NukeStream: Alpha is Mindset, Not a Demographic
Summary
TLDRIn this stream, the host delves into the concept of 'Alpha' and its misuse in society, discussing why it sparks debate. They reference an essay from 2011, emphasizing that Alpha is a mindset, not achievements or status. The conversation explores how people often mistake external success for Alpha traits, which actually stem from confidence and assertiveness. The host challenges the audience to look beyond material success and societal roles to understand true Alpha characteristics, suggesting that the real power lies in one's mentality and behavior.
Takeaways
- ๐ The term 'Alpha' is often overused and has different definitions based on individual perspectives, making it subjective.
- ๐ 'Alpha' and 'Beta' are used as placeholders in the red pill community to describe certain behaviors and mindsets, not as definitive labels.
- ๐ค The speaker emphasizes that being 'Alpha' is about mindset rather than achievements, status, or material possessions.
- ๐ฅ The script discusses how different groups and ideologies may have their own version of what an 'Alpha' represents, highlighting the diversity of interpretations.
- ๐ซ It is suggested that societal norms and expectations can sometimes mislead men into thinking they need to achieve certain things to be considered 'Alpha'.
- ๐ก The importance of experiencing abundance in dating and relationships is highlighted as a way to develop an 'Alpha' mindset.
- ๐ The script argues against the idea that one can 'buy' being an 'Alpha', stressing that it is an intrinsic quality.
- ๐ The concept of 'Alpha' is tied to male ego and societal roles, which can lead to misunderstandings and misuse of the term.
- ๐ The speaker suggests that actions speak louder than words or achievements, and that true 'Alpha' qualities are demonstrated through behavior.
- ๐ The potential downside of being overly 'Alpha' is mentioned, indicating a balance is needed to avoid negative perceptions.
- ๐ The script concludes by stating that 'Alpha' is a mindset that cannot be achieved through following a script or societal expectations, but through personal development and self-assuredness.
Q & A
What is the main topic of discussion in the video script?
-The main topic of the video script is the concept of 'Alpha' and 'Beta' and how these terms are used and misunderstood in society, particularly in the context of male behavior and social dynamics.
What does the speaker suggest is the reason for the overuse and misuse of the term 'Alpha'?
-The speaker suggests that the term 'Alpha' is overused and misused because it has become a container term that everyone fills with their own definition based on their personal beliefs and experiences, rather than a clear, universally agreed-upon concept.
According to the speaker, what is the fundamental difference between an 'Alpha' and a 'Beta' male?
-The fundamental difference, as per the speaker, is that an 'Alpha' is defined by a mindset characterized by assertiveness, resilience, and leadership, whereas a 'Beta' is often seen as someone who follows orders blindly and lacks a strong sense of self.
Why does the speaker believe that achievements alone do not make someone an 'Alpha'?
-The speaker believes that achievements alone do not make someone an 'Alpha' because being an 'Alpha' is about the mindset that leads to those achievements, not the achievements themselves. It's about how one carries themselves and interacts with the world, not just what they have accomplished.
What does the speaker argue is the importance of experiencing abundance in the context of developing an 'Alpha' mindset?
-The speaker argues that experiencing abundance is crucial for developing an 'Alpha' mindset because it allows a person to realize that they can be attractive and successful with multiple women, which in turn helps them to become more confident, assertive, and less needy or desperate in their interactions.
How does the speaker describe the reaction of 'Beta' males when they see 'Alpha' males succeeding with women?
-The speaker describes the reaction of 'Beta' males as one of jealousy and resentment. They may feel upset because they have followed societal scripts for success and yet do not receive the same level of sexual compliance from women as those with an 'Alpha' mindset.
What does the speaker suggest is a common misconception about 'Alpha' females?
-The speaker suggests that a common misconception about 'Alpha' females is that they can exist in the same way as 'Alpha' males, but he argues that true 'Alpha' females are rare because women typically do not exhibit the same traits that define male 'Alpha' behavior.
Why does the speaker argue that money and status are not enough to make someone an 'Alpha'?
-The speaker argues that money and status are not enough to make someone an 'Alpha' because these are external factors that can amplify one's attractiveness but do not inherently change one's mindset or behavior, which are the core components of being 'Alpha'.
What does the speaker mean when he says 'you need to have the dog in you'?
-When the speaker says 'you need to have the dog in you,' he is referring to the inherent confidence, assertiveness, and boldness that are associated with the 'Alpha' mindset, especially in the context of dating and sexual dynamics.
How does the speaker define 'Alpha' in the context of the video script?
-The speaker defines 'Alpha' as a mindset characterized by resilience, assertiveness, leadership, and the ability to be sexually viable and attractive to women, rather than simply a set of achievements or social status.
Outlines
๐ Introduction to the Alpha Concept
The speaker begins by setting the stage for a discussion on the concept of 'Alpha' and its significance in social dynamics. They mention an essay from 2011 as a reference point and express the intention to explore the term's overuse and misunderstanding. The conversation aims to define the relationship between 'Alpha' and 'Beta' and to address the social reactions to these labels, especially in the context of an election year where people are asserting their values and identities.
๐ The Misinterpretation of Alpha
This paragraph delves into the various definitions of 'Alpha' and how it's been misused and overused in society. The speaker discusses the term's origin in different industries and its evolution in the 'red pill' community. They critique the superficial understanding of 'Alpha' as merely being a leading figure or assertive personality, emphasizing that true 'Alpha' qualities are deeper and more nuanced than commonly portrayed.
๐ค The Alpha Mindset and its Misconceptions
The speaker continues to dissect the concept of 'Alpha', discussing how it's often misunderstood as a result of ego and societal norms. They argue that being 'Alpha' is not about external achievements but an internal mindset. The paragraph touches on how people often mistake temporary success or physical traits for 'Alpha' status, whereas true 'Alpha' is a consistent and inherent approach to life's challenges.
๐ก The Importance of the Alpha Mindset
In this section, the speaker emphasizes that the 'Alpha' mindset is crucial and cannot be achieved through material success or social status alone. They argue that many men, despite their achievements, lack the 'Alpha' mindset, which is the actual determinant of their success in relationships and social dynamics. The speaker also points out the fallacy of believing that wealth or fame automatically confer 'Alpha' status.
