Top Sales Techniques That Will Make You Super RICH! | Jordan Belfort

Evan Carmichael
3 Feb 201823:36

Summary

TLDRIn this motivational sales video, Jordan Belfort, known as the 'Wolf of Wall Street,' imparts his wisdom on mastering the art of selling. He emphasizes the importance of transferring certainty and emotion to the customer, establishing oneself as an expert, and the significance of controlling the sales encounter. Belfort shares insights on the psychology of sales, including the concept of a 'straight-line' approach to consistently close deals, and the necessity of matching and mirroring to build rapport. His message is geared towards inspiring salespeople to believe in their abilities and to refine their skills to achieve success.

Takeaways

  • πŸ˜€ Great salespeople understand that persistence is key, often requiring multiple 'no's before a 'yes' is achieved.
  • 🎯 Taking control of the sales encounter is crucial; it allows for a more consistent and predictable sales process.
  • 🌟 Believing in one's own abilities and products is essential to convey certainty and enthusiasm to potential customers.
  • πŸ“ˆ Learning from successful individuals can influence and improve one's mindset, beliefs, and thinking patterns.
  • πŸ’‘ Sales is fundamentally about the transfer of emotion, particularly the emotion of certainty about the value of the product being sold.
  • πŸ“‰ The 'certainty scale' is a concept where a salesperson must shift the prospect's perception from uncertainty (a 1) to absolute certainty (a 10) about the product.
  • πŸ”‘ The initial interaction in a sale sets the tone, with the first few seconds critical for establishing sharpness, enthusiasm, and expertise.
  • πŸ”„ Mirroring or matching a prospect's body language and tone can create rapport and trust, which are important for a successful sale.
  • 🚫 Recognizing and managing objections effectively by keeping the conversation within 'healthy boundaries' ensures control of the sale.
  • πŸ’¬ The importance of tonality, body language, and presenting benefits over features in the sales pitch was highlighted as a key to success.
  • πŸ›‘ Strategic preparation is vital for creating an airtight case to persuade prospects logically and emotionally.

Q & A

  • What is the key emotion that a salesperson should transfer to their prospects according to Jordan Belfort?

    -The key emotion a salesperson should transfer is certainty, which means being absolutely certain that the product being sold is the best and offers the most value.

  • What does Belfort suggest is the primary reason for Warren Buffett's success in sales?

    -Belfort suggests that Warren Buffett's success in sales can be attributed to his ability to influence and persuade, which he honed through taking Dale Carnegie's course.

  • What is the concept of the 'straight-line' in sales as described by Jordan Belfort?

    -The 'straight-line' in sales refers to a strategy where a salesperson guides the prospect from a state of uncertainty to a state of absolute certainty about the product, ultimately leading to a sale.

  • How does Belfort define the term 'certainty scale' in the context of sales?

    -The 'certainty scale' is a continuum that represents the level of certainty a prospect has about the product. It ranges from 'A1', indicating the worst possible opinion of the product, to 'A10', representing absolute certainty that the product is the best choice.

  • What is the significance of the 'water line' analogy used by Belfort in explaining the sales process?

    -The 'water line' analogy is used to illustrate the progress of a sales pitch. Being 'above the water line' signifies success (getting a 'yes'), while being 'below the water line' means the salesperson is still working towards overcoming objections and building certainty in the prospect's mind.

  • According to the transcript, what are the three crucial things a salesperson must establish within the first four seconds of a sales call?

    -The three crucial things are: being perceived as sharp and on the ball, showing genuine enthusiasm, and demonstrating expertise in the field.

  • What is the importance of matching and mirroring in building rapport with a prospect during a sales interaction?

    -Matching and mirroring are important as they help establish a subconscious connection with the prospect, making them feel more comfortable and understood, which can facilitate a more successful sales interaction.

  • What does Belfort mean by 'born closers' in the context of sales?

    -By 'born closers', Belfort refers to individuals who naturally follow effective sales strategies and are able to close deals successfully without having to consciously think about the steps involved.

  • How did Belfort prepare for his first day as a salesman, and what was the outcome?

    -Belfort spent three hours writing a script for his sales pitch on his first day. This strategic preparation led to him becoming the top broker on his first day, breaking all records.

  • What is the difference between 'winging it' and 'strategic preparation' in sales according to Belfort?

