Rape na puwede ring mangyari sa pagitan ng mag-asawa, naging paksa sa pagdinig sa Senado | 24 Oras
Summary
TLDRSenator Robin Padilla discusses marital rape in the Senate, emphasizing that 'no means no' applies to both spouses. Attorney Lord Kapunan, a women's rights advocate, clarifies that a spouse's refusal to engage in sexual activity is valid and should be respected. The conversation highlights the importance of mutual respect and consent within marriage, and the outdated notion of a spouse's obligation to fulfill their partner's sexual demands. The discussion also touches on the prevalence of sexual violence within marriage, with statistics from the 2022 National Demographic and Health Survey indicating that 2.3% of women have experienced it.
Takeaways
- 📜 The discussion in the Senate tackled the issue of marital rape, emphasizing that 'no means no' applies to both spouses.
- 🙍♂️ Senator Robin Padilla, as the committee Chairman, inquired about the application of rape laws within the context of marriage.
- 💬 Women's rights advocate and lawyer, Attorney Lord, clarified that a spouse's refusal to engage in sexual activity should be respected, and it is considered rape if forced.
- 🚫 The traditional notion of a spouse's obligation to fulfill their partner's sexual demands is debunked; it is no longer considered a marital duty.
- 🤔 The conversation highlighted the complexity of consent within marriage, questioning how to interpret a spouse's refusal.
- 🤝 The importance of mutual respect in a marriage was underscored, with the emphasis that a spouse's decision to refuse sexual activity should be respected.
- 📉 Statistics from the 2022 National Demographic and Health Survey revealed that 2.3% of women experienced sexual violence from their spouse or partner.
- 📚 The discussion pointed out the prevalence of emotional and physical violence in addition to sexual violence within relationships.
- 🤯 The script mentioned the absurdity of comparing marital rape to a dentist's examination, highlighting the seriousness of rape allegations.
- 🛡️ The conversation underscored the legal consequences of rape, including life imprisonment, and the need for a serious approach to such allegations.
Q & A
What is the main topic of discussion in the Senate hearing led by Senator Robin Padilla?
-The main topic of discussion is marital rape, specifically the clarification of laws regarding sexual violence within marriage.
What is the stance of Attorney Lorna Kapunan on marital rape laws applying to both spouses?
-Attorney Lorna Kapunan asserts that marital rape laws should apply to both spouses, emphasizing that 'no means no' and that consent is crucial regardless of the marital status.
How does Senator Robin Padilla question the application of rape laws within marriage?
-Senator Robin Padilla questions the application by asking if a wife's refusal to have sex with her husband, stating 'my head hurts, I don't want to,' would be considered rape.
What is the legal perspective on a spouse's refusal to engage in sexual activity, as explained by Attorney Kapunan?
-Attorney Kapunan clarifies that it is not an obligation for a spouse to engage in sexual activity against their will, and that a refusal should be respected.
What is the significance of the Family Code amendment mentioned by Attorney Kapunan?
-The Family Code was amended to remove the obligation of obedience, highlighting the importance of mutual respect and consent within a marriage.
What additional advice does Attorney Kapunan give to couples facing marital rape issues?
-Attorney Kapunan suggests counseling as a means to address marital rape issues and encourages seeking help through proper channels.
What statistics were presented regarding sexual violence within marriage from the 2022 National Demographic and Health Survey?
-The survey revealed that 2.3% of women experienced sexual violence from their spouse or partner, with the highest rates in the Bicol region and MIMAROPA.
How does Attorney Kapunan address the issue of emotional and physical violence in marriage?
-Attorney Kapunan emphasizes that emotional and physical violence are serious issues and should not be trivialized, even in the context of marital rape discussions.
What is the legal consequence for rape as alluded to in the discussion?
-The legal consequence for rape, as mentioned, can be life imprisonment, especially if there are qualifying circumstances.
What analogy does Attorney Kapunan use to illustrate the seriousness of rape allegations?
-Attorney Kapunan uses the analogy of a dentist placing an instrument in a patient's mouth without consent to illustrate that rape should not be philosophically debated but taken seriously as a crime.
Outlines
😔 Discussion on Marital Rape and Legal Clarifications
Senator Robin Padilla initiated a discussion on marital rape, emphasizing the importance of consent within marriage. Women's rights advocate Attorney Lorna Kapunan clarified that the law applies to both spouses, and consent is crucial. She refuted the notion that a spouse's refusal to engage in sexual activity is merely a playful protest, asserting that 'no means no.' The conversation touched on the psychological and social implications of non-consensual sex within marriage, including instances of violence and substance influence. Attorney Kapunan also highlighted the need for mutual respect and consent, referencing the amended Family Code that removed the obligation of obedience. The discussion concluded with statistics from the 2022 National Demographic and Health Survey, indicating that 2.3% of women have experienced sexual violence from their spouse or partner, with the highest rates in the Bicol and MIMAROPA regions.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Marital Rape
💡Sexual Harassment
💡No Means No
💡Resource Person
💡Family Lawyer
💡Mutual Respect
💡Emotional Violence
💡Legal Obligation
💡Psychosocial
💡Counseling
💡National Demographic and Health Survey
Highlights
Senator Robin Padilla discusses marital rape and the importance of consent within marriage.
Resource person Lorna Kapunan clarifies that 'no means no' applies to both genders in the context of marital rape.
