Why Bad Boys Win & Nice Guys Come Last. (Actually Explained)
Summary
TLDRIn this candid video script, the narrator recounts a night out in London with friends, where they encounter a 'TikTok famous' girl. The story unfolds as the girl, who gains money from fans without providing anything in return, initially rejects the narrator due to his 'player' image but later kisses him, highlighting the contradiction between what women say and what they do. The script emphasizes understanding the 'game' of dating and self-improvement as key to success in the dating world, offering a self-improvement guide and coaching sessions for those seeking to up their game.
Takeaways
- 😀 The narrator describes a night out in London with friends, highlighting a chance encounter with a 'TikTok famous' girl.
- 🎉 The narrator and his friends were looking to have a fun night, engaging in typical 'boys' behavior and seeking some excitement.
- 💰 The TikTok girl revealed she had made £300 in a day from fans sending her money, showcasing the influencer economy and its dynamics.
- 🤔 The narrator expresses surprise and a bit of disgust at the behavior of people sending money without receiving anything in return.
- 📱 The girl showed the narrator her TikTok account, filled with messages from random accounts sending her money, indicating a new form of online fame and its perks.
- 📹 The girl suggested making a video together with the narrator, hinting at potential collaboration and mutual benefit in social media.
- 👥 The narrator exchanged Instagram information with the girl, despite her initial reluctance to engage due to his 'player' reputation.
- 💬 The girl questioned the narrator's lifestyle and relationships after seeing his Instagram stories, showing a shift in her perception.
- 😡 Despite claiming disinterest, the girl ended up kissing the narrator, illustrating the contradiction between what people say and what they do.
- 🔄 The narrator reflects on the 'game' of dating, suggesting that understanding the dynamics is key to navigating relationships successfully.
- 🚀 The script concludes with a call to self-improvement, urging viewers to become the best version of themselves to attract the right attention.
Q & A
What event took place two weeks ago on Saturday according to the script?
-The narrator attended his first YouTube meet-up with his friends in London.
What did the group do during their night out in London?
-They engaged in typical 'boys being boys' activities, which included socializing and looking for some excitement, possibly involving substances.
What significant encounter did the narrator have with a girl in a blue dress?
-The narrator struck up a conversation with a girl who claimed to be TikTok famous, and she showed him her videos and messages from people sending her money.
How much money did the TikTok famous girl claim to have earned in a day?
-She claimed to have earned £300 from people sending her money across the world.
What was the narrator's reaction to the girl's TikTok fame and the money she received?
-He was shocked by the extent of the attention and money she received, but he also expressed disgust at the behavior of the people sending her money without receiving anything in return.
Did the narrator and the TikTok famous girl plan to collaborate on a video?
-Yes, they discussed the possibility of making a video together after she showed interest in the narrator's YouTube content.
What happened after the narrator and the girl exchanged Instagram information?
-The girl looked at the narrator's Instagram story and questioned him about the girls dancing on him and whether he had a girlfriend.
How did the girl react when she found out about the narrator's dating history from his Instagram?
-She expressed that she wasn't interested in seeing him because she considered him a 'player' and didn't like his behavior.
What unexpected action did the girl take despite her previous disinterest?
-Surprisingly, she kissed the narrator on the lips after initially stating that she didn't like him and wouldn't be messaging him.
What lesson does the narrator suggest about understanding women's behavior in the context of dating?
-He suggests that to succeed in dating, one must understand the 'game' and that women often say one thing but are attracted to something else, such as confidence and assertiveness.
What advice does the narrator offer for self-improvement and understanding the dating game?
-He advises looking in the mirror and becoming proud of the man one sees, focusing on self-improvement, confidence, assertiveness, and other qualities that can make one more attractive in the dating world.
Outlines
😎 Encounter with a Social Media Influencer
The narrator recounts a Saturday night out in London with friends from a YouTube meetup. They describe an encounter with a young woman who is 'TikTok famous,' having millions of views on her videos. The woman is seen receiving money from random accounts, indicating a form of online scamming where she receives funds without providing anything in return. Despite her apparent disinterest and labeling the narrator as a 'player,' she later kisses him, showcasing a contradiction between her words and actions.