    -Winging it refers to selling without a clear plan or script, relying on natural talent or improvisation. Strategic preparation, on the other hand, involves carefully planning and scripting the sales pitch to systematically guide the prospect towards a purchase decision.

  • What are the three states that Belfort suggests are crucial for success in business and wealth accumulation?

    -The three states are certainty (being sure of one's actions), clarity (not being overwhelmed), and courage (acting in the face of fear).

Outlines

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πŸš€ The Art of Selling with Certainty

The first paragraph introduces the concept of selling with certainty and the importance of influence and persuasion in sales. It emphasizes that great salespeople understand the process of receiving multiple 'no's before a 'yes' and the idea that taking control of the encounter can make every sale the same. The speaker, Jordan Belfort, shares his belief in the potential of the audience and encourages them to learn from successful individuals like Warren Buffett and Bill Gates. The paragraph also touches on the idea that sales are about transferring emotion, specifically certainty, to the customer.

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🌊 The Sales Continuum and Emotional Transfer

This paragraph delves into the metaphor of a 'certainty continuum', comparing it to a water line, where salespeople need to raise the prospect's level of certainty towards their product or service. It explains that the average prospect starts with a low level of certainty, and it's the salesperson's job to transfer their own high level of certainty to the prospect. The paragraph also discusses the importance of maintaining control during the sales process and the concept of 'straight-line' selling, where the salesperson keeps the interaction focused and on track.

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πŸ•’ Establishing Expertise in the First Four Seconds

The third paragraph focuses on the critical first four seconds of a sales interaction, where a salesperson must establish three crucial elements: sharpness, enthusiasm, and expertise. It discusses the importance of making a strong initial impression to avoid losing control of the sale. The speaker shares insights on how to be perceived as an expert and the psychological conditioning people have towards respecting authority and expertise, which can be leveraged in sales.

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🀝 Matching and Mirroring for Rapport Building

This paragraph discusses the technique of matching and mirroring as a powerful tool for building rapport with prospects. It explains that by subtly adjusting one's body language to match that of the prospect, a salesperson can create a sense of connection and trust. The speaker also touches on the importance of managing one's emotional state during sales interactions and how different states can impact performance.

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πŸ† Mastering Key Emotional States for Sales Success

The fifth paragraph emphasizes the importance of mastering certain emotional states to achieve sales success. It identifies certainty, clarity, and courage as the three key states that need to be managed effectively. The speaker shares a personal anecdote about his first day as a top broker and how he prepared a script to ensure a successful sales pitch, highlighting the value of strategic preparation in sales.

Mindmap

Keywords

πŸ’‘Influence

Influence refers to the capacity to have an effect on the character, development, or behavior of someone or something. In the context of the video, it is a critical skill for salespeople to persuade and convince potential customers. The script mentions that without the ability to influence and persuade, one cannot effectively put themselves out there into the world, emphasizing its importance in the sales process.

πŸ’‘Sales

Sales is the process of selling products or services to customers in exchange for money. The script discusses the art of selling as the transfer of emotion, particularly the emotion of certainty. It also highlights the idea that every sale involves a journey of raising the prospect's level of certainty towards the product or service being offered.

πŸ’‘Certainty

Certainty in the video is described as a state of being absolutely sure or confident about something. It is a primary emotion that salespeople aim to transfer to their prospects. The script uses the metaphor of a 'line of certainty' with a scale from 1 to 10, where 10 represents absolute certainty, illustrating how salespeople must be in this state to effectively sell.

πŸ’‘Persuasion

Persuasion is the act of convincing someone to believe or do something. The video emphasizes the importance of persuasion in sales, as it is through persuasion that a salesperson can influence a prospect's decision. The script mentions that Warren Buffett advised students to take a course in sales and persuasion to increase their value in the workplace.

πŸ’‘Momentum

Momentum, in the context of the video, refers to the build-up of energy or force that allows for continued progress or growth. The script mentions 'momentum II series' as a way to learn from successful people and absorb their mindsets and beliefs, which can help in building momentum in one's own endeavors.

πŸ’‘Belief

Belief is the acceptance that something exists or is true, especially one without proof. In the video, belief is portrayed as a driving force behind success. The speaker believes in the audience's potential and encourages them to believe in themselves, which is a central theme in motivating individuals to achieve their goals.

πŸ’‘Emotion Transfer

Emotion Transfer is the concept of conveying emotions from one person to another. The script describes selling as the transfer of emotion, specifically the emotion of certainty. This is a key aspect of the sales process, where the salesperson must be in a state of high certainty to influence the prospect's feelings towards the product or service.

