use this simple conversation trick to be more interesting

Summary

In this video, Kyle shares practical conversation techniques to become more interesting and attractive in social interactions, especially with women. He emphasizes the power of storytelling and the importance of answering common questions (like 'What do you do for work?' or 'Where are you from?') with engaging, intriguing responses. By practicing these techniques, including using humor, teasing, and embedding subtle value demonstrations, you can transform boring small talk into captivating conversations. Kyle also reflects on his personal transformation from being antisocial to becoming a successful dating coach, offering advice on how to build your own collection of interesting stories.

Takeaways

• 😀 Master storytelling to make your conversations more engaging and interesting.
• 😀 Create a set of 3-5 captivating stories for common questions (e.g., 'What do you do for work?').
• 😀 Avoid boring, canned responses in conversations—make them intriguing and fun.
• 😀 Instead of just answering directly, make the other person guess or create intrigue with your answers.
• 😀 Use the answers to common questions as opportunities to demonstrate value and show personality.
• 😀 Develop stories that are relatable, not necessarily extravagant, to maintain authenticity.
• 😀 Practice these stories so that they feel natural and spontaneous during conversations.
• 😀 Embedding DHV (Demonstrations of High Value) spikes into your stories boosts attraction.
• 😀 You can use these storytelling techniques not just with women, but in all types of social interactions.
• 😀 Being aware of your body language and the other person’s reactions can enhance the impact of your stories.
• 😀 Focus on making your answers unique and personal—this is the key to being perceived as interesting.

Q & A

What is the main goal of the video script?

The main goal is to teach men how to become more interesting in conversation, particularly with women, by using storytelling, playful interactions, and pre-prepared engaging answers to common small talk questions.

Why does the speaker emphasize preparing three stories?

The speaker emphasizes three stories because having multiple engaging stories allows you to handle common conversation questions with intrigue, demonstrate value, and avoid boring or generic answers.

What types of questions should one prepare stories for?

You should prepare stories for questions about work, hobbies/fun, weekend plans, ethnicity, age, location, and horoscope, as these are common in small talk and provide opportunities to make interactions interesting.

How can one make an ordinary answer like 'I’m an IT engineer' more engaging?

Instead of a plain answer, you can start with an intriguing hook, invite the other person to guess, or tell a short personal anecdote related to your work or past experiences to create curiosity and playful interaction.

What is a DHV and why is it important in conversations?

DHV stands for Demonstration of High Value. It is important because subtly showing traits like confidence, social competence, success, or risk-taking in stories increases perceived attractiveness and makes interactions more compelling.

How does the speaker suggest using body language in interactions?

The speaker suggests observing the other person’s body language and incorporating it into conversation. For example, noting a smile, tone, or micro-expression can create intrigue and make the interaction feel personalized and engaging.

What is the recommended tone when telling your prepared stories?

The recommended tone is calm, confident, fun, and playful. This approach makes the conversation feel natural while maintaining interest and charm.

Why is it advised to start an answer with an intriguing statement rather than a direct response?

Starting with an intriguing statement creates curiosity, encourages engagement, and differentiates you from typical, boring small talk responses. It sets the stage for a more dynamic conversation.

Can these storytelling techniques be used outside of dating scenarios?

Yes, these techniques are applicable in general social interactions, networking, and making friends. They help improve conversational skills, create memorable interactions, and increase social confidence.

What is the overall process for using this conversation strategy?

The process involves: identifying common small talk questions, preparing three engaging stories with DHV elements, practicing delivery in a confident and playful tone, and applying the stories in real interactions to transform mundane small talk into compelling dialogue.