HOW MOMMY ALMOST GOT ARRESTED!

Summary

In this vlog, the creator addresses a sudden drop in viewer approval ratings, reflecting on a potentially insensitive joke about homelessness. They apologize for any offense caused and share personal experiences with financial struggles. The video continues with family moments, including a meeting at Maker Studios, a humorous misunderstanding with the police, and a shopping trip that almost led to an arrest. It concludes with a discussion on the impact of social media and the importance of empathy, wrapped up in the creator's candid and personal storytelling style.

Takeaways

• 😟 The vlogger expresses concern about the current vlog receiving more thumbs down than usual, with likes dropping below the usual 99.2% average.
• 🤔 He reflects on the possibility that the negativity might be due to a sign featured in the previous vlog, which could have been insensitive to people who have faced homelessness.
• 🙏 He apologizes for the sign and acknowledges that his actions might have been hurtful to those struggling with homelessness or difficult times, emphasizing his past financial struggles.
• 👶 The vlogger transitions to family life, discussing a meeting at Maker Studios with his child, and shares moments of his baby needing shots and other family-related activities.
• 😳 The vlogger shares a story about almost being mistaken for a beggar while feeding his child, and how the police confronted him due to a scam involving mothers with children asking for money.
• 😲 He expresses surprise and confusion about the scam, realizing that some people might be exploiting children to receive money, which makes him question the intentions of those asking for help.
• 🏡 The family focuses on cleaning and organizing their home, preparing for Princess Tard's birthday and receiving gifts from family members.
• 🎁 The family enjoys opening presents, and the vlogger emphasizes the importance of keeping their house clean, making it a better environment for the kids.
• 👗 Princess Tard receives a new dress as a birthday gift, and the family spends time shopping for more gifts for her and other children, celebrating the upcoming birthday.
• 😌 The vlogger reflects on the irony of being mistaken for a beggar shortly after the controversial sign incident, deepening his understanding of how insensitive his actions might have been.

Q & A

What caused the vlog creator to feel concerned about the thumbs-down ratings?

The vlog creator noticed that their video had a lower approval rating than usual, dropping to 97.6%, compared to their usual average of 99.2%. This caused them concern as it indicated viewers were not responding well to the content.

What does the creator suspect caused the negative reactions in the vlog?

The creator believes the negative reactions were likely due to a segment in a previous vlog where Princess held a sign related to homelessness, which might have been perceived as insensitive.

How does the creator reflect on their behavior after receiving the criticism?

The creator expresses regret and introspection, acknowledging that their actions might have been insensitive and apologizing to anyone who may have been hurt, particularly those who have experienced homelessness.

What personal experiences does the creator reference to relate to viewers who may have struggled financially?

The creator shares that there were times early in their marriage when they had to choose between paying rent and buying food, indicating they understand the stress and fear of financial hardship.

What incident involving the creator's wife is mentioned in the vlog?

The creator's wife almost got mistaken for a homeless person by a police officer after giving money to a woman with a child outside a store. The officer initially thought she was part of a scam where people use children to get money.

How does the creator’s wife feel about the incident with the police officer?

Although initially shocked, the creator’s wife felt uneasy and concerned about the possibility of being wrongly accused, especially since the officer mentioned that there are scams involving children.

What lesson does the creator take from the situation involving their wife and the police officer?

The creator reflects on the irony of the situation, feeling more empathetic towards people in difficult situations and recognizing that their previous joke about homelessness was insensitive.

What activities do the creator and their child engage in during the vlog?

The creator and their child go to Maker Studios for a meeting, spin on chairs for fun, and later visit a grocery store. They also interact with the child about getting shots at the doctor.

How does the creator describe their feelings about parenting and their own messiness?

The creator humorously admits to being a hypocrite when it comes to keeping rooms clean, noting that while they tell their kids to clean their rooms, their own room is often the messiest.

What does the creator encourage viewers to do in the outro of the vlog?

The creator encourages viewers to look back at past videos to find instances where they may have made mistakes or said something inappropriate, acknowledging that they are not perfect.