πŸ’‘Control

Control in the video refers to the ability to manage or direct the sales encounter. It is crucial for salespeople to maintain control to ensure the sale progresses as desired. The script discusses the importance of taking control of the encounter and having the skills to keep the sales process on a 'straight line', which is a metaphor for a smooth and controlled sales process.

πŸ’‘Straight-Line Selling

Straight-Line Selling is a sales technique mentioned in the script, which involves a controlled and systematic approach to selling. It is about guiding the prospect through a process that raises their level of certainty towards the product or service. The script uses the term to describe an ideal sales process where the salesperson maintains control and effectively transfers their certainty to the prospect.

πŸ’‘Rapport

Rapport is the establishment of a harmonious or sympathetic relationship, particularly in communication. The script touches on the concept of matching and mirroring as a way to build rapport with the prospect. This technique involves subtly adjusting one's behavior to align with the prospect's, creating a sense of connection and trust.

πŸ’‘State Management

State Management refers to the ability to control and regulate one's emotions and mental state. In the video, it is mentioned as a key to success, not just in sales but in various aspects of life. The script explains that being able to manage one's state can influence performance, with examples given such as patience for a parent or certainty for a businessman.

Highlights

Salespeople need to understand that it takes multiple 'no's to get to a 'yes'.

Taking control of the encounter is crucial to making every sale the same.

Belief in one's own abilities and products is essential for successful selling.

Surrounding oneself with successful individuals can influence one's mindset and success.

Warren Buffett emphasizes the importance of sales and communication skills in the workplace.

Sales is fundamentally about the transfer of emotion, particularly the emotion of certainty.

The concept of certainty scale in sales, where a 10 represents absolute certainty and a 1 represents the worst.

Salespeople must project a high level of certainty to influence the prospect's perception.

The importance of establishing oneself as sharp, enthusiastic, and an expert within the first four seconds of a sales call.

The analogy of the 'water line' in sales, representing the fluctuating state of a sale's success.

The significance of matching and mirroring in building rapport and controlling the sales encounter.

Jordan Belfort's personal experience of becoming a top broker on his first day by following a strategic script.

The importance of strategic preparation in sales to ensure a consistent outcome.

The psychological impact of certainty, clarity, and courage in the sales process and in business.

Jordan Belfort's bonus sales tip for viewers to enhance their selling skills.

The idea that every sale is the same if you are in control and follow a strategic approach.

The role of body language, tonality, and the transfer of benefits in the sales process.

The concept of 'born closers' and how they naturally follow a strategic protocol in sales.

Transcripts

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out the ability to influence and

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persuade your pants you can't put

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yourself out there into the world great

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salespeople understand that it takes

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three four or five noes to actually get

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to the yes is every sale the same well

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only if you're in control see once you

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take control of the encounter once you

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learn how you can now make every sale

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the same what's that belief nation it's

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Evan my one word is believe and I

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believe in you I believe you have an

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amazing gift inside you that I want to

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see exploded onto the world now I

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started the momentum II series to try to

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hang around people who've done a lot

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more than us and hopefully by spending

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more time with them some of their views

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their mindsets their beliefs their way

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of thinking seeps into us to help us

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become the best version of ourselves so

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today we're gonna learn from one of the

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best jordan belfort the wolf of Wall

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Street and how to master the art of

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selling mentor me Jordan

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you

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Warren Buffett was doing the speech of

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Bill Gates about maybe ten years ago and

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he was asked by a college student what

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can we do as students to make ourselves

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more valuable in the workplace

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so you think Warren Buffett would say

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learn how to pick stocks learn how

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investments you know whatever you would

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say not what he says he says go out and

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take a course in sales and cos

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allocation day he did Dale Carnegie

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James says like there you go now that

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point because he took that he said I

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took Dale Kearney changement without

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back you don't he'd be without that

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course yeah he'd be the richest money

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manager in Omaha Nebraska then no one

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ever heard of yeah Annie met his wife

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that way the love is like because

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without the ability to influence and

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persuade your Kanaks you can't put

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yourself out there into the world and be

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known for what you really are what sales

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really is is the transfer of emotion

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that's what's happening when you sell

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your transferring emotion and the

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primary emotion that you're transferring

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is the emotion of certainty in other

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words watch this you as a Salesman when

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you enter the encounter you have to be

