Gen Z's Social Skills Are Disappearing, Here's Why

GEN
18 Jul 202319:22

Summary

TLDRThe video explores the social skills of Gen Z, questioning if they are indeed declining or just evolving. It discusses the impact of technology and social media on this generation's interaction and mental health, highlighting both the challenges and opportunities they face. The script features various perspectives, from educators to Gen Z individuals themselves, offering a nuanced view of their resilience and the redefinition of community in a digital age.

Takeaways

  • 📱 Gen Z spends a significant amount of time on screens, with some individuals reporting up to 10 hours a day.
  • 🏕️ There is a perception that Gen Z is 'soft' and less resilient than previous generations due to less time spent outside and more time in front of screens.
  • 🗣️ Gen Z is seen as having declining social skills, with less face-to-face interaction and more reliance on social media for communication.
  • 🤔 The younger generation is often criticized for being self-centered and lacking the social graces of older generations.
  • 🔗 Despite criticism, some argue that Gen Z is more thoughtful and put together, with some critiques being a projection of older generations' flaws.
  • 🌐 The pandemic has exacerbated feelings of loneliness and social isolation, particularly affecting the social skills development of Gen Z.
  • 🔑 Gen Z has shown increased initiative and resilience, especially in leveraging digital platforms for social change and personal growth.
  • 💡 There is a debate on whether technology and social media have had a net positive or negative impact on Gen Z's social skills and mental health.
  • 🌱 Gen Z is more proactive in seeking help for mental health issues compared to older generations, embracing digital solutions like online therapy.
  • 🌐 The definition of community and social interaction is evolving with technology, challenging traditional views on what constitutes social skills.

Q & A

  • What is the main concern regarding Gen Z's social skills as discussed in the script?

    -The main concern is that Gen Z's social skills are declining due to increased screen time and social media usage, leading to less face-to-face interaction and potentially more isolation.

  • How does the script suggest older generations view Gen Z?

    -The script suggests that older generations often criticize Gen Z as being soft, lacking manners, and having poor social skills, often projecting their own perceived shortcomings onto the younger generation.

  • What is the perspective of a high school teacher on Gen Z's respect for adults?

    -The high school teacher in the script observes a decline in respect for adults among Gen Z students, suggesting it's a characteristic of the entire generation.

  • According to the script, how do some people working with Gen Z in a college setting view them?

    -Some individuals working with Gen Z in a college setting view them as incredibly thoughtful and put together, contradicting the negative stereotypes.

  • What challenges does the script suggest Gen Z faces that previous generations did not?

    -Gen Z faces challenges such as increased loneliness due to the pandemic, the pressure of growing up in front of a computer, and a more difficult life due to various societal pressures, including financial stress.

  • How has the pandemic impacted Gen Z's social skills, as mentioned in the script?

    -The pandemic has led to increased feelings of loneliness and isolation among Gen Z, with 72% of U.S teens reporting increased loneliness, which has had a profound impact on their social skills.

  • What opportunities has the script highlighted for Gen Z despite the challenges?

    -Despite the challenges, Gen Z has opportunities to take initiative, as seen during the pandemic with increased political engagement and the use of platforms like TikTok to launch careers.

  • What is the script's stance on the role of social media in Gen Z's life?

    -The script presents a balanced view, acknowledging that while social media can contribute to feelings of isolation, it also provides a platform for connection, self-expression, and community building.

  • How does the script address the issue of mental health among Gen Z?

    -The script highlights a clear mental health crisis with increased rates of depression and anxiety, but also notes that Gen Z is more proactive in seeking help and using digital tools for mental health support.

  • What advice does the script offer to those struggling with social skills?

    -The script suggests that time and age can naturally improve social skills, and recommends engaging with diverse information, communities, and experiences to develop social skills.

Outlines

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📱 Gen Z: The 'Soft' Generation?