Outlines

00:00

📉 Vlog Backlash and Apology

The speaker discusses the negative reactions to their recent vlogs, which typically receive a high percentage of likes but are currently facing a significant number of dislikes. They speculate that this backlash is due to a previous video where they made light of a sign related to homelessness. The speaker introspects, admitting a possible insensitivity and apologizes to anyone who may have been offended, especially those who have experienced homelessness or financial hardship. They share personal experiences of financial stress and emphasize the importance of empathy and understanding.

05:02

👮‍♂️ Misunderstanding with the Police

The speaker recounts an embarrassing incident where they were mistaken for a homeless person soliciting money while feeding their baby. A police officer approached them, thinking they were breaking the law by asking for money. The speaker clarifies the misunderstanding and shares a story about a scam involving people posing as homeless mothers with children to collect money. They express sympathy for those who might be exploited in such scams and reflect on the challenges of living on the streets.

10:04

🎁 Birthday Preparations and Family Moments

The video captures the family preparing for a birthday celebration. The speaker's child is excited about a gift from their grandmother, which includes a dress and other items. The family cleans the house, with a focus on maintaining a clean environment. There's a playful interaction where the children are involved in opening the gift and discussing its contents. The speaker also mentions a Star Wars video they collaborated on with friends and encourages viewers to watch it.

15:05

👶 Sensitivity and Family Dynamics

The speaker and their child have a conversation about a previous incident involving a homeless sign that some viewers found offensive. They discuss the potential impact of such actions on homeless individuals and the importance of being considerate. The child shows empathy and understanding, and the speaker reflects on their own actions, acknowledging the possibility of causing offense and expressing regret. The family also prepares for another child's birthday, discussing gift ideas and the importance of keeping their room clean.

20:05

🛍️ Shopping and Reflecting on Past Actions

The family goes shopping for a birthday present, and the speaker reflects on a recent incident where they were accused of begging for money, similar to the sign incident they previously made light of. They express discomfort with the irony of the situation and apologize for their insensitivity. The speaker also encourages viewers to find instances of their past insensitivity in their videos, acknowledging the possibility of having made mistakes. They end on a light note, mentioning a Star Wars video and looking forward to future content.

Keywords

💡Vlog

A vlog is a type of blog that features video content instead of written text. In this script, the speaker refers to the daily video blogs they post, tracking their life and experiences. The vlogs are central to their connection with their audience, who react through likes, dislikes, and comments.

💡Homelessness

Homelessness is a state in which individuals lack stable housing. The speaker reflects on their vlog content where they used a sign related to homelessness, leading to backlash. They express regret, realizing that the joke could be seen as insensitive to people who have struggled with housing insecurity.

💡Likes and dislikes

Likes and dislikes refer to the feedback mechanism on platforms like YouTube, where users can express their approval or disapproval of content. The speaker monitors the ratio of likes to dislikes, indicating concern when a vlog receives more negative feedback than usual. In this video, they reflect on the lower-than-average approval rating and its potential cause.

💡Introspection

Introspection involves reflecting on one's actions, thoughts, or feelings. The speaker discusses how they needed to be introspective about their actions in the vlog, particularly around the homeless sign incident, questioning if their behavior was insensitive and taking responsibility for their actions.

💡Apology

An apology is an expression of regret for wrongdoing. The speaker issues an apology for the homeless sign incident, acknowledging that their actions may have offended viewers, particularly those who have experienced hardship. This apology is a way to make amends with their audience and demonstrate accountability.

💡Parenting

Parenting refers to the act of raising and caring for children. The speaker discusses various aspects of their family life, from attending meetings with their child to managing household chores. Parenting is a significant theme, with the speaker frequently referencing their children’s needs and the responsibilities they balance while vlogging.

💡Cultural sensitivity

Cultural sensitivity is the awareness and respect for different cultural norms and experiences. The speaker reflects on whether their joke involving a homeless sign lacked sensitivity, especially for people who have suffered from financial instability. They reconsider their behavior to avoid offending vulnerable populations.

