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Summary
TLDR这段视频脚本讲述了徐波(Xu Bo)的多面人生故事。徐波是一位网络游戏界的天才,他从一个客服代表成长为游戏策划者,最终成立了自己的公司——金山多益,并取得了巨大成功。然而,他的私生活却充满了争议,包括与女友“二牛妈妈”(Erniu's mom)的关系,以及他们之间的经济纠纷。徐波通过代孕方式有了多个孩子,但与二牛妈妈的关系最终因经济问题和新女友的介入而破裂。此外,徐波还因捐款给方周子(Fang Zhouzi)的安全基金而卷入了一场法律诉讼,最终成功追回了捐款。整个故事展现了徐波在商业上的成功和私生活中的挑战,同时也反映了社会对于财富、家庭和道德的不同看法。
Takeaways
- 🎨 **范曾再婚争议**:范曾再婚的节目播出后,网友评论激烈,有人建议他与翟欣欣结婚,引发讨论。
- 🚗 **翟欣欣的案件**:翟欣欣因驾驶致丈夫死亡被移交检察院,即将被判刑。
- 👵 **范曾的艺术贡献**:尽管范曾再婚年纪大,但他对国家书画有贡献,社会评论应有分寸。
- 📺 **节目内容建议**:有观众建议多讨论八卦新闻,以减轻政治抑郁,使节目内容更丰富,吸引观众。
- 💰 **徐土豪的经济损失**:徐土豪(徐波)被女友诈骗损失3亿人民币,反映了富人世界的复杂性。
- 😂 **普通人的幸灾乐祸**:普通人对富人偶尔的不幸感到心理上的平衡。
- 🤔 **方周子的不满**:方周子因曾骗取徐土豪300万而感到不满,与徐土豪的关系复杂。
- 🏆 **徐波的成功故事**:徐波从客服到游戏策划,再到创办自己的游戏公司,经历了显著的转变。
- 🤝 **投资与合作**:徐波离开网易后,获得雷军投资创立了金山多益,后因游戏版权问题与网易发生法律纠纷。
- 👨👩👧👦 **徐波的家庭观念**:徐波通过代孕有了多个孩子,展现了他非传统的家庭观念和对后代的期望。
- 💔 **情感与金钱的纠葛**:徐波与“二牛妈妈”的关系破裂,因金钱和情感问题对簿公堂,最终法院未支持徐波追回3亿人民币。
Q & A
范曾再婚的节目播出后,评论区有人提出了怎样的建议?
-节目播出后,有人评论说范曾应该和翟欣欣结婚,这个评论获得了很多人的点赞。
翟欣欣是一个怎样的人物?她遭遇了什么情况?
-翟欣欣是一个有争议的人物,她因为驾驶不慎导致自己的丈夫死亡,后来被警方移交给检察院,即将被判刑。
范曾对国家的艺术有哪些贡献?
-范曾对国家的绘画和书法有重大贡献,即使在86岁高龄时仍然再婚,展现了他艺术生涯的第四个春天。
为什么有人认为王导演应该更多地讨论八卦新闻?
-有人觉得王导演的节目通常关注键盘政治,看多了会让人感到政治抑郁。他们认为讨论轻松的八卦新闻能让观众在观看后能够微笑,节目内容会更加丰富,能吸引更多观众。
徐土豪(Xu Tuhao)和二牛妈妈之间发生了什么故事?
-徐土豪和二牛妈妈的故事涉及到徐土豪被自己的女朋友诈骗了8亿人民币,后来追回了5亿,实际损失了3亿,这件事在互联网上引起了巨大反响。
徐土豪的财富观念和普通人有什么不同?
-徐土豪的财富观念与普通人不同,他通过游戏产业积累了巨额财富,甚至在被诈骗巨额资金后,仍然能够保持财富地位,这显示了富裕阶层与普通人之间在财富认知上的巨大差异。
方周子和徐土豪之间的关系如何?
-方周子和徐土豪是老相识。方周子曾经诈骗过徐土豪300万,但后来徐土豪通过法律途径追回了这笔钱。
徐土豪在网易游戏的工作经历是怎样的?
-徐土豪在网易游戏担任客服工作,但他对游戏有着独到的见解,并提出了对《西游记》游戏的改进方案,这使得他从客服转变为游戏策划,并成功帮助游戏取得巨大成功。
徐土豪离开网易后创办了哪家公司?
