Why Cold Approach is a Superpower in 2023
Summary
TLDRThis video script advocates for the lost art of cold approaching as a superpower in modern dating. It argues that in a world saturated with dating apps, the ability to confidently approach women in real life is rare and can significantly increase one's chances of success. The speaker contends that cold approaches create memorable, spontaneous connections that apps can't replicate, positioning men who can do this well ahead of the dating game. The script challenges men to overcome their fears and social conditioning to master this skill, promising not only dating success but also personal growth and empowerment.
Takeaways
- 🚀 Cold approach is considered a superpower in the dating world, especially in 2023, due to the rise of dating apps and decreased in-person interactions.
- 💻 The reliance on dating apps has made men less likely to approach women in person, positioning those who do as unique and attractive to potential partners.
- 👫 Spontaneity is key in cold approaches, creating a memorable and unique story for the woman that can't be replicated by online interactions.
- 🌟 Approaching women in public places like coffee shops or grocery stores can lead to high-quality connections that stand out against the generic nature of dating apps.
- 📱 The ease of swiping on dating apps reduces the value of individual connections, whereas a real-life interaction can be more memorable and meaningful.
- 👤 The fear of rejection and lack of confidence hold most men back from cold approaching, despite it being a simple and effective way to meet women.
- 🌈 Cold approaches can be done respectfully and confidently, making it a preferred method for many women who are tired of the superficial nature of dating apps.
- 🌆 Daytime is the best time for cold approaches, as it allows for a more genuine interaction with higher quality women who are not typically found in nightclubs.
- 📉 The trend of decreased in-person approaches has lowered the bar for success, making it easier for men who do approach to stand out and succeed.
- 💪 Overcoming internal limiting beliefs and fears is crucial for mastering the art of cold approaches and can lead to increased confidence and success in dating and life.
Q & A
What is considered the biggest superpower for men in the dating world according to the script?
-Cold approach is considered the biggest superpower for men in the dating world, as it allows them to stand out in a sea of men using dating apps and can lead to more meaningful connections.
Why are dating apps described as more competitive than ever in the script?
-Dating apps are described as more competitive than ever because of the increase in usage due to lockdowns and people being online 24/7, which has led to a technological comfort zone making in-person approaches seem daunting.
What is the significance of spontaneity when cold approaching a woman as mentioned in the script?
-Spontaneity is significant in cold approaching because it creates a unique and memorable story in the woman's mind that cannot be replicated by a dating app interaction, making the man more likely to stand out and be valued.
Why does the script suggest that women value a man who approaches them in person more than one they meet on a dating app?
-Women are suggested to value a man who approaches them in person more because such an encounter is less common and feels more genuine and exciting compared to the replaceable nature of dating app matches.
What is the 'blue ocean' concept as it relates to dating mentioned in the script?
-The 'blue ocean' concept in dating refers to pursuing an opportunity where there is little to no competition, like cold approaching women, which allows one to stand out and be more successful because they are playing a different game than the majority.
How does the script argue that cold approaching affects a man's psyche and confidence?
-The script argues that successfully cold approaching a woman can greatly boost a man's confidence and psyche by demonstrating his ability to bend reality to his will, overcome fears, and achieve what he desires in real time.
What is the main reason the script gives for men not approaching women, even when they have the means to do so?
-The main reason given in the script for men not approaching women is the presence of limiting beliefs and 'mind viruses' that hold them back, despite having the financial means or success.
Why does the script suggest that the bar for success in cold approaching is lower than ever?
-The script suggests the bar for success is lower because men are less likely to approach women due to fear and lack of confidence, leaving less competition and a higher chance for those who do approach.
What are the two main skills the script identifies as necessary for successful cold approaching?
-The two main skills identified for successful cold approaching are having the courage to initiate the approach and the ability to make good enough small talk to obtain the woman's phone number.
How does the script compare the complexity of dating apps to the simplicity of cold approaching?
-The script compares dating apps to cold approaching by stating that dating apps require mastery of multiple skills such as photo selection, bio writing, and text game, while cold approaching primarily requires overcoming fear and engaging in basic conversation.
Outlines
🚀 The Power of Cold Approach in Modern Dating
The paragraph emphasizes the significance of cold approach in today's dating landscape, suggesting it's a superpower that sets men apart. With dating apps becoming more competitive and less personal, the ability to approach women in real life is highlighted as a rarity and a valuable skill. The script argues that most men are hesitant to approach due to societal norms and fear, but those who can do so are at an advantage. The concept of spontaneity is key; cold approaches create unique, memorable experiences that women value more than generic dating app interactions. The speaker promises to demonstrate why cold approach is superior to other methods and how to harness this skill.
