How To Text Girls 📲 (Full Bumble Text Game Breakdown)
Summary
TLDRIn this detailed script breakdown, viewers learn the art of engaging and flirty texting from the first message on Bumble to securing a date. The coach shares tips on using the Vault for effective openers, responding to tests, and keeping the conversation light-hearted. The key is to subtly hint at future meetups based on shared interests, like running, and gradually move the conversation forward to exchanging numbers and setting up the date. The script also highlights the importance of teasing, push-pull dynamics, and recycling jokes to maintain a lively interaction, all while using the Quip app for instant response suggestions and coaching.
Takeaways
- 😀 The video discusses a detailed breakdown of a text conversation from a dating app, focusing on maintaining a flirty tone and progressing the interaction.
- 📲 The conversation begins with the girl initiating a message on Bumble, which is significant as women on the app typically start the conversation.
- 🔓 The use of a line from 'The Vault' in Quip, a compilation of effective openers and text game lines, is highlighted as a key strategy for engaging responses.
- 💬 The importance of responding cleverly to tests or playful jabs is emphasized, as it can put the girl on the spot and keep the conversation dynamic.
- ⏳ Patience is advised when waiting for a response; avoid double texting immediately and maintain confidence without appearing desperate.
- 💡 The concept of 'seeding' is introduced, where hints about future meetups or shared activities are subtly introduced in the conversation.
- 🏃♂️ The script uses the example of running as a shared interest to create a potential meetup opportunity, illustrating how to naturally progress towards a date.
- 🎭 The technique of 'push-pull' is mentioned, where light teasing is followed by compliments to create emotional spikes in the interaction.
- 📝 The speaker shares personal anecdotes and writing habits as a way to add unique personal touches to the conversation, making it more engaging.
- 🍷 The script suggests using the question about wine preferences as a smooth transition towards suggesting a date.
- 📞 The finale of the conversation includes a direct ask for the girl's number, demonstrating a straightforward approach to securing a date.
Q & A
What is the initial message from the girl on Bumble and why is it considered a positive response?
-The girl's initial message is 'well, you're hella cute ain't ya', which is considered positive because it's more engaging than the typical 'hey' or emoji responses. It shows she took the time to craft a personalized message, indicating interest.
What is the 'Vault' mentioned in the script and how is it used in the conversation?
-The 'Vault' is a compilation of openers, flirty lines, connection-building lines, and closing sequences used in text conversations. It is updated monthly with effective lines and is used to craft witty responses in the conversation, such as the reply to the girl's initial message.
Why is it not recommended to double text on the same day or the next day when there's no response?
-Double texting can come off as desperate or pushy. It's better to wait for two to three days before sending another message, which could be a playful nudge or a new line from the Vault, to maintain interest without appearing needy.
How does the script suggest responding if a girl doesn't reply to a message about her New Year's Day?
-The script suggests using humor and playing along with the idea, such as saying 'oh it was that good huh', to keep the conversation light and engaging without directly addressing the lack of response.
What is the significance of providing personal input in a message even if it's not super flirty?
-Personal input gives the other person something to respond to and helps to build a connection. It offers insight into your life and keeps the conversation unique and interesting, rather than sticking to standard greetings or questions.
Why does the script mention thinking one to two messages ahead in a conversation?
-Thinking ahead allows you to anticipate the girl's likely response and plan where to take the conversation next. This strategy helps to maintain a natural flow and keeps the interaction engaging and dynamic.
What is the purpose of teasing and how can it be used effectively in a conversation?
-Teasing is used to create emotional spikes in the conversation, adding humor and playfulness. It can be used effectively by poking fun at shared jokes or concepts and later turning them into push-pull techniques to create attraction.
How does the script suggest moving the conversation forward towards setting up a date?
-The script suggests embedding hints about meeting up in the conversation, such as mentioning activities you both enjoy and suggesting doing them together. This approach moves the conversation forward in small increments, leading to a more formal date proposal.
What is the strategy behind asking about the girl's New Year's resolutions and mentioning your own?
-This strategy allows both parties to share personal goals and interests, deepening the connection. It also provides opportunities for further conversation and potential shared activities, like the example of splitting a bottle of wine.
How does the script describe the process of getting a girl's phone number and setting up a date?
