How to Make Your Crush Stop Liking Someone Else

Summary

In this episode of 'The Josh Speaks', Josh advises on how to handle a situation where you have a crush on someone who is interested in another person. He discourages sabotage and instead promotes building a genuine connection with your crush. Josh emphasizes the importance of overcoming fear and initiating contact early, arguing that inaction leads to missed opportunities. He suggests understanding what your crush likes about their interest, without changing yourself, and encourages showcasing your best qualities to win them over. Josh also warns against falling into the 'friend zone' and advises being genuine and giving your crush a reason to like you.

Takeaways

• 😊 The hardest part of having a crush is taking action and doing something about it.
• 🙈 Many people feel shy or don't know how to start a conversation with their crush.
• 💡 Instead of sabotaging your crush's relationship with their crush, focus on building a real connection with them.
• 💬 A simple action like saying 'hi' can help break the ice and start building that connection.
• 😬 Allowing fear to control your actions will only leave space for your crush's crush to take over.
• 🏃‍♂️ Non-action results in missed opportunities, so it's important to take steps toward your crush even if they like someone else.
• 😎 Your competition is not your crush’s crush; it’s yourself. Winning them over depends on your confidence and actions.
• 🎯 Getting to know what your crush finds attractive in someone else can help you showcase those qualities in your own way.
• ⚠️ Don't try to be a copy of their crush; be your best self, and they'll like you for who you are.
• 🚫 Avoid falling into the 'friend zone' just to learn more about your crush’s crush; instead, show your feelings and confidence.

Q & A

What is the main message of the video?

The main message is that even if your crush likes someone else, you shouldn't give up. Instead, focus on building a strong connection with them and showcasing your personality, as this can lead to them developing feelings for you.

What does the speaker advise against doing when you have a crush on someone who likes someone else?

The speaker advises against sabotaging your crush’s current interest. Instead of trying to interfere, focus on building a relationship with your crush based on mutual connection and respect.

What is the first step the speaker suggests taking when approaching your crush?

The first step is to stop liking them from a distance and begin forming a solid relationship by simply saying hi within the first three seconds of seeing them.

Why does the speaker believe non-action is a problem when it comes to pursuing a crush?

Non-action is a problem because it allows your crush's crush to fill the space you're leaving open. Acting on your feelings is key to making progress in your relationship.

How does the speaker view competition between you and your crush's crush?

The speaker believes that your biggest competition is not your crush's crush, but yourself. It's about putting yourself out there and displaying confidence to win over your crush.

What advice does the speaker give if your crush is already dating someone else?

If your crush is already dating someone else, the speaker advises respecting the relationship and not interfering.

How can understanding your crush's feelings about their crush help you?

By learning what your crush finds attractive about their crush, you can understand the qualities they admire. However, the speaker advises not to imitate their crush but to manifest those qualities in your own way.

What is the speaker's advice on avoiding the friend zone?

The speaker advises against falling into the friend zone just to learn more about your crush’s crush. Instead, focus on being your authentic self and giving them a reason to like you.

What role does confidence play in winning over your crush, according to the speaker?

Confidence plays a crucial role. By displaying confidence and showing interest in getting to know your crush, you increase your chances of shifting their attention away from their crush and toward you.

What should you focus on to make your crush like you, according to the speaker?

You should focus on being your best self—being courageous, easy-going, and genuinely interested in your crush—rather than trying to make them like you. This way, they'll have a reason to naturally develop feelings for you.