🤔 Overcoming Social Barriers to Approach Women
This paragraph delves into the societal and psychological barriers that prevent men from approaching women. It points out that even successful men can be timid around women, and the once-common practice of approaching women has become increasingly rare. The speaker argues that the current dating scene, with its reliance on dating apps and online interactions, has lowered men's social skills and increased women's desire for authentic, in-person connections. The paragraph suggests that the low bar for success in cold approaching women presents an opportunity for men to stand out by simply being normal and confident, as there is little competition in this area.
🦁 Embracing the 'Lion' Mentality for Personal Growth
The final paragraph discusses the personal growth and psychological benefits of cold approaching women. It uses the metaphor of a lion among sheep to illustrate how standing out through cold approach can be transformative. The speaker claims that the ability to approach and connect with a woman on one's terms is a powerful way to assert one's will and break through perceived limitations. The paragraph suggests that overcoming the fear of rejection and social conditioning can lead to a broader sense of personal empowerment and success, not just in dating but in all areas of life. The speaker invites viewers to apply for private consulting to learn these skills and change their lives.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Cold Approach
💡Dating Apps
💡Spontaneity
💡Soulmate
💡Technological Comfort Zone
💡Social Acuity
💡Blue Ocean Strategy
💡Alpha Male
💡Mind Virus
💡Entrepreneurship
Highlights
Cold approach is considered a superpower in dating, especially in 2023.
Dating apps have become overly competitive, leading to a lack of real-life approaches.
Men with basic understanding of approaching women are in the top 1% of the dating pool.
Cold approach is more effective than dating apps due to its spontaneity.
Spontaneous encounters create a unique story in a woman's mind that dating apps can't replicate.
Attractive women value men who approach them in person over those met on apps.
Meeting women in person is more memorable than swiping on dating apps.
Cold approach stands out in a world where most men use dating apps.
Approaching women during the daytime is considered respectful and gentlemanly.
The trend of dating apps and social media has made cold approach a 'blue ocean' strategy.
Cold approach requires fewer skills than dating apps, making it easier to succeed.
Women are more receptive to cold approaches due to the lack of men attempting them.
Cold approach can improve a man's confidence and ability to bend reality to his will.
Learning to cold approach can translate to success in business and other areas of life.
The skill of cold approach can break through limiting beliefs and mind viruses that hold men back.
Private consulting is offered to help men learn to approach women confidently.
Transcripts
what if I told you that your soulmate is
only one cold approach away the girl at
the coffee shop the girl at the grocery
store the girl you walked past randomly
on the street what if I told you that
all of these women were presenting
opportunities for you to find your
future life partner and that all you had
to do was walk up and approach her the
truth is in 2023 this is actually more
true than ever because cold approach is
the biggest superpower you could have as
a man in Your Arsenal in the present
dead dating apps are more competitive
than ever men as a whole are doing less
and less approaches dating apps covid
lockdowns people being chronically
online 24 7 has forced them into a
technological comfort zone that makes
approaching a woman seem like an
impossible task so if you as a man have
the most basic understanding of how to
approach a woman and start a
conversation you my friend are at the
top one percent of men in the dating
pool and by the end of this video I'm
going to show why Cold approach is the
new superpower in 2023 arguably better
than dating apps Instagram or any other
way of meeting women and how you can
leverage and harness his superpower in
your own life to date the highest
quality of women 95 percent of men think
that it's creepy to approach women in
2023 they cling to dating apps out of
fear in an attempt to Shield themselves
from the discomfort of approaching women
in person but in reality cold approach
is the most effective way to meet women
who you'd like to make your girlfriend
or wife why is that it all comes down to
one word spontaneity when you cold
approach a stranger and Spark a romantic
connection you're creating a story in
the girl's mind that can't be replicated
by anyone else the feeling she gets as
the surprise nervousness and curiosity
sets in doesn't even come close to
matching guy number 239 on a dating app
why do you think girls love reading
corny romance novels it's because every
girl secretly hopes she's gonna meet the
man of her dreams through a spontaneous
chance encounter she's online at the
coffee shop waiting to place her order
when suddenly you walk in and say all
the right things to grab her attention
she thanks to herself oh my God this
never happens this is like something out
of a movie and because you're able to
create this movie scene experience for
her she'll value you a thousand times
more than any guy on an app she can
easily replace with a few swipes the
most attractive women have tons of
options there's no getting around this
however when she's evaluating which
option she wants to pursue and give her
attention to who do you think she's
going to choose the guy she met
spontaneously online at Starbucks or the
guy she met by simply swiping away on an
app the downside to meeting a girl on an
app is that she's going to fundamentally
view that experience as an experience
that she could easily replace she's just
a few swipes away from meeting another
