Woman Cries After Scratching Her Boyfriend, Then Gets Arrested
Summary
TLDROn July 18th, 2024, a domestic dispute escalated to physical altercation between a couple, interrupting the woman's plan to deliver a retirement gift to her professor. The argument led to property damage, with the man allegedly taking the woman's belongings and refusing to return them. The situation worsened when the woman jumped on the car to stop him from leaving. Police intervention resulted in the woman's arrest for domestic violence, highlighting the couple's recurring issues with anger and conflict resolution.
Takeaways
- ๐ฎ A domestic dispute occurred on July 18th, 2024, involving a couple's physical altercation that led to police intervention.
- ๐ The argument was over wrapping a retirement gift for the woman's professor, which escalated due to the man's refusal to let her do it her way.
- ๐ฐ The woman was anxious about being late for a meeting with her professor, which had been scheduled for 11:30 AM.
- ๐ There was a conflict over the ownership and use of a car, which was not registered in the woman's name but was paid for by her.
- ๐ฑ The man had a history of taking the woman's belongings, including her phone and documents, to prevent her from leaving during arguments.
- ๐ The couple has been together for about a year, with the woman feeling trapped due to financial and emotional ties, including a shared car.
- ๐ The incident took place at their shared residence, where the man had previously damaged the woman's car and other property.
- ๐จ A neighbor called the police after hearing yelling and seeing the woman on top of the car, fearing she had been hit.
- ๐ค The police officer attempted to mediate the situation, advising the couple to seek help for their relationship issues, including potential counseling.
- ๐ The woman expressed concern about the impact of the incident on her academic status and immigration status, as she was on a student visa.
- ๐ The woman was ultimately arrested for domestic violence, highlighting the seriousness of the situation and the need for legal intervention.
Q & A
What was the initial reason for the argument between the couple?
-The argument started over the wrapping of a retirement gift for the woman's professor, where the man insisted on doing it his way and refused to let the woman do it herself.
Why was the woman trying to meet her professor?
-The woman was trying to meet her professor to give her a retirement gift, as the professor had been waiting since 11:30 AM.
What did the man do when the woman wanted to wrap the gift herself?
-The man got angry, threw things on the table, and did not allow the woman to wrap the gift herself.
Why did the woman jump on the car?
-The woman jumped on the car in an attempt to stop the man from leaving and to get her belongings and car keys back.
What was the neighbor's involvement in the situation?
-The neighbor heard yelling, saw the woman on top of the car, and called the police to the scene.
How did the man react when the woman tried to leave with the car?
-The man refused to give the woman the car keys, and when she tried to leave, he started leaving with the car, prompting the woman to jump on it.
What items did the man take from the woman during the argument?
-The man took the woman's bag, backpack with all her documents, cards, and phones.
What was the woman's concern about not being able to meet her professor?
-The woman was concerned about letting her professor down, as she had been trying to meet her for two months and had already postponed several times.
What was the woman's legal status in relation to driving?
-The woman had a permit but did not have a driver's license, and the car was not in her name.
How long have the couple been together, and what issues have they faced in their relationship?
-The couple has been together for about a year and has faced issues with the man getting angry over small things and the relationship becoming physically violent.
What was the outcome of the police's involvement in the situation?
-The woman was placed under arrest for domestic violence, and the police promised to help figure out the situation further at the station.
Outlines
๐ Domestic Dispute Escalates
On July 18th, 2024, a physical altercation between a couple led to a police intervention. The woman, attempting to gift-wrap for her professor, faced her partner's aggressive behavior when he prevented her from finishing the task. The situation worsened when he threw items and refused to let her leave for the meeting, leading her to jump on the car in desperation. The police arrived to find the woman upset and the man uncooperative, with the woman explaining the situation and the man showing reluctance to cooperate fully.
