6 Inexplicably Attractive Things Men Do
Summary
TLDRIn this video, Victoria shares intimate insights into the female mind, revealing behaviors she finds attractive in her boyfriend that might not be conventionally appealing. From him standing up for her to displaying primal strength and self-control, she explores the allure of these actions on a primal level. She also discusses the appeal of a man's private interests and uncontrollable passion, highlighting the importance of a man's independence and leadership qualities as attractive traits. Victoria invites viewers to share their thoughts on these examples and ponders if they find them intriguing or off-putting.
Takeaways
- π Victoria shares personal insights into what she finds attractive in her boyfriend's behavior, aiming to help viewers understand the female perspective.
- πͺ When her boyfriend stands up for her and himself in front of others, she finds it very attractive, highlighting the appeal of assertiveness.
- π€ΌββοΈ She admits to finding physical aggression, when playful or assertive, thrilling and attractive on a primal level.
- π Victoria appreciates when her boyfriend shows self-control by leaving to work, which she sees as a sign of independence and strength.
- π She finds it appealing when her boyfriend shares his private interests, such as his porn collection, as it feels intimate and reveals a part of his world.
- π₯ Expressing uncontrollable passion and lust is attractive to her, as it demonstrates a man's primal desires and a deep connection.
- π« In group situations, she finds it attractive when her boyfriend takes charge and organizes things, showing leadership and reliability.
- π€ Victoria ponders the societal vilification of male primal sexuality, suggesting that it's both criticized and attractive.
- π§ She emphasizes the importance of having one's own life and interests, as it makes a person more attractive by not being overly dependent on a partner.
- π The video transcript invites viewers to reflect on what behaviors they find attractive and to challenge societal norms and expectations.
- π’ Victoria encourages open discussion in the comments, seeking to understand what others find attractive in a partner.
Q & A
What is the main theme of Victoria's video?
-The main theme of Victoria's video is to reveal some personal insights into what she finds attractive about her boyfriend's behavior from a 'primal level' perspective.
Why did Victoria find it attractive when her boyfriend stood up for her?
-Victoria found it attractive because it demonstrated her boyfriend's protective nature and strength, which can be seen as a primal sign of attractiveness.
What does Victoria mean by 'physically aggressive' behavior in a relationship?
-Victoria refers to playful and non-harmful physical interactions, such as a light push or pull, which she finds thrilling and attractive on a primal level.
Why does Victoria find her boyfriend's self-control and focus on work attractive?
-Victoria finds it attractive because it shows that he has a life and responsibilities outside of their relationship, indicating independence and strength.
What does Victoria mean by 'evolutionarily speaking' in the context of her boyfriend's qualities?
-She is referring to the idea that certain behaviors are seen as attractive because they would have been beneficial in the context of survival and reproduction in the past.
Why does Victoria find it appealing when her boyfriend shares his private sexual interests?
-She finds it appealing because it allows her a glimpse into his private world, which can feel intimate and exclusive, showing a level of trust and openness.
What does Victoria mean by 'uncontrollable passion and lust'?
-Victoria is referring to a state where a man is so attracted to a woman that he behaves in a way that is driven purely by his primal desires, which she finds beautiful and attractive.
Why is Victoria's boyfriend's ability to take care of a group attractive to her?
-His ability to lead and organize is attractive because it demonstrates responsibility, capability, and a sense of control, which are seen as high-status traits.
What societal views does Victoria challenge regarding male primal sexuality?
-Victoria challenges the societal view that male primal sexuality is something to be ashamed of or vilified, arguing instead that it is a natural and attractive aspect of human behavior.
What does Victoria invite from her audience at the end of the video?
-Victoria invites her audience to share their thoughts on the examples she provided and to comment on whether they find similar behaviors attractive or repulsive.
Outlines
π Unveiling the Attraction of Assertiveness
In this paragraph, Victoria introduces her video's theme, which is to share insights into the female mind, specifically her own perspective. She discusses how certain behaviors by her boyfriend, such as standing up for her and himself in front of others, are not typically seen as attractive but are deeply appealing on a primal level. This behavior demonstrates strength and protectiveness, which are attractive traits from an evolutionary standpoint.