-The script describes a gradual process of building rapport, teasing, and hinting at future meetups. Once there's mutual interest, it suggests directly asking for the number with a light-hearted message, followed by arranging a specific date and activity.
What is the 'Quip' app and how can it assist with text game and online dating?
-The 'Quip' app is a mobile application that offers coaching on text game, online dating, and social media mastery. It includes features like instant responses, weekly coaching calls, and the ability to analyze and improve text interactions and dating profiles.
Outlines
😄 Flirty Texting Sequence on Bumble
This paragraph details a conversation breakdown from a dating app, Bumble, where a girl initiates with a compliment. The speaker discusses using lines from 'the Vault' in Quip, a compilation of effective openers and flirty lines, to respond to her. The conversation includes playful banter, tests, and responses, with advice on not getting insecure if there's no immediate reply. It highlights the importance of being witty, personal, and thinking ahead in the messaging sequence to keep the interaction engaging and to eventually set up a date.
🏃♂️ Building Connection Through Shared Interests
The second paragraph focuses on continuing the conversation by finding common ground and shared interests. It describes using humor and wordplay to maintain a light-hearted interaction, while also seeding the idea of a future meetup based on mutual activities like running. The speaker emphasizes the value of subtly hinting at meeting up and using instant responses to move the conversation forward, including asking about preferences like wine to set up a potential date. The paragraph also touches on the importance of demonstrating higher value through shared interests without bragging.
📲 Advancing the Conversation to a Date
In the final paragraph, the speaker discusses advancing the conversation to a date by using the right questions and statements to create interest and attraction. It includes the strategy of baby-stepping the interaction forward, such as suggesting to split a bottle of wine, and using the instant response feature of Quip to analyze and improve messaging. The paragraph concludes with a call to action for viewers to download the Quip app for further coaching on text game, online dating, and social media mastery, offering live calls and personalized feedback to enhance dating success.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Bumble
💡Vault
💡Flirty
💡Text Game
💡Callback Humor
💡Seeding
💡Dot Dot Dot (...
💡Push-Pull
💡Instant Response
💡Emotional Spikes
💡Baby Steps
Highlights
The transcript details a text breakdown from the first match on Bumble to getting a girl's phone number and setting up a date.
The girl initiates the conversation with a positive message, which is uncommon on Bumble where most women start with a simple greeting.
The use of a line from the Vault in Quip, a compilation of effective text game lines, to respond to the girl's message.
A clever response to a test by saying 'I bet you use that line on all the cute guys', turning the situation around on the girl.
The importance of not double texting on the same day or immediately the next day if there's no response.
Using a playful approach to inquire about the girl's New Year's Day without being pushy or insecure.
The strategy of thinking one to two messages ahead to guide the conversation and keep it engaging.
The concept of seeding a future meetup by hinting at shared activities or interests during the conversation.
Using humor and personal input in messages to stand out from standard greetings and encourage response.
The technique of teasing and pushing the conversation to create emotional spikes and maintain interest.
The idea of turning teasing into push-pull dynamics to create a playful and attractive interaction.
The use of instant response features in Quip to craft messages that keep the conversation light and flirty.
The gradual progression from small talk to a date proposal without abrupt transitions.
The simplicity of asking about wine preferences as a lead into setting up a date.
The importance of reciprocating and responding positively to keep the conversation flowing and lead to a successful date setup.
The final step of exchanging numbers in a casual and playful manner, ensuring a smooth transition to a date.
The promotion of Quip's mobile app as a tool for learning text game, online dating, and social media mastery.