guy in the same exact way that she met
you however how often is she gonna go to
Starbucks have a guy who actually has
his life together who's actually
successful who's actually high value
who's going to go up and say all the
right things to who's going to approach
her in a way that's respectful in a way
that in intrigues her in a way that
makes her want to learn more about you
that doesn't happen every day and
because of that she's going to value
that interaction and that man who
approached her more so than all of the
hundreds of guys in her phone no girl
wants to bribe to her friends about
meeting her husband on Tinder one of the
most common dating app bios you'll see
is let's lie about how we met so why are
you still swiping away from the comfort
of your phone when you're just one cold
approach away from meeting your
potential soul mate every single day my
private clients are approaching women
and creating movie scene experiences for
themselves and the best part is that
they're able to do it while going about
their daily life never having to spend
three to four hours approaching girls
aimlessly in a mall or at a
nightclub the most common thing I hear
from women when I approach someone when
my clients approach them is that oh my
God this is so flattering this never
happens to me and that's because most
guys only get the balls to approach a
girl when they're at a drunk sweaty
nightclub and they have alcohol fueled
confidence no guy has the balls and the
gall to actually go up to a girl and do
it respectfully like a gentleman during
the daytime which is actually the best
time to do it because you're more likely
to meet higher quality women the women
who are going to clubs 24 7 and that
you're going to meet there are always
going to be women that you'd want to
make or like in the same way dating apps
attract a certain pool of women now
obviously there's pros and cons to
dating apps Instagram are approaching
women at nightclubs however you have to
learn how to play the game in the new
meta in the same way in business or in
the markets there are certain Trends and
these Trends can either make you rich or
they can make you poor with the trend of
dating apps and social media rising and
Rising the best way to actually Stand
Out is to do the complete opposite one
of my very close friends and one of the
best marketers I know taught me this
concept you want to Zig when everyone
expects you to zad now the context of
dating what that means is while every
single guy is trying to flex on
Instagram on dating apps the biggest way
to stand out is not to play the same
game as them no Corsa being man enough
to actually approach her and be able to
harboring conversation is the new
superpower in the new meta of how dating
happens in 2023 the average guy can't
even make eye contact with the woman he
likes even guys who make good money who
do well for themselves and are
successful still feel timid and Afraid
around women they make eye contact with
a girl and they immediate their first
reaction to immediately Look Away now
think about how many of you struggle to
make basic eye contact with the girls
you like now think about how difficult
it would be for you to approach her and
start a conversation without stumbling
over your words like most guys do the
most basic and common task expected of
men in the past is now something that 99
of men have never done should only take
a second to think about the times that
we're living it men don't Approach at
all when I talk to guys who are
interviewing to join my private
consultant and I asked them when was the
last time you approached a girl during
the daytime the most common answer is
never even at nightclubs the average guy
is not approaching a girl every single
time he goes out men lack the Courage
the confidence and the social Acuity to
know what to say and what what to do in
these interactions and because of this
women are more desperate than ever for a
man who actually knows what he's doing
and can actually go for it and if you
really want to get deep on this the fact
that you exist and are watching this
video right now is proof that your
caveman ancestors were able to do what
you never have which is simply approach
the girl so ask yourself why is it
acceptable for you to be the first male
within your bloodline to not
approach a girl the funny thing is is
that now that women never get approached
anymore and guys never go out of their
way to approach women and their social
skills are lower than ever even if they
are rich even if they are successful the
benefit to all of this is that the bar
for success is lower than ever meaning
you don't even have to have good gain
you don't have to say some smooth witty
James Bond pickup line in order to get
the girl all you need to do most of the
time is go up approach her talk to her
make a little bit of small talk and just
be normal and nine times out of ten
you're gonna have a positive interaction
that's going to end in her giving of her
number there's virtually no competition
when it comes to cold approaching women
so women don't have a standard or a
large pool of other men to compare your
approach to which makes your life and
your job a lot easier in business
there's a concept known as a blue ocean
which is when you pursue an opportunity
in the market that no one else is
pursuing the reason it's called the blue
ocean is because there's no competition
there if you jump into the blue ocean
you're the only one operating there so
you are the only person who can provide
what the market is looking for the best
entrepreneurs businessmen and operators
are operating in markets where there's
little competition where they are the
only source the reason they're able to
make so much money is because they're
playing an entirely different game than
you are in the same way some of my most
successful clients are guys who are
focusing heavily on cold approach