-徐土豪离开网易后,与几位游戏开发者、工程师和程序员一起创办了自己的公司——金山多益。
徐土豪和二牛妈妈之间为什么会产生冲突?
-徐土豪和二牛妈妈之间的冲突主要源于徐土豪的新女友160的出现,以及徐土豪对二牛妈妈提出的财务要求。徐土豪认为二牛妈妈应该归还他之前给她的800万中的300万,而二牛妈妈则认为这笔钱是他们共同生活的费用,并非贷款。
徐土豪在法律诉讼中败诉的原因是什么?
-徐土豪在法律诉讼中败诉的原因是法院认为他和二牛妈妈之间构成了事实婚姻关系,因此他无法证明那笔钱是贷款。法院还考虑到徐土豪的财务实力,认为给予二牛妈妈800万作为生活费用是合理的。
徐土豪的个人生活和财富观念对社会有哪些启示?
-徐土豪的个人生活和财富观念启示社会,即使拥有巨额财富,也不能解决所有问题,特别是在情感和人际关系方面。此外,市场经济条件能够孕育出具有特定才能的个体,他们在各自领域发挥着重要作用。
Outlines
🎨 范曾再婚引发的网络热议
在第一段中,讨论了范曾再婚的电视节目播出后,网友评论范应与翟欣欣结婚的讽刺性建议。尽管范曾的行为有争议,但评论者认为他不应与翟欣欣结婚,因为翟欣欣涉嫌驾驶导致丈夫死亡的案件。此外,还提到了范曾对国家书画的贡献,以及公众评论的不必要毒舌。同时,提到了导演王对节目内容的反思,以及节目内容对观众情绪的影响。最后,引入了徐土豪(徐图哈)的故事,他因与女友的财务纠纷而成为微博热搜。
🚀 徐土豪的创业故事与法律纠纷
第二段讲述了徐土豪在网易游戏的工作经历,以及他如何从一个客服人员变成了游戏策划者,并成功改进了《西游记》游戏。随后,他因不满薪酬离开网易,创立了自己的公司——金山多益,并推出了类似的游戏《神武》。这引发了与网易的法律纠纷,最终金山多益被判赔偿网易1500万元。尽管如此,徐土豪的公司依然取得了巨大成功,他个人每年净收入达到数亿人民币。
🤝 徐土豪与方周子的恩怨情仇
第三段描述了徐土豪与方周子之间的关系,以及方周子如何利用所谓的安全基金进行个人挥霍。方周子曾骗取徐土豪300万元,但后来徐土豪通过法律手段追回。
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Keywords
💡网络舆论
💡财产纠纷
💡市场经济条件
💡知识产权
💡非婚生子女
💡代孕
💡欺诈
💡名人效应
💡法律诉讼
💡社会正义
💡情感纠葛
Highlights
节目讨论了范曾再婚的话题,引发网友热议。
网友评论范曾应该与翟欣欣结婚,引发讨论。
翟欣欣因涉嫌驾驶致丈夫死亡被移交检察院,即将被判刑。
范曾86岁再婚,四次婚姻生活引发关注。
范曾对国家书画有贡献,网友评论不应过于恶毒。
节目主持人王导被建议多谈八卦,以减轻政治抑郁。
节目提到了徐土豪(徐图哈)的故事,因与二牛妈妈的关系成为微博热搜。
徐土豪被女友诈骗8亿,最终损失3亿,引起网络震动。
徐土豪与方周子的旧日恩怨,方周子曾骗取徐土豪300万。
方周子因嫉妒他人成功,其行为引起广泛讨论。
Transcripts
Last week, we aired the show about Fan Zeng getting remarried.
After the show aired, I saw a guy comment below.
He said that Fan Zeng, this person, should just marry Zhai Xinxin, haha.
A lot of people liked his comment.
When I saw this comment, I thought this guy was being too harsh.
Although Fan Zeng did some questionable things, he doesn't deserve to marry Zhai Xinxin.
Zhai Xinxin, you know, she ended up driving her own husband to death.
She's now been handed over to the prosecutor's office by the police, and she's about to be sentenced.
Old Mr. Fan Zeng, though he remarried at 86, blossoming forth for the fourth time,
but still, he has contributed to the country's painting and calligraphy.
I really think it's unnecessary for people to be so venomous in their comments.
But some people say, Director Wang, you should talk more about this kind of gossip.
Because usually your shows are all about keyboard politics, right?
After watching too much, you get this political depression.