🤔 The Paradox of Women's Actions and Words
This paragraph delves into the complexities of dating and societal expectations versus actual attraction. The narrator discusses how women often say one thing but mean another, using his experience with the 'Instagirl' who claimed disinterest yet continued to engage with him. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the 'game' of dating, suggesting that self-improvement and confidence are key to navigating these dynamics successfully. He also offers resources for self-improvement and coaching sessions for those interested.
📚 Opportunities for Personal Growth and Coaching
In the final paragraph, the narrator extends an invitation for those interested in personal development to access his self-improvement guide and coaching sessions. He provides links for further engagement, indicating a desire to help others improve their lives and navigate the complexities of social interactions and dating.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡YouTube Meetup
💡TikTok Famous
💡Clout
💡Scams
💡Player
💡Self-Improvement
💡Assertiveness
💡Confidence
💡Social Media Influence
💡Dating Game
💡Authenticity
Highlights
Two weeks ago, the narrator attended a YouTube meet-up in London with friends.
The group engaged in typical 'boys being boys' behavior, looking for a bit of fun.
A girl in a blue dress caught their attention, and she claimed to be TikTok famous.
She showed the narrator her videos with millions of views and random people sending her money.
The girl admitted to scamming people out of money, which shocked the narrator.
They discussed the possibility of making a video together, hinting at a mutual interest.
The narrator shared his Instagram story, revealing a lifestyle that intrigued the girl.
The girl questioned the narrator's relationship status and expressed disinterest due to his 'player' image.
Despite her initial disinterest, the girl ended up kissing the narrator, contradicting her previous stance.
The narrator reflects on the inconsistency between what women say and what they actually do.
He discusses the societal expectations and the 'game' of dating in the Western World.
The narrator emphasizes the importance of understanding the dynamics of dating to avoid being played.
He shares his insights on how to become a better man, focusing on self-improvement and confidence.
The narrator offers a free self-improvement guide and coaching sessions for those interested in personal growth.
The transcript concludes with a call to action for those who want to fix their life and improve themselves.
Links to resources for self-improvement and coaching are promised to be provided below the transcript.
Transcripts
it's two weeks ago Saturday and K's out
he's not just out by himself he's with
his YouTube meet up yay this fing go
first meet up me and my boys all met up
in London went out if you're ever
interested send me a message and we go
out and boys being
boys we want a bit of [ __ ] wasn't
cocaine when it smell some tonight so
got a few man doing a few things running
up to people talking everyone's going
crazy sick and cir Cesar girl walk
past I'll never forget this she was with
her friend she's wearing a Blue Dress
it's up to here I'm not going to say
this fing girl's name cuz she loves the
clout loves the clout we're going to
we're going to show you in a sec and uh
she's walking along and I just say some
I can't remember what I said say some
[ __ ] to her cool my other boy chats
to her friend he's a Muslim girl doesn't
want to shake hands or something and I'm
chatting to this girl
now we're chatting back and forth she's
kind of liking my energy she's kind of
you know very down toe girl and then she
tells me something come a bit closer she
tells me that she's tick tock tick tock
famous
wow what has this generation come to
she's Tik Tok famous and she shows me
one or two videos video has got like 2.2
million views probably seen her um I'm
not trying to say anything bad but she's
not even like all that just saying and
whatever with there and she shows me she
goes through her Tik
Tok and there I
see random accounts waving and sending
her money and I've never ever seen a
girl a famous as girl's messages like
that ever in my life and I was [ __ ]
shocked I wasn't shocked cuz I knew what
to expect but to this degree she told me
she
earned
300 just from today or yesterday
£300 from guys sending her money across
the world who don't even or who never
even received anything from her they
would ask for nudes and I'll do this for
me and meet up and [ __ ] and she said to
me I'm a bit closer you know what she
said to
me yeah I scammed
them and she's smart about it and she's
young and beautiful and she doesn't
understand and fair enough they are just
chucking her money their money
away
disgusting disgusting guys but is what
it
is so she's there with me and she's
laughing she shows me and I kind of show
her what I do in my YouTube she like oh
we should do a video together yeah where
are you
now oh yeah we should do that together
okay whatever and yeah you know she kind
of sees and she she looks at some of the
titles and she's like what like what f
is a bit mad I'm like okay relax it's
marketing and whatever cut a long story
short we exchange
Instagrams and I show her my insta
story editors we'll put my insta there
and we'll just kind of highlight the