๐ฃ๏ธ Neighbor's Account and Relationship Struggles
A neighbor, awakened by the commotion, provided their perspective, capturing the tail end of the incident on video. The couple, who have been together for a year and living together since February, are described as having a history of escalating arguments. The woman is a college student on a school visa, and the man has been financially supportive but controlling. The neighbor witnessed the woman on top of the car and noted the man's destruction of her property. The situation highlights the couple's communication breakdown and the woman's fear of legal repercussions due to her visa status.
๐ก Tensions Rise Over Car Ownership
The dispute between the couple intensifies over the ownership and use of a car. The woman, with a learner's permit, claims the car as hers despite it being registered in the man's name. The man, angry and controlling, refuses to give her the keys, leading to a physical confrontation where the woman jumps on the car to prevent him from leaving. The police officer intervenes, attempting to de-escalate the situation and advising the woman on the legal implications of her actions. The man's aggressive stance and the woman's desperation underscore the relationship's volatility.
๐ฎโโ๏ธ Arrest and Relationship Concerns
The police officer, after assessing the situation, decides to arrest the woman for domestic violence. The woman expresses her fears of the arrest's impact on her relationship and her future, including the possibility of deportation. The officer tries to reassure her that the situation will be sorted out at the station. The man, visibly upset, pleads with the officer not to arrest her, showing a mix of anger and concern. The incident raises questions about the couple's ability to resolve their issues and the impact of the arrest on their relationship.
๐ Post-Incident Reflections and Public Opinion
The video concludes with a reflection on the incident's aftermath, including the woman's arrest and the couple's uncertain future. The narrator prompts viewers to share their thoughts on whether the incident might lead to positive change or further strain in the relationship. The video ends with a call to like, subscribe, and comment, inviting audience engagement and speculation on the couple's next steps.
Mindmap
Keywords
๐กDomestic Violence
๐กArgument
๐กPhysical Altercation
๐กArrest
๐กRetirement Gift
๐กAnger Management
๐กRelationship Issues
๐กCounseling
๐กProperty Damage
๐กEmotional Abuse
๐กLegal Consequences
Highlights
Couple's argument escalated into a physical altercation on July 18th, 2024.
Dispute over wrapping a retirement gift for a professor led to the argument.
Victim was unable to meet the professor due to the incident, causing further distress.
Victim's attempts to leave were met with aggression and property damage.
Argument involved issues of control and ownership over a shared car.
Victim's belongings, including documents and electronics, were confiscated by the aggressor.
Physical altercation included jumping on a car and causing damage.
Victim expressed fear of repercussions due to her student visa status.
Aggressor had a history of anger issues and physical incidents.
Victim's attempts to contact her professor were hindered by the aggressor.
Police intervention was necessary to de-escalate the situation.
Victim's emotional distress was evident, with concerns about her relationship and future.
Aggressor displayed a lack of remorse and continued aggression towards the victim.
Victim's neighbor provided a witness account, capturing the end of the altercation.
Police explained the consequences of domestic violence and the need for resolution.
Victim was arrested for domestic violence, highlighting the complexity of the situation.
Discussion about the couple's relationship and potential for improvement post-incident.
Viewer engagement invited through comments and social media reactions.