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absolutely certain that your product is

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the best make sense it's gonna give them

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the best benefits out there the best

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value proposition and so forth and you

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are in this state of absolute certainty

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so imagine now we have a continuum of

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certainty a line of certainty so we have

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this line of certainty and on one side

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of the equation we have it's called a1

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and the other side we have a 10 so a 10

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represents a state of absolute certainty

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meaning your prompt is the best thing

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since sliced bread it's gonna give them

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exactly what they want benefit wise it's

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the best deal for the money it's gonna

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make them feel the whole thing right it

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is just absolutely awesome that's a 10

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on the certain skill it is great the

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best thing since sliced bread and on the

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other end of the spectrum you have

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what's called a 1 right which is it's

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the worst piece of in the world right

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it's crap right your product is terrible

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it's not gonna work

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okay the benefits don't match up what

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they need it's overpriced I didn't want

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to be near this piece of crap because I

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just feel stupid even buying it or even

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thinking about buying it that's a 1

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right so here's the first thing you need

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to understand that the moment you open

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up your mouth to speak as a sales when

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you start a sale the question is this

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where is the average prospect the person

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you're trying to sell to where are they

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on the certainty scale at the beginning

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anyone know where are they who the [Β __Β ]

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knows you must be in this state of

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absolute certainty because what's

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happening is this what you're doing when

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you're selling is everything that you

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say everything that you do every

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tonality use every gesture you make

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every document you hand them every

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phrase that comes out of your mouth are

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all designed to do one simple thing to

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essentially raise the prospects level of

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certainty to as close to his 10 as a

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possible that's what you're doing your

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the words that you say the the

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presentation that you make the tonality

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that you use every any document you in

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sales aids whatever it might be is all

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designed to take them from where they

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are on the certainty scale and move to

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as close to where you are as possible

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essentially you're transferring your

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white-hot certainty disowns that a

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cooler level at a lower level of

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certainty it's almost like this first

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law or so I think is actually the second

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law of thermodynamics in physics right

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under you study physics energy always

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flows from hot to cold not the other way

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around so you need to be this white-hot

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level of certainty it's exerting out of

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you every pore that you have and we know

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what certainty feels like in sounds like

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we intuitively know as salespeople and

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our prospects know as well we know when

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someone sounds certain and they have

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confidence and they're enthusiastic we

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know what that looks like

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feels like it sounds like let's pretend

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this is like the water line in the ocean

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here's your water line I'm the world's

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worst artist and when you're on the

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phone with a client running a straight

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line pattern and he's saying no no no no

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no no no no no no no you're not like

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this it's not going like that what's

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happening is this this is oh this is the

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water line here right water line okay

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this is essentially success when he goes

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above the water line and you see it he

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says yes what he's saying no he's below

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the water line what's happening is this

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as you're going you're getting closer

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and closer and closer and closer and

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right so you don't see the result yet

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the same way your guy who's working to

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build his business he might not be

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making money yet but he's making massive

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progress below the water line and all of

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a sudden that last pinch of certainty

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and the guy says boom you're above the

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was that the guy just said yes no he

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didn't he was saying yes the whole time

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he was getting close yes yes yes to

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certain parts of certainty he just

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wasn't there on all three ten so he had

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lowered his action threshold so what

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happens is this if this is the three

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tens then lowering someone's actually

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especially what you be essentially

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lowering the water line so you can

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actually increase his certainty lower

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the water line and make it easier for

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the guy to say yes but let me tell you

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something when you are running a

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straight line that's let's say minute

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one and minute 60 and he closes here it

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meant 40 you don't think you're making

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progress between 1 and 40 you're making

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massive progress it's just below the

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water line this is why great fails

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people understand that it takes 3 4 or 5

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knows to actually get to the yes what no

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is it's almost a euphemism for saying

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what no means I am NOT certain that's

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all it means

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when someone says let me call you back

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let me think about it I want to talk to

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my wife or just plain old no

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it just means I am NOT certain every

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sale is the same they like what

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everything I got the looks right those

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crazy looks with every cells not the

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same every I said guys every sale is the

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same and then I said watch and his

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visual popped in my mind it's a straight

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line as for the very first time I drew

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this long thin line on the center of the

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board it was old leaving a longer boy to

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boys right

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I said this is your open I said this is

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your clothes I said in every once in a

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while back when you were selling penny

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stocks you get one of these lay down

