How To Handle Rude People?: Part 8: BK Shivani
Summary
TLDRThe speaker emphasizes the importance of self-compassion and how it reflects in interactions with others. They discuss how people’s thoughts and behaviors are shaped by their personal energies and emotions, encouraging listeners to focus on positive thinking and compassion. The key takeaway is that while feedback is important, one should not absorb the negative energy that may accompany it. Through meditation and affirmations, individuals can protect their emotional well-being, offering blessings to others and transforming their own mindset. The idea is that change begins within and radiates outward.
Takeaways
- 😊 Be kind to yourself first, as self-compassion enables you to be kind to others.
- 🤔 People react differently based on their emotional states and vibrations. Accept their responses without judgment.
- 🧠 Take feedback but don’t internalize negative energy that may come with it. Focus on the message, not the criticism.
- ❤️ Show compassion for those who behave poorly. They may be going through emotional struggles.
- 💬 Meditation helps build resilience against others' negative energies and behavior.
- 🌸 Change how you think and speak about people to shift your interactions positively.
- ✨ Bless and affirm positivity in others; it can transform your perception and relationship with them.
- 🐾 Even animals respond differently depending on the emotions and energy of the people around them.
- 🔄 You may not be able to change others, but by changing how you think and respond, you change yourself.
- 🌼 Giving positive energy and blessings can impact others, even if not immediately visible.
Q & A
What is the main message conveyed by the speaker in the transcript?
-The speaker emphasizes the importance of maintaining positive thoughts about oneself and others. They stress that we should take feedback but not internalize negative energy and that our affirmations and blessings can positively affect our own energy and the people around us.
Why does the speaker believe it's important to think positively about oneself?
-The speaker believes that thinking positively about oneself is essential because only when we feel good about ourselves can we genuinely think positively about others. This mindset creates a ripple effect of positivity and compassion.
How does the speaker suggest we handle feedback from others?
-The speaker suggests that while we should take feedback from others, we should avoid absorbing the negative energy that might come with it. They emphasize separating the constructive criticism from the emotional tone or energy of the feedback.
What does the speaker mean by 'energy of criticism'?
-The 'energy of criticism' refers to the emotional weight or negativity that can accompany criticism, such as feelings of judgment or disrespect. The speaker advises that we should avoid internalizing this negative energy, as it can prevent us from effectively implementing the feedback.
What is the role of compassion in the speaker's message?
-Compassion plays a central role in the speaker's message. They advocate for having compassion for others, especially those who may be acting out due to their own emotional struggles. The speaker urges understanding rather than getting upset with people who may be emotionally unwell.
How does the speaker compare emotional well-being to physical illness?
-The speaker compares emotional struggles to physical illness, suggesting that just as we show understanding and care for someone physically unwell, we should also be compassionate toward those experiencing emotional distress or imbalance.
What does the speaker mean by creating affirmations for others?
-The speaker encourages creating positive affirmations for others, especially those who may not be radiating positive energy. By mentally affirming positive traits and sending blessings, we can change how we perceive and interact with them.
How can meditation help in dealing with negative behaviors from others?
-Meditation, according to the speaker, helps individuals stay centered and unaffected by the negative behaviors or energies of others. It provides the inner strength to maintain personal peace and positivity while interacting with people who may have lower vibrations.
What is the impact of consistently blessing others, according to the speaker?
-The speaker believes that consistently blessing others can change not only the person sending the blessings but can also positively influence the person receiving them. They compare it to how positive vibrations can affect even inanimate objects like flowers.
Why does the speaker believe that the behavior of pets is influenced by their owners?
-The speaker suggests that pets, like humans, are influenced by the energy and emotions of the people around them. They argue that a pet's behavior can vary depending on the household, reflecting the minds and emotional states of the people they live with.
Outlines
🧘♀️ Embracing Compassion and Understanding
This paragraph emphasizes the importance of maintaining self-compassion and thinking positively about oneself and others. It explains how people's behaviors and thoughts are shaped by their emotional states and vibrations. The speaker encourages taking feedback without internalizing negative energy and highlights the difference between criticism and compassionate feedback. The key takeaway is to approach others with love and understanding, recognizing their emotional challenges rather than reacting negatively.
🌸 The Power of Affirmations and Blessings
This section focuses on the power of affirmations and blessings, especially in changing our perceptions of others. The speaker encourages replacing negative thoughts and words with positive affirmations, even for those who may not treat us well. It suggests that by viewing others as pure and powerful souls, we transform ourselves, and our blessings can influence those around us. The paragraph highlights the emotional sensitivity of even pets, implying that human energy and thoughts significantly impact interactions and relationships.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Compassion
💡Affirmations
💡Feedback
💡Vibrations
💡Meditation
💡Energy of Criticism
💡Emotional Well-being
💡Blessings
💡White Aura
💡Emotional Tantrums
Highlights
Self-compassion is the foundation for being able to think positively about others.