story you know which one it is all my
girlfriends I can't put it on here
because they're not going to allow me
but if you're really intrigued go and
have a look after my inst is
there she has a look and
what what why have you got all these
girls dancing on you and did you have a
free sun with this girl and she fell
exactly for the bait trick you and once
again her being um not going to say dumb
but not really switch on up here falling
for the bait again and again oh my God
is this your girlfriend wait why are you
holding hands shut
up
so she says that and I'm like okay
listen what are you doing after Miss
like we should s sign whatever and she
like nah nah I'm not seeing you you're a
bit of a you're a bit of a player you're
a bit of
this and she says it in a way where
again I understand women nah nah she she
touching me and everything I'm like
f gos say one thing and mean another
girls say by societ oh I don't like this
I don't like these players whatever and
then they the bad boy that's exactly
what happened in this
situation you know what happened at the
end I met a random girl in the street
she saw and didn't like what I did and
you know what
happened after 20 minutes an insta model
kissed me I Kissed A Goodbye on the lips
a strange
just like that the stranger that told me
he didn't like it and as a guy cuz we
was so direct and logical you're sitting
there think what [ __ ] she didn't like
you she said she didn't like you but yet
she did this yes cuz women say one thing
and mean another they say one thing and
mean
another fast forward a few days even a
week yesterday or the day before editors
we put one or two screenshots
this is an instag girl right there can
you see this is an instag girl that
didn't like me and again I have to keep
it authentic I did send one or two um
voice notes and she did with that and we
didn't save it that's why it looks like
she's
spamming but if you look at the messages
she wanted to I said to her I made a
video about you she's like looking I
can't find the video what's it called
and she keeps asking me what's the video
what's the video and again I'll put one
or two other messages if we haven't
already if not it be the same same ones
well what the video what's the video
shut up you clout
chasing I of course know she wants to
see the video cuz she loves the
attention she's a girl and the editors
will put it there but with what 10 point
5K followers I don't follow anymore so
good luck finding her we're not giving
herly and she's a girl that loves the
attention loves the clout and everything
where am I going with this and this is
where it comes full circle and clicks
like that she told me she didn't like me
she told me she wasn't interested she
told me I was a [ __ ] like that she told
me that she wasn't going to message me
and and do any of this and there she is
kissing me there she is with a say we'll
put another screenshot when I first
messaged her me saying come her replying
within the first 20 seconds a 10K
follower girl there she is spamming all
these messages and fair enough we're not
going to link I haven't got time for
[ __ ] like this she's playing games
but fair enough messaging and giving me
all this attention out of all these guys
that want to talk to she giving me all
this attention me a guy that she didn't
like because women say one thing by
Society you know what's right but
they're
attracted to something
else women say one thing and what speci
society and they kind of more like sheep
and oh girls you like this I'm not going
to do but they're still
attracted to what they are attracted
to women especially feminine women like
masculine dominant assertive
confidence sex appeal a bit of bad boy
is a bit of depends on what stage
they're at that they in their life
they're younger then they care about
um looks and clout more and when they're
older are more Pro protect and provide
but they
say these things but then they go and
the guy who has these things or go and
kiss or do sexual
activities with somebody like
me any guy like us we're thinking what
the's going on this doesn't make any
sense but it comes full circle and makes
complete
sense in order to
win the game you must understand how
it's played in order to win this game of
dating in the Western World get the girl
you want all this [ __ ] and these
stupid stupid games they play you must
understand how the game
works I understand and a lot of us do
understand how the game
works but so many guys innocent guys
maybe like yourself don't and and then
you end up getting played and you endend
up getting hurt end up getting used by
these girls cuz she was looking through
her Tik talk and she was laughing at
guys like me at guys like you she was
laughing at guys like that so listen you
don't hate women you don't put them down
you just understand the game and the
game is to become the best the game is
to look in that mirror and become proud
of the man you see because when you're
becoming better and progressing as a man
Ging exper experience confidence
assertiveness connections money status
you become powerful and guess what
happens
then what do you think happens come a
bit
closer that girl that I spoke about at
the start yeah she
comes stay strong I got you any
questions let me know hope this has
helped thank
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