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clients we could call them wear

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everything that you say and everything

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that you do the clients like saying yes

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yes yes yes from the very beginning all

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the way to the end when you ask for the

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order for the first we said yeah great

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how do I pay right that perfect lay down

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sale now I'm sure we you all get them

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every once in a while we get one of

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those people who seems to be almost

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pre-sold before they even enter your

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funnel that's almost soul right you're

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saying they agree with you the whole

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time perfect lay down sale but that is

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the exception to the rule most of the

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time so you want it this sort so those a

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straight-line sale is the perfect lay

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down sale when everything that you say

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and everything that you do the client

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agreed they're on board the whole way

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through and you asked for the order the

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first and they left all your jokes the

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whole you get it and perfect sale you

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ask you till I said yes great how do I

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pay that's a perfect straight line shell

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but most of time that's not the way it

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goes the typical client wants to go off

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the line they have questions they

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interrupt of the objections so they try

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to take you off floor I took it at the

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price of tea in China right you want to

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keep them on the line so what we have is

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these healthy boundaries above and below

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the line when you're inside these

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boundaries you're in control of the sale

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these are the healthy boundaries above

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and below the line because even when

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myself very seldom is I man I have

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anymore lay down sales than anybody else

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I have the same as anybody else but is

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this healthy boundary I don't let it

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fail spiral out of control because you

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go off here outside the values off the

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freakin Pluto right or your anus

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not a good place to be for most of us at

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least right I don't judge okay Pluto or

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Uranus right this is out of control

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where you ask someone a question about

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your qualifying question to try and

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gather intelligence right and they might

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start answer your question the right way

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but next things only spiral off they

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talk about the price of tea in China

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okay in most people the problem that

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they have most sales rule is that when

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someone starts to spiral out and talk

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about nonsense you'll jump right into

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the nightmare cuz you're the waters woah

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let me get into reporting just not talk

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with them and that's not rapport because

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the sooner you do that they realize

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they're in control the sale they will

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assume control of sale and once that

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happens nothing good happens besides the

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fact that you're branded as a novice not

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as an expert I said guys let me tell you

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when you're calling rich people even

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poor people matter who you're calling

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you got four seconds that's all you have

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you have four seconds to establish three

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crucial things or else you're done you

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can't close anybody because they'll take

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control of the sale

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and once they take control of the sale

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it's like you're almost like an out

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match boxer covering up some mobile

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blows like imagine walking in through

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the green with Mike Tyson right and he's

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barrage you're just covering up because

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he's in control and you get knocked out

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of anyone so that's what's happening to

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my guys they're getting knocked out they

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were losing control right out of the

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gate because they were not being

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perceived as V three-phase let me tell

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you exactly what they are number one in

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the first four seconds you must be

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perceived as number one being sharp as a

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task that you're sharp and on the ball

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number two that you're enthusiastic is

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held in thews II asked his health Uzi

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azzam must be good and number three and

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most important of all I'm an expert in

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my field you're an expert in your field

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they got four seconds to establish those

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three crucial or you're done because if

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you don't establish them see what they

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roll up to what they chunk up to is

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essentially that you're a person worth

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listening to you're worth listening to

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and even higher so close you could help

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them

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achieve their goals help them get what

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they want people don't listen to you get

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what you want

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they do it because I get what they want

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Sharp's attack and through meeting sharp

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on the ball right not a time waster to

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enthusiastic so now I'm not saying so

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some people say oh come on people

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they see through that infusion no they

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don't I'm not talking about over-the-top

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oh my god my pride that's [Β __Β ] I'm

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talking about bottled enthusiasm below

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the surface it's a it could be a whisper

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it's a certain way of talking a certain

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way of caring ism where they could just

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tell it you are dead serious about what

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you have your confidence you it's a way

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of speaking it's not yelling and it's

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not talking fast I'm talking fast

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knuckles I have an hour right to get

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eight hours information so I'm talking

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about if i was selling I'd be speaking

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slowly succinctly and I had that bottled

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enthusiam just below the surface and

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your gut it's about to bubble over but

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it never bubbles over because you're in

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control cuz you're an expert and when

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you have that way of speaking I'll

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explain how in a few minutes it's

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infectious people want to hear more

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they're intoxicated by it it transfers

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to someone else it's an emotional

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feeling they get and of course an expert

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in your field number three well listen

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here's the bottom line we have been

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conditioned

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since we're yay big to defer and respect