💡Money stress

Money stress refers to the anxiety caused by financial struggles. The speaker recounts past experiences of financial hardship, such as not being able to afford groceries, to show empathy for people who might have been offended by their joke about homelessness. They acknowledge how money stress can be terrifying and relate this to their audience.

💡Empathy

Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of others. The speaker tries to empathize with those who may have been hurt by their vlog, particularly individuals who have experienced homelessness or financial distress. This empathy drives the speaker's introspection and apology.

💡Scam

A scam is a fraudulent scheme intended to deceive people, often for financial gain. In the story shared by the speaker, they describe encountering a scam where individuals pretended to be in need, using children to garner sympathy and money. This situation is used to illustrate the speaker's evolving understanding of people’s struggles and how appearances can be deceiving.

Highlights

The vlogs typically average a 99.2% like-to-dislike ratio, but today's vlog dropped to 97.6%, causing concern.

The creator reflects on whether showing a sign related to homelessness in a previous vlog was insensitive.

An apology is made to viewers, particularly those who have experienced homelessness or financial struggles, acknowledging the potential insensitivity.

The creator shares their own past financial hardships, including difficulties affording groceries and paying rent.

The creator revisits the importance of being introspective and considering the impact of content on the audience.

While at Maker Studios for a meeting, the creator discusses bringing their child along, highlighting the benefits of working in a flexible environment.

A humorous moment occurs when the creator accidentally drops the camera and their child jokingly responds.

The creator shares a personal story about a misunderstanding with a police officer, who mistook them for someone asking for money.

The police informed the creator of scams involving mothers and children being used to ask for money.

The creator reflects on giving money to a woman with children outside a store, only to later learn it might have been part of a scam.

A relatable moment where the creator shares how their household often struggles with keeping rooms clean, despite asking their children to maintain cleanliness.

A package arrives for Princess Tart's birthday, leading to excitement about opening gifts and family bonding.

The creator discusses buying gifts and spending time with their children, highlighting moments of parental affection and fun.

The creator mentions their involvement in a new Star Wars video collaboration with friends, promoting the content.

In the final reflection, the creator acknowledges the irony of almost being mistaken for someone begging after the previous day's controversial sign incident.

Transcripts

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you guys are mad at me today's vlogs

