2024 Dating Meta
Summary
TLDRThe script offers a humorous guide to dating in 2024, tailored to different age groups. It humorously covers where to meet people, from school and work to clubs and niche hobbies, and provides a candid take on dating apps. It critiques popular apps like Hinge, Tinder, and Bumble, and offers advice on improving appearance and personality for dating success. The speaker also humorously discusses 'dating meta' traits that can help or hinder one's dating prospects and concludes with practical dating tips, emphasizing self-love and focusing on personal goals.
Takeaways
- 🎉 Dating spots change based on age: from schools and part-time jobs (18-20) to bars and clubs (21-24) and finally more adult settings like gyms, jobs, and lounges (25-30).
- 📱 Dating apps are a common option when other methods fail, with Hinge being highlighted as the best option for building relationships.
- 🔄 Tinder is mostly seen as a platform for hookups and catfishing, with fewer serious relationship opportunities in certain areas.
- 💸 Bumble has become more paywall-heavy, reducing the value of its original concept of women making the first move.
- 💪 To stand out on dating apps, users should focus on key traits such as height, fitness, facial features, fashion, and hairstyle.
- 🙋♂️ Personality is crucial for long-term relationships, but looks often open the door. Striking a balance between the two is important.
- 🏋️♀️ Physical improvement through working out or changing your style can help boost confidence and success in dating.
- ❌ Lying about height, kids, or other important personal details is considered a red flag in dating.
- 🛑 Don't send money to anyone you're dating online, as it can easily be a scam or manipulation tactic.
- 💡 It's important to prioritize self-love and focus on personal goals rather than relying solely on romantic relationships for happiness.
Q & A
What are some recommended places to meet people for those aged 18-20?
-For those aged 18-20, the recommended places include 18+ events, school, part-time jobs, and parties.
How about for the age group 21-24, where should they look for potential dates?
-For the age group 21-24, clubs, bars, university, grad school, libraries, and part-time jobs are suggested places to meet people.
What is considered the 'beginning of the end' in terms of dating and what are some places to meet people in that stage?
-The 'beginning of the end' refers to the age group 25-30, where people might be starting adult life. The suggested places include the ones mentioned for 21-24, but with an added focus on adult-oriented activities.
What is the speaker's opinion on using dating apps like Hinge?
-The speaker believes Hinge is the best dating app and has had success using it without paying for additional features, although they did experiment with the unlimited likes feature.
What is the general perception of Tinder according to the speaker?
-The speaker perceives Tinder as a popular app but more suited for hookups or catfishing, with limited chances for real love in their area.
What is the speaker's experience with the dating app Coffee Meets Bagel?
-The speaker found Coffee Meets Bagel to either be racist or not suitable for them personally, as it seemed to be filled with profiles of Asian girls who did not show interest in them.
How does the speaker feel about Bumble and its features?
-The speaker feels Bumble is an okay app but seems to be money-hungry and has features that are not user-friendly without payment, such as seeing who likes you or correcting accidental swipes.
What are some non-app-based ways to meet people suggested in the script?
-Non-app-based ways to meet people include going to the gym, church, grocery stores, libraries, Target, thrift stores, cafes, lounges, and participating in clubs or teams.
What are the 'Meta' qualities that can help someone stand out in the dating world according to the script?
-The 'Meta' qualities include height, looking fit, good face structure, great sense of fashion, nice hairstyle, and the ability to flex wealth.
What advice does the speaker give regarding first impressions on dating apps?
-The speaker advises focusing on the ability to attract someone with your profile picture before they even speak to you, as it holds a lot of weight in the initial interaction.
What is the speaker's final decision regarding dating apps as mentioned in the script?
-The speaker decides to delete dating apps and focus on personal goals and content creation, believing that romance will find them when they are not actively looking for it.
Outlines
💬 Navigating the Dating Scene in 2024
This section provides an age-based guide to dating in 2024, breaking it down into different life stages from ages 18 to 30. For those in the 18-20 range, options like school, part-time jobs, and events are recommended, while the 21-24 group can expand to clubs, bars, and university settings. The 25-30 group is navigating early adulthood, with some still exploring the dating scene while others shift priorities. Common locations to meet people include social gatherings, cafes, libraries, and gyms. The advice is universal: wherever you go, people are there—just be brave and face rejection with resilience.