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experts and figures of authority

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you know don't buck Authority respect

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your elders you know you were trained as

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a kid you went to the doctor right and

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the doctor asked you questions you

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didn't say what's your education he done

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you didn't ask him questions back you

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saw his diploma on the wall he had a

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white coat he had a stethoscope he was a

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doctor your parents explained this man's

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gone through special education he's an

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expert in his field he's going to heal

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you he get it is a specialist and you

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respected him and you didn't you

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answered his question fully and honestly

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now I'm sure you've all been probably

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later on in life when they tried to pull

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the old let me get the nurse's assistant

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to ask you two questions you know like

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yeah you I'll answer in the done you'll

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answer them in a be one word you're not

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gonna even nearly as forthright with the

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practitioner as the bathrooms of why

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because you've been conditioned and they

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violate they might be just as competent

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if not more at taking notes and doing a

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a certain through that triage but when

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that bastard walked in who he's a doctor

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that's an expert in this field

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if you don't establish these three

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things you're fighting a massive uphill

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battle because now they are in control

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the encounter and good luck see is every

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cell the same well only if you're in

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control see once you take control of the

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encounter once you learn how you can now

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make every sale the same Bandler didn't

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do these experiments with people with

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matching and mirroring and when you

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mirror somebody you get into massive

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rapport with them the less offensive way

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is not to mirror but to match and that

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means don't and they go sit down on a

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stool like this okay and they you know

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cross their arms you don't like as

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they're doing it crossed if you're armed

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you know you wait a few seconds jiggle

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around then you cross your arms okay if

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someone sit with their legs crossed okay

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then you wait a few seconds and you

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cross your legs and you settle into the

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same posture that the other person is

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this is usually hugely powerful for

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gaining a reformed person don't

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underestimate this it operates in a

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level you can't quite grasp it's it's an

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unconscious level look at the opposite

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is to understand let's say you walk in

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someplace and someone's flailing their

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arms about they're just out of but

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you're in a calm state and they're in

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opposites think they're all agitated

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how do you feel about that person out of

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a port right you're instantly you know

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you're you're standoffish right well

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just imagine the opposite about the

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polar opposite would be someone who

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moves just like you someone who speaks

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just like you so one who vibrates at the

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precise level and frequency that you do

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that's what matching and mirroring is

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all about to get into them in their

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world to enter at the same level and to

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slowly move that level up or down

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depending on what part of the

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presentation or clothes you're at to

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create the appropriate emotion that

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allows them to make the right decision

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which is to buy your product that's body

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language

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angry pissed-off negative unrest social

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state you can't do anything well you've

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got one of those days for instance where

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everything you're doing you're like I

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can't believe I said that I can't

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believe I did that I'm such a fool right

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yeah that day we've all had that day

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yeah next day similar situation you're

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like wow you know that was me I did a

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really great job right you're perfect so

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one day you're brilliant next day same

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situation you're brutal that's not

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talent that's not ability that's the

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state that you're in so the key to

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success is not just a to have your

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vision but to be able to manage the way

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you feel in the moment now if you're a

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parent what's the most resourceful state

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patience if you're a businessman looking

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to make money on Wall Street it's

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probably certainty yeah more courage

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because fear is the worst emotion of all

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for being a traitor on Wall Street so

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every business has different states that

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you need to master now in most

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businesses in matters of wealth is

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straight three states that you need to

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master you're the trigger and a moment's

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notice and it's easy to do once you

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learn out we're just gonna teach people

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hey and number one is certainty to be

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certain about what you're doing the

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second one is clarity to be clear it's

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not to be overwhelmed with you the

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office will be overwhelmed and the third

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is courage is to have a conviction

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to know that you might not be right all

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the time but you can exact let fear stop

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because if there's one distinction that

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between the wealthy people of the world

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and the pulpit of the world is that

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wealthy people act in the face of fear

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while poor people run away from favorite

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now I've got a special jordan belfort

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bonus sales tip for you but before that

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the question of the day today is has

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this video motivated you to go out and

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want to sell more give me a yes or no

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leave it down in the comments below

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thank you guys so much for watching I

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believe in you

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I hope you continue to believe in

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yourself and whatever your one where it

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is much love

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I'll see you soon

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you ended up at this firm

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it was oak what was it oh crap okay

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little firm called the Investor Center

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which is a penny stock firm right and

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that was where I you know it was really