getting a lot of thumbs down our vlogs

usually average ninety nine point two so

anything above ninety nine point two I'm

always like that's usually the average

per vlog that's like the percentage of

likes two dislikes so to you know ninety

ninety two you see them all they're all

above ninety nine point two to see

today's already at ninety seven point

six I'm in trouble and my initial

reaction is to be like come on I wasn't

like purposely trying to like make

homeless people feel bad I'm talking

about I would I think what I must sue me

and I almost positive that the negative

thumbs down or because of the sign

yesterday when we saw the sign I wish I

would have never seen that sign and I

know a majority of you are like Shay

it's not a big deal but you know

sometimes I have to be introspective and

cuz I tell you guys to do that and I

think to myself well was that

insensitive maybe maybe I shouldn't have

done that maybe I should have thought

about that before I had princess hard

hold the sign and take a picture because

I guess to some people that you know are

less fortunate or who have sincerely

suffered there are probably some of you

right now watching this video who have

maybe a Vick she notices pending and

maybe there's some of you who have

suffered with that in the past or who

you know lost a job or who had to

actually go to like a home or something

like that so I just I want to be

introspective and think to myself

instead of like getting all defensive

and being like well you guys come on

don't take everything so seriously you

know maybe I shouldn't have done that

and I apologize if there are any people

out there who have been homeless or who

are worried about that happening to them

or who have just gone through some hard

times I know I have gone through some

hard times I have told you guys that you

know our history if you've been watching

our videos there were months early in

our relationship where we couldn't buy

groceries where it was whether we're

gonna pay our rent or buy food for

ourselves and so I know how that feels

it's a terrifying horrible feeling

there's nothing worse than money

stresses believe me I know I've been

there whether you believe that or not so

I do want to apologize you know for that

yesterday and you know in hindsight you

know I think to myself and like all and

probably was

kind of insensitive you know I was I

just saw the sign and I was vlogging it

and I thought it was interesting to see

that and then I thought it'd be cute or

funny to have princess heart hold the

sign and I was wrong and I'm sorry I

apologize if I offended anybody by that

I'm really I'm sorry

okay so we're here at maker studios

we're gonna go in and have a meeting all

right rock tizzle oh I dropped the

camera say don't be such a butterfingers

dad they don't be such a butterfingers

dad what are you having your mouth

don't put that necklace that's yucky all

right come on you want to go to have a

big important meeting okay let's go

business man I'm sorry he doesn't know

what's about to hit him but yeah you got

to get shots a lot when you're a baby

like every two months like yeah there's

a lot of shots I'm sorry

oh he's so sweet he has no idea all

right

don't hate me okay I love you I really

do it's for your own good it is I

promise

we did it he's asleep

he was not happy I just fed him right

away and he's okay oh are you guys oh

look at the head chair

that's a cool chair look at the back of

that what is that it's like really okay

ready want to get sick and throw up how

fast can you get going I'm pretty fast

in those scares all right there are

makers studios for an important meeting

what's my 3 year old that's a good thing

about when I'm part of the company so

you can just bring your kid to work

nobody can tell you not to come on a

rock chart huh you can come to all my

meetings first let's get your really

dizzy so you can throw up on the

conference table

what do you think about this Rio I think

that I'm spinning you you're so

demanding

that's it you're gonna wish you never

asked to be started no nothing to see

here

just keep moving I'm spinning you broke

I thought that was fast

all right ready I'm tired sure I just

had the craziest thing happened to me

this has never happened to me before

bro tarde and I'd finished with his

appointment we went to the grocery store

I'm going in the word for store there's

this lady standing there with a baby

it's probably about his age and a little

maybe 3 4 year old and she's you know

standing there with a sign that needing

money so of course I give her some money

and I go in the grocery store I go you

know get my groceries whatever and I

come out she's gone but I'm standing

there kind of where she was feeding bro

like a little baby food thing

before I go into the t.j.maxx store to

buy Cecily a birthday present well

anyway so I'm standing there feeding the

baby and this cop I know it's a horrible

story I gotta tell him though okay I

know don't be embarrassed he comes up on

his motorcycle and he's like hey come

here I'm like yeah he goes

what are you doing oh uh throw it always

the baby food stuff in the garbage can

eating my baby and he goes get some

money and I go yeah cuz I thought he

said do you have some money and he said

were you asking for money but I was like

yeah and he goes okay ma'am that's

against the law and I'm just like what

I'm like no no no I wasn't asking for

money I I was

anyways it was this homeless thing and

he thought that I was the lady with the

kids okay I have to finish the story

later because broach art obviously is

embarrassed he doesn't want me to tell

