11 Mistakes That Turn Your Du'a Into Sin | Belal Assaad @Tafseeroflife #islamicvideo #belalassad

Summary

In this video, the speaker warns against transgressing in making Dua (supplication) by highlighting 11 key mistakes. These include asking for impossible things, asking against Allah’s boundaries, asking for forbidden things, raising your voice too much, making excessive conditions, or getting into unnecessary details. He also emphasizes the importance of sincerity, humility, and brevity in Dua, noting the best times to make Dua and the strength of Dua during hardship or in the service of parents. The speaker shares a powerful story about the importance of serving parents and the impact it can have on accepted supplications.

Takeaways

• 😀 Don't ask for impossible or supernatural things in your Dua, like flying or bringing someone back from the dead.
• 😀 Avoid asking for things that go against Allah's set laws, such as forgiveness for disbelievers who have passed away.
• 😀 Don't make Dua for things designated for others, like wanting to be a prophet or the intercessor on the Day of Judgment.
• 😀 Never ask for Haram (forbidden) things in your Dua, such as blessings from sinful actions or illicit wealth.
• 😀 Keep your voice humble and peaceful when making Dua; there's no need to raise your voice excessively.
• 😀 Cry with humility and mercy, not out of rebelliousness or frustration when making Dua.
• 😀 Don’t make conditions on Allah in your Dua, such as saying “If You grant this, I will do this or that.”
• 😀 Avoid being overly detailed in your Dua requests, such as describing every minute detail of Paradise.
• 😀 Don’t turn your Dua into a public lecture or sermon to manipulate emotions or gain attention.
• 😀 Be cautious not to prolong the Dua unnecessarily when leading others in prayer; keep it concise and focused.
• 😀 The best times for making Dua are the last third of the night, during prostration in prayer, between the Adhan and Iqamah, and the last hour before sunset.

Q & A

What is the significance of making Dua in Islam?

Dua is a crucial act of worship in Islam, representing a form of submission, humility, and communication with Allah. It is an expression of dependence on Allah, seeking His guidance, mercy, and assistance.

What does it mean to 'transgress in your Dua'?

To transgress in your Dua means to ask for things that go against the boundaries set by Allah, either by making unrealistic requests, asking for haram things, or imposing conditions on Allah's will. This can hinder the acceptance of your supplication.

Why is it wrong to ask for impossible or supernatural things in Dua?

Asking for impossible things, like flying or bringing someone back from the dead, goes beyond the natural order Allah has established. Such requests are unrealistic and violate the understanding of divine wisdom.

Why can't we make Dua for disbelievers who have passed away?

It is forbidden to make Dua for forgiveness or Paradise for disbelievers who have died because their fate is in Allah's hands. We are not allowed to intercede for them in the afterlife, as it contradicts the laws set by Allah.

What is the issue with asking for something Allah has designated to others?

Asking for things that Allah has specifically designated to others, such as prophethood or intercession, is a form of transgression. These roles are uniquely assigned, and it is inappropriate to request something beyond what is rightfully yours.

What are examples of asking for haram things in Dua?

Examples include asking for blessings in haram activities, like adultery, or requesting success in haram business dealings, such as selling alcohol. These requests contradict the principles of Islam, as haram actions should not be sought or blessed.

Why should one avoid raising their voice too much during Dua?

Raising your voice excessively in Dua is unnecessary, as Allah is always close and attentive. The Quran advises calling upon Allah with humility and a low voice, reflecting a sincere and respectful tone in supplication.

What does it mean to 'wail' in your Dua, and why is it wrong?

Wailing refers to crying excessively in a way that seems like complaining or rebelling against Allah’s will. It is wrong because Dua should be made with humility, acceptance, and trust in Allah’s decree, not out of despair or frustration.

Why is it inappropriate to make conditions in your Dua?

Making conditions in Dua, such as saying 'if you don't give me this, I will stop praying to you,' is an act of arrogance. It implies bargaining with Allah, rather than humbly submitting to His will. Dua should be an expression of trust and dependence on Allah.

What is the recommended approach when making Dua in terms of detail?

When making Dua, it is better to keep the request simple and concise. Overly detailed requests, like describing specific aspects of Paradise in great detail, detract from the sincerity and humility of the supplication.