Transcripts
on July 18th 2024 officers were called
when a couple got into an argument that
became physical and unfortunately didn't
end
well over here with me let's a SE oh my
back there are you hurt at all no I'm
not hurt let's go sit
down I had to go to the
university well right now you have to
sit
is waiting for me
okay what what is going on what
happened he gets angry all the time I
wanted to go get get the retirement gift
I was rapping the retirement gift for my
professor I wanted to meet her and she's
been waiting since
11:30 and he won't let me rap it in he
like I'm helping you I said I want to I
want to put tape on the cardboard thing
because it's coming off and he like no
let me do it like I'm like please let me
do it because I don't want to wrap it
and then when she opens it it comes out
and then he didn't let me do it and he
put He started getting mad at me and he
threw all this on the table and I told
him I'm getting late I already told her
that I'm coming at 11:30 to meet her and
then I told her I I stuck somewhere give
me 10 more minutes and she's been
waiting since 11:30 for me and then then
we came out I said you give me my car
and I'll just go and meet her and I'll
just give the gift and come back he's
like I will throw this I will throw this
gift I said you have thrown all these
things and I been paying for it you
throw it also this is this is your $25 I
don't care you have done thousands of do
for the scho do you guys live here
together okay are you is that your
boyfriend yes okay try and relax okay
you want a glass of
water I just want just calm down so he
can get this done can you call your
professor to see if you tell her an
emergency came up so she'll she'll
understand that there's an emergency
okay she's upset about that I
think yeah I just I heard my uh doorbell
ring and um I I have a video camera and
I heard yelling and then I was in the
bathroom I just woke up I worked thirds
and okay I seen her on top the car but
she said he didn't hit her that she
jumped on it so I got that much okay so
tell me what happened that way what what
do you you have grass stains all over
here what what happened I was I was
trying to leave I was trying to get my
things he took my bag backpack with all
my documents with all my cards and my
phones yeah he took all this and then he
when I said I will take the car and so I
went and take his car his his stuff was
in there so I went there but I came back
and I said please give me my this is
your stuff you can take this just give
me my car and I'll leave so he's like no
I'm not going to give you so and he
started leaving and which one is your
vehicle this one it is mine but it's not
in my name still because I just have a
permit right now okay so I I just told
him that you know I want my car can you
give it to me and then he he said no and
then he said prove that it's yours and I
said you know it is mine please just
leave this leave the leave the car key
so he he said no and he started leaving
so I was on his car on his car trying to
stop him do not leave and give me my
stuff back well obviously we know that's
not a good idea right that's a good way
to get hurt I'm glad he didn't try to
take off with you on there what were you
guys doing rolling on the ground what
happened we were not rolling on the
ground he he did this so
my all
this hit the floor and so
i b down what is your
name okay do you have an ID or anything
not really me I don't know where it is
okay can you spell your first name for
me I can write it down if
[Applause]
you do you have a driver's license or a
permit no he drives it me because I have
a
permit okay did any anything get
physical with you two other than you
jumping on the car
no okay okay can you just calm down from
it if I have to go to the to the school
and explain to what was going on to your
professor I will but please don't well I
I just don't want you to be upset
because that because right now I don't
want you to leave because I got to
figure out what's going on okay so just
hang out for a minute okay can I call
her yes you can call her do you have
your phone with you yes yeah okay go
ahead I see it out here
he already broke my phone and my laptop
and he gets
mad it wasn't November he he threw my
laptop on the we used to live somewhere
else and how long have you guys been
together we have been together for a
year now have you been living together
that whole time no no how long have you
lived together since like February
okay okay go ahead and give her a call
try to calm
down hi hi sorry now that I got a second
I got to shut my door cuz my cat I got
to Tabby he likes to run you happen to
have that video so I could take a look
at it um no just it just caught the
movement of it um did it only get like
the tail end yeah I couldn't even see
nobody I heard her so I think she more
like was standing over here it didn't
get yeah but when I came out um she was
on top of the car cuz I was like did you
just hit her like I was like oh my God
and so I went um I went over there
that's why I was trying to get it out of
her to see if she was hurt you know um
but she said she climbed up there she
said she climbed up there she yeah okay
cuz I was like did he just hit you like
that was my biggest concern that she was
hurt somewhere she he was trying to
leave and she I she had some of her
stuff so yeah to make a long story short