Transcripts
let's jump into a text breakdown showing
you guys everything that happened from
the moment we matched with the girl on
Bumble what that entire Tech sequence
looked like how to keep it flirty how to
move the interaction forward all the way
to getting the phone number with the
girl and setting up the date so it
starts out with the girl actually
messaging us on Bumble she says well
you're hella cute ain't ya which is a
really positive response if you guys
aren't familiar with Bumble the girl has
the message first majority of the women
on this app are just gonna use like a
wave Emoji or just say hey or hey what's
up or hey how are you which is
ironically kind of funny because like
those same messages if a guy sends that
stuff like the girl's not gonna respond
but in this case the girl actually
starts out very positive he went in and
used a line taken right from the Vault
inside of Quip if you guys aren't
familiar with the Vault it's a
compilation of all the different openers
all the different flirty lines you could
use connection building lines closing
sequences all of that is a massive
compilation of a list and we update that
list every month with the newest and
like most effective text game lines okay
so this line was taken directly from
there he says I bet you use that line on
all the cute guys winky face which is
such a good line because this is
literally the exact kind of test I guess
witty response that a girl would give to
a dude if he was using a pickup line on
her at the bar I like this line because
you're pretty much giving the girl and
putting it back on her I think it's
really clever so she says yeah I do
actually just easier in it and then he
says smooth how's your New Year's day
treating you no response okay whenever
the girl gives you no response I don't
recommend you double text like that same
day probably even the next day I like to
do two to maybe three days and here's
the thing you don't need to like get
insecure in your head or hey why aren't
you responding you don't get butt hurt
you don't get insecure you don't ask her
why she's not responding you can just
either hit her with a dot dot dot
question mark Or you could use one of
the lines that are in the vault or in
this instance he plays around with the
idea asking her about her New Year's Day
so he said oh it was that good huh so
she says yeah was good sorry it's been a
busy busy start to the new year year did
you celebrate well says no worry I did
New Year's day was spent on the sofa
watching films with all my Christmas
chocolate lol this message isn't like
amazing but it is a little bit different
than like normal standard hey how's your
day going oh it's good you so even if
you're not coming in with something
super flirty make sure you have
something that's unique that gives a
little bit of insight into your life
some kind of personal input that gives
the girl something that she could
respond to you always want to be
thinking one to two messages ahead hey
if I send this message what is the girl
most likely going to respond with and
then where can I take that messaging
sequence too so you're trying to think
one two three steps ahead she says
sounds delightful and sounds like my day
today TBH he says sounds great and then
he takes another line Straight From the
Vault give me the basics then any
tattoos Kids Fun Kinks crazy Hobbies she
says yeah man three kids full sleeve
girls will typically do this if you ask
these kind of questions which is still
okay it's not a bad thing that she does
that it does make things like different
and it's it's a little joking and fun so
it's not necessarily a bad thing but I
have noticed that girls will have a
tendency of saying like yeah two baby
daddies just got out of jail blah blah
blah blah and then you could typically
go like oh sounds like wifey material
and you could like make some comments
from there so she says joking nothing
too exciting I'm actually hella dull TBH
you says hella Dole that's gonna have to
be your name in my contacts LOL and that
was an instant response that he used
from inside of Quip as well I guess it's
just like a little tease that you're
gonna have her name saved in your phone
is that which is also kind of seeding
that we're gonna save for a number in
our phones which definitely isn't a bad
thing but then he says no kids six tats
Kinks I'll keep to myself which is cool
that's why you mentioned that part in
the previous question because typically
the girls won't even acknowledge that
part it's kind of like snuck in there in
the messaging and then when she doesn't
responding you put it back on you you
could use that phrase right there to
like subtly keep it a little sexual
without overdoing it and I play guitar
read write gym and run she says it's a
good name don't don't you think oh what
are the six sounds delightful what do
you write no kids no tats I'm not
decisive enough LOL and I run play
hockey gym she's clearly investing bit
of painting crochet a lot no judgment
please oh whenever it goes there's like
no judgment please that's definitely an
easy way to start subtly making a joke
about it or teasing about it oh and
drink way too much but that's going to
improve and reduce this year and when I
say cheese and joke it doesn't
necessarily need to be in the next
message it can be but you could keep
that in the back of your mind for later
on in the conversation when maybe you
get her on the phone or when you're out
on the date with her I'm always thinking
about little things I could tease and
poke fun at and you can recycle those
Concepts later on in the conversation to
continuously be re-spiking the
interaction and just having bursts of
emotional spikes and teasing sprinkled
throughout and then when you do tease
the girl you can turn those into push
pulls like if you say that she's like a
little nerd or she's like a dork or
she's like a little homebody later on