Your colleague Chai Jing just did a show recently, called "Political Depression."
What is political depression? It's what you get after watching your show.
It ends up being all about negative news concerning China, which gets depressing.
Because you have to watch the news broadcasts to adjust, but watching those makes you nauseous.
So what do you do? In the end, it just makes you mentally unwell.
So, talk more about the colorful gossip, right?
Then after watching, we can smile about it.
Your show would be richer and could win more viewers, I think that makes sense.
Today, let's talk about another character from the jianghu.
Who shall we talk about? We'll talk about the story of Xu Tuhao, Xu Bo.
Xu Bo has been all over the Weibo hot searches lately, because of his story with Erniu's mom.
It's said that he was scammed by his own girlfriend out of 3 billion yuan.
Actually, it was 8 billion, but then he managed to recover 5 billion, leaving a loss of 3 billion.
After this news came out, the entire internet exploded.
Just think about it, 3 billion yuan, what a concept.
Many listed companies don't earn 3 billion in their entire existence.
So imagine, Xu Tuhao was just swindled by his girlfriend out of 3 billion.
Think about it, the world of the rich is not something ordinary people can understand.
I guess among all of us, most are somewhat schadenfreude.
Why? Because ordinary people are not as wealthy as the rich.
But most deep down hope that the rich, like us ordinary folks, also occasionally have bad luck.
When the rich have bad luck, many people feel the world is a bit more fair.
I think there's definitely one person who must be feeling really upset, and that person is Fang Zhouzi.
Why? Because Fang Zhouzi and Xu Bo are old acquaintances.
Fang Zhouzi once tricked Xu Bo out of 3 million.
Later, I managed to sue and get those 3 million back.
So think about it, after seeing this news, how upset Fang Zhouzi must be.
He connived and schemed to cheat Xu Bo out of 3 million, and in the end, I got it back.
But that woman, after having two kids with Xu Bo, ended up swindling 3 billion.
Think about it, how could Fang Zhouzi be okay with that?
Fang Zhouzi always thought he was so smart.
With such high intelligence, he meticulously planned to cheat 3 million, but ended up not only failing but also losing more.
Meanwhile, that woman scammed away 3 billion.
Think about it, for Fang Zhouzi, it must be like being cut by a knife.
So I think about Fang Zhouzi, haha.
After I posted this comment, Fang Zhouzi immediately retaliated.
He criticized me, really broke through his defenses.
I think Fang Zhouzi shouldn't have broken down.
After all, that girlfriend and Xu Bo had kids together.
Fang Zhouzi, can you give Xu Bo a child? If you're capable, go have a child with him.
If you had a child, maybe you could also scam 3 billion.
You giving birth could maybe also net you 3 billion.
Today, let's talk about Xu Bo's story.
I think Xu Bo's stories from the jianghu are quite interesting.
Xu Bo is from Wuhan.
His childhood was not particularly happy, growing up in a single-parent family.
He didn't attend high school, dropped out after middle school.
Then he went south to Guangzhou to work, ending up at NetEase's games.
Everyone knows NetEase, one of the earliest in China's internet to do games.
And they were very successful.
When Xu Bo joined NetEase Games,
NetEase had a game called Journey to the West.
He worked in customer service for Journey to the West.
Basically, customer service is like a troubleshooter, solving any problems,
handling recharges or dealing with complaints over the phone.
But Journey to the West was in decline at that time.
Although Xu Bo wasn't highly educated,
he was somewhat of a genius when it came to gaming.
Ordinary NetEase customer service just involves answering calls,
but he was analyzing how these games were played.
During the process, he also observed how the game development department worked.
He had a brainwave in 2005,
when he told the head of NetEase’s gaming department that their game needed a revision.
He said, "It's not working, I have an idea."
He then presented his proposal for revamping Journey to the West.
Upon hearing it, the head of NetEase Games was like, "Hey, this could work, kid."
So, Xu Bo was no longer just a customer service rep at NetEase Games.
He became a planner and joined the creative team for the revamped Journey to the West.
After the revision, the game immediately became a hit.
It was incredible, making a lot of money for NetEase every day.
Xu Bo's status changed; NetEase increased his salary,
starting at 10,000 yuan the first month, 20,000 the second, and 40,000 the third.
In the fourth month, they gave him 80,000; in the fifth, 160,000; and in the sixth, 320,000.
Xu Bo personally told me this, and then it stabilized.
They stopped increasing it, capping it at 320,000 yuan per month.