People's actions depend on their vibrations and state of mind, and we should approach them with love and compassion.
We should take feedback constructively without absorbing the negative energy that might come with it.
Criticism can prevent us from implementing feedback effectively if we absorb the negative energy.
Emotional behavior from others is often a sign that they are not well, and we should respond with empathy.
Meditation helps us take care of ourselves and stay unaffected by others' behaviors.
Creating affirmations for others and blessing them can help maintain a positive attitude towards them.
Compassion should be extended not only to the visibly needy but also to those experiencing emotional pain.
Positive thinking and affirmations can change our own perception and behavior, even if it doesn't change the other person.
Blessings and positive thoughts can have an effect on people, even if it's not immediately apparent.
Our belief in someone's inability to change can hinder any potential progress.
Experimenting with positive affirmations and blessings can produce positive changes in relationships.
Pets respond differently in different households based on the emotional environment of the house.
The environment we create with our thoughts and energy has a direct impact on those around us.
Approaching others with positive affirmations and love can lead to changes in both them and ourselves.
Transcripts
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is your choice I only need one person to
think nice about me that's it because
when I think nice about me only then I'm
able to think nice about other people so
some people will genuinely create
happiness and good wishes for you
some people will create different
thoughts but come and say nice things to
you some people will not think nice and
not speak nice but that's okay it all
depends on where they are in their
vibrations their mind I can only read it
I can only read it my love and
compassion to them so when we go back
from here one thing we are going to take
care of what we think about them and
second thing we are going to do is
delete that I don't care about what
people think about me I take feedback
it's not that we don't take feedback we
take feedback but we don't take the
energy which is coming with the feedback
your senior has something very very
important to say to you it's genuine
feedback but that feedback can come with
their son's car of criticism I was a
tanner and someone can give a feedback
with a son's car of compassion depends
on the person so what will I do I will
take the feedback and say okay yes this
is what I need to do the energy of
criticism but if I consume the energy of
criticism I am NOT able to even
implement the feedback after that
because now I'm in pain I'm hurt I'm
insulted I'm disrespected please see
people around you going through their
own emotional and have compassion and
love for them understand them if someone
is behaving in the little disturbed
manner they are not well and we are not
going to get upset with somebody who's
not well when some was not well
physically
and they throw tantrums at home what
does everybody say to each other
what does everybody say to each other at
home whoever I think I heard the bit
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I say when emotionally somebody throws a
tantrum the tickling the giant eater
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meditation means Jong Hyun means take
care take care of yourself and take care
of others meditation is not something
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who's not been radiating very good
behavior to you before we leave from
here tomorrow day after
change what you are thinking about them
change what you are thinking about them
change what you are speaking about them
meditation gives us the power that we
can be with people live with people but
not get touched with their energies and
their behaviors because we have started
taking care of ourselves and like we
create an affirmation for ourselves we
will also create an affirmation from
them immediately immediately create an
affirmation for them and bless them then
you can be throughout the day with
everyone and come home in the evening
with come on the evening with white aura
compassion for everyone
compassion is not for only somebody you
see on the road who's physically not
well somebody doesn't have money I'm a
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compassionate that compassion is needed
for watches into thick thinning too
thick they may had compassion for that
this person must be in so much pain to
talk like this
how long we will give good wishes to
them why the man is not going to change
why would anyone like to correct the
affirmation anyone wants to correct
there are you seen this is our
vocabulary it's not just his vocabulary
this is our vocabulary anyone would like
to change their formation the man is not
going to change affirmation they've
always been like that they will always
be like this these are the conversations
which happened near the coffee machine
and this is what we are going to change
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they are bickering it yeah but I here
many positive thinking yeah so changes
he's a good boss
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these are blessings about become
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you're a wonderful person because they
are a wonderful person
each one is a pure powerful peaceful
love full soul this works not possible
what is not possible he's not going to
change
he won't change because that's what you
believe but one person will definitely
change when you keep saying this you
yourself but when you look at them and
you say pure soul beautiful person
blessed with so many wonderful qualities
right
then who will change you will change and
when you give so many blessings to the
other person you don't think your
blessings have any effect on people you
don't think your blessings have effect
on people huh not yet worked you did it
for somebody I've tried I've tried
anyone here who's tried your sister
please have a look
tried and it worked this is pure science
but science can be proved after your
experiment but if you say it will not
work you don't experiment even if you
just take a flower and give vibrations
it can either go like this or become
like this so what the human being--a why
will it not work how many of you have
pets at home and do you feel pets have
feelings and emotions and do you feel
that same dog is different in different
houses why is that same breed different
in different houses because of the
because of the minds of the people in
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