The Hate You Give | Creators for Change

Summary

This video script explores the impact of social media judgments through a social experiment involving three diverse individuals. Participants are asked to scroll through Instagram accounts and share first impressions, leading to quick judgments and even hate speech. The twist reveals the subjects meeting the individuals they judged, prompting reflections on the nature of criticism and the importance of empathy and dialogue. The video encourages viewers to look beyond appearances and find common ground, challenging them to consider the deeper humanity behind social media personas.

Takeaways

• 🔍 The script discusses the issue of people making judgments about others on social media without fully understanding them, which is considered impolite in real life.
• 👥 A social experiment was conducted involving three different groups to observe first impressions and reactions to Instagram profiles.
• 📱 Participants were asked to scroll through Instagram accounts and give their honest first impressions, highlighting the ease with which judgments are made online.
• 😕 Some participants expressed negative impressions, using terms like 'pretentious' and 'weird' to describe the individuals they saw on Instagram.
• 🏳️‍🌈 The script touches on the topic of transgender individuals and the challenges they face, including derogatory comments and misunderstandings.
• 🤔 It questions the willingness of people to be friends with someone they judged negatively online, revealing a reluctance based on superficial judgments.
• 🗣️ The script differentiates between hate speech and criticism, emphasizing that hate speech involves direct threats or harm to others.
• 🌐 It points out that social media feeds can be a source of hate speech and that people's online personas may not reflect their true selves.
• 🧐 The script suggests that people give hate speech because they believe they are correcting others based on their own values, which may not align with the individual's own beliefs.
• 💔 It acknowledges the hurt and minority feelings experienced by those on the receiving end of hate speech and judgments.
• 🎶 The importance of getting to know people beyond their social media presence is highlighted, with a focus on finding similarities rather than differences.
• 🤝 The script concludes by emphasizing the need for dialogue, empathy, and understanding, and the hope that the video can educate viewers about the importance of not judging others.

Q & A

What is the main issue addressed in the social experiment described in the script?

The main issue addressed is the judgment and hate speech people exhibit towards others on social media, particularly based on their appearances and personal choices as seen on Instagram.

How were the participants in the social experiment selected?

The participants were selected from three different groups, and they were shown Instagram accounts of individuals without knowing the context or the purpose of the experiment.

What was the task given to the participants after viewing the Instagram accounts?

The participants were asked to give their first impressions of the individuals they saw on Instagram and to scroll through the accounts for about 10 minutes.

What kind of reactions did the participants have towards the individuals they saw on Instagram?

The reactions varied from finding someone pretentious, weird, or expressing reluctance to be friends with them, based on superficial judgments.

What was the surprising twist in the social experiment when the participants were brought face-to-face with the individuals from Instagram?

The twist was that the participants discovered they had been judging real people, and they were brought together to interact, which led to a more nuanced understanding of each other.

How does the script differentiate between hate speech and criticism?

The script suggests that hate speech is negative and can be harmful if it involves threats or direct harm, while criticism is more about offering feedback without causing distress.

What is the script's perspective on the role of social media in shaping people's perceptions of others?

The script implies that social media can distort perceptions, leading to judgments based on limited information, and that real-life interactions can provide a more accurate understanding of individuals.

What challenges do the individuals in the script face due to their appearances or choices, as mentioned in the transcript?

They face judgment, hate speech, and misunderstanding from others, which can lead to feelings of being a minority and the need to defend their personal choices, such as having tattoos.

How does the script suggest people should approach understanding others, especially those who are different from them?

The script encourages people to look for similarities, engage in dialogue, empathize, and listen to each other, rather than focusing on differences and making judgments.

What is the script's message regarding the nature of people and their potential for growth and change?

The script suggests that everyone is born good but can develop into different paths due to their upbringing and experiences, with the potential for constructive criticism or hate speech as outcomes.

What does the script imply about the importance of not judging others and seeking to understand them?

The script emphasizes the importance of not judging others based on superficial criteria and instead seeking to understand them more deeply, as there is more to learn about individuals than what meets the eye.