For most people, 320,000 yuan a month is definitely a huge amount,
almost 4 million yuan a year.
Knowing how much money the game was making, Xu Bo felt
that his contributions weren't fully reflected in his income. Later, he reportedly discussed
a raise with Ding Lei, but they couldn't reach an agreement. So, in 2005,
Xu Bo left NetEase with several game developers,
engineers, and programmers to start his own business.
He found Xiaomi's CEO, Lei Jun, and raised 10 million yuan.
Thus, he founded his own company, called Kingsoft DuoYi.
You see, Kingsoft DuoYi was because Lei Jun invested 10 million in venture capital.
The first game they developed was called Shenwu,
which was essentially a new version of Journey to the West that he had worked on at NetEase.
It was almost the same, and it immediately caught fire online as well.
NetEase wasn't happy with that.
They claimed that Xu Bo had developed this game while at NetEase,
which was considered a duty of his position.
Taking it with him was a violation of the non-compete clause,
essentially stealing the intellectual property he created while at NetEase.
They sued Kingsoft DuoYi in court, demanding compensation.
Apparently, the court eventually ordered Kingsoft DuoYi to pay NetEase 15 million yuan in damages.
But regardless, Xu Bo's gaming company took off.
Not long after it started,
he bought back Lei Jun's 10 million yuan investment
at several times the price, so now he owns 100% of DuoYi Network.
In recent years, this game has been flourishing. This game company is unlike any other.
It's a cash cow, with a constant flow of money coming in every day.
He himself earns a net income of either 1.5 billion or 2 billion RMB every year.
Just think, he is indeed a wealthy man, having been on China's rich list.
So how did Xu Bo deal with Fang Zhouzi back then?
It's a long story because Xu Bo's educational level isn't very high, you see.
At that time, don’t be fooled by how Fang Zhouzi appears now, desperate like a lost dog.
No one pays attention to him on Twitter or YouTube.
But back in the day in China, he was indeed a man of the moment.
A hero in debunking frauds, virtuously uncorrupted, a modern-day Lu Xun.
Liu Juhua said, he was excessively unworldly and clean, you know, just too pure.
The whole world despises him, but really wanted to establish such a persona, right?
Think about how he charmed many people like Xu Bo.
Xu Bo thought Fang Zhouzi was impressive, especially when Fang had set up a security fund.
How did the security fund come about? It was because of Xiao Chuanguo, he targeted Xiao for fraud.
Xiao Chuanguo brought his relatives to smash Fang with a hammer.
He scraped a bit of skin on his waist and dabbed some red medicine on it.
Fang Zhouzi said, oh no, that's unacceptable, my life and health are threatened.
He and Peng Jian, those brothers, decided to set up a security fund.
Basically, it allowed people nationwide to donate money to ensure his safety.
If a national treasure like the giant panda were to be killed, it would be an immeasurable loss for the Chinese people.
So, people continuously donated money to them, over two million in total.
In reality, once the money was donated, Fang Zhouzi used it to buy a car.
Set up a private bookshop at home, hired a nanny, rented houses, and then flew first class.
Essentially, it was all for personal extravagance.
But Fang Zhouzi thought, his security fund wouldn't likely be discovered.
Why? Because Peng Jian and he were close friends.
Peng Jian was the fund manager, and he appointed four so-called supervisors.
Such as Wu Xingchuan, and his bookstore owner friend, and a professor
and a professor from the Chinese Academy of Sciences.
All these people are his close friends, and in fact, they don't manage the money.
It's Peng Jian who manages it, and typically, they don't disclose the financial details.
They only publish a single item of the total income, nothing else is disclosed.
So who could find out, right? Thus, the money keeps coming in.
He and Peng Jian just splurge wildly with the money, think about how great that is.
Just lying there every day while people donate to them, right?
But then, by the year 2015...
Others might not know, but Luo Yonghao had his doubts about him.
And nothing much happened at that time, but then Xu Bo spoke up.
He said, just close your security fund.
I'll take care of all your security issues, just tell me how much you need.
Fang Zhouzi said, no need, it can't be done, why not?
Because if Xu Bo funded the security, it would be used only for security purposes.
But what Fang Zhouzi and Peng Jian thought was...
The money would go into our pockets to be spent.
Right? We need to hire nannies, fly first class.
Would Xu Bo provide us that money? No.
And Xu Bo knows, even if he could, if it gets disclosed one day...