The paragraph discusses the perception of Generation Z as being 'soft', with less time spent outdoors and more time in front of screens. It explores whether Gen Z's social skills are declining, contrasting opinions from a teacher who sees a lack of respect for adults with another who finds them thoughtful and put-together. The critique of Gen Z is suggested to be a projection of older generations' flaws. The paragraph also touches on how social media affects real-life interactions and the ease with which Gen Z's feelings can be hurt, leading to isolation. The impact of the COVID-19 pandemic on social skills and mental health is highlighted, with increased loneliness and the potential for burnout. There's a debate on whether Gen Z is less resilient or if they are just facing different challenges.

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🌐 Digital Natives: Navigating Social Media and Mental Health

This section delves into Gen Z's increased participation in politics and their use of social media for activism. It contrasts the potential social decline with an increase in 'digital extrovertedness', where despite less face-to-face interaction, there is a rise in online engagement. The paragraph discusses the impact of screen time on mental health, with high levels of depression and anxiety among young people. It also explores the use of online therapy and AI chatbots for mental health support. The narrative suggests that Gen Z is more proactive in seeking help for mental health issues compared to older generations, but also more susceptible to the negative effects of technology and social media.

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🤔 The Impact of Technology on Social Skills

The paragraph examines the impact of social media on Gen Z's social skills, questioning whether technology is to blame for any decline. It presents research suggesting physical effects of excessive screen time, such as brain shrinkage, and how this can affect concentration. However, it also points out that there is no evidence of poorer face-to-face social skills in children who use screens moderately. The paragraph discusses the potential for technology to both isolate and empower Gen Z, facilitating communication without limitations while also hindering human contact. It raises the question of whether the definition of social skills needs to evolve to include digital interactions.

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🔗 Redefining Community and Friendship in the Digital Age

This section discusses the changing nature of community and friendship for Gen Z, with a significant number having friends only known online. It explores the idea that online communities can be more accepting and easier to connect with than real-life ones. The paragraph also addresses the impact of lockdowns on Gen Z's social skills and their ability to form and maintain friendships. It suggests that the self-reliant nature of technology has made Gen Z more inclined towards individual work and communication, which could impact the sense of community. Advice is given to those struggling with social skills, emphasizing the importance of engaging with different communities and perspectives.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Gen Z

Gen Z, short for Generation Z, refers to the demographic cohort following the Millennials, typically those born between the mid-1990s to the early 2010s. In the video, Gen Z is discussed in the context of their social skills, their relationship with technology, and the challenges they face compared to previous generations. The script mentions how Gen Z has been shaped by growing up with technology and how this has affected their social interactions and mental health.

💡Social Skills

Social skills are the abilities to interact effectively and appropriately with others in a variety of social situations. The video explores the perceived decline in social skills among Gen Z, possibly due to their increased screen time and digital interactions. It contrasts this with the idea that social skills are evolving rather than declining, as Gen Z adapts to digital communication platforms.

💡Social Media

Social media refers to the means of communication through which people create online communities to share information, ideas, personal messages, and other content. The script discusses the impact of social media on Gen Z's social skills and mental health, suggesting that while it can lead to isolation, it also provides opportunities for connection and community building.

💡Mental Health

Mental health is the state of an individual's psychological and emotional well-being. The video addresses the mental health crisis among Gen Z, with increased rates of depression and anxiety, and how they are more proactive in seeking help compared to older generations. It also touches on the normalization of mental health issues within this demographic.

💡Isolation

Isolation refers to the state of being separated from others or the outside world. The script mentions how Gen Z has experienced increased isolation, particularly due to the COVID-19 pandemic, which has affected their social skills and contributed to feelings of loneliness.

💡Digital Natives

Digital natives are individuals who have grown up during the digital age and are therefore accustomed to using digital technology from an early age. Gen Z is described as digital natives in the video, which shapes their approach to communication, work, and social interaction, often preferring digital platforms over face-to-face encounters.

💡Polarization

Polarization refers to the division of a society or group into opposing factions or points of view. The video script mentions cultural polarization and how older generations might view Gen Z with certain biases, contributing to the perception that Gen Z is 'soft' or lacks social skills.