๐ก The Frustration of Blue Pill Alphas
The speaker addresses the frustration of men who have achieved success by societal standards but feel threatened by those with a genuine 'Alpha' mindset. They discuss the resentment that arises when these 'Blue Pill Alphas' see others with less material success but more social and romantic success due to their 'Alpha' traits. The paragraph highlights the disconnect between external achievements and internal confidence.
๐ The Transformation to an Alpha Mindset
This paragraph focuses on the transformative journey towards embracing an 'Alpha' mindset. The speaker discusses the importance of experiencing abundance in relationships and the shift in perspective that occurs when a man realizes that his success with women is not tied to his material achievements but to his mindset and behavior. They emphasize that this realization is a critical step in truly becoming 'Alpha'.
๐ซ The Limitations of Material Achievements
The speaker argues that material achievements, while important for personal growth and satisfaction, are not the key to success in dating and relationships. They stress that leading with one's achievements rather than one's mindset is a mistake that many men make, particularly those who are successful by societal standards but lack the 'Alpha' qualities that attract women.
๐คฏ The Inflection Point in Male Development
The paragraph discusses the pivotal moments in a man's life that lead to the adoption of an 'Alpha' mindset. The speaker talks about the experience of dating multiple women and the realization that this abundance changes a man's perspective on relationships and attraction. They highlight the importance of these experiences in developing the 'Alpha' mindset and the challenges faced in overcoming societal and personal moral constraints.
๐ง The Mental Shift to an Alpha Mindset
The speaker emphasizes the mental shift required to adopt an 'Alpha' mindset, explaining that it involves recognizing one's self-worth and capabilities independent of external circumstances. They argue that this mindset is essential for navigating relationships and that it cannot be faked or bought; it must be genuinely embraced and internalized.
๐ฅ The Societal Reaction to the Alpha Mindset
In this paragraph, the speaker discusses the societal pushback against the 'Alpha' mindset, particularly from those who have invested in traditional scripts of masculinity. They explore the resistance of 'Blue Pill Alphas' to the idea that their achievements and status do not automatically make them more attractive to women, and the discomfort of confronting the reality that an 'Alpha' mindset is what truly matters.
๐ธ The Misplaced Belief in Material Solutions
The speaker addresses the common misconception that financial investment in a relationship is a measure of 'Alpha' status. They argue that true 'Alpha' qualities are not about spending money to impress but about the confidence and mindset that attract women regardless of material investments.
๐ฏ The Final Thoughts on Alpha Mindset
In the concluding paragraph, the speaker summarizes the key points of the discussion, reiterating that the 'Alpha' mindset is not about external achievements but an internal state of being. They stress that this mindset is essential for men seeking genuine connection and attraction in their relationships with women.
๐ถ Closing of the Video Script
The final paragraph of the script is a simple musical cue indicating the end of the video without any spoken content.
Mindmap
Keywords
๐กAlpha
๐กBeta
๐กRed Pill
๐กMindset
๐กAchievements
๐กSexual Dynamics
๐กSelf-Worth
๐กGame
๐กBlue Pill
๐กEgo
๐กResilience
Highlights
Discussion on the definition and misuse of the term 'Alpha' in various contexts.
The differentiation between Alpha and Beta as used in red pill philosophy and their common misconceptions.
The importance of understanding the Alpha mindset rather than focusing on achievements or status.
Critique of the overuse of the term 'Alpha' and its reduction to a mere label.
The argument that being Alpha is not about material success but about a certain mindset and approach to life.
Analysis of how societal and personal definitions of Alpha can vary greatly and the problems this causes.
The idea that Alpha traits are not necessarily tied to traditional views of masculinity or success.
The impact of election years on the way people assert their ideologies and the misuse of terms like 'Alpha'.
Critique of the notion that women can be Alpha, arguing that it is a fundamentally male trait.
The role of the Alpha mindset in dating and relationships, and why it is more important than material possessions or status.
Discussion on the importance of experiencing abundance in dating to develop an Alpha mindset.
The idea that an Alpha mindset is about leading with confidence rather than seeking validation from others.
The assertion that the Alpha mindset is not about being aggressive or dominant in a negative way, but about having a certain presence and influence.
The connection between the Alpha mindset and the ability to handle various social situations with ease and charm.
The final thoughts on the Alpha mindset being a core part of a man's identity, independent of external factors.