Then Fang Zhouzi’s persona would be bankrupt, so we don't want Xu Bo's money.
At that time, they manipulated Xu Bo into donating.
So, on January 13, 2015, under their influence, Xu Bo donated 3 million RMB.
This was the largest single donation to the security fund in its history.
After this money came in, Fang Zhouzi and Peng Jian were overjoyed.
Peng Jian immediately used the money to buy a house.
This was their duo's fraudulent misuse of the security fund.
But the public didn't know, and the two were extremely happy.
You see, Fang Zhouzi used to travel in economy class,
but later, from the records I checked, it all changed to business and first class.
The whole family traveled together, all in business and first class.
Just think, with money, they got a gold sponsor like Xu Bo.
But unexpectedly, world affairs are unpredictable, and in 2016, Fang Zhouzi and Xu Bo fell out.
Xu Bo was always a critical factor in Fang Zhouzi's downfall.
Another key factor was me, together we completely took Fang Zhouzi down.
Let me tell you about 2016, I had a colleague named Chai Jing,
who made a documentary called Under the Dome, which went viral online, it was hugely popular.
Everyone in China was talking about Under the Dome.
At that time, Fang Zhouzi started feeling extremely jealous, because...
He feels miserable seeing anyone else become famous or gain widespread attention.
His heart aches, he thinks all the world's focus should be on him.
So you see, "Fang Zhouzi’s fraud-busting" is always aimed at celebrities.
I say "fraud-busting" in quotes because he just gets jealous of anyone who gets attention.
Watching Chai Jing’s documentary gaining nationwide attention,
he felt miserable and started scrutinizing everything online every day.
Hey, this subtitle is wrong, look, this data is wrong, that’s incorrect.
He kept nitpicking, not to discuss issues but to take down Chai Jing’s documentary.
This mindset was obvious to everyone, Fang Zhouzi's pettiness is just so.
Honestly, I think his pettiness isn’t even as big as a mouse’s.
But at that time, Xu Bo couldn’t stand it anymore.
This mentality was clear to everyone; Fang Zhouzi's pettiness is frankly that small.
Really, I think he's less shrewd than a mouse.
But at that time, Xu Bo watched and couldn't stand it anymore.
Xu Bo then said, what he said was that Chai Jing's work on this episode overall is good.
Even if there are some issues, you should discuss them calmly, you can't just say that, right?
You can't talk like that, right?
Upon hearing Xu Bo's words, Fang Zhouzi was furious, fuming with rage.
He actually looked down on Xu Bo, even though Xu Bo had donated 3 million to him.
He really despised Xu Bo, so he started cursing Xu Bo with many dirty and coarse words.
The curses were incredibly harsh, to what extent?
In the end, he even said that Xu Bo's donation was intentionally malicious.
Hearing this term, "malicious donation," Xu Bo got angry.
Xu Bo then said, if that's the case, then return my 3 million that you spent.
Don't spend my money while also cursing me.
That's unreasonable, right?
Fang Zhouzi just shut his eyes and said, I didn't spend your money.
How did I spend your money? You donated it to the security fund, what does that have to do with me?
Moreover, money from the security fund isn't refundable.
Hearing this, Xu Bo felt miserable, right? Being insulted like that.
After donating money and then enduring such humiliation.
So Xu Bo went to the Wuhan police to report the matter, I think one shouldn't be too extreme in their actions.
The downfall of people like Fang Zhouzi is actually because they go too far.
Considering Xu Bo had donated money,
even if you think the communication between you isn't nice,
the normal Chinese approach would be to just keep quiet and let it be, but he insulted Xu Bo.
But precisely because of this incident, it sowed the seeds of his eventual downfall.
After Xu Bo went to the Wuhan police, they began a preliminary investigation.
They started to investigate whether Fang Zhouzi and Peng Jian were involved in fraud.
Since Fang Zhouzi had targeted me,
I also started an online investigation into whether Fang Zhouzi and Peng Jian were defrauding the security fund.
With dual investigations underway, the Wuhan police later came to Beijing to meet me.
Because the relatives Fang Zhouzi hired to sell his books
eventually became my informants, providing me with his information.
They told me where he rented houses, hired nannies, the car he bought, and where the car was parked.
I found all this information out.
I handed this information over to the Wuhan police, and just think,
Peng Jian took the money and bought a house, Fang Zhouzi bought two cars,
and set up a private bookshop, and the family's nanny,
all family trips were first class, all paid with security fund money.