π² The Thrill of Physical Assertiveness
Victoria explores the idea that physical assertiveness, when done playfully, can be very attractive. She explains that when her boyfriend uses his strength in a joking manner, it triggers a thrilling, primal response. This behavior breaks societal norms and reveals a 'wild' side that is intriguing and appealing, suggesting that a certain level of dominance can be attractive in a relationship context.
π The Appeal of Self-Control and Independence
The third point Victoria makes is about the attractiveness of self-control, particularly when her boyfriend leaves to focus on work. She finds it appealing that he can easily disengage and manage his responsibilities, indicating that he is not overly dependent on her. This shows he has a life outside of their relationship, which is a sign of strength and independence, qualities that are often seen as attractive in a partner.
π³ The Intimacy of Sharing Private Interests
In this paragraph, Victoria talks about the intimacy and appeal of her boyfriend sharing his private sexual interests with her, such as his porn collection. She finds this openness attractive as it allows her a glimpse into his world, separate from their shared life. This sharing of personal interests can create a deeper bond and trust between partners.
π The Power of Uncontrollable Passion
Victoria describes the allure of a man expressing uncontrollable passion and lust, likening it to a trance-like state that slows down time and gives everything a magical energy. She observes this in her boyfriend and finds it incredibly attractive, as it shows a raw, primal side of male sexuality that is both powerful and beautiful. She encourages men to embrace their sexuality rather than feel ashamed of it.
π The Attraction of Leadership in Group Settings
The final point Victoria discusses is the attractiveness of a man taking charge in group situations. She shares an anecdote about her boyfriend organizing a birthday party, demonstrating leadership and responsibility. This ability to take control and organize is seen as a high-status behavior, which is attractive to women as it shows the man's capability to provide and protect.
Mindmap
Keywords
π‘Sticking up for
π‘Physically aggressive
π‘Self-control
π‘Private sexual interest
π‘Uncontrollable passion
π‘Group leadership
π‘Attraction
π‘Primal level
π‘Evolutionary
π‘Intimacy
π‘Dating advice
Highlights
Victoria shares personal insights into the female mind in this video.
She discusses behaviors her boyfriend does that she finds attractive on a primal level.
Victoria finds it attractive when her boyfriend stands up for her and himself in front of others.
She is drawn to physical aggression from her boyfriend, like playful pushing or shaking, on a primal level.
Victoria is attracted to her boyfriend's self-control, like when he leaves to focus on work.
She finds it appealing when her boyfriend has his own life and purpose separate from her.
Victoria is intrigued by her boyfriend showing her his private sexual interests, like his porn collection.
She finds it attractive when he expresses uncontrollable passion and lust for her.
Victoria appreciates her boyfriend taking charge and caring for the group in social situations.
She discusses the societal vilification of male primal sexuality, while also finding it attractive.
Victoria invites viewers to share what they find attractive in the opposite sex.
She asks for feedback on whether these examples are truly sick or not.
Victoria emphasizes the importance of breaking societal norms and embracing primal desires.
She highlights the value of self-control and having a separate life as attractive qualities.
Victoria discusses the appeal of a man taking charge and being a leader in group situations.
She wraps up the video by encouraging viewers to share their thoughts in the comments.