Transcripts
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hey what's up guys another edition of
the nuke stream and today we're going to
talk about what is an alpha and uh why
so many people get so worked up about
this word that we use that people use
let me over the brightness that people
use and um how we can properly
Define the relationship between Alpha
and beta and all that stuff right um but
first guys you guys know where to find
me link
tree uh nuclear col I put it in chat and
uh thanks guys for the last I had a
great show last week and a lot of
participation so if you guys could
participate in this one um and uh we can
get the ball rolling in terms of a
discussion all that stuff uh new patreon
post up right on the on the subject
matter um it's kind of my own take uh
but today we're going to be referencing
uh Rolo's uh essay from about what year
did this come on 2011 guys so this essay
is 13 years old so you know there's
still value in the old post as a matter
of fact there's probably more value in
those posts than mine mine is just my
perspective on this argument of whether
something is Alpha who is Alpha what is
Alpha blah blah blah so on and so right
um but yeah so basically guys uh we've
come to this uh election year we're
almost halfway through it um
and there is this kind of people
everyone's planting their flag in the
ground right in terms of what their
morality is who they are what they
represent right you know the the big war
for our country and all that stuff and a
lot of people whether they use the word
or not are kind of trying to communicate
that because of their morality what they
believe in what their goal is and how
many followers they have or what they do
um are their achievements that they are
Top Dog in their field in the way they
uh in the way they talk or sorry in the
way they produce content or whatever way
they communicate or show up on the
internet that they're the man right and
you know we in the red pill we call
this Alpha right and people were like
well it's an overused term and a lot of
people use it and you know people have
this kind of like uh you know their ears
prick up when someone uses the word
Alpha like oh that's an that's a that's
a word that losers use to describe
themselves or describe others and all
that stuff and I get it when when the
internet when normies when the Normy
internet catches a hold of something you
know they automatically go hey that's
for losers all that stuff because you
know they're not going to have to save
Nuance thinking or they're not gonna be
able to separate themselves and their
ego from the topic and and from a uh
discussion that actually goes somewhere
right they're going to be like oh Alpha
you use Alpha that means you're a loser
right you see it all the time on Twitter
especially my my reply is people can't
people can't uh use a word without kind
of like looking at the context there's
no sarcasm on the internet people will
take you at face value and all that
stuff so so yeah guys over time you have
to um look at this time uh look at this
uh through the lens of that it's an
election year and morality and the
future of the country is kind of like
the
overtone of what everyone's tweeting
about meanwhile the red pill is always
the same we just say hey it's the
election year this is going to happen
and they don't like that but H whatever
who cares but anyways guys uh so the
word Alpha you know everyone has their
own little definition of it right but
it's for us for the red for ter for for
the red
pill we use it people that make content
and people that write books the ideas
guys right like Rolo and Ryan um they
use this term as a placeholder as
there's no other real word or easy word
to Define this so we'll use this instead
and until someone comes up with a better
more catchier or easier word to use or
simpler word then we're going to use
this right so that's why it's used right
and then the the the beta you know um
which is used in many different
Industries like uh software or uh video
games any any any any industry where
you're you're producing versions of
stuff you know you're always going to
have the beta version of stuff um
but we use the beta as as you know kind
of like a negative like a a [ย __ย ] a
pushover somebody that follows orders
blindly kind of doesn't have a backbone
or anything like that right then we use
Alpha for only positive
um guys that are cool uh you know like
throughout the years you would say like
maybe an alpha would be like the 90s uh
movie star right Arnold Schwarzenegger
Sylvester Stallone like those guys would
be seen as Macho Alpha right then we got
into the recent years where not anyone
can be Alpha as long as they have a CGI
fight with somebody and all that right
on the big screen and now we have the
Advent of women being Alpha like Alpha
babes and Alpha boss babes like they're
Alpha right which is you know kind of
like a bastardisation of of Alpha in its
own right right
but Alpha is a it's an overused term
right but we use it for a reason it's
because it's simple it's a placeholder
term unless someone comes up with
something better catchier or easier to
it rolls off the tong better that's what
we're going to use right um and it's
very subjective and eventually when the
wider audience of the internet uses it
uh gets a hold of it it's it becomes a
container term like toxic
masculinity uh what's other uh like the
I don't know if I could say it yet we're
seven minutes in I don't could say it
yet but like like the word incel um
stuff like that usually it boils down to
people I don't like or people I disagree
with you know and that's what container
words usually that's the end stage of a
container word especially a noun is to
describe things I don't like right so if
a guy has an OP a strong opinion on a
woman online he's an insult there's no
way he gets laid thinking like that
because in order to get laid he has to
acquest to my beliefs and ideology and
my emotions right and that's why I don't
like when this guy says alpha or incel
or so I'll call him an incel because
only incels use the word Alpha right and
then you have guys that like on the
other side are like guys that use the
alpha or say they're Alphas it's the
opposite they're they're insecure I'm
like that could be true but just because
a guy says he's an alpha doesn't mean
he's not right if a guy has a gun that's
pointing at me right and you know he
says I'm an alpha give me your money
I'll be like yeah dude here he's he's
using physical Force I have no other way
to like I have to acknowledge that he
has power you know and he can kill me if
I don't U give him money right so I I I
follow what he says because he has the
ability to take my life so um we cover
we glad we covered that right a guy a
person say they're alpha or not Alpha
does not disqualify them right because
words don't mean anything to men right
it's about actions um and certainly a
woman that says she's alpha or not Alpha
doesn't disqualify her or uh doesn't
mean that she is Alpha right and for the
most part women women cannot be Alphas
right women are not Alphas they never
will be because in order to be Alphas
you have to you you have to be there's
like this certain um kind of mindset you
have to have we're going to get into
that later right
um and and all that right and one of the
one of the reasons the word Alpha kind
of like is an emotional word now is
because it ties into the male ego and
what happens is in this year especially
this year where everyone's planting
their flag and saying I am this I am
libertarian I'm conservative I'm red
pill I'm anti- red pill I'm feminist I'm
anti whatever you are right whatever
group you think you belong to and you
know it's funny that you even think you
belong to a group right but
um it's tied in to what they think an
alpha could be or should be right so if
you look at every ideology every way of
thinking every political party every
Niche right there are people within that
that have their own definition of what
an alpha is right so let's get that out
the way
um
and so like I said in my essay I'll
start with Alpha and beta a few things
set off people's hamsters more line than
these words are used you have people who