because while everyone else is focused
on playing the dating app game in the
Instagram game which are viable games
with viable strategies that have a time
and a place the men who are focused on
hold approach are able to attack a blue
ocean and that even goes so far as to
say that eventually I can see cooled
approach making a rise again and
becoming more popular as guys get fed up
with dating apps there's many parallels
between business and dating because it's
essentially just sales and if you want
to succeed at both the way you make the
most money the way you make the most
sales is by playing entirely different
games than the Masters are playing in
business the simplest business model and
the simplest sales process tends to win
over the more complicated one because
there are more points of failure let's
say dating apps for example not only do
you need to be competent at taking solid
photos editing good photos choosing the
order of the photos knowing which photos
are going to get the most tension but
you also have to write a well-crafted
bio you need to find the best opening
line that's going to get the girls
attention and get her to respond but
also that's going to make her likely go
on a date you need to be very good at
your text game you need to be good at
following up you need to be good at
managing multiple different leads and
multiple different women you need to be
good at potentially doing phone calls or
face times because girls are going to
want to know that you're not a catfish
that's at least 10 different skill sets
that you have to be competent in in
order to have success on dating apps if
you're not good at any one or two of
these things then the whole thing can
fall flat this is why one of the most
common things guys coming for is help
with dating apps because it's too hard
to become an expert at all of these
things now if you take cold approach on
the other hand the only two skills you
really need is one having the balls
encouraged to actually get out of your
own head and approach the girl and
number two being able to make good
enough small talk that the girl will
give you her phone number now when she
gives you her phone number you don't
need to come up with an epic opening
line like you do on Tinder because she
already met you she already knows what
you're like so she's more likely to
respond to something very very basic and
not to mention in your conversation you
can already see the idea of hanging out
in the future so when you text her you
just follow up on that idea and boom the
conversation started in the direction of
a date do you see how it's much easier
to get good at two things rather than 10
things and the benefit of getting good
at these two things required for cold
approach is like I said the bar is lower
than ever because women are more were
starved for a true masculine men that
can come in and sweep them off their
feet and show some basic social skills
and courage you've all heard the cringe
alpha male Trope that in a world full of
sheep the actions of a lion are crazy by
comparison and this is very true when it
comes to cold approaches much as I hate
these alpha male tropes because not only
is there a massive dating benefit to
cold approach but what it does to your
psyche as a man is the real superpower
it shows you that you can go out and
bend reality to your will in real time
you can insert your will onto the
universe and get what you want this
sounds super hyperbolic and dramatic but
it isn't I really promise you that it's
not being able to see a woman you like
and know exactly what to say and what to
do to approach her respectfully build
attraction and get her to agree to a
date with you that is you bending your
reality to your will in real time it's
you going from I see the girl I want to
get to know her to I've got the girl
I've built a special connection with
we're now seeing each other all because
you saw something and wept for it you
will did too existence this is truly
reality breaking for lots of guys the
average guy stuck in scarcity and
mediocrity he can't get over the nerves
of approaching the girl his fear of
rejection let alone saying something to
her and making the conversation go
smoothly but once you confront the
beliefs and limiters that are holding
you back and going on on the inside of
us and men and move past them to get
success your mind is open to so many
possibilities and the world truly
becomes your oyster learning this skill
of cold approach as a teenager is what
got me into Business and
Entrepreneurship in the first place
because it showed me how to go for
opportunities that were in front of me
it taught me that all of the things that
I thought were holding me back are
really just excuses inside of me all of
these things translate to business skill
acquisition and generally just getting
what you want out of life this level of
abundance and power you feel from seeing
that this is possible is truly
mind-bending for guys when they first
learn this now if you're not approaching
women right now it's because there's
some mind virus or limiting belief that
is holding you back our brain and belief
system is conditioned and programmed at
all hours of the day from the day we are
born the next sudden you see a beautiful
woman you get the urge to approach her
but you don't because of the excuses and
beliefs that pop into your head ask
yourself why are they coming up are
these beliefs even true are these
beliefs and mind viruses that are coming
up to the surface hindering or limiting
my growth do these beliefs serve me
where do they come from who installed
them into my head with everything in
life but especially dating men have a
host of limiting beliefs in mind viruses
that stop them from getting the life
they really deserve now if you want to
learn how to approach women confidently
and create these movie scene experiences
that lead to dates and relationships
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