💡Resilience

Resilience is the capacity to recover quickly from difficulties; toughness. The script explores whether the challenges faced by Gen Z, such as the pandemic and social isolation, have molded resilience or nurtured a sense of being sheltered. It suggests that Gen Z may be more self-reliant due to their tech-savvy nature.

💡Distrust

Distrust refers to a lack of confidence in the honesty, integrity, or reliability of someone or something. The video discusses how Gen Z may be living in an environment of increased distrust, which is shaped by their experiences with technology and social media, and how this affects their social interactions.

💡Skillshare

Skillshare is mentioned in the video as an online learning community with video-based classes for creative and curious people. It is used as an example of how Gen Z can leverage digital platforms to learn new skills and further their careers, showcasing the positive side of technology usage.

💡Community

Community refers to a group of people living in the same place or having a particular characteristic in common. The video discusses the impact of social media on the formation of community, suggesting that while it may have led to more virtual connections, it has also made it harder to find community in real life and has changed what community means for Gen Z.

Highlights

Discussion on whether Gen Z is less resilient due to spending less time outside and being more focused on technology.

Criticism of Gen Z for being less respectful to adults and the suggestion that this might be a common trait among younger generations.

A college worker's perspective that Gen Z students are thoughtful and well-organized, contrary to some stereotypes.

Argument that older generations project their flaws onto younger generations, particularly Gen Z.

Concerns about the decline in social skills among Gen Z, with less face-to-face interaction and more time spent online.

A 17-year-old's view on the importance of social skills for forming relationships.

Observation that Gen Z's interaction with others is often mediated through gaming and social media.

Comparison of social skills between Gen Z and older generations, with concerns about Gen Z being more sensitive.

The impact of social media on Gen Z's self-esteem and how a lack of likes can hurt their feelings.

Discussion on the benefits of online communities and the ability to connect with people worldwide through social media.

A challenge to older generations to view Gen Z from a different perspective, considering their unique challenges.

The pandemic's effect on Gen Z, leading to increased loneliness and difficulties in developing social skills.

Gen Z's increased participation in politics and social issues, such as BLM, showing their initiative and engagement.

The rise of digital extroversion among Gen Z as they spend more time online, despite concerns about screen time.

A debate on whether Gen Z faces more challenges than previous generations, such as the pressure of technology and social media.

Mental health concerns among Gen Z, with higher rates of depression and anxiety, and their proactive approach to seeking help.

The role of technology in shaping Gen Z's social skills and the potential negative impacts on concentration and information processing.

The potential for technology to empower Gen Z and enable innovation, as seen in examples like Amber Yang's achievements.

The evolving definition of community and social skills in the digital age, with Gen Z being more open-minded.

The importance of adapting to change and using technology as a tool for networking and community building.

Transcripts

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do you think gen Z is soft I think

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they're very very soft if you spend less

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time outside they've been born almost in

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front of a computer we're always trying

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to blame other things rather than

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blaming ourselves why do you think

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everyone makes fun of gen Z you know you

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can see on the old movies we had manners

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and everything Tick Tock is a daredevil

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our brains are dying so today I'm out

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here and the question I'm asking is are

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gen Z social skills declining I teach

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school and I see the declining no

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respect for adults wouldn't you say

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that's like most middle schoolers though

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no that's high school and that's the

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whole generation that's coming up now no

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one cares about anybody I work for a

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college I interact with Gen Z students

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constantly I think they're incredibly

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thoughtful I think they're incredibly

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put together some of the critiques of

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gen Z are actually older Generations

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projecting their own flaws onto the

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younger folks to really characterize it

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in more General sense they're more

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self-centered to have social skills to

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be gracious to have Poise and to see the

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other side you know from the other point

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of view I think that's really gone

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downhill we spend less time outside we

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spend less time talking to other people

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how old are you by the way 17-17

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definitely gen Z how do you define

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social skills and why is it important to

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talk to people to maintain conversations

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um get girls get girls yeah that's a

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social skill are they

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that's a good one that's what good