Isn't that fraud? The evidence was clear, so at that time,
logically, Peng Jian should have been arrested,
and Fang Zhouzi should also have been charged with fraud, right?
But at that time, Wuhan was in a difficult position, why?
Because Fang Zhouzi is a celebrity, and Peng Jian is a lawyer.
At that time, there was a regulation from the Supreme People's Procuratorate regarding lawsuits against celebrities and lawyers,
saying to be cautious with such individuals, so the Wuhan police didn't dare make a decision on their own.
So they invited the Wuhan Procuratorate to discuss
together whether to prosecute this case.
Both sides were pushing each other, unable to decide on this matter.
Eventually, the Wuhan police reported to the Ministry of Public Security Criminal Investigation Department, asking for a decision.
The Ministry of Public Security Criminal Investigation Department cleverly sent a reply.
It said, please follow the relevant legal provisions in execution, everyone is passing the buck.
So I'm telling you, Fang Zhouzi, if you watch this episode of my show, today I'm telling you
you and Peng Jian were just a little bit away
from being arrested by the Chinese police and thrown behind bars.
If it weren't for that regulation at the time, you and Peng Jian would have already been in jail.
In the end, seeing that even the Ministry of Public Security Criminal Investigation Department hesitated,
the Wuhan police also saw no need to take the risk, and the case was suspended.
No criminal case was filed, under these circumstances, I advised Xu Bo.
Because Xu Bo wanted to send Fang Zhouzi and Peng Jian to prison.
I arranged to meet Xu Bo in Beijing, and he came with Erniu's mom.
We had a meal together, and I said at this time,
you should quickly file a civil lawsuit against Fang Zhouzi, why?
Because there is a statute of limitations for civil litigation.
Once the statute of limitations is passed, the lawsuit can no longer be filed.
Once that happens, the 3 million yuan cannot be recovered.
Then it becomes troublesome, because Fang Zhouzi is arrogant
since he has money online, and I was exposing the fake Fang Zhouzi.
Although many people stopped donating to him,
he still had over 2 million in his security fund account.
With more than 2 million, he can squander it and also use it to fund lawsuits.
Think about it, Fang Zhouzi has been harassing others online over the years.
One of his very important tactics is to harass people through lawsuits.
If all his money is drained, Fang Zhouzi will actually have no energy left.
But for Xu Bo, 3 million is really nothing,
possibly what he earns in a day, so he doesn't care about the money.
He just wants to send Fang Zhouzi and Peng Jian to prison.
I advised him, saying that when it comes to doing things,
following superior methods only yields partial results; sometimes, goals just can't be met.
But we should first pursue the next best option, and strive for the best option later.
So after dinner, he agreed with my view.
Thus, Xu Bo decided to sue Fang Zhouzi and Peng Jian in Beijing.
In the end, I also represented him in this case.
As a citizen representative, I participated in the litigation.
Finally, the court ruled that Peng Jian must return 3 million yuan to Xu Bo, plus all interest.
During the lawsuit, the bank statements for Peng Jian's house purchase were also reviewed,
proving that Peng Jian indeed used the money to buy a house, spending over a million.
During this process, I still had frequent contact with Xu Bo.
Fang Zhouzi kept saying every day, claiming I was exposing him
and that my lawsuit against him in the US was funded by Xu Bo.
Fang Zhouzi is petty-minded; he only thinks of this possibility.
I can tell Fang Zhouzi here
that suing Fang Zhouzi in the US indeed cost a lot of money,
but Xu Bo really did not contribute a dime; Xu Bo is very frugal in his daily life.
Let me share a few details. When I went to see him in Guangdong,
he came to meet me in his Maybach, without a driver.
Then, at the hotel, the first thing he asked was where to get a parking coupon.
Just think, a billionaire asking
about a parking coupon at our first meeting,
You see, this shows that he is quite frugal with money.
So when we sued Fang Zhouzi in the US, Xu Bo didn't spend a single penny.
Fang Zhouzi, you don't need to think about it, Xu Bo really didn't contribute any money.
Right, but think about it, Xu Bo is so concerned about money,
then think about how he was swindled out of 300 million by Erniu's mom, what's that all about?
Next, let's talk about his story with Erniu's mom.
Xu Bo and Erniu's mom apparently met more than ten years ago; she was a model.
Then, after being together for a while, they had their first child.
They never married because Xu Bo was wary of others splitting his fortune.