think they're above the nomenclature of
intersexual Dynamics and call these
words cringe you have the men and women
LOL who claim their Alpha you'll have
the people who feel insulted for Hing
you're an alpha and so on and so forth
uh and then like like I say in my essay
no one really kind of like cares why we
use those terms they're just like you
use that term you must be this right or
they associate it with some person they
don't like right but the thing is guys
like we again we use those words for
like it's a placeholder term it's just
it's just nomenclature right it's just
we we want to we want to have a
discussion we don't we don't care about
the words used but those are the words
we use
um so like I was saying every Niche way
of thinking ideology group country
culture has their own version of Alpha
right and who so who's that who's that
real Alpha it it all depends on who you
ask right um there are people that say
Hey the real Alpha is a guy that's
sacrificial that gives up his life for
his family for his employer sorry uh for
um who else for his for his family for
his uh employer for his country people
like that they'll be like that guy is an
alpha um and then there's guys like hey
guys who get laid a lot and and and our
players you know and and um you know
that those guys are alpha right and then
you'll have guys that are like people
men that are religious and have
religious values those guys are alpha
right and and the truth is it's just
like okay everyone has their own
definition and let's let's and when you
when people have ego or ego invested
into the definition of what they think
is the the ideal man or the ideal person
right you have to just wait
the rubber meets the road and let these
ideas be tested by
reality right like for example Ronda
Rousey everyone thought she
was the baddest [ย __ย ] in the world you
know the alpha female and everyone
bought into it and thought you know
she's a badass she kicks everyone's
asses and then she had that fight and
she got completely
destroyed like almost embarrassed
right and that's an example of someone
on someone kind of like showing the
world hey I'm this I'm this I'm this I'm
this I'm an alpha female I'm this I'm
this and then realizing that hey in
reality you can say that you can act
like it you can have this definition and
your fans can have a definition and the
people that follow you can have a
definition but the reality is you got
beat up right and now that ego comes
crashing the ego of your fans comes
crashing down right and then and that's
that's usually how it happens with like
human beings you know
so um you can ask Republicans or
conservatives they won't say it outright
but for them it's like Donald Trump
would be their Alpha you know the alpha
that they think a guy like himim a guy
that is you know believe agrees with
them a guy that has a hot wife and all
that stuff and here's the problem right
like R says in his essay Alpha is not a
demographic Alpha is a mindset
meaning you are not Alpha because your
achievements you get achievements
because you're Alpha like we're putting
the cart a lot of guys put the cart
before the horse and not the horse
before the cart right and that's
ultimately what the big takeaway from
this is is that you are you have these
achievements because you're Alpha you
have the multiple women or the hot wife
or the wife that every day you come
through that door she brings you a beer
and is super submissive to you and you
know have to neighborhood looks up to
you you don't have those things uh
you're not Alpha because you have those
things right you have those things
because you're an alpha huge distinction
right so what happens now that a lot of
guys want those things whether it be the
guys that want to have multiple women uh
hot women uh the guys that want to be
the you know the family patriarchal
types or the and you have the guys that
want to be these like leaders and
whatever Community you know they have
the content creators that want you know
like ah look all my followers I'm right
because I have a lot of followers and
they're all crapping on you whatever
right but the truth is you cannot just
you cannot like a lot of guys will say
well if I get those things then I'll be
Alpha right and this is what they do
they end up do getting those things
right you'll have the hustle like
example hustle gurus that will be like
hey uh I'm going to hustle do Bitcoin
whatever sell courses work really hard
on my job whatever and then I will get
into this
Alpha club right because my achievements
will is the ticket I use to get into the
alpha club and then I can tell other
people and then I will have I will be
like d bill zerion or I'll be like
whoever and I will be able
to um be an alpha I entered the alpha
club and then guess what's happens you
know you have they get screwed over by
crypto thought you know they get they're
heartbroken right they um they
get divorced and you know they they
become broken men who no longer can you
know they can't achieve anymore right
and uh this happens a lot with men that
come into a lot of money very fast where
they get a lot of money but they either
spend it on women and and you know like
you know they're saying a fool in his
money Parts quickly it's not because um
they it's not because
young men who come into a lot of money
fast or people General that come into a
lot of money fast it's
because they they didn't pay the cost
right to be the boss right like uh I
don't know who said that some rapper
said that right they need you need to
pay the cost to be the boss meaning that
guys like me who get to 35 and finally
have a little bit success with women
maybe good job career uh nice lifestyle
whatever right the fact that I had to
grind my way all the way up from being
an 18 year old loser loser nobody to 35
and maybe it's starting to hit my stride
in life you know have have sexual
compliance from women respect from
co-workers respect from strangers like
you guys you guys do respect my opinion
and tune in and think that I say right
things and then you know I build a
following online because people think
hey this guy talks some sense and this
guy's right um versus a guy that's 25
that gets a lot of money fast because he
plays video games really well or
anything that doesn't require a lot of
like struggle in life right while I had
to like you know had three deployments I
had to learn how to operate nuclear
reactors and then I had to there's so
many struggles that I had through my
life man some of you have worse
struggles than me and maybe some of you
had easier lives than me I don't know
and quite frankly I don't care that much
right that's not what we're here for but
um that the fact that I got through all
of those things right shows some traits
of a person that is Alpha you know grit
discipline um you know I had to tell
people to [ย __ย ] off a lot in my life
right and I'm not saying I'm an alpha
right let's stop classifying people
let's start looking at their traits the
the the the way they are rather than
what they have
achieved right and that is the
fundamental difference of why women
can't be Alphas because
women very rarely and maybe ever do not
show the same traits that men do
naturally and a lot of times they do get
positions of power but it's through some
kind of back door way some kind of you
know it their looks their gender have
something to do with it right for the
most part very rare that you have a
woman that's an alpha female like clams
solely based on the fact that she's a
badass you know there's always going to
be some kind of uh something to do with
her looks and that the fact that she's a
woman
so
um
because uh
because I throughout my 20s and early
30s was grinding hard and and I was like
like a resilient and I told people to f
off and I stayed in the gym right and I
was assertive you know I told my hey I
don't want to work here anymore unless
you pay me more and then they're like no
okay I'm working for this company and
women that didn't weren't on my program
I told them that hey get out of my life
then goodbye and um you know I also got
people out of my life that
weren't they were bad that were taking
advantage of me over time and that
ultimately ends up to this you know this