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social skills can get you yes

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living in social media they are like

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more shy in real life but I don't think

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that counts as bad if I look at my son

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who's 18 his interaction with people is

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related to games more than anything else

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you think he was farther behind in

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social skills than when you were at 18

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yes they've been as I said in front of

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computers and cell phones and whatever

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all their life their feelings hurt

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really easy so if they go on social

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media and they post something you don't

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get likes their feelings hurt so now

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they just isolate themselves they go on

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Tick Tock and that's much easier you'd

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be surprised there's a lot of like

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online communities and now obviously

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with social media right you're actually

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able to probably meet people all around

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the world that you couldn't isn't that

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also like a form of communication yeah

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but there's nothing like face to face if

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everything becomes virtual where are we

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heading because nowadays it feels like

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everyone's blaming gen Z for all their

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problems those people who are 26 and

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younger tend to be the most challenging

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to work with the worst generation of all

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time a lack of effort and a lack of

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motivation and despite being more

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connected we're also lonelier than ever

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tonight I'm extra lonely the younger you

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are the lonelier you might be but even

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though social media's always mentioned

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as the root of all evil I knew that that

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was just the surface now someone on the

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cusp of gen Z and Millennial I wanted to

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explore from both sides whether gen Z

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deserves to be called the worst

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generation ever so is Gen Z really

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losing social skills or are we

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witnessing a redefinition of social

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interaction it is all this hate on gen Z

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just older Generations fear of being

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left behind I guess we gonna see do you

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think gen Z takes less or more risks

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compared to your generation why would

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you want to be an adult earlier in the

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sense of have a family and stuff I don't

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begrudge people in their 20s and early

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30s who want to enjoy life but you have

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to understand that's a luxury that you

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have it's a luxury my parents and their

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generation did not have probably more

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risk you know there's so many

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opportunities right now so many things

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that they can look at as far as jobs are

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concerned as far as travel is concerned

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I'd say less because we're less outside

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we we don't have as much opportunities

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opportunities to mess up what do you

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mean by the less opportunities to mess

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up if you're more inside right you won't

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jump on a shopping cart and do weird

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stuff on a shopping cart because you're

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in your house you're in your bed on your

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phone right damage NZ you're not helping

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your case so now I want to challenge the

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older generations to at least view gen Z

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from a different lens what unique

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challenges do you think gen Z faces that

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your generation did not I think Life as

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a young person is more difficult the

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pressures on life and even with all the

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technology around you it has not made

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your actual life easier they've been

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born almost in front of a computer

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they're not used to physical work that's

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that's a big issue covert has made

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people weary of people and so they face

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the isolation so do you think that gen Z

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is living in more of a environment of

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distrust compared your previous

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generations absolutely in the pandemic

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of the last three years is a better case

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study than anything of the unique

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challenge encountered by a rising

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generation fast breaking developments in

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the coronavirus emergency in the U.S at

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home that is the order tonight this is a

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global pandemic stay home the

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disruptions to daily routines during

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their formative years resulted in 72

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percent of U.S teens reporting increased

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loneliness and had a profound impact on

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the social skills of gen z i remember

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crying every night

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not knowing what was going on and I felt

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so alone remote work and online classes

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severely limited the opportunity to

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develop skills like teamwork as group

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work became less accessible in a social

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isolation limited access to social

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networks known to be coping mechanisms

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of Stress and Anxiety gen Z was in

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higher risk for Burnout and further

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seclusion why am I having so many mental

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breakdowns

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but on the other hand it also led to

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more opportunities to take initiative

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during the pandemic the youth witnessed

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the political Awakening utilizing social

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media to address issues like blf and as

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a result youth voter turnout increased

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by eight percent compared to 2016.