So it's always been girlfriends, hence he will never marry.
By not marrying, he can continually find new girlfriends
and none of these girlfriends can claim his money.
Erniu's mom was his first official girlfriend,
and they had their first child, Daniu, in 2011.
A year later, they had another child called Erniu,
and Xu Bo is especially fond of Erniu,
thus affectionately calling her Erniu's mom.
Later, Xu Bo underwent a significant change in perspective.
He had two debates online that drew a lot of attention to him.
In the first, he was anti-feminist, believing that women should marry early.
And should not receive too high an education.
Then he said women should be gentle, frugal, modest, and obey men.
He said that at the time, this view sparked a lot of dissatisfaction among women online.
Many people criticized him, wondering why he was called Xu Tuhao.
Xu Tuhao said it's because he's really rich, but his views are very outdated.
So besides being anti-feminist, there was another thing.
He claimed he would use surrogacy to have 100 children.
Imagine that, it also blew up on the Chinese internet, right?
On one hand, surrogacy is illegal in China, right?
On the other, he wants to surrogate 100 children, that's a lot.
A row, imagine a row of 20+ people, he wants four rows for surrogacy.
So when he disclosed this information online,
many people thought Xu Tuhao, Xu Bo, was unreasonable.
But Xu Bo didn't care, he later surrogated and had 11 children with Erniu's mom.
This is stated in the court documents, and then he surrogated with other women.
He gradually had dozens of children, he sought online
for women with good temperaments and looks to have children with him.
High-quality eggs to improve his family's gene pool, that's the situation.
For every child born, he would hire a nanny, one child, one nanny.
So he had quite a large setup at his home,
since his children didn't go to school, he hired private tutors for them.
Older kids were put in one class, Daniu and Erniu had their own class.
They were taught Chinese, mathematics, English, etc., younger ones had a preschool class.
A huge and impressive setup.
But what was the conflict and disagreement with Erniu's mom about?
He himself wrote very clearly online that in 2021,
he got a new girlfriend, this girlfriend is called 160.
What's 160? An IQ of 160, almost like Fang Zhouzi.
Tested on the spot at 160, so Xu Bo obviously valued this girlfriend more.
They lived together, and while living together, he had 160 manage the household.
This was a huge shock to Erniu's mom, she couldn't take it.
Because Erniu's mom didn't really mind Xu Bo finding other girlfriends in the past,
as long as they had children.
After having children, she would take care of them at home, essentially seeing herself as the main wife.
Though they weren't married, they had been together with Xu Bo for a long time,
living together for over a decade, right?
But now, you bring in a woman who claims to be smarter and even manages the house,
isn't that overstepping her bounds?
Xu Bo then said that Erniu's mom was jealous and envious, claiming she was wrong.
He thought the woman's moral character was not right, and they erupted in conflict.
Erniu's mom, in a fit of anger, left for Japan in 2022.
After going to Japan, Xu Bo asked her to come back.
She didn't come back, they argued, and Xu Bo asked her for money.
Because during their time together,
Xu Bo had given her a total of 800 million yuan, 400 million of which was said to be a loan.
Xu Bo then demanded the money from Erniu's mom.
Erniu's mom gradually transferred back 510 million yuan, leaving 300 million yuan unreturned.
Of that 300 million, part was in real estate, and Erniu's mom even wrote a note
saying that the real estate would belong to Xu Bo in the future, but Xu Bo said she hadn't sold the house.
In 2023, Erniu's mom came back from Japan, and they briefly reconciled.
According to Xu Bo, he even transferred another 5 million yuan to Erniu's mom.
But then another conflict arose, what was the conflict about?
Erniu's mom wanted to attend a luxury goods gala.
Xu Bo disagreed; back when he was anti-feminist,
he would always praise Erniu's mom online, saying she wasn't interested in other men
or in luxury goods consumption.
He said when he went to Hong Kong, he spent 100,000 yuan on clothes for himself, but she didn't buy anything.
Usually, she would buy clothes on Taobao, very frugally.
You can imagine he didn't accept Erniu's mom wanting to attend the luxury goods gala.
Erniu's mom, upset, then left home with her mother.
From then on, Xu Bo couldn't contact Erniu's mom anymore.
Later, Xu Bo sued Erniu's mom in court, demanding the return of 300 million yuan.
Claiming that Erniu's mom took the money and wouldn't return it, considering it a loan.
The court ultimately ruled against Xu Bo.
