Hidup Sukses Sesuai Caramu Sendiri | The Code Of The Extraordinary Mind

Summary

In this video, Michael from Si Kutu Buku reviews Vishen Lakhiani's book, 'The Code of the Extraordinary Mind.' The book explores how we can break free from societal rules and reprogram our minds to lead extraordinary lives. Michael highlights three key ideas: changing how we perceive reality, updating our mental 'software' to align with new beliefs, and living in a state of happiness through disciplined practices. He also shares tips for being grateful, balancing future goals with present happiness, and encourages viewers to subscribe and join the discussion.

Takeaways

• 💡 Our lives change when we change the reality in our minds, much like reprogramming a computer.
• 📚 The book 'The Code of the Extraordinary Mind' by Vishen Lakhiani offers a roadmap to break free from societal norms and create an extraordinary life.
• 🤔 Most people follow inherited rules without questioning them, even though these 'bullshit rules' may no longer be relevant or true.
• 🧠 We can rewrite the beliefs and systems in our minds, much like updating a computer’s hardware and software.
• 👀 To change your perspective, first become aware of the current 'reality' in your mind, and then consciously update it.
• 📱 Vishen explains that updating your life's system involves three steps: discovering new ideas, regularly refreshing your mindset, and measuring progress.
• 🔮 People with extraordinary mindsets create their own realities and find happiness both in the present and in their future visions.
• 😊 True happiness comes from living in the present while also working towards future goals, a balance not everyone achieves.
• 🙏 Gratitude and the 'reverse gap' exercise help people focus on past accomplishments, making them more content with their current life.
• 🎯 Living an extraordinary life involves being happy both in the present and in your envisioned future.

Q & A

What is the main theme of the book 'The Code of the Extraordinary Mind' by Vishen Lakhiani?

The main theme of the book is creating an extraordinary life by changing the mental 'code' or mindset. It involves questioning societal norms, challenging limiting beliefs, and rewriting personal realities.

What does Vishen Lakhiani mean by 'bullshit rules'?

Vishen uses the term 'bullshit rules' to describe societal rules and beliefs that people follow without questioning their validity. These rules are often outdated and limit personal growth, such as the belief that success requires following a traditional path.

How does Vishen compare the mind to a computer?

Vishen likens the mind to a computer, where the 'hardware' represents beliefs about the world, and the 'software' is the system through which we live our lives. He argues that we can update and reprogram both to create a better reality.

What is the first step in changing one's mindset, according to the book?

The first step in changing one's mindset is realizing that many of the beliefs and rules we live by are not absolute truths. Awareness of this allows us to see the world differently and create new possibilities for ourselves.

What personal example does Vishen give to illustrate changing his reality?

Vishen shares a story from his youth when he lacked self-confidence. After a positive comment from a beautiful girl at a party, he changed his self-perception, seeing himself as attractive, which altered his confidence and outlook.

What are the three stages Vishen describes for renewing the life system?

The three stages are: (1) Discover – finding new ideas or systems, (2) Refresh – regularly updating your mindset, and (3) Measure – evaluating the effectiveness of the new mindset or system.

What is the concept of 'blisspline' introduced by Vishen?

'Blisspline' is a combination of 'bliss' and 'discipline.' It refers to the practice of cultivating happiness through disciplined exercises, such as gratitude, to maintain a positive mindset.

What is the 'reverse gap exercise' and how does it help in achieving happiness?

The 'reverse gap exercise' involves reflecting on past accomplishments instead of focusing on future goals. By appreciating how far you’ve come, you cultivate gratitude, which enhances happiness in the present moment.

How do people with extraordinary mindsets approach happiness and the future?

People with extraordinary mindsets balance having a vision for the future with being happy in the present. Their happiness isn't contingent on achieving future goals; instead, they find joy in the process and current state of life.

What does Vishen consider the key to living an extraordinary life?

The key to living an extraordinary life is being able to find happiness both in the present and in your future vision. If someone can enjoy both realities, they can experience a truly extraordinary life.