he's wrecked her car um that she
originally had and so he put the car in
her name and his name and now she really
doesn't really want to be with him
anymore but she's feeling kind of stuck
um and the car is in his name and now he
won't do it you know give it back and
like she's paying like a lot of bills
and she's going in debt and she's in
college she has a school
visa and she can't be getting in trouble
I'm more worried about you know yeah
well she can't be jumping on cars yeah I
know or fighting like this yeah having
an argument inside your own home is one
thing but when people are calling saying
you're rolling around on the ground or
jumping on cars were you the one that
called then no I I didn't call I just
happened to step out cuz I I I I wor
thirds and I just woke up I literally
just went to the bathroom and then I saw
while I was in the bathroom my thing
went off and then I came right out and
that's when I seen that okay so yeah
well I appreciate it thank you very much
problem
right how long you guys been
together
since
a okay she said about a year so year
anything like I before no it wasn't
until we got in it wasn't until we got
in here we here you know we cool first
four months or something like that and
then start Ping
up I wasn't over here when offic was
talking about the rolling on the ground
thing what what happened with that
nobody rolled on the ground nobody
rolled on the ground no you're covered
in grass pick up your start the car it's
in the car start like waving it on me
all right yeah but don't on the ground
she got on the ground when uh she
live
um had stuff in the car
I I was going to go report but stuff was
already in the car she was in the in the
grass I was leave and she's like give me
my St give me my St I like oh I got the
book bag
here here's your take it and I came back
to the car to leave I said I'm out I
said I'm leaving I'm gone I said you
want me done I'm gone you want gone you
want be done done then I'm out I got in
the
car as get in the car
um she said give me the keys give me the
keys and I'm like and about Honda she
said it's my car give my give my kid she
bought the H with her money we were
waiting until she got a license to name
she's got a permit and help her drive
and we she like she have a car keep told
her you can't drive the car without me
in it I'm license you can't drive a car
with me or a licensed driver you can't
take that car she had already just taken
this one and she parked it
there didn't call I need to call you
guys on that yeah um
so uh she said give me Keys give me keys
I said I'm not giving you Keys H you're
not getting them you're not getting them
and um she starts looking out beat the
crap out of the course start kicking the
car hit the window and stuff like that I
I already had door sh let's put all the
marks on you you got some good marks I
know I know okay so was was that from
her yeah what was she doing going at me
for for what purpose she trying to get
something from you or she she's pissed
she's just pissed where were you at when
that happened I was uh at one point uh
standing in the hallway I was standing
in the hallway okay so you were still
inside the house we still in the house
at that point um I had the present uh
present in my hands and uh I said I go
and right
here she's stilling out this is fine I
present
chair
and
and do I'm done I'm done [ย __ย ] left
turn [ย __ย ] walk out
I
go go and can't do anymore and
um yeah she uh that
I walk out car but anyways that was done
um she sting here gave her stuff she fli
I key start the
car I wouldn't put the car in Reverse
she she St I put the car in Reverse I
was about to go
she jump on the hoodie car when she
jumped on hoodie car I was facing this
way facing this way but was in reverse
and uh I said get off the [ย __ย ] car
get off the [ย __ย ] car I'm not let take
the [ย __ย ] keys I said you're not get
[ย __ย ] keys let me get [ย __ย ] out of here
get off car she wouldn't got car I still
have it in
reverse pull back she'll car you mean
she but she didn't and I was I was back
this way and I way and she went up I
said get off the car let me go for her
cuz I knew
and she D us bad so I like car let me
get let me get no no just give me the
keys give me the KE she would not get
off the keys not getting Keys all right
let us talk for a
minute were you able to get a hold of
your
professor what happened he's got marks
on him she said he said you I did that I
did that but I I was trying to make him
stay because I wanted to go
to my
professor do you do you understand that
by doing that you you can't cause
somebody else physical harm by trying to
get them to stay somewhere or do
something I know okay I'm
sorry I understand I'm talking to your
neighbor sounds like you guys have been
been through some stuff in your
relationship
that maybe you're in some in some
trouble that you you need some some
information on on how to get out of it
and I'm going to help you with that but
right now we got to I got to deal with
the situation at hand
okay
1425 I don't know I really love him
but he keeps getting
mad on so so simple stuff we are talking
and he gets mad like in a blink right as
I blink my eye he's just like another
person and so I but I love him I don't
want him to leave and I also don't want
to leave him well we we got to find a
way to to not fight like this please ask