I looked at the judgment, and personally, I think the court's decision was quite reasonable.
Why? Because although Xu Bo said that he and Erniu's mom were just boyfriend and girlfriend,
not married,
the two had been living together for over a decade and had two children,
and also had 11 children through surrogacy,
essentially living as husband and wife, which constitutes a de facto marriage.
You can't just say you're boyfriend and girlfriend,
because Xu Bo signing these so-called boyfriend and girlfriend agreements,
including sperm donation agreements and the like, had only one purpose:
to avoid the financial risks that marriage could bring to him.
That is, if a woman marries you, she might claim a share of your money.
Xu Bo was unwilling, so he set up this complex legal process.
But what he didn't expect was that the court doesn't just look at the surface agreements,
but also at the actual reality of the relationship in daily life.
So the court ruled that Erniu's mom and Xu Bo were in a de facto marriage.
In my view, honestly, this lawsuit in China was already cheap,
If Xu Bo had this lawsuit in the U.S.,
I guess Erniu's mom could have taken tens of billions from him.
Over the years, Xu Bo has made so much money,
If it were ruled as a de facto marriage, she would get half of that money.
It could easily be over a hundred billion taken by Erniu's mom.
So when the Chinese court said, 'Forget about the 300 million, don’t pursue it,'
it was actually saving face for Xu Bo.
Because the court said, given Xu Bo's financial strength,
the 800 million given to her as part of living expenses was reasonable.
And what did Erniu's mom say in court?
She said it wasn't a loan, for a loan there should be a loan agreement, right?
But no, Erniu's mom didn’t have a job nor did she invest,
so why would Xu Bo lend her money?
Therefore, in these civil proceedings,
the court doesn’t just look at a promissory note to determine it's a loan.
It examines the true nature of the relationship.
So in the end, the court ruled against Xu Bo because he couldn’t prove the money was a loan.
Xu Bo was very angry, posting articles daily on Duoyi network saying,
"This thing has exhausted my last bit of faith in China’s judiciary."
Haha, many people laughed.
I laughed too; personally, I think Xu Bo really shouldn’t keep struggling with this.
After all, Erniu's mom lived with you for so many years.
She herself said that the 300 million wasn't her wish to spend.
Spread over a dozen children, each child would get about 20 million,
which for a family like this,
20 million isn’t much, right?
Moreover, after so many years together, you still have feelings for Erniu's mom.
Honestly, just let go of the 300 million, even if you no longer live together.
Erniu's mom is not Fang Zhouzi, right?
With Fang Zhouzi, we must retrieve the money to achieve social justice.
But Erniu's mom helped you have children, and you lived together.
I think you should turn a blind eye; just let the money go.
These are my personal thoughts on this matter, and I want to point out a few things after telling this story.
First, I think a society needs people like Xu Bo.
Why? Because only a market economy can produce such eccentrics.
Look, he's not highly educated,
but he's exceptionally talented in a certain area and ended up making a fortune.
Many people feel uneasy about how educated Xu Bo is
and how he could make so much money.
But it's precisely because of the market economy that such eccentrics emerge.
And it's because of these eccentrics, do you see,
that they play their roles in specific fields.
Like I said, in the process of debunking Fang Zhouzi,
if there wasn't a key figure like Xu Bo,
Fang Zhouzi's fraudulent group would never have been brought down.
Nor would it have led to the demise of Fang Zhouzi's cybercrime group.
I think this merit is incredible, precisely because of people like Xu Bo,
who are stubborn and don’t play by the rules.
In the end, look, he exposed such a scam, that's the first point.
Secondly, I think being wealthy,
you must realize that in society,
there are many things that money cannot solve.
This is also a sign of a healthy society.
For example, you might be able to find many girlfriends with money,
but you can't necessarily find kinship or genuine affection.
You might be able to surrogate many children with money,
but those children might not truly bond with you.
You might be able to buy many health products and medicines with money,
but you can't necessarily buy health.
We, as ordinary people in this world, whether rich or not,
might find that money cannot solve all the troubles we face in the world.
the troubles we face in the world.
We must get used to the fact that some things cannot be resolved with money,
like the story between Xu Bo and Erniu's mom.
In my view, this isn't a money issue; it's an emotional issue.
This emotional issue needs to be dealt with in ways beyond money,
whether for Xu Bo or anyone else.
I believe these are the insights I've gained from this story.
Okay, that's all I have for today.
Thank you, everyone.
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