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voters under 30 have shown increased

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participation in the last few elections

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young voters turned out in historic

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numbers and with more time alone gen Z

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also took initiative by using platforms

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like Tick Tock to launch careers by

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reaching Millions around the world in

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minutes and so despite evidence of

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social decline there was a simultaneous

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rise in digital extrovertedness as lives

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shifted more online there was less

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face-to-face interactions but our agenzi

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spending way too much time on phones

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instead of real life how many hours a

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day do you spend on your phone I think

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like 10 hours too much like five hours

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maybe so three hours and 21 minutes okay

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5 32. what do you think will be like a

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healthy amount of like screen time for

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anyone less than like seven eight hours

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is like a full-time job as long as you

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don't they're not like obsessed with it

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you'll be fine okay could you go a week

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without your phone yes is the weather is

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good or bad the prevailing trend is

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towards an increasingly digital world

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and for those seeking what's next in

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their journey of fulfillment instead of

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what's next on Tick Tock the things

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response or skillshare no goal is too

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small when they take you step by step

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when I started this channel three years

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ago I had absolutely no clue what I was

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and so with that I want to explore

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further on the impact of these

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challenges on gen Z have these

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challenges molded resiliency or has it

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nurtured a sense of being sheltered do

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you think gen Z is soft compared to

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previous generations I'll be diplomatic

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I'll say perhaps I think they're very

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very soft I just feel like because of

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social media they're so much more easier

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things to get your dopamine Rush rather

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than like working towards getting your

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own dopamine Rush why do you think

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everyone makes fun of gen Z do we make

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fun of them or are we disgusted with

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them or humor is kind of like weird kind

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of cringe kind of

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it is weird actually it's easy also it's

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like to point the finger on someone else

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and say oh you're weird and everything I

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think we do because I think it's an ego

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thing I think we want to leave a legacy

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we want to say oh I was part of that

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that created the cars I was that that

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created AI they say the hardest things

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is to recognize somebody who's doing

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better than you maybe they're resentful

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that they're getting older I think

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people just genuinely like to pretend

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that they were smarter and more

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thoughtful and more well-rounded when

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they were a younger person you know you

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can see on the old movies we had manners

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and everything we're in a very polarized

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forget about politics culturally we like

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care a lot more about more stuff like

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racism sexism and boomers are not like

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open to a lot of those conversations

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there's a lot of things in the past that

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haven't been discussed enough for

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example the topic of mental health

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probably wasn't as talked as much in

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previous generation but you guys

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actually handled that I think in a

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better way or at least or it's more out

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in the open before there was so many

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taboos that like caused insecurities and

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fears in people and that's important to

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talk about and with 13 of us teens

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experiencing major depressive episodes

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and on their living being the second

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leading cause of death among teens there

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is a clear Mental Health crisis

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we see rates of depression and anxiety

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inside going up among young people

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depression has almost become normalized

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but compared to older Generations gen Z

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is a lot more proactive as reported 37

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of gen Zia saw help from mental health

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professionals and contributed 42 percent

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of all spending on mental health

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treatment last year Sydney started a

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mental health support group for students

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at her school I've done a little bit of

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EMDR and it's been amazing and in line

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with the preference towards digital

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options gen Z has a 50 higher usage of

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online therapy apps and even AI in 2020

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the first fully therapeutic AI chatbot

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robot was created to provide accessible

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care to individuals at any time meet

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robot the friendly little bot who's

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ready to listen 24 7. but this exact

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accessibility also highlighted the

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concern so doc do you think this is a

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good idea it certainly can help people

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who are already in therapy it's

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certainly not meant to replace it the

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free nature of the service LED users to

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become overly dependent on its advice

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resulting in self-diagnosis and even the

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application of its strategies to

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relatives with more severe disorders so

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with all that said why is Gen Z the most

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depressed generation because at first

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glance the best advice for anxiety

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caused by technological isolation or

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stress from current events is to just

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close your damn laptop bro considering

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91 of gen Z's main source of stress is

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related to money work and housing it

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becomes evident that what used to be

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more accessible in the past is certainly

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becoming unattainable so while older

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Generations May perceive that gen Z have

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it easier it's important to acknowledge

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that every generation faces its own

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unique and relatable challenges and so

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with all the talk around social media's

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impacts it's worth questioning as