him to not be mad on like just so SM
well I mean I can ask him but I can't
change
somebody's people don't really react
that way to me you know what I mean like
they they'll listen to me while I'm here
but it sounds like maybe he's got some
some anger issues and by what happened
today I don't I don't doubt that you do
too and maybe you both no I am I am
that's what i' I've been telling him
since okay so I was never like this I I
used to be like Cal whenever he gets
angry and and he gets mad but this is
like getting bad and you see yourself
changing a little bit as well I'm
getting mad at like simple things also
now
what's that
negative you can run it by 425 and see
what he says but I
think he's got blood he let take
pictures I pictures did you get one of
those
back she she she to do I'll be right
back
[Laughter]
like I said I understand that you guys
have some issues that you're going have
to work out whether it's personal
between yourselves that you maybe need
some some counseling or something for or
stuff that you need to do together or
you need to figure out how to do it
apart first I understand like you guys
you went and got this car but you put
it yeah yeah
are you wanting to continue this
relationship after today how do you see
this
going do you have any family
here you just here by yourself he's the
only person you
got you have any good friends at school
or
anything
yeah I
has it ever happened in the past where
things have gotten physical like
this a few times okay has he has have
either one of you hurt each other in
those situations yes okay he has hurt
you yeah but it it was fine I I we were
always able to figure out but this time
I because I wanted to go to see I have
been trying to go to my professor for
it's been 2 months whenever she comes
something or the other comes up and I
have I have to tell her that you know I
won't be able to come I won't be able to
make it but this time she was coming for
3
days which today was the last day and I
I I was not going anywhere not doing
anything so I asked him I I want to go
meet her at 11:30 and I told her to but
I don't
know today also I was unable to make it
[Music]
[Music]
just you saying that stuff's happened in
the past you shouldn't and you figured
it out you shouldn't have to figure that
out okay those kind of things shouldn't
be happening okay relationship should
never get physical like that apologizes
doesn't matter and he says that he will
not do it and then he keeps doing the
same thing he takes keeps taking my
stuff my documents and then he keeps
taking my phone so I cannot call anybody
so what obviously what he's doing is
trying to get he knows what's going to
push your buttons and he knows what's
going to make you angry and it's
obviously you're your capable whatever I
am getting bad I getting worse I was
never I was never like that I was never
like that I have told him that you know
you're making me do because you get
angry even if I say okay maybe this is
what we have to do let me take try to
figure this out let me try he keeps
getting angry at so small stuff he could
just say you know we figure out it
figure it out later on
said all right good go ahead and stand
up you're going to be placed under
arrest for domestic violence
okay once we go from here then we'll be
able to figure some more stuff out okay
that way we can get this relationship
figured out whatever it needs to be okay
turn around Put Your Hands
by go to come on It come on man don't go
to jail it all
[Music]
and I know I know he's acting upset
right now but this situ this whole
situation could have been avoided okay
by him acting appropriate and then you
responding to that
appropriately can I take my please yeah
what do you need to
take all right just
relax your phone
I don't want to I don't want to
go want to go please don't I understand
you I understand you don't want to this
is what I have to
do I don't want to go
Sarah Sarah I don't want she cannot
she's been placed under
arrest domestic violence please don't
make me I really don't want to we're
going to get it figured out
come on Sarah I don't want I can't help
it no I told you guys you can't argue
like that we'll take the whole bag with
you okay want your bag to go with you or
do you want me to take it with
[Music]
me that
I'm see it right there okay DJ is there
anything else in your pockets I didn't
see
anything okay like I said we're going to
go up to the station we're going to get
this figured out okay okay I promise
we'll we're going to have a can I come
back oh my mom will be calling me
dude my mom calls me every day I
understand we'll we're going to figure
all this out
okay uh
I'll
you you going to be all
right allow to the window no do that
right
now I don't I don't I mean she's
probably wrecked fine to it but
yeah she may even get out today I don't
know she because it's 12:30 once I get
her in there we'll we'll figure
something out okay
what what do you want to say I I just
want to re sure right now she's going
she I know she lose whole thing like go
back to end up back in India
like I explain that to her we're going
to figure it out it'll be fine
okay I'm going take her to
three she was charged with domestic
violence do you think think their
relationship will get better and maybe
draw them closer to each other after
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