Outlines

00:00

🔍 Social Media Judgment and Experiment

This paragraph discusses the issue of people making judgments about others based on their social media presence without knowing them in real life. A social experiment is conducted involving three participants who are shown Instagram profiles and asked to give their first impressions. The experiment reveals prejudices and misconceptions, such as labeling someone as 'pretentious' or 'weird' based on their appearance or interests. It also touches on the subject of hate speech, distinguishing it from criticism and highlighting its potential to cause harm. The experiment culminates in a surprising twist where the participants meet the individuals they judged, leading to a realization about the superficiality of online judgments.

05:02

🎶 Music, Identity, and Overcoming Prejudice

In this paragraph, the focus shifts to the power of music and personal identity as a means to express oneself beyond superficial judgments. The narrative includes a conversation about favorite bands and the impact of music on personal identity. It emphasizes the importance of seeking out similarities rather than differences when getting to know someone. The discussion also covers the significance of dialogue, empathy, and listening in overcoming prejudice and hate speech. The paragraph concludes with a reflection on the inherent goodness of people and the impact of their upbringing on their attitudes towards criticism and hate speech, ending with a hopeful message about the potential for growth and understanding.

Keywords

💡Social Media

Social Media refers to digital platforms that enable users to create and share content or participate in social networking. In the video's context, it is portrayed as a space where people often judge others based on their online presence without the same social constraints as in real life. For example, participants in the experiment quickly form opinions about individuals they see on Instagram, which they might not do in person.

💡First Impression

A first impression is the initial opinion or image formed about someone or something upon the first encounter. The video emphasizes the significance of first impressions by asking participants to scroll through Instagram accounts and give their immediate reactions, which often lead to hasty judgments.

💡Pretentious

Pretentious describes someone who is perceived as attempting to appear more important or knowledgeable than they actually are. In the script, a participant labels an Instagram user as 'pretentious' based on their online content, highlighting how quickly judgments can be made without full context.

💡Transvestite

A transvestite is someone who cross-dresses, typically for a sense of personal expression or entertainment. The term is used in the script to describe an individual whose appearance challenges traditional gender norms, sparking reactions that touch on themes of acceptance and prejudice.

💡Hate Speech

Hate speech is any speech, action, or behavior that conveys hatred or encourages violence towards a person or group based on attributes such as race, religion, ethnic origin, sexual orientation, disability, or gender identity. The video discusses the fine line between hate speech and criticism, using examples from the participants' reactions to the Instagram profiles.

💡Criticism

Criticism is the act of expressing disapproval or pointing out faults. The script differentiates between constructive criticism, which aims to improve, and hate speech, which is harmful. Participants in the video reflect on this distinction, particularly in the context of online interactions.

💡Tolerance

Tolerance refers to the acceptance or endurance of opinions, behaviors, or people that one may not agree with. The video script explores the concept of tolerance through the reactions of participants when they meet the individuals they judged on Instagram, emphasizing the importance of understanding and accepting differences.

💡Stereotype

A stereotype is a widely held but fixed and oversimplified image or idea of a particular type of person or thing. The video script illustrates this through the participants' initial reactions to the Instagram profiles, which are based on stereotypes rather than individual merit.

💡Dialogue

Dialogue refers to a conversation between two or more people. The script highlights the importance of dialogue as a means to overcome prejudice and build understanding, as seen in the interactions between the participants and the Instagram users they initially judged.

💡Empathy

Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. The video script suggests that empathy is crucial for reducing hate speech and promoting acceptance, as participants are encouraged to listen and relate to the experiences of others.

💡Identity

Identity refers to the characteristics determining who or what a person or thing is. The video script discusses identity in relation to gender expression, personal style, and self-expression on social media, and how these aspects are often subject to judgment and misunderstanding.

💡Prejudice

Prejudice is a preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or actual experience. The video script examines prejudice through the participants' reactions to the Instagram profiles, showing how initial judgments can be influenced by bias and lead to harmful outcomes.

💡Music

Music is used in the script as a common ground and a means of connection between individuals. It serves as an example of a shared interest that can bridge differences and foster understanding, as seen when participants bond over their mutual appreciation for Radiohead.

Highlights

Social experiment conducted on judging people based on their Instagram profiles.

Participants gave their first impressions of Instagram users within 10 minutes of scrolling.

People made quick judgments about others' personalities and lifestyles from their social media presence.

Some participants expressed discomfort or disapproval of individuals who did not conform to societal norms.

The experiment revealed that people are often quick to judge others based on superficial online appearances.

Participants were surprised to meet in person the individuals they had judged harshly online.