you okay won't tell him okay I'll tell

you guys later

what is that why do you have it

it's a pretty polka-dotted low stats so

to finish my story apparently there is

this group of people that are using moms

and babies and children as a ploy like

not they're not using them but they are

they're posing as them to get money and

I asked the cop and Michael are visit

their kids and he's like they don't even

know if it's the person that's standing

there if they even own the children or

if they're like using them somehow from

but take care or something they don't

even know so anyways it's this big scam

and I gave them money I told him I can

actually gave her money but I didn't I

wasn't asking for money he thought I was

scary right scary I almost got picked up

by the cops

does that mean it means I almost went to

jail cuz I'm crazy you know cuz he

thought I was somebody else not as cool

of a story okay so joining in

Oh

check it out we got the bathroom clean

thirsty buddy you thirsty so happy looks

great I'm just gonna finish a vacuuming

our bedroom and that way we can live in

a nice house I'm not living at rat hole

good that's nice I gotta find the place

put my YouTube buttons over my play

buttons let's gonna be home in a second

and I think the package just came in the

mail for princess tarts birthday you

don't drink good okay bad I think I

heard her come home are you guys home

come up here oh it's cool

where'd you guys go just played after

school we stayed after school did you

get in trouble just to stay after school

cuz you're in trouble

no just for fun oh I want some of that

why did you get almost picked up by the

cops oh I don't care what you do where

did your mommy do what you do no really

I told them the story all right oh never

mind no I don't need to know I'll see it

later when I edit this almost coffin

your kiss all right it is somebody's

birthday coming up pretty soon

I'm gonna send it to Grandma you

guys see the room it's clean we're gonna

keep it that way we promise you know how

we're always yelling you guys keep your

rooms clean and our how our rooms the

dirtiest room in the house I always feel

guilty about that I'm like get your own

plane and I come in here on my arm

I'm such a mess hypocrite much parenting

it's for juillet that's a French word

that means valuable no it's for juillet

it's a French word that means a

it's pretty late

it's fragile a rundown will open this

while you're running downstairs

come on Aurora wait for you to open this

it's gonna take a long time we'll get

we'll get it started

what Brideshead things are okay now that

she's gone the box

pink rock-hard open it what if we just

cut the tape so it's easier for when she

comes upstairs

wow that's cool right all right open it

buddy okay by the time he's done open it

he's like really all right you see him

look at you first like serious mom are

you you can help help help cut the tape

so that well maybe we should wait I

don't know I would sure just wait what

is fragile I mean they say it's French

for very valuable okay it actually means

don't slap the box I think what it means

by sharks will you beat your younger

brother for me you have three sons you

realize that you have three sons my

three sons I think somebody needs a

helicopter you want a helicopter you

think Dax is ready to get a helicopter

oh he got so hot he did you vlog it know

before and after I didn't look at the

crying oh I'm hugging you it's not baby

okay we're on a helicopter

let's do helicopter all right you ready

helicopter commence the helicopter

three two one okay open it up what is

that this is from your grandma Laurie so

big hug another box just what you always

wanted Oh looks like a drawer you can

put some salt clothes in there later one

of those thingies that you wanted

there's a paper it's a dress do you like

it the whole outfit you are the glasses

the ladybug purrs let me see it since

her hold that dress up hold the dress up

let's see that is so sassy you looking

where that's like that's like a Sunday

dress where this got to brunch do a few

business deals you like it tell grandma

thank you thank you so much what do you

eat hummus is a hummus do you love it

yeah I think you're soaked - you do a 5

- slow dude so oh you got it you got it

you got me give me a minute

goodbye well huh give it whoa hey what

what watch out watch out hey strike the

Empire Empire Strikes Back heard that

one before no but you've never seen it

loser speaking of Star Wars my buddy

Corey Vidal and my other buddy Craig

wheezy waiter benzine me and him and

then we just made a new Star Wars video

I'll leave a link below it's really good

what are you doing

you like the song sing it for me bro oh

do I just retell it alright so mommy

target is trying to tell me the story

and did you well I asked her I said so

you blogged about this she was I think I

did so but I can't remember if I told

every single part of the story that I

just wanted you so tell us the full

story nothing but the story in all the

story so help you baby

there was a lady with the baby and a

four year old three year old child with

her and I felt bad so I gave her money

and then I went into the store and I was

shopping in the toy wait did you give

her money because people are mad at us

for me making that joke with about the

homeless sign yesterday no you guys

collect gives money to people all the

time she gave a lady three hundred

dollars the other day which I shouldn't

brag about because I know now like those

blessings have just been taken away

anyways come here you're a very

considerate thoughtful young man so did

you see that sign yesterday yeah some

