought with some
positive achievement like graduating or
hitting a PR at the gym two I need you
to become more confident so I'm gonna
help you confidence is when you believe
in yourself and your abilities
especially with everyone around you is
filled yourself down so to become more
confident I want you to start with your
exterior and there is one thing that has
been studied multiple times to be able
to affect your mood and your State of
Mind in that sense scents have the
ability to directly influence your
central nervous system this is exactly
what with my brain Santa Lucia I focus
on designing fragrances that elicit a
specific emotional response it's almost
like every time you wear them you become
a new person a great example of this our
new Bon revant fragrance was named that
because it means someone that is
sociable it's the perfect party
fragrance but it doesn't end there don't
just put on a fragrance you have to use
the right notes this same study figured
out what notes elicit what specific
response of individuals for example
Neroli and grapefruit is a calming note
especially if you're jittery or nervous
in a social situation this is the notes
you want to wear Citrus notes are
uplifting this is great when you feel
down but no you need more energy to go
and socialize another one is Sandalwood
this one according to the study makes
you more comfortable which again is
great when you're on a date because you
want to seem relaxed with Santa Lucia's
bon vivant for example if you go to the
product page and scroll down you'll see
all the notes that it has and this is
something I recommend you do every time
you purchase a fragrance our top notes
with this fragrance are Citrus Focus we
did that on purpose because we wanted to
uplift your mood and make you feel
energized every time you wore it I still
don't want you to stop there you need to
use fragrance as a confidence booster
and to do this you have to make sure it
lasts long because during the day as
your energy and confidence dwindles you
can use fragrance to reboost you up
midday a good trick to do is to always
carry your fragrance in a sample amount
our bon vivant came in a bundle package
that came with a solid cologne that's
the exact same scent I designed this on
purpose now every time you need that
boost you can just pull it out your
pocket apply and you're good to go if
you guys want to check out our bond
review it'll be linked down below you
can buy it as a bundle that comes with
that solid cologne plus a bottle of
lotion and a body deodorant all using
the same notes and you'll get 50 off if
you guys want to check it out it'll be
linked down below three you have to be
open-minded it's also a sign of a higher
q that you are open to new idea and New
Concepts now how you deploy this is
actually easier than you might believe
all you gotta do is be a listener most
of you are not good at this a good test
to know whether you're a listener that
is open-minded versus somebody that's
close-minded and just a talker is to
gauge what you feel in a conversation if
when you're in a conversation you're
jittery for your go like you're waiting
for you to go next you're probably a
talker but if you can be patient and
actually listen look at the emotion look
at the context look at the body language
understand what the person is saying and
you're not just waiting for your turn
you're a good listener we just covered
the first three which were all about
rewiring your mind you need to start
those today these next three are all
about changing your actions and how
those actions will be perceived by
others these are a must to complement
this new mindset that you have which
takes me to number four you have to make
people laugh when somebody laughs at
your joke the prefrontal cortex of your
brain gets activated when they
understand the punch line that same
reward system releases a little bit of
dopamine the same dopamine you get from
sex or good food the interesting part is
that laughing or humor is perceived
differently by men and women men want
women to laugh at their jokes whereas
women want men that can make them laugh
and I know what you're thinking I'm not
funny how do I do it I got you I want
you to start planning fun dates when you
plan a fun date and laugh with your
partner when you spend that time with
your partner that to a point that you're
both laughing that same region of the
brain will get activated in both of your
brains and afterwards you will like each
other more that positive feeling will be
connected to the person you're
experiencing it with so for example
instead of going to the movies which is
boring go to a comedy club instead of
going to a dinner go to a karaoke bar
number five you've got to be kind not
weak this is one of the most impressive
studies over 70 000 women were serving
out of them ninety percent ranked
kindness as the number one trait that
they look for in a man on the other side
of the spectrum multiple Studies have
proven women prefer men that give them a
sense of protection that's because being
strong and being nice aren't opposites
and instead complement each other it
takes a strong person to be kind when
you are weak you're not being nice
you're being who you War which is a
defenseless pushover that's going to get
people to walk all over you as a weak
person you avoid confrontation when you
are kind you should just be kind to
everyone if someone surpasses your
boundaries you have to be strong enough
to call them out and a good trick to do
is you felt this before that next time
that you're in a situation where you you
have that gut feeling to speak out to
say something because you don't like how
it happened don't suppress it don't just
keep it quiet because you think oh it's
not that big of a deal no speak up and
be strong while still being kind six
stay composed social events can be
stressful and this activates your fight
or flight response which can make you
jittery this makes you seem nervous and
stressed out now the interesting part is
that multiple Studies have proven that
calmer men are perceived as more
attractive and this is all biology
according to this study men that are
anxious and stressed produce more
cortisol cortisol is a stress hormone
which suppresses your reproductive
function the study found the calmer men
than were perceived as more attractive
so how do you fix your Jitters how can
you remain more calm next time you're in
a nerve-wracking situation whether
you're talking to a girl or you're in a
social event I want you to use the four
eight breathing technique as it's
happening and you feel yourself starting
to Jitter I want you to forget about all
the nervousness in your head and breathe
in four times till your lungs are full
and breathe out counting up to eight
seconds you're gonna repeat this about
two to three times and you're gonna
notice I mean you can do it right now
you're gonna notice how immediately more
calm you are and how you'll forget about
everything that's coloring your mind we
just covered six tips that if you
implement today people around you will
instantly notice but these last two that
I'm going to talk about are probably the
most important and it's changing your
lifestyle because if you don't change
these Life Choices you could remain
awkward for the rest of your life
starting with number seven you have to
master small talk you probably hate
small Tech as a matter of fact everyone
hates small talk it's mind numbing
however you have to master it because 99
of the new people you meet you will meet
them through small talk and you will
have a few seconds of interaction to
impress them so I want you to follow
these three unbreakable rules of small
talk to avoid you always talking about
the weather number one you have to have
a positive body language right you have
to have the smile you have to be open
and inviting to allow the small Tech to
occur it takes me to number two practice
active listening instead of waiting for
a turn I just mentioned this earlier
when you practice active listening the
conversation will flow naturally because
you will be able to pick up on cues that
you wouldn't have because you're so
focused on what you're gonna say next
three find common ground this one's the
key one like the fragrances or maybe you
like shoes or you love the dunks they're
wearing or maybe it's watches you you
appreciate the piece he's wearing or
maybe you like the fit or maybe you like
his muscular build so you ask him what
is workout split I cannot tell you how
many times for example I'm a watch guy I
I'll be on a plane or I'll be in public
I'll see a watch and the first thing I
do is I compliment the watch and then we
just start talking about watches because
I'm such a watch Enthusiast it's so easy
for me to just flow a conversation with
another watch Enthusiast when you find
common ground conversation and small
talk becomes natural and not mind them
which ultimately takes me to number
eight actively seek social experiences
if you are an introvert this one will
seem impossible to do as as a matter of
fact you won't want to do it however I'm
going to simplify it for you have to
understand something though if you're
always locked up you'll always develop a
weird personality you have to take
everything I showed you in this video
and put it into practice so your
question is all right how do I do it I'm
an introvert I have no friends one I
want you to join groups where you will
be forced to talk to and meet new people
those new people will invite you to
places you will always say yes that is
your rule these can be like doing a gym
class this is not going to the gym by
yourself but a gym class like a hit
cardio or a CrossFit or some sort of
boxing Studio you could also join a
volunteer a non-profit you can say yes
to every single work event and
networking event you can join multiple
groups on campus on your school for
anything that you're entertained with
and again your one rule is anytime
someone invites you somewhere it's
always a yes
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