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first night ever sold stock and I became

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the top broker the first day just broke

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all the records really in the first day

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you broke all the right your first day

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yeah yeah so you're a bore

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do you think you're a born salesman yeah

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for sure I am open and there are people

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out there will born closers one salesman

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far if you would do there are some when

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that really means though what does it

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mean to be a born salesman what it means

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is that you're actually running the

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strategy automatically inside usually

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good you're still following this script

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but it comes natural automatically so

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you but you don't realize it but you are

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following a certain protocol that gets

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you to the same outcome every time so

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that's really what it born closers so

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for those people watching that our

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entrepreneurs want to learn sales what

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did you do in that first day that you

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basically became a top sales in like was

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there we're gonna talk more about your

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whole sales straight-line formula but

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first day you didn't have time to

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implement a whole script what do you do

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that most people don't do is it your

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tonality that's one of the things body

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language tonality taking people through

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features not just features but benefits

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according I think you did that first day

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well in fact I see one of the

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interesting things you say you would you

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have time to put the other scripts in

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fact I did oh you did oh yeah day one I

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took three hours to write one so yeah I

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would never this is something

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interesting thing had many years layers

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is relevant is that when I was tested by

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some psychologists not my ability to

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close they put me through a whole

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battery of these weird tests and one of

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them was a mock sale where I had to

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close someone in a investment type of

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situation that was being filled was

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there like so me this pants they handed

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me up like a little sort of us some

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information on the dairy industry and I

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have to then convince someone to so I

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open up an account at a firm to manage

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the money for the dairy industry right

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okay so they handed out about 10-12

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pages of information right and they said

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take as much time as you want and you

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know just I said let's see you closed

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this guy right so I start reading I'm

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reading it and I'm reading right I start

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writing down my thoughts now 30 minutes

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later they knock on the door

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like ya said give me more time yeah just

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give me another 30 bits I said okay no

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problem

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30 minutes goes by they come back I said

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just meet another 20 minutes they said

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no problem take 20 more minutes

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I said give me 15 more minutes right

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anyway after about two hours I said I'm

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ready and I wrote myself a really really

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not an exact script but pretty close to

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a really killer script with so if you

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know how I would actually engineer the

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sail from storm there's so many stocks

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no canals recent maybe oh really

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okay this is right is relevant now this

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is in nineteen it's like I think the

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2010 at this Apple okay

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with psychologists being Phil okay this

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is the later John died he was an actor

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and he was supposed to be the CEO of a

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dairy company and I was supposed to

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close him so we go through this whole

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thing I introduced myself and I we go

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for this back and forth back and forth

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and they're filming the whole thing and

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after about 15 minutes the guy just he's

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like okay fine I'll open up an account

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and he starts laughing his ass off so

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I'm like what's so funny

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psychologists come and they say we told

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him under no circumstances should he say

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yes yeah within 15 minutes yet no he

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said yes I don't get it he said I said

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well you don't want I got the guy into a

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situation did it make sense to say no he

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said well here's the weird thing we've

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tested a hundred other people in sales

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and no one ever spent more than five

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minutes reading the material huh you

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spent so apparation it's some simple

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fundamental teach equip are the straight

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line is about strategic preparation

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meeting that you don't you know what was

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my overriding concept is every sales the

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same right yes and that would seem to be

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counterintuitive yes because everyone

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has different needs different belief

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systems right different outcomes real

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but the truth is that every sale is the

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same yes and I'll explain that little

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bit later on in the interview but it

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starts with your ability to essentially

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make an airtight case to someone yes on

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both illogical

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and the right yeah about you know

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essentially why you're right you could

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want them to do whatever you want them

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to why does it make sense right yes and

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it's got to be an airtight case and then

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you have to be able to also accomplish

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other things as well so there's two ways

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to go about that one is still wing it

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which you could might be able to do if

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you're really really great or you can

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write it down plan it out I mean the

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second one is where you really start to

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bring your averages of tremendous easel

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I'm a big believer in strategic

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preparation raise your

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standard Apple at the core its core

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value is that we believe that people

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need passion can change the way people

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now one drop of myself work depends on

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your disciplines to me

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I don't ever give up I'd have to be dead

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or completely incapacitated hey believe

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nation if you want to see my all-time

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favorite top ten roses success I have a

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very special secret video for you these

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are the individual clips that I have

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personally learned the most from and

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applied to my life and my business check

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the link the description for details

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