📱 Navigating Dating Apps: From Hinge to Tinder
This section dives into the use of dating apps like Hinge, Tinder, Bumble, and Coffee Meets Bagel. The author shares personal experiences and strategies, such as using Hinge's paid features to accelerate the matching process, with a positive note on its potential for real relationships. Tinder is criticized for being more geared towards hookups and catfish profiles, while Bumble is seen as overly monetized and restrictive. The pros and cons of each platform are outlined, with a strong emphasis on understanding the current dating 'meta,' where height, fitness, and fashion help users stand out. Wealth can also help, but it’s a double-edged sword.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡dating apps
💡age groups
💡rejection
💡personality
💡physical traits
💡meta
💡gym
💡originality
💡texting
💡first impressions
💡cheating
Highlights
A guide to dating in 2024 based on age groups and where to meet people.
For ages 18-20, suggested places to meet people include school, part-time jobs, and parties.
Ages 21-24 can access clubs, bars, university, grad school, and libraries for socializing.
25-30 year-olds might find dating more challenging as they begin adult life.
Friend of a friend is suggested as a method for meeting potential partners.
Gyms, grocery stores, libraries, and cafes are classic places to meet people.
Clubs are not limited to nightlife; sports clubs and hobby groups are also effective.
Dating apps are a modern way to meet people, with Hinge being highlighted as one of the best.
Using unlimited likes on dating apps can speed up the matching process.
Tinder is popular but may have more hookups and catfishes compared to other apps.
Coffee Meets Bagel focuses on long-term relationships but may have racial biases.
Bumble requires payment for many features and emphasizes women making the first move.
Physical traits like height, fitness, and fashion sense are important in online dating.
Wealth can be attractive, but it's essential to balance it with other qualities.
Mental stability and decisiveness are less common but valuable traits in dating.
Personality is crucial for long-term relationships, but physical attraction opens doors.
Improving one's appearance can involve more than just going to the gym.
Understanding the 'meta' or dating trends can help individuals improve their chances.
Tips for effective dating include being respectful, honest, and prioritizing personal goals.
The importance of being oneself and not losing originality in the pursuit of dating.
The decision to delete dating apps and focus on personal growth and content creation.
Transcripts
dating in 2024 let's not waste time how
do you find the person where do I meet
people here's a guide based on your age
we got 18 through 20 so wherever you can
get in we got 18 plus events School your
part-time job parties when I was this
age I was striking out all the time so I
don't know we got 21 through 24 but
really all the clubs are unlocked we
have clubs bars University grad school
the library your part-time job maybe not
your full-time job this is my range and
all these places have worked very well
for me me some a little too well 25
through 30 aka the beginning of the end
starting that adult life and maybe
putting those thating days behind you
I'm sure 21 through 24 places should
work but if you just got your Masters
and you're more worried about incoming
freshman than your yearly income I have
someone I want you to meet now we have e
for everybody friend of a friend never
works out for me the gym watch out for
tripods your job I learned my lesson
Church Hit or Miss but we have some
Classics the grocery store the Library
Target thrift stores cafes lounges
Barnes and noals you get the point how
about clubs no not those clubs running
clubs softball teams Book Club Tennis
gaming yoga Pilates whatever wherever
you go there's girls and guys there I
promise just be brave and don't fear
Rejection it hurts it's going to happen
but you'll live no luck here time to
swallow your pride AKA dating apps my
stats here's my height build location
and other little details I added hinge
the the best and just for science I
bought the unlimited likes for $8 for 24
hours I sent out about like 200 likes in
one day and here are the results
relationships are possible here a huge
number of people are actually trying to
go on dates I dated a bunch of girls off
this app without having to pay for the
service at all all it really does is
just speed up the matching process with
that being said I don't know if I'd
recommend getting the plus but if you're
really thirsty you can realistically
swipe on a 100 people in one day then
you can really see who's desperate
deserving enough of your time Tinder
this is the most popular dating app and
a lot of people are on it but if you're
looking for hookups or catfishes look no
further because in my area this is a
meme so no real chance of love coffee
meets Bagel it's either racist or I'm
coping this app is based on long-term
relationships and well in my area it's a
bunch of Asian girls on that app and I
find beauty in all Races but they did
not find any beauty in me oh well Bumble
it's okay it's like a money hungry
watered down version of hinge everything
that we have on that app is behind a pay
wall their selling point used to be that
the girls make the first move looks like
woman empowerment doesn't keep the
lights on anymore however unlike on
hinge you can't even see the person that