Senator Robin Padilla questions the application of rape laws within the confines of marriage.
Attorney Lorna Kapunan explains that a spouse's refusal to engage in sexual activity is valid and should be respected.
The discussion highlights that a spouse cannot be forced into sexual activity, even within a marriage.
Kapunan emphasizes that being under the influence of alcohol or drugs does not justify forcing a spouse into sex.
The conversation touches on the psychological and social aspects of marital rape and its impact on victims.
Senator Robin Padilla seeks advice on how to handle a situation where a spouse refuses sexual activity.
Kapunan suggests counseling as a solution for couples facing issues of consent and sexual activity within marriage.
The discussion points out that the obligation of obedience has been removed from the Family Code.
The importance of mutual respect within a marriage is emphasized, especially regarding sexual consent.
Statistics from the 2022 National Demographic and Health Survey show that 2.3% of women have experienced sexual violence from their spouse or partner.
The highest rates of sexual violence are reported in the Bicol and MIMAROPA regions.
Emotional and physical violence are also highlighted as part of the broader issue of marital rape.
Kapunan criticizes the trivialization of rape, using the example of a dentist's instrument in the mouth.
The conversation stresses the seriousness of rape allegations and the potential legal consequences, including life imprisonment.
The discussion concludes with a call for respect and understanding of consent within marital relationships.
Transcripts
natalakay ang usapin ng marital rape
rape sa pagitan ng magasawa sa pagdinig
ng senado kan siador robin padilla may
mga hinig paglilinaw tungkol sa mga
batas tungkol sa R ang tugo ng Resource
person na siy Lorna
Kapunan no means no nak si
on public information and mass media sa
mga alegasyon ng sexual harassment sa
media industry kanina napunta ang usapin
sa rape ng sabihin ng family lawyer at
women's rights advocate na si Attorney
Lord na Kapunan na kahit sa mga
mag-asawa pwedeng mag-apply ang batas
laban sa rape may mga naging tanong si
committee Chairman senator Robin Padilla
sasabihin ng asawa ay masakit ang ulo ko
ayaw ko pin nung husband yung babae to
have sex is that rape ang sagot po ay
yes ung Dati po na sinasabi na
obligasyon ng asawa ng babae o lalaki
kapagka humiling ang asawa lalaki o
babae dapat pagbigyan hindi na po yan
Hindi po pag sinabing no no means no so
Papaano mo masas masasabi yung no is no
eh Akala mo lang
nagpapalambing parang ayaw pero gusto
naman may ganun Ano po ba yon Ano po ba
ang kawawaan kami o kung kami naman
halimbawa Ang wala sa mood pa Meron ba
kaming karapatan Magno yung no means no
applies To both
genders hindi siya pwedeng i-force nung
asawa hindi mo naman pinipili e kung
kailan ka yung in hit ano So Papaano yun
pagayaw ng asawa mo So wala pong ibang
paraan talaga kung para maano yung
lalaki so Papaano yun m babae ka na lang
ba kaming choice bigla ganon na lang
siguro sig Matulog ka na lang ang issue
doon eh hindi na legal no ang issue doon
na yan eh psychosocial dagdag ni Kapunan
minsan nagkakaroon pa ng pananakit yung
instance
na lasing yung asawa or under the
influence of drugs no ah at ah
Gustong makipag-sex with the wife no
Syempre under that circumstance magiging
violent
hindi hindi hindi Out Of Love atorney
wala pong viol Hindi po siya lasing out
of ano lang po of urge Andiyan ang asawa
mo to serve you ayaw niya So anong
paanong Anong pwede kong para hindi ako
mareklamo ng asawa ko O ano Anong pwede
kong sabihin sa kanya counseling po ang
kailangan kailangan po ng mga ganyan ang
ang counseling o magdasal na lang kayo
ipinaliwanag din ng Kapunan kay Padilla
na sa ilal ng batas hindi obligasyon ng
asawa na maging sunod-sunuran sa kanyang
kabiyak with all respect Hindi po Hindi
po obligasyon ng isang wife sabi mo is
to serve the husband po yun po yung di
ba yun yung normal yun yyung na-in still
sa atin in fact idadagdag ko lang no
Kasi maraming lalaki ditong nakikinig we
amended The Family Code to remove the
obligation of obedience That's why it's
important yung issue ng mutual respect
ah if if your
spouse refuses whether valid or hindi
respetuhin natin Iyung decision ng wife
ng wife or nung husband in that case sa
pinakahuling National demographic and
Health survey nung 2022 lumabas na 2.3%
ng mga kababaihan ang nakaranas ng
sexual violence mula sa kanilang asawa o
karelasyon pinakamataas yan sa Bic
region Ilocos region at sa MIMAROPA iba
pa yung Dato sa mga nakaranas ng
emotional violence at physical violence
sinita naman ni Attorney Kapunan yung
mga namimilosopo ania sa depinisyon ng
rape sabi nila yung Paano yung dentista
nga yung kinikwento ko po sa inyo What
if a dentist puts an instrument into the
mouth huwag natin naman tinatawag i-vi
realize yung crime ng rape Hwag naman t
gawin huwag tayong mag philosopo kasi si
Seryoso po yung
allegations of rape at ah Even in This
law life imprisonment yan so lalong-lalo
na ag may qualifying circumstance para
sa GM integrated news mav Gonzalez
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