AULA 2 - Mini-curso Missão Global

Summary

In this video, the speaker shares their experience of moving abroad with their family, highlighting the challenges and benefits of adjusting to a new culture. They recount an incident where quick and efficient emergency services in a foreign country saved their child from a locked car, showcasing the difference in service effectiveness compared to Brazil. The speaker reflects on the positive impact of raising children in a multicultural environment, learning multiple languages. However, they also discuss the emotional and financial struggles families may face when relocating abroad, particularly the impact on relationships and family dynamics.

Takeaways

• 😀 The speaker compares the quality of public services in their current country with those in Brazil, highlighting a greater sense of order and efficiency in the foreign country.
• 😀 A personal story illustrates how public services in the foreign country responded quickly and effectively when the speaker's son got locked in the car on a hot day, contrasting it with potential delays or inefficiency in Brazil.
• 😀 The speaker's children are growing up with exposure to multiple cultures, learning Portuguese, English, and Spanish, which is seen as a valuable opportunity for their future.
• 😀 The speaker emphasizes the importance of providing children with exposure to both their home culture and the culture of the country they are living in, fostering a connection with both sides.
• 😀 Despite the positive experience abroad, the speaker acknowledges that moving to another country is not simple and requires careful planning and preparation.
• 😀 Financial readiness is crucial when moving abroad, as many people face difficulties without a proper financial backup and return to their home country.
• 😀 Cultural differences between couples can lead to significant strain, with the woman in some families feeling more connected to her home country, potentially resulting in conflicts or even separation.
• 😀 The speaker advises that anyone considering moving abroad should understand the emotional and practical challenges involved in leaving one’s home country and be prepared for the complexities of adjusting to a new environment.
• 😀 The speaker reflects on the importance of creating a well-thought-out plan for generating income while living abroad, as many fail to do so and struggle financially.
• 😀 The overall message is that although living abroad can be a rewarding experience, it requires significant preparation, especially in terms of finances and emotional adjustment to the new culture.

Q & A

What is the speaker's perspective on the effectiveness of services in the country they moved to?

The speaker believes that the services, both public and private, work efficiently and are well-organized. This includes aspects such as road conditions, public service efficacy, and private sector reliability, contrasting them with their experience in Brazil.

Can you describe the incident the speaker experienced with their child?

The speaker's child got locked inside the car when the car automatically locked while the child was in the car seat, and the speaker's phone and car keys were inside. The speaker called the police and emergency services, and they responded very quickly, breaking the window and rescuing the child.

How did the emergency services respond to the situation?

The police arrived within approximately 40 seconds of the call, followed by firefighters who came with a fire truck shortly after. They recommended breaking the window to rescue the child and proceeded to do so. Afterward, they ensured the child was unharmed and provided further assistance by clearing the glass and ensuring safety.

What differences did the speaker note between the response in this country and their home country, Brazil?

The speaker suggested that if the same situation had occurred in Brazil, the response might have been less efficient or slower. The quick and organized response they experienced abroad stood out in contrast to what they expected back home.

How do the speaker's children experience both Brazilian and international cultures?

The speaker makes an effort to expose their children to both Brazilian and international cultures. Their children speak Portuguese and English, with the oldest also learning Spanish, while maintaining a connection to their Brazilian roots by staying in touch with relatives in Brazil.

What is the speaker's view on the benefits of raising children in a different cultural environment?

The speaker sees great value in raising children in a different cultural environment. This exposure allows their children to learn multiple languages and become acquainted with diverse cultures, which the speaker believes is a priceless experience.

What challenges did the speaker mention regarding relocating to another country?

The speaker highlighted several challenges, including cultural differences, financial preparation, and adjusting to life away from home. These challenges can be particularly hard for families, and they emphasized that proper planning is crucial to avoid difficulties.

How can family dynamics be affected by moving abroad, according to the speaker?

Family dynamics can be strained, especially when one partner, often the woman, feels a strong attachment to their family in Brazil and pressures for a return. This has led to separations in some of the speaker’s friends’ relationships.

What advice does the speaker offer for those considering moving abroad with their family?

The speaker advises that families should be aware of the potential emotional challenges, especially the strain of being away from family in Brazil. It’s important to prepare financially and mentally for the move, and both partners should be aligned in their expectations to avoid conflicts.

What is the speaker's overall assessment of their experience living abroad?

The speaker's overall assessment of their experience abroad has been extremely positive. They do not regret making the move, though they acknowledge that it is not simple and requires careful preparation. They emphasize the many advantages of the international experience, particularly for their children.