ability to be able to talk to you guys
about you know the dark truths about men
and women and sexal Dynamics blah blah
blah right that that is
what that is more of my mindset rather
than my achievements that that got me
here right it wasn't the fact that I
qualified a reactor operator that made
me an alpha right
it was the fact that I would bust
through doors and say hey I need help
and you're going to sit down and teach
me this and an assertive way right it
was the fact that I never made myself
the victim and said I gotta learn this
stuff even though it's hard and I'm
struggling with it or else you know my
time in the military is going to be
wasted you know it wasn't the fact that
the fact that I I slept with one or two
women in one week or three women in one
week that doesn't make me
Alpha that doesn't right because you can
give a guy a million dollars tell him
hey go to a club three for five days a
week throw cash and that little beta
will get his little dick sucked it's
just it it's you know right and that's
why we see all these stories of all
these influencers streamers athletes
getting destroyed by not only the media
by their friends by their wife and all
that stuff because yes they are talented
right but they don't have the mindset or
that mindset only was for their skill or
for their thing for their uh based on
their achievement right so they say hey
I'm a good basketball player or hey I
have a lot of followers they for Alpha
not the other way around you know and
that's why it makes sense when a lot of
men come into a lot of Fame power based
on solely the fact that they have these
skills right but they just don't have
the mindset of an alpha right and you a
good example of this is Donald Trump
right uh our former president where a
lot of people think he's Alpha because
you know the conservatives right because
they cannot see past this they you know
they think that any that Alpha is talk
to morality and all that stuff it's the
lamest thing ever right but morality is
not what got Trump elected or rich or uh
all that stuff right it was his he had
the dog in him right Trump got where he
got because he has the dog in
him right and when he was up for
election it wasn't the hey he's
religious or he this or he's that that
got him elected it was the fact that
people knew this guy was an alpha he
wasn't like hey I grabbed him by the
[ย __ย ] I grab Girls by the [ย __ย ] you know
like that was a big deal but he overcame
it because he had he had the
mindset right when he had those debates
with all those conservatives you know he
made them all look like they were super
soft and he insulted them he insulted
everyone right that's what Alphas do
right because that didn't come from here
that came from here he didn't he didn't
say hi do I how do I be president he
just said I'm going to be
myself and and he embarrassed everyone
right that's a great example of of of a
guy that everyone thinks he's Alpha
because he of his achievements and not
his
mindset
so everyone's going to plant their uh
their Flags down right and say this is
Alpha because this is what's important
to me or this is what I want to achieve
or this makes me feel good right women
do this too an alpha man is a guy that's
raises his kids I'm like no not even
nothing to do with being a good father
nothing at its core nothing right and
then a guy will say the same thing an
alpha is a guy who raises his kids and
I'm like
no right
um that is not even close to being an
alpha right because what they're trying
to say is that because I'm a father or
want to be a father and the girls are
saying because I want to slay I want a
guy to stay and give me that comfort and
parental investment that I
need um I'm going to fool man to
thinking that this is how they get me to
be sexually compliant is by showing
Comfort like uh sexual investment right
or parental investment sorry so women do
this you know they abuse it they move
they keep moving the goalpost right and
then you realize like women will never
be happy like whether you treat them
good or bad they'll never be happy right
they just need
um um they need uh indignation
constantly they need drama and they need
you they need the feeling that you might
leave at any moment in order to be
attracted now different women need
different levels of this right there are
women that one drw one little piece of
drama a little fight every three months
and they'll golden there women that need
it every week you know depending on who
you are you may able to supply that
maybe you
won't but uh
yeah so
so another thing I want uh I want to
mention is that you can't buy being an
alpha like I was saying before like you
can give you can give a guy a 22y old
guy no experience with women no
experience with life $5 million and a
woman will be there immediately to take
advantage of him and take his money
right um again money is just an
amplifier of what you are if you are a
Beta dork giving you a million dollars
is just going to make you a beta dork
with a million dollars
right
um and you can never you can't buy being
an alpha right and you this bothers guys
that are like the blue pill Alphas right
like the the guys who make a lot of
money but they praise their wife and
their wife is the center of their life
and they want to they constantly plating
women and defending women and doing all
this stuff and and they throw their
friends under the bus just so they can
defend a woman online or something like
that um but
uh it pisses them off right because they
see 25y old nuke and these guys are high
ranking uh high ranking military guys or
Rich guys or like guys that are
respected in their environment you know
maybe it's a familiar environment maybe
it's like a a sexual Zone and and
they're like you know the owner or you
know and they see n coming in here one
of you guys right um macking on women
and doing fine Charming just Charming
women the women are like haha you're so
funny and that pisses them off right and
why is it piss piss them off right you
know obviously there's a jealousy thing
that territor ter uh their territorial
right but beyond that it's because you
are showing them that this ticket that
they had the whole hustle grind level up
in life do everything like a good little
boy like their mothers and their fathers
and this gynocentric Society told them
to do doesn't mean [ย __ย ] when the rubber
hits the
road right their morality doesn't mean
[ย __ย ] their achievements don't mean [ย __ย ]
right because at the end of the day at
the end of the day young nuke or young
whoever of you guys in the chat [ย __ย ]
stepping up and talking to a woman and
being charming will always Trump the guy
with lots of money or lots of clout or
lots of uh convictions religious
convictions but with no charm and no
Alpha in him
now money will get you far with with
women right money status will get you
far but at some point at some
point whether your alpha or beta is
going to come out to the public or to
yourself or to anyone right and you can
see this all the time with men that even
men that make red pill content they
always get caught up with women they
always let women destroy their life or
and all that stuff the most Macho guys
right they lose
frame L sometimes live on there they
lose frame and they get mad and you know
and all that stuff right um but for the
most part guys
uh you can't buy being an alpha you
can't achieve your way to become an
alpha it's a [ย __ย ] mindset no matter
how hard you tried to to convince
yourself if I were the top engineer in
my firm if I if I uh was a pastor you
know or if I was a you know there are
fighter pilots there are in millionaire
entrepreneurs that are getting destroyed
by women that probably come to guys like
Troy Francis or Ral tomasi or Ryan for
help with women because they simply
don't have the mindset right they think
they they think I'm a fire pilot why
should I get girls or why should my wife
appreciate me and you know you you talk
to guys that like are inherently have
attractive careers attractive Lifestyles
and maybe they're physically attractive
too and you talk to them and I've done
consults with guys like this and they
tell me the story with I'm just like I
pointed out like four times where they