likes you or even do much about it
without paying even things like swiping
left by accident is a mistake punishable
by payment so wrapping up hinge promotes
this kind of Engagement and Bumble
promotes this kind of Engagement here's
the meta guys you need the edge to stand
out so that means flex your good
qualities the biggest winners of The
Meta are super obvious if you can
combine two or more of these you can
really Excel and you're really higher on
this arbitrary list I made things like
height looking fit good face structure
and a great sense of fashion also a nice
hairstyle these are the most popular in
my area can you flex your wealth this is
also High tier but beware you could be
seen as a lick for those that date on
recruit mode girls they typically have
it easy because the external and
internal pressure for a man to find a
woman is generational so to be honest
many girls have few to many people to
choose from at a time and that won't
change for a long long time however
there are some exceptions some girls
don't like guys so they end up facing
the same issues guys face some girls are
introverted and they aren't around
people they find attractive or want to
date but if I must here are the winners
of the girl meta we
got natural body pretty face nice hair
nice eyes mentally unstable indecisive
pick me goth thick petite blonde fit
into cars Marvel anime cosplay natural
body or a DLC BBL pay to win body so
like basically any
for everybody lower tier are people with
only one nice quality like you just have
nice teeth or nice smile or nice hair or
fashion tattoos dadbod Etc these help
because they're Niche so it's very big
for some people you definitely can see
succcess but probably narrow your search
results lower on The Meta are people who
are on either side of the extreme in
terms of scale numbers or people with
faces that just um they grow on you I
don't make the rules and I'm not going
to sugar coat it but we all know people
who would fold for this and we
definitely know a lot of people who
would fold for this so someone's going
to fold for you but these are only
physical traits I can be her main
mechanic her number one source of
entertainment and her personal chef you
can't tell them about these major
accomplishments if you can't get past
the walkup phase that first interaction
SLP picture holds a lot of weight on the
app many people judge you off your first
picture before swiping you into the
abyss focus on the ability to attract
someone without yet speaking to them
then that personality will see steal the
deal would you ever date someone you
find unattractive because they have a
glowing personality if so congrats
you're better than me but I think we
deserve both a balance of the two we all
like or fetishize different shapes and
sizes so I'm sure you're someone's type
looks is what opens the door but if
what's inside is weak or lackluster no
one's going to stick around so yes of
course personality is crucial long term
you want to improve your look the gym is
the most effective but not the only
route take some time and think of a new
way to switch it up maybe shop at a
different place a new hair style or
cologne or put yourself in different
spaces with like-minded individuals or
get the hype surgery my type out of
These Fine women well I would have to
say wait wait wait if all of us uh if I
follow this won't I lose originality
this is not a checklist this is a
baseline you don't have to follow it but
I do say you should understand it just
because you possess all these things
does not confirm you're instantly going
to find someone it just improves your
chances and if you have none of these
things it does not mean you'll be
forever lonely plenty of times Trends
are rocked or changed maybe you'll be
the one to do it there's once a day
where this was considered cringe now
look almost done some tips for everyone
before you go if they're a bad texter at
first they're probably going to continue
to be a bad texter all the time
capitalize on calling or FaceTiming or
just cut them off like I would don't be
afraid to just walk up to someone and
ask them out just be respectful cheating
is uncool just end it if you want
somebody else either be a thot or be
cuffed choose one confirm that they are
legal age immediately under any
circumstances never send any money to
someone you're trying to date guy or
girl I don't know why people do this are
your mom and dad single check on them
make sure they're not spending any of
your inheritance money on some catfish
in Brazil before going on that first
date share your location with someone
you trust girls and guys you never know
what you're driving into lying about
your height lame lying about having a
kid lame seeing you want to watch my
shows I like and then when it's time to
actually watch you start complaining
lame sh if you get no matches you're not
a lame I suggest taking more well-lit
pictures that show off your style most
importantly always know you can devote
your time to your dreams and goals don't
associate happiness with a second party
always love yourself first romance is
like money on the floor there's equal
chance of finding it when you're not
even looking for it that's why I'm
deleting these apps for good I'm putting
my focus on making content and I'll find
my misses sooner or later plus dating
these days well would you dive head
first in this dating pool if you forgot
to like And subscribe don't worry you'll
get them next time
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