The experiment showed that real-life interactions can change initial negative perceptions formed online.

Discussion on the difference between hate speech and constructive criticism.

Hate speech is identified as negative comments that threaten or cause direct harm.

The importance of distinguishing between valid criticism and harmful hate speech was emphasized.

Participants recognized that everyone has phases and is not 100% honest on social media.

The impact of societal and religious provocations on the acceptance of transvestites in Indonesia was discussed.

People's tendency to correct others based on their own version of what is right was highlighted.

The varying limits of human kindness and the inability to equate them were pointed out.

Personal experiences of being judged and feeling like a minority were shared.

The belief that one's heart is more important than external appearances was expressed.

Finding common ground and similarities among people was suggested as a way to overcome judgment.

The value of dialogue, empathy, and listening to understand different perspectives was emphasized.

The hope that the video could change people's judgmental attitudes and promote learning about others was expressed.

Transcripts

Because this issue is important

but what I saw there are some people who didn’t realize and became aware of this thing

As easy like that people judge others

in Social Media

where if we meet them in real life it is not polite at all.

We made a social experiment about this issue. We took 3 samples from different group

Do you know why you are here?

No

So I will show you

someone

more precisely their Instagram accounts

You just keep scrolling first, it’s okay if it takes 10 minutes

Then, I want you to give your first impression

honestly

Please scroll it down.

Maybe.. Seems like he is so pretentious.

Oh my God this is so weird

this one..

Why is it?

This is Nasi Uduk banner, why did make it to be skirt?

Shemale?

Yes, she’s a shemale

She’s such naughty kid, isn’t?

This looks weird

why?

Because he’s a man, but he's like that

He seems wanting to be cool

Even, he didn’t have to be one.

Will you be friend with a person like this?

Uhm… I choose no.

How can a man like… that. (Creeps)

Yeah I wish I hadn’t a boyfriend like him

If you see this person, do you have any urgency to comment?

Me? Of course

And without them realizing, we brought them with the people they saw on Instagram

Hmm, Hallo Khalisha

We both have long hair

Cute..

Where did you make your tattoos?

In Bali

All of them in Bali?

Nope, only half of them.

We both have long hair

But the difference is I wear a skirt

Both of your hairs look great.

Hate speech, in my opinion

first we should be able to distinguish between hate speech and critics

In general, hate speech is like negative comment

Hate speech can cause a problem if they threaten or hurt you directly

Like, I don’t like your work

So, I will kill you

I will come to your house, I'm gonna kill you

That means you damage others’ comfort

That’s what I think about Hate Speech

On Instagram your feed is like that. It turns out…

Everybody has a phase

Nobody’s 100 percent honest

because in the end, the most important thing is not ourselves in social media but in real life

The transvestite social is still disguised in Indonesia

In other side

sometimes they are just like this in society, as ordinary as them

But tend to get a provocation

Especially if the provocation is related to religious and else

Basically people give hate speech because their good humanity souls want to correct others

I agree for that

But maybe sometimes people forget

they correct people to be better of their version

meanwhile..

the limit of the kindness of each person is different

and can not be equated.

Is it hard being like that?

Pardon me?

Is it hard being like that?

Uhm it was hard, but for now just make it easy.

Many people said,

“Why do you have tattoos?"

"It destroys your body."

"God won’t accept it.”

I am hurt too, I feel like a minority

One day I will tell them that everything

is about your heart

Whatever I am at the outside

well my music will tell them that this is me

This is my heart. Who knows about heart?

What’s your favorite band?

Music?

Radiohead

High five!

I really love Thom Yorke. At age 10, I said to my mom

that I didn’t want to marry anyone else but Thom Yorke.

We should know them in real life.

For me, we have to look for the similarities than the differences.

For me, actually it is important to have a dialogue, talking like this.

Feedback is how you handle it.

For me, we should emphatize and listen to each other.

Okay. Is there more?

I’m pretty sure

Basically, everyone was born as a good person

They just don’t realize it that they want to fix what they see.

That’s it, how they grow up with make this process become two different outputs

Criticism that builds, and also hate speech

I don’t know if this video can change them

I wish people who watch this could learn

that there is more interesting, there’s something we can look for 107 00:06:43,580 --> 00:00:00,000 there’s something we can learn about them than to judge them.