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validity as the root of all evil kind of

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like the common rhetoric around Genesis

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that you guys are soft do you think

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social media has had an impact on that

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with social media like if it's not

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around the same opinion of the norm

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people get mad and people get pissed in

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the how are you with handling like

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disagreements or like opposite views is

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there something that I truly bothers me

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I guess I'll think about it and see it

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well does that is that really an issue

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with me if I'm not then I'm not and it's

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like is there a problem you know do you

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think we blame social media too much on

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problems people are so addicted to these

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things but they don't actually control

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their own life social media almost does

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and so that's why like you know people

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are softer than ever fortunate I mean

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all of us like to be the victim kind of

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you know we're always trying to blame

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other things rather than blaming

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ourselves because we can't go and talk

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to people if we want but of course there

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are incentives to life and if you never

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had the choice of really interacting

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with people online then you would be

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forced to go out into the real world and

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try to make meaningful Productions but

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of course it's not like a simple

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equation there's also multiple factors

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and with Gen Z spending over five hours

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a day in front of screens they're

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addicted but is it accurate to blame

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technology for declining social skills

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on one hand research has indicated

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physical effects such as brain shrinkage

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due to excessive use which can make

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information processing more challenging

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social media use is not harmless it can

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actually have a significant negative

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impact this can permanently reduce your

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capacity for concentration this is

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probably why sculling on Tick Tock all

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day instead of watching my videos is why

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you're so damn stupid but looking at the

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other side research shows that apart

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from children who excessively game and

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go on social media there is no evidence

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suggesting poorer face-to-face social

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skills when compared to children with

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limited screen exposure and along those

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lines to also consider that sociability

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is only one aspect of a person's

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development and that abilities like

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resilience and self-awareness are just

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as important and especially when we even

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consider anomalies like Amber Yang who

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even surpassed NASA's models for

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creating an AI program for satellite

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safety is serves as evidence that a

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digital first generation has even

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greater potential for Innovation and so

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it's clear that it's not as easy easy as

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technology equals bad because on one

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hand technology has empowered gen Z to

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communicate without limitations and on

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the other hand that very same technology

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has isolated then and hindered human

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contact essential for experiencing

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empathy belonging and love and as a

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society continues to embrace the

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metaverse in AI the world is only going

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to become more digital and so should our

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definition of social skills be limited

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to physical interactions or should our

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perception of community be reimagined do

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you think social media has helped create

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Community or destroyed Community it's a

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lot harder to fund a community in real

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life people are a lot more judgmental

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IRL are you a part of like online

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community uh I like a lot of music and a

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lot of that is online and I really love

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the community online 2020 brought a lot

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of people together and there was a large

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scale conversation about what racism

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looks like but uh we can also see

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political parties are increasingly

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French and increasingly disparate Tick

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Tock is a daredevil we've had middle

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schoolers that go in the bathrooms and

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could go on Tick Tock and then oh we're

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going to do this they will tear down

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bathrooms and things like that our

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brains are dying Tick Tock is kind of

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making everyone the same Trends blow up

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on Tick Tock so people start saying like

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sayings that they see on Tick Tock

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little opinions kind of infiltrate them

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if you look at my Pence and my in my

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shoes that's something that comes from

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to talk people are less unique not being

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unique and unique also creates like a

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community like that's an interesting

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thought yeah because in a way like if

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you're not unique it's probably easier

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to create a community right are you a

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bot I might I might be an NBC you never

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know like wouldn't you say then that

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like with this new Innovations of

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Technology it's actually maybe even

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innovating what communication once was

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there's no Frontiers even if you don't

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speak their language you can use

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translating gen Z are probably more

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open-minded than the kids when I was a

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young adult or an adolescent but as gen

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Z enters the real world has this

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open-mindedness to Opportunities led to

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success

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because traditionally schools and

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workplaces are provided connected shared

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experiences for young adults in previous

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generations these organizations no

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longer serve that purpose for Gen Z

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compared to 40 of baby boomers that have

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workplace friends only 24 of gen Z can