people in the vlog comments are saying

that was really inconsiderate of me to

have princess start hold that sign up do

you think that was like inconsiderate to

homeless people for me to do that well

it might be to some people but in my

opinion I don't think so but because I

mean there's holding up a sign but it

might be offensive to other people so

could it be offensive to maybe people

who don't yeah I think you're right if

you were homeless it would probably

offend you you think I I don't really

care

you don't do you think people should

care about that henna stuff I mean it's

just a little thing it doesn't really

matter but but some people turn little

things into big things

do you think I was trying to hurt

somebody's feelings by doing them oh

you're trying to be funny yeah sometimes

I'm not very funny huh

but don't admit that anyway so glad

almost got arrested because the cop

thought that she was the lady trying to

get money and it was a scam the cop says

and we there was a couple the other day

at a target that had two little kids and

we gave him a ton of money because we're

like oh my gosh people there with kids

and I wondered I wanted it I wanted to

like hide up a stakeout like I want to

watch these people like are those really

their kids did they like just get these

kids off the street but the cops thought

it was a scam so what else did he say he

said you don't get my money and I was

like oh my dude but I don't feel bad

yeah cuz I feel I mean it worked for

them didn't it okay you got money I got

money

hopefully she uses it to help her

children anyways we love everybody I

love the faces you look you make I go

let all my camera like oh my God thank

you

thank you let's see what these Yahoo's

are doing what what what is that what

what is that

I mess it up no he didn't who's she the

finger of scorn is being pointed at the

birthday girl what did you do what's up

huh are you texting grandma oh cool

what's that red where's lunch Shazam I

use em in songs you Texan grandmother

I just tried to sing hey what are you

setting up right here baby target 20

what tell me oh no maybe then he get for

her for her birthday

oh so you got in trouble for getting

into her private stuff busted all right

yeah it's straighten up the room we're

right keep it clean okay

now we're going to Claire's it's

Kaylee's birthday this weekend and it's

also princess print that's hard this way

it's also her birthday this weekend

let's see it oh she's wearing her new

beautiful dress

good grandma gave us she's so excited

we're trying to find a present for

Kayleigh and we are what else are we

doing here good its lair because it's

the girl's day the crazy girls day hey

girl hey why'd you pound I thought this

for my friend

what did you find for you Stella

it's so glamorous in here I can't stand

it hi are you finding stuff down clip-on

earrings so I got you two pairs

Oh how many if you get one packet how

much is there free buy two get one free

and these are support okay are we happy

ladies

they're beautiful okay you got these

little Eiffel Towers that what those are

my girl Kaitlyn's dad's put his own

adopted you have to model them hey Lucy

okay ready like out mohawk okay you

don't make you sweet mohawk are you

ready okay ready oh you ready see ya

let me see look at daddy okay here's my

foot ready and up again you like it it

looks so cool what are you doing sickle

in it see a circle in it okay baby turns

doing something special all right let me

see turn your head that way okay down my

foot you ready okay look at it you like

it go to bed that's enough alright

goodnight I love you guys see you

tomorrow

what about go to bed we're gonna go to

bed right now boy get in bed see in the

morning the good night so I think that's

pretty ironic that that happened to Cole

at the very next day after the sign

thing happened you know makes me feel I

can definitely relate now I feel like

you know you don't know if God gives you

those experiences or if it's just life

or whatever but like just the feeling of

thinking that a cop was accusing my wife

of like begging for money it made me

feel a little bit uneasy and so then to

like compare that to me holding that

sign up and kind of making fun of people

who have to really actually do that it

really brings into perspective so I

really do

so bad and I'm sorry about that is that

you know I definitely it was just

insensitive I wasn't thinking about my

action they definitely think I'm gonna

get this sign and make homeless people

feel like crap because you know what

homeless people need to feel like more

crap anyways I think it was just pretty

ironic did that happen today after it

was ironic and it was very interesting

but everything's cool I'm not in jail so

that's good wish you were sometimes then

I can give you a conjugal visit click on

yesterday's vlog my life's full of them

just watch my videos speaking of which

let's see what I was saying

inappropriately one two three four and

five years ago guarantee you'll find one

in every day seriously I want you to do

that I'm going to go through the last

five years and find one thing that I did

or said that I should have probably

thought through before I did okay I'm

sure you'll find plenty of instances

where shaycarl is an idiot it's not hard

to find them they're all over the

internet for everybody to see all right

click on the film lucky but you guys

that's the Star Wars video it is corey

vitals dream video i think he could

probably die now because he's so happy

about this video and a lot of people

work

oh yeah it's amazing it's amazing click

on the feeling lucky button and we'll

see you guys tomorrow bye bye