Transcripts
hello guys it is me Victoria and for
today's video I want to make another
secrets of the female mind one another
intimate revealing one about myself so
if you want to say that please keep
watching if you don't want to see that
please do not keep watching so I was
thinking like what could help you guys
my my followers or people who just come
across this video you know what would be
helpful video and I thought for guys
what would be helpful is to really like
get some good insight into the female
mind and so I I point I wrote down for
you guys a few things that my boyfriend
has done which to the average person
would not seem to be like hot or
attractive or appealing but our primal
level were very attractive and even I'm
not sure why I mean I have some ideas
obviously but yeah so let's let's get
into those and I think that maybe by
hearing these you guys might be able to
see the pattern yourself like better
than I even can so let's get into it
alright so one time my boyfriend he
stuck up for me in front of this other
guy and he kind of like stuck up for
himself and like challenged the guy and
I found that very attractive basically
there was this guy he was being kind of
mean to me and my boyfriend stepped in
and kind was just like hey hey hey buddy
you know just it's not very nice and
everything and you kind of didn't let
the guy like get the best of him and for
some reason that was very attractive so
my number one thing is sticking up for
himself and me in front of other guys so
number two thing alright guys this is
gonna be a crazy one is physically
aggressive with me I really find it like
dwelling on this whole nother level when
my boyfriend
really
he uses his strength maybe he's you know
usually joking little push me or pull me
or shake me I find it a lot of fun but
more so than that it's just something
thrilling about it on this primal level
I think I already said that but it's
like very very attractive because you
know we're so like buttoned up in our
normal wives that when someone just
breaks free and what's like the wild
animal side out of themselves like come
on you can't help but find that somewhat
of a wild thrill all right number three
thing is when he leaves me to go do work
and has like self-control so like we
spend a lot of time together but
sometimes he'll just be like you know I
have to get away like I have to get
stuff done and he just can kind of like
easily leave me and for some reason I
find that like really attractive cuz
it's like he's not like my slave like he
still has control himself and he's still
I can do what needs to be done without
just being like totally hypnotized by my
magnetic powers or whatever but yeah I
mean I hear dating coaches for men talk
about this a lot like you need kind of
purpose like apart from the girl and you
need two girls find it attractive like
when you have your own life and the same
thing for women honestly like they give
the same advice to women about that but
I've noticed it's really true because
you are kind of always I feel like
wanting to know that the person is like
strong and capable and sort of like not
totally like mine [Β __Β ] and destroyed
by your influence so that evolutionarily
speaking you know they can
Jennifer you protect you have high value
like in the wild both for both men and
women just some random musings alright
so number four is a weird one all right
very weird
probably for most women but I like it
when he shows me his private sexual
interest ie his porn collection
because it's like again kind of like the
last one like that's his world that's
kind of like something he does without
me and he has like all his own interests
and it's just kind of like his sounds
horrible say like passion but you know
like it's just kind of like his world
his private world and also they just
feel so like intimate cuz it's so secret
you know so then we chairs with me I
just find it like attractive it's like
I'm getting a look to the world of real
live mysterious unknown man entity
number five is expresses uncontrollable
passion and lust for me there's
something about this alright it's when a
guy gets like really turned on to the
point where he becomes in a trance
alright and everything takes on this
kind of magical energy it kind of gets
slowed down and they don't really act
like themselves anymore like guys I've
noticed this multiple times like when
especially there needs to be a stripper
oh I see this in lap dances all the time
and absolutely loved it was absolutely
incredible the guy it's like his brain
he's got whitewashed and inside it's
just sex brain and
they're just acting from like pure male
primal desires and expressing like
ultimate passion and lust for me or for
a woman and it's just a beautiful thing
and it's kind of asked me how a lot of
guys you know they've been ashamed for
their sexuality a lot as well
women have too but still have met and
it's sad the women have kind of
convinced them that that's like
disgusting when it's actually not you
know things are seldom what they seem
out there and you know there's many lies
and cover-ups and things that seem one
way but aren't exactly that when you
look deeper so that's one of those
things like you know male primal
sexuality it's vilified to some extent
in our society but it's very attractive
at the same time yeah so anyway number
six is like one more in a group
situation and he takes care of the group
kind of like lead script like this one
time you know we had to get we were at a
birthday party and he was in charge of
like getting a car and everyone else was
just kind of like going crazy and doing
another thing he like took he like had
it all under control
and everyone was just like oh thanks you
organized everything for us and like we
didn't even have to worry and I was just
like no comment because it was very
attractive so that's another kind of
like to pull mail dating advice thing
they give man was just you know she
wants you to be the leader and stuff and
joint you got high status like maybe I
have something to do with that but yeah
you want to make you want to know the
guy can like you know take care of
things it's an attractive quality so
yeah what do you guys think what do you
guys think of these examples I would
love to know honestly if there's
anything that girls do that you find
kind of eggs looks like
attractive like this it would be very
fascinating for me to know and yeah do
you think this is like truly sick let me
know in the comments below and goodbye
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