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say the same in a long time they share

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not screen all day not being able to

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meet friends and socialize with people

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the lockdowns are restricted in-person

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work in education had a significant

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impact on gen Z's ability to sustain

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friends and make new ones what do you

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think the pandemic took from young

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people it took away the spirit of being

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young but can we just blame the

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lockdowns compared to previous

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generations the self-reliant nature of

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technology has made gen Z more inclined

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towards individual work and

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communication they're not as in tuned or

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in need of that social like interaction

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but the problem with that is you lose

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that skill and when the next generation

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is more comfortable being alone and

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remote it's clear that I'll have an

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impact on the sense of community and so

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I wanted to ask each generation this

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question how many friends do you have

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true friends happy five depending on

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your definition of friends in my very

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between 1 and 50 from like a dozen close

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friends are like 10 a lot a couple dozen

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at least I'd say I I don't think I have

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more than two good friends with real

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friends what would you consider a true

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friend true friend is gonna be somebody

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that's gonna give you the things you

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want to hear and the things you don't

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want to hear and that's simply the truth

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yeah cause I hated this interview me too

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I've got a couple of online friends one

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that lives in like Morocco my best

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friend lives in New York and you've

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never met them in person never met them

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but like one of my closest friends ever

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online you can be more open with someone

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and they understand you more and I guess

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that's what makes a true friendship do

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you think that you're able to cultivate

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true friendships through online you're

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only able to know who someone is when

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you see them interacting not only with

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you but with other people I guess you

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can always create a Persona online right

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exactly so whether good or bad what a

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community looks like it means has

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evolved today 51 of gen Z is friends

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with someone they only know online and

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have never met in person and with

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popular apps like Bumble BFF and online

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communities like Facebook and Discord

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groups Link in description it's easier

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than ever to find like-minded people

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from all over the world but when only

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around half of Americans have meaningful

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in-person interactions on a daily basis

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what direction are we headed towards due

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to this social media driven era and as

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it always has been it's time we let the

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older Generations fulfill their

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Collective duty to impart their wisdom

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what advice would you give to someone

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who is struggling with social skills

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time is your friend get older and older

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you you're a little more confident a

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little more assertive just as a function

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of age and time if nothing else digest

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information and stories that are not

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stuff you're familiar with engaging with

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other communities and thinking

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critically about other communities

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another interest how other people in the

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world exist it's a mushroom God said

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talk to people have fun start

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interviewing people on the street

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yeah say yes to Street interviews and

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also do Street interviews yeah it's so

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obviously I'm not suggesting that

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becoming a Creator is the solution to

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your social skills but rather to

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consider a different perspective

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pace of change is accelerating in the

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traditional approaches to doing things

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is being reimagined for years in-person

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human interactions have played a role in

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learning in various activities but even

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that's changing whether Better or Worse

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gone are the days where daily visits to

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the newspaper stand or long

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conversations with colleagues at work

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was necessary to feel a sense of

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belonging and what I realized is that

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the hate on gen Z stems from the fear of

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every generation and their legacy of

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being left behind and forgotten but it's

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only those that Embrace change that will

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start to see the opportunities we need

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to stop treating social media like a

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luxury item and start thinking about it

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as something like a tool that we're all

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going to have our hands on and we need

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to know how to use it we need to know

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how to think critically when we're

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engaging with it it's for the first time

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in history we're living in an era that

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we can Network at scale and it's exactly

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how I was able to meet the closest

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people in my life from my girlfriend in

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Brazil that I met through this video to

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my business manager in Montreal all

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through that video to my creative

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director Dylan and Dallas who reached

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out after this video and even Dede in

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Germany who's editing this say what's up

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DD what's up we're living in an era of

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unprecedented opportunities in a

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previous generations have overcome

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challenges far more difficult than this

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one then why can't the dumb soft gen Z

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figured this one out on their own

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because it's only those who are most

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comfortable with change that can

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liberate themselves from the shackles of

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the past and that's exactly the mission

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to explore the unfamiliar and with that

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