you could use those things right like oh
you're so nerdy but you're locally like
a door you're so cute for being a
crocheter I would never expect you did
that anything like that right so I like
to do cheeses and jokes to kind of give
bursts of emotional spikes and then
later on you could use those as callback
humor but then you could also start
turning those into push pulls using the
t's along with your cute butt or you do
this but you're cute or but you're
adorable he says suits you LOL my fave
is the one on the back of my arm a
woman's face with a rose coming out of
the top I write music and short stories
you run I've been looking for a running
partner maybe I'll call you hella fun
slash Grandma okay so again this is an
ongoing joke from the previous messages
talking about I'll save your name as
hella dull oh he said hella full again
that's what I'm talking about you can
just keep recycling the same joke and
sometimes you can twist the word play on
it like in this instance it went from
hella dull to hella full the other thing
I like that he did is the idea of
seeding a future Meetup based on the
activity that we were talking about so
you guys were talking about an activity
instead of just saying oh that's cool
you do that I like to do that too he
said oh you run I've been looking for a
running partner maybe I'll call you
maybe I'll call you hella full slash
Grandma winky face so still teasing the
girl with the Callback joke with the
seeding the future Meetup so she says
sounds interesting out of her head
talking about the tattoo yeah a little
broke my wrist a few weeks ago and I
know it was my wrist but I've haven't
done a lot recently so trying to get
back into it all yeah I prefer super
mature but I'll take Grandma okay at
this point he comes back into the
instant response feature and then we
crafted him this message yeah probs
easier if I just show you on our date
great way to move it forward again
hinting at the idea that we're gonna
meet up in baby steps you don't just
need boring Small Talk Small Talk small
talk and then it's like anyway let me
ask you on a date it's like small talk
but embedded into the small talk is
hinting at the idea that we could do
some of this stuff together or I'm going
to show you one of these things when we
meet up okay so great message and then
it's good I can ease you back into it
hinting at the fact that she's grandma
and talking about run and stuff she says
oh I see how far do you normally go you
look proper Speedy like you look really
Speedy I tend to do between 20 to 30k a
week you she said oh my God nowhere near
that much I mean that's typically
attractive if it grows into a certain
activity and you can indicate to her in
a non-try hard bragging way that like
you're Superior then hurt in that
activity it definitely creates some
level of attraction it's a demonstration
of higher value essentially she also
said it's been a while though I've taken
the new year new me seriously this year
he said oh yeah what are your
resolutions this year and then also in
the instant response feature we had to
baby step the interaction forward more
so again do you like wine by the way
probably the most simple easiest closing
sequence that you could start to
initiate when things are going good it's
really as simple as do you like one you
like wine by the way and then you move
into like red or white or you could just
kind of baby step from there she says
well we'll get fit obviously and not get
blackout drunk what are yours yes I do
red is my fave though he says I want to
get back into writing used to write
short stories but have to let it slip
this past year good choice We should
split a bottle sometime soon okay so you
can see again it's just ever so slightly
moving it forward it's do you like wine
she says yes do you like the color great
we should split a bottle sometime soon
not what are you doing tonight it's like
we should split about sometime soon if
she agrees to that then we start to
narrow it in from there and then there
will be a number exchange so she says oh
about what maybe we should he says all
sorts most recent one was about a
homeless man I got chatting to at train
stop what's that face for LOL that's the
face I pull out after my half of the
bottle and then at this point it's going
well enough and the girls reciprocating
responding positively you don't need to
keep like going in like these Titans at
some point you can just realize okay
like she's on board with this whole
thing the interaction's been flirty like
she agreed to do this at which point it
just says LOL shoot me your number and
we'll sort it out okay really simple so
she sends the number with a little gun
emoji and said oh wait no actually yes
what wrong number she said yeah I
thought it was but it's correct he says
as long as you answer and not some 30
year old bald man lol message so that's
a great interaction to go from the first
message from the first moment we matched
with the girl messaging us keeping
things super fun and flirty while still
getting to know you and remember it's
not just small talk Small Talk Small
Talk ask the girl out it's like get to
know you talk while hinting at the idea
that we could possibly do one of these
things or I'll show you how to do this
thing or you're into that thing damn
I've been looking for someone to do that
with whether it's like speaking a new
language going out for drinks in this
case it was running I did another
breakdown where it was swimming right so
no matter what the activity is it's just
the concept of hinting at the idea that
we could probably do this sometime soon
and then when the girl agrees we start
to move it forward in small increments
okay so that's that breakdown I hope you
guys enjoyed this I hope you guys
learned something from this if you
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out peace out guys
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