[ย __ย ] up already within the first five
minutes of them telling me a
story right um there are guys that wait
for like or dating women halfway across
the world and the women are like H you
know I'll see you when I see you and and
they ask me hey like what's up how come
she doesn't like me or doesn't want to
see me she said she loved me or she she
kissed me and I'm like dude you have a
lot going for you right the only thing
you don't have going for you is you
don't have the mindset you need to shift
that like and a lot of men they they
they were raised to be these like the
society got to them and using their
morals against
them they forgot how to say no to women
that's why the sidebar is so important
they they're they're nice guys they
don't know how to say no to people they
they don't have the mindset they're not
selfish right they they don't know how
to tell people they're scared of women's
emotions right these are all traits of
guys with the alpha
mindset right like if you if you tell a
girl hey I don't want to be with anymore
she starts crying you know then you're
like cry I don't care like this is I
don't want to be with you or if a girl
you're getting a girl and she finds out
that there's another girl in the picture
because she sees a hair pin in in the
bathroom or on your nightstand what are
you gonna do oh I'm so sorry I'm so
sorry I hurt your feelings just be like
hey you know like I am seeing other
people and see if she stays most of the
time they will
so that's really the biggest disconnect
and that's why a lot of people don't
like this content like outside of this
stuff like they hate it because it's
it's a mirror right I'm holding up a
mirror when you guys go to a pool party
or you guys go to a club or whatever
sexual Zone you guys choose to go to
this summer and you guys you may not be
the top dog you may not be the DJ you're
not may not be the bouncer you may not
be the bartender but you go in there you
start macking on some pretty girls look
at the looks you'll get from some of
those guys they'll be like what the [ย __ย ]
who does this guy think he is you may
get mateu guarding you may get
interrupted by them you know know it
happens right because at the end of the
day um at the end of the day you're
holding up the mirror to them that
despite all these um achievements or
status that they have right that Alpha
is a mindset the alpha is the guy the
young guy the 23y old guy that goes in
the club and just Maxs on women and you
know doesn't give a [ย __ย ] that's more
Alpha than the guy the DJ that stands in
the corner expecting women to come to
right
so this is a bit of a you know binary
example right because you know most DJs
are socially calibrated but I'm just you
know I'm using it as an example but
um your achievements are for you right
your achievements are like hey I
achieved this I'll put up my certificate
my college degree my Master's Degree my
uh you
know the things that I've achieved are
for you right and this is that
entitlement that guys get you you see
posts all the time like where guys are
like I'm this I'm muscular I have this
job and I opened up my Tinder account
and I still haven't gotten a date in
three months or every every day I go on
girls flake on me and all that stuff
right you could just tell like this guy
is a blue pill Alpha right because
though he has amassed all the things
that women want on
paper right he didn't amass the most
important thing women want is that that
dog in you the the alpha charm the
selfishness the FRA the the mental point
of origin right right the I'm spinning
multiple plates I'm not going to tell
you right right in front of you but I'm
going you know through my demeanor
through how relax and on Shalon I am and
through maybe minor evidence like a hair
pin or or a piece of hair on the floor
from another girl you're going to
know uh that I'm an alpha right and
there's no way to imitate this guys
now can you fake it till you make it
yeah you can definitely fake it but you
can't do it for long right so if you
guys are going out there trying a date
right you know you can't fake it till
you make it right there's no morality in
dating they're not using morality you're
not using morality right but um
eventually that's why it's so important
for guys to date multiple women at once
right we don't prescribe that we just
tell you what happens when you do there
is an inflection point in a man's life
right where he
says where he experiences multiple women
in a short period of time
it's like At first it's scary you feel
bad you have this like kind of like
moral like I shouldn't be doing this
this is wrong blah blah blah but then
after a while you're just like wait no
one cares no one's noticing these girls
like it the more playful and
disconnected I am the happier these
girls seem to be and the harder they and
the more they want to have sex with me
and that's why it's so important guys to
have that abundance right the experience
abundance I understand that there's some
religious convictions that don't allow
you to do that and all that stuff and
for the guys that can't get laid they'll
they'll you know portray it as like oh
this is the generous like no that's
that's your blue that's the blue pill
Alphas again trying to um attack Alphas
right so that's why we say it's so
important to have abundance guys because
it literally changes your
mindset there are there are inflection
points in a young man's life a man's
life where he finally starts seeing
unplugging for real like you can read
the rational male and unplug a little
bit right but these the the moment when
you start dating multiple women and you
stop feeling guilty and you realize like
these women want me to be a fun exciting
Charming guy they don't care about how I
got this place they don't care about how
I got jacked they don't care about how
smart I am on my degrees they want me to
just get it they want me to be fun
exciting they want to get LED on they
want jokes they want indignation and
then that's when the inflection point
happens and you can start shifting to an
alpha mindset
right and that's so hard for guys to get
there but that's why you need to get to
that place right and if you guys haven't
experienced that yet you and trust me
when you when you do and you will
because it's not that hard if you're
here already you're probably you know
you're probably on your
way or you're been on your way for a
while you're going to feel this kind of
masculine kind of like righteousness
that Patrice O'Neal talks about he keep
keeps telling guys he used to tell guys
you have to be [ย __ย ] righteous about
this righteous meaning that when you go
on a date and the girl gives it up you
got to be like yeah what do you think
was gonna
happen
right when the second girl gives it up
in the same week you're like yeah I went
on a date with a girl and I'm I'm an
attractive guy like I I'm not gonna you
know I'm not gonna think I'm not you
know I don't think I'm the best in the
world but like you know I'm duh you
know and that's what ends up happening
guys and that's the alpha mindset that
you have to achieve you can fake it but
realize that your little achievements
aren't going to get you laid all the
time it creates a core competency within
you where you're like hey I did
this right I graduated college and I got
a difficult degree or I had this
achievement or I can Dead live 405 I'm
in the 1% of this of man or whatever you
your version right and that's good for
you that's a deep confidence because
none of those things are for women
that's for you you did it for you right
but in terms of dealing with women you
have to have the mindset rather than you
have to lead with your mindset rather
than your
achievements or else you know you're
going to be like one of these guys that
argue with me that say Hey like
uh men that have families are better or
if if your marriage mind you're better
at dating and all that stuff like no
no right those men those men are so lost
right because it's it's just a matter of
mathematics who do you think is GNA meet
better women faster the guy that dates
multiple women or the guy that waits for
a girl once in a while to show up to his
door right and that's why they they
don't like that either because they hate
the fact that there's guys out there
extremely rare extremely rare that have
maximized their Logistics their looks
their mindset and are charming and then
they get to this
point right where it's
like holy [ย __ย ] my life is a lie because
there's guys out there that are taking
girls
virginities and they have no [ย __ย ]
morals that's
unfair that's unfair I deserve virgin
cuz religious and hardworking and
muscular you see you see how unsexy that
sounds to a
girl whereas the guys are like they have
they they they the alpha guys with the
alpha mindset will go out and be
like hey if you want to hang out sure I
I if not
whatever I like to see you but you know
it's whatever it's whatever you want
what it sounds more enticing you know
the guy that's like give me sex give me
things I deserve I came first so you
deserve to give me your loyalty or the
guys like hey if you [ย __ย ] up you're gone
right but if you're here I like you so
whatever you know you know the second
guy you know obviously it's an
exaggeration almost cartoonish
exaggeration right but that that's just
the way women think right and that's why
we say always experience abundance
abundance is the Cornerstone of the
alpha mindset because if you don't
experience abundance is very difficult
to
pretend Right girls can feel it they
they they are pattern recognition
machines you're like hey he should have
texted me it's 6 PM why hasn't he
texting me yet he must be out with
another girl and then she'll text a
selfie of her you know with her boobs
out or something and that's just the way
it is guys like it's it's it's that
simple right don't let these people
these moralists tell you what an alpha
is I'm going to show you guys a chart
here
let me see if it's in this essay all
right
so uh this this chart is from Rolo's
essay so if you guys want to just look
up uh the title of this stream on Google
and it should show hold on let me blow
it up and let me share it
present all
right so there you go guys
this is a very important
um graph
here right
because the leaders of men
here the religious leaders the content
creators that think they're leaders and
all that stuff they think they have
nothing in common with the societal
scumbags right obviously they look at
guys that are red pills at scumback
right like guys that we just go out and
hurt women and lie to them and they
don't want you know we trick them into
sex with with mind games like PE like
game and and all that stuff right
but
here these guys don't want to be
associated with these guys but the
reason that these guys get laid and
these guy gets laid is the same thing
and the reason that the the alphas that
we write down on paper you know muscular
blah blah get laid a lot is because of
the same reason these guys get laid and
the same reason these guys get laid and
they don't want to admit it
right and that's that's why you you get
so much push back when you talk about
who's an alpha and who's a beta because
you have to explain to these dorks over
here that the reason you guys get girls
is the same reason these scumbags get
girls same biology same thing right and
the same reason these guys get laid is
the same reason these guys get laid is
the same reason these guys get
laid right
um and it really is that simple guys
it's
it's you
know you you can't uh you can't hold on
oh
crap you can't tie your selfworth to
your accomplish right your selfworth is
your selfworth meaning that if you lived
under a bridge
let's say you lost everything tonight
and you had to live under a bridge
tomorrow are you still you are you still
the
man that's how you got to think right if
I get kicked out of my house and I lose
everything am I still the man you know
we got a $4 Super
Chat you get one of these sir thank
you thank you so much best
all right sorry
guys
um Julian Reyes for the $4 says for the
cost thanks man I will use that for a uh
for a for a good uh What do you call
it for the cause but like what was the
word blanking right now anyways uh thank
you sir I appreciate
it uh let's see let's cut some let's
catch some of these checks uh Alpha's
overused and miss use definition
different based on yeah exactly it's
container word it doesn't mean anything
because everyone has their own little
definition of it right and that's why
because of that
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chart yeah Alpha is an extraction to
represent seally desirable like Al like
Rolo says it's men that other men want
to be and other women want to [ย __ย ] so
that's that's it that's an
alpha being a bully and robbing some guy
is certainly dominant but I'm to call
that in Alin it's beer the only way for
that to be a success is to pick a weaker
Target that's cowardly i' say yeah but
Mother Nature you know Mother Nature
when they when the Lions hunt
right they they choose weaker prey to
eat right so we're not going by that
we're not going by morality or what's
right or what's wrong you know or what's
injust or Injustice right we're going by
simply who has the power in the
situation right and that's that's that
ego that we have to get over like hey
it's a it's who has power in the
situation right right now a lot of
conservatives can't believe that Joe
Biden has power right now they hate it
it burns them every day right but
realize that he is the
alpha he is the alpha
so yeah there's a lot of
fakers yeah crypto Bros were walking
licks to harpies yeah it was ridiculous
how much of that crypto money is is uh
got exchanged to o chicks and all those
girls you
know yeah they didn't walk to path to
get
there yeah resilient but also like
resilience you know a lot of people are
resilient right but like I think for me
it was more of
a you know you have to have this you
have to be
uh
determined right because you could be
resilient resilient just means you just
take [ย __ย ] all day right but determin
means you take [ย __ย ] and then you do
something about it until you get your
acquired goal it's very proactive
right
um s you're not giving up to what the
little potatoes say make him win the
minute he left the media dictate what he
said and C softly he lost his appeal and
Alpha does what I want doesn't ask
questions go post let me
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see hair tie on the gear ship yes good
one yeah been there before um Alpha
equals narcissist yeah that's just the
word that uh women use when women use
these words like like shaming words like
narcissist or selfish all that stuff
what they're trying to do is is this guy
for real is this guy like gonna like
fold is he guy gonna acest to my
morality and my frame or is this guy
gonna like be like [ย __ย ] it this guy is
he gonna care right and that's why it's
a [ย __ย ] test like that's what [ย __ย ] test
is she's trying to see is this guy who
he says he is is he really the alpha
that I think he could be let me see and
that's why narcissism is is thrown out
there because it's meant to shame you oh
you don't want to be a narcissist
because that's evil like no that's why
it's important when when you get [ย __ย ]
tested guys double down it's just
yeah uh so nuk how much would you
financially invest in your LTR GF not a
lot women don't really cost that much
money if they're into you um they do
cost money but you don't need to be
taking them out that much and all that
so
yeah all
right see
y huge Health decline I still like I was
the man was hard to hold the frame yeah
it's hard to hold frame sometimes guys
but like remember um it it starts with
your mind it starts up here right always
think in your life that you are still
you regardless of if uh you lose your
wife your job your house whatever you
you're still you you're still the man if
you did it once you could do it again
right and that's why it's so important
for guys that go through bad breakups
divorcees is that if you lose the money
if you lose the reputation if you lose a
lot of your things in life you can
always get them back the only thing you
can't get back is your time right but
now you're GNA have a lot more time
because you know you're not you're not
living with your wife or girlfriend but
your your your
mindset right is the most important
thing
and you can't fake that you can't buy it
right you're gonna get a lot of hate you
know because people want their
achievements to speak for them and be
like I am this and yes it does get women
right you if you go to a crypto
conference and you make a lot of money
off of crypto there's going to be girls
kind of like eyeing you they may even
have sex with you right but if you had
no money if that's a little you know
hyperbolic if you were just a regular
guy if you were the guy that
um met her at a bar or met her on the
street or got a Tinder date with her
would it be the same outcome whether you
were did well in crypto or
not right there is a burden of
performance right you have to get jacked
you have to make money you have to do
all these things right and that's to to
get give yourself a better life and a
better position and better allow you to
get better Logistics and better
positioning in order to get women right
but when the rubber hits them up when
you're in front of her and she's s on a
date and it's a sweaty summer day and
her boobs are sweaty she's looking good
and she's laughing at you you know are
you going to have the dogging
you you regular guy earning a regular
salary with above average physique are
you gonna have the dog in you say hey
let's go back to my
place are you gonna have the dog in you
to tell her no when she says hey can we
hang out today are you going to have the
dog in you right while you're having sex
with her to choke her her slap
her say all the dirty things she wants
to hear that her beta orbiters will
never never have the heart to say
including the Millionaires and and all
the high performing men right do you
have the dog in you like
that that is that is that is the most
important thing women look for in a
relationship the other stuff is just
first off you have you know you don't
tell like I wouldn't recommend telling
women hey I live under a bridge when
you're talking to them as part of like
your game because when you're first
talking to women you need to to kind of
show them that you're not weird right
because they are meeting a stranger
right you they don't know you they don't
know what they're getting into right so
you need to build a little bit of
comfort not as part of relationship as
part of hey I'm meeting a stranger so a
little bit of comfort saying this is
where I live this is what I do I'm not a
weirdo right but when the rubber hits
the r you're in front of her you let the
charm go right the alpinis go you don't
talk about your achievements how cool
you are you know you talk about you give
her stories that show you how badass you
are in a very subtle way almost hidden
in the story
right and then you lead with the alpha
side right and here
is um here is the ultimate like kind of
thing that guys don't understand this
alha beta [ย __ย ] you need to be both right
guys are so afraid of being considered
beta that they'll say I'm an alpha and I
do this and I spend money on women right
blah blah blah I'm like listen relax
dude you need both right but you need to
lead and have majority Alpha right 8020
you can't be too much Alpha because
women will think this guy's crazy or
this guy's or you'll go to prison or
something like that right you can't be
too much beta because that's everyone
else and you'll be just another boring
dork Orbiter wasting your time and be
you know the Dork women want both it is
so rare to find both and if a guy has
both it's usually out of whack it's
usually 80% beta and 20% Alpha you want
to be 80% beta sorry Alpha sorry excuse
me
and um that will yield the best
results and if you guys think for a
second that any of these guys these
traditional conservative husbands right
are these super Alphas right that you
know they they're just so handsome and
and they agree with their wife so much
and they have this loving affection
around them and they give their wife so
they defer to their wife and their wife
is so amazing and smart like I'm tired
of seeing right that's [ย __ย ] right
she's the he's the beta that she settled
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friend uh yeah the god ATT with the wife
first guys the guys that uh make content
with their wife or something online I
don't know there's so many versions of
this stuff right but
um yeah the guys that think that Alpha
is the way you dress if I wear a suit
I'm an alpha the way you spend money if
I spend a lot of money on my girl buying
Gucci bags I'm an
alpha come on now um if
I oh there's guys that if you don't do
things oh if you watch anime you're a
beta dor and I'm like really yeah just
would you trust me around your
girlfriend then if I'm a beta dork would
you let your girlfriend come go with me
to an anime
convention no right because you don't
[ย __ย ] believe that you're an insecure
dude right oh if he doesn't lift weights
or he doesn't do this or he does that
I'm like dude I've been to salsa nights
where I've been you know had my eye on a
girl and some dude some schlubby guy
just took from right under my nose do
you know why because he took more action
than I did and that is that is the great
thing guys about these sexual zones and
these high competition zones with women
because you may not have a lot of
success or you may not like it right but
you get to see that your stupid degree
your stupid achievements all that stuff
they're not stupid right but like in
this context they're stupid um the fact
that I am maybe a little bit smarter
than the average person I was a nuclear
operator that I lift weights and I'm
have a YouTube channel and I have a
little bit of cloud or whatever doesn't
mean [ย __ย ]
right if I don't act if I don't ask that
girl out in front of me or ask her to
dance or say Hey or and and I'm
aggressive nothing happens no matter how
alpha my achievements are the mindset is
what makes it happen the mindset of me
going up to her and be like hey let's
dance and while I'm dancing spit heavy
game
right Mr steel your girl isn't because
he's famous rich or anything like that
Mr Steal Your Girl is because he has the
alpha mindset
oh man dude that's a that's a show for
another day you know if you guys are if
you guys want leave a comment below if
you guys want to hear the story My
backstory then we can do an episode on
that right remember but remember my
channel is not about me it's
about the red it's about sharing notes
and and Rule zero right but if you guys
want I can do an episode about my
backstory and all that stuff but yeah
guys uh Al a mindset now demographic
right and I'm going to read you my essay
the last part of my essay on patreon
about you know title as such and then
I'll head out for the day
right
so we see all the time that men want to
get into the good old boy club masculine
alphaness by following a script these
scripts all vary and are sometimes
defined by thought leaders online
bearded masculinity coaches politicians
and sadly conservative postm women men
enjoy these scripts because they're easy
to follow and it's a ticket to be
considered Alpha Along Comes The Red
Pill to tell them the brutal realities
about being a more sexually viable
choice for women we tell that being an
alpha is a mindset and a demographic you
cannot buy being an alpha those this
particularly bothers the blue pill
Alphas the high ranking military men the
hustle culture guys the well-off
corporate Bros and any other high
performing men who go home to be bossed
around by their wife and feel like
giving her things plating her and
deferring to her these men hate
less performing men getting full sexual
compliance from women that they
themselves have to spoil financially or
so they think buying the cow when other
men get the milk for free this s of
thinking forces men to face the reality
that maybe they're not the alha they
they were told they were for following
the script they were given it is having
to face that maybe their life is a
lie their life is a lie is there hope
for men like this difficult to say Alpha
is a mindset not a demographic
so
uh all right guys that's all I have
short episode today I got a I got a I
got some stuff to do for work and all
that stuff so short episode today but uh
thanks guys for tuning in um thanks for
the Super Chat guys and uh I will see
you later
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