5 Frame Control Reversals YOU MUST KNOW | A MUST LISTEN!!!
Summary
TLDRIn this episode of the Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Singh, an NLP dating coach, delves into the crucial concept of 'frame control' for attracting women. He explains that a strong frame is essential for sparking attraction and provides five techniques to handle 'frame checks' from women, including agree and amplify, misinterpret, reframe, ignore, and reframe into a qualifying question. Singh emphasizes the importance of leading conversations and not succumbing to the pressure of seeking approval, asserting that mastery of frame control can significantly improve dating success.
Takeaways
- ποΈ The Unapologetic Man Podcast (UMP) focuses on self-improvement, confidence, success, and dating advice for men without apologies.
- π£οΈ Host Mark Singh is an NLP dating coach, specializing in using neuro-linguistic programming to enhance his clients' confidence and self-worth in dating scenarios.
- π Frame control is emphasized as crucial for attracting women; it involves leading the conversation and not being emotionally affected by it.
- π« Women will perform 'frame checks' to test a man's strength of character, and failing these checks can lead to a lack of attraction.
- π‘ Mark teaches that a woman's attraction is linked to a man's ability to maintain a strong frame and not succumb to her tests.
- π€ Five essential frame control reversals are introduced as techniques to handle women's frame checks effectively.
- πΉ The first technique, 'Agree and Amplify', involves agreeing with a woman's statement and then exaggerating it humorously to demonstrate a strong frame.
- π€ 'Misinterpret' involves reinterpreting a woman's statement to mean something else, showcasing a man's independent perspective.
- π 'Reframe' is about turning the woman's question back on her, flipping the narrative to show leadership and control.
- π ββοΈ 'Ignore' suggests that a man can choose not to engage with a woman's negative or challenging statement, demonstrating emotional strength.
- π’ The final technique, 'Reframe into a Qualifying Question', involves responding to a challenge with a question that makes the woman qualify herself to the man.
- π Bonus lessons include strategies for dealing with extreme negativity or rejection, such as turning the rejection back on the woman in a playful manner.
- π Upcoming podcasts will cover how to handle requests from women and how to deal with overbearing men, continuing the theme of frame control.
Q & A
What is the main focus of the Unapologetic Man Podcast?
-The Unapologetic Man Podcast focuses on self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it.
Who is the host of the podcast and what is his profession?
-The host of the podcast is Mark Singh, who is an NLP dating coach.
What does NLP stand for and how does Mark Singh use it in his coaching?
-NLP stands for Neuro-Linguistic Programming. Mark Singh uses NLP to go into the heads of his clients and remap things like confidence and self-worth to help them behave correctly in front of women and attract them.
What is the significance of frame control in attracting women according to the podcast?
-Frame control is crucial in attracting women because it determines who is leading the conversation and who is least affected emotionally. If a woman discovers she has a stronger frame, she will not get attracted.
What is a 'frame check' and why do women perform it?
-A 'frame check' is when a woman tests a man's frame strength to see if he is strong enough to be attractive to her. She wants to ensure he can lead, protect, and show her a good time, taking the masculine role.
What are the five essential frame control reversals mentioned in the podcast?
-The five essential frame control reversals are: 1) Agree and Amplify, 2) Misinterpret, 3) Reframe, 4) Ignore, and 5) Reframe into a qualifying question.
Can you provide an example of the 'Agree and Amplify' reversal technique?
-An example of 'Agree and Amplify' is if a woman says 'You're gay, aren't you?', a man with a strong frame might respond, 'Yes, and I sucked 2,000 dicks yesterday, my jaw is killing me.'
What is the purpose of the 'Misinterpret' reversal technique?
-The 'Misinterpret' technique is used to reinterpret what the woman says in a way that shows the man has a strong frame and his own interpretation of reality is more important than hers.
How does the 'Reframe into a qualifying question' reversal work?
-This technique involves turning the woman's statement into a question that makes her explain herself to the man, thus flipping the power dynamic and having her qualify herself to him.
What advice does Mark Singh give for dealing with rejection or negative comments from women?
-Mark Singh suggests using the frame control techniques to turn the situation around, such as ignoring the negative comment or flipping it back on the woman in a playful manner, ensuring not to engage in negative energy.
What are the two bonus lessons mentioned for dealing with extremely negative situations with women?
-The two bonus lessons are: 1) Interrupting the woman mid-sentence and walking away after she repeats her negative statement, and 2) Responding with a playful comeback if she's being overly negative, like commenting on her breath if she's being rude.
What future topics will be covered in the podcast related to frame control?
-Upcoming topics will include how to handle requests from women and how to deal with overbearing men or 'alpha males of the group' using frame control.
Outlines
ποΈ Introduction to Unapologetic Man Podcast
The Unapologetic Man Podcast, hosted by Mark Singh, an NLP dating coach, focuses on self-improvement, confidence, success, and dating advice for men. Mark introduces the concept of 'frame control' as a critical aspect of attracting women, explaining that a man must lead the conversation and not be emotionally affected by it. He emphasizes the importance of not 'buying into' a woman's frame, which means not explaining oneself when challenged, and instead maintaining a strong, masculine energy. The podcast promises to teach listeners five essential frame control reversals to handle 'frame checks' from women, which are tests to determine a man's strength of character.
π‘οΈ Understanding Frame Checks and Attraction
This section delves deeper into the concept of 'frame checks', where women test men's confidence and self-assuredness through challenging questions or comments. Mark explains that women are instinctively looking for a man with a strong frame, as it signals leadership and protection, which are attractive traits. He warns that men often mistakenly give away their power by trying to please or explain themselves, which can lead to a lack of attraction. Instead, he advocates for maintaining a strong frame and not being affected by a woman's attempts to test it.
π Frame Control Reversal Techniques
Mark outlines five techniques for reversing frame control when challenged by a woman. These include 'agree and amplify', where a man agrees with the challenge and exaggerates it humorously; 'misinterpret', which involves reinterpreting the challenge in a way that shifts power; 'reframe', where the man turns the challenge back on the woman; 'ignore', which is to disregard the challenge entirely; and 'reframe into a qualifying question', where the man turns the challenge into a question that makes the woman qualify herself. These techniques are designed to demonstrate a man's strong frame and desirability.
π¬ Application of Frame Control in Conversations
The paragraph discusses the practical application of frame control techniques in conversations with women. Mark provides examples of how to use each technique, such as responding to a woman's challenge about getting phone numbers by倸倧izing the number to show nonchalance. He also explains how to handle more personal challenges, like comments on appearance, by using misinterpretation to turn the situation humorous and maintain control. The goal is to always keep the interaction playful and positive while ensuring the man remains in the dominant conversational role.
π« Dealing with Negative Feedback and Rejection
In this section, Mark addresses the fear of rejection and negative feedback from women. He offers strategies for handling such situations, such as using humor to deflect insults or walking away to maintain dignity. The key is to not let negative energy affect the man's frame and to always respond in a way that reinforces his self-assuredness. Mark also provides specific examples of comebacks for particularly harsh rejections, emphasizing the importance of keeping a positive and playful attitude while still asserting control over the interaction.
π Upcoming Podcast Topics and Engagement
Mark informs listeners about the upcoming podcasts that will continue to explore the theme of frame control, including how to handle requests from women and dealing with competitive men. He encourages listeners to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast and to reach out via email for additional resources. Mark also promises to provide valuable materials to those who engage with the podcast, highlighting his commitment to helping men improve their dating success.
Mindmap
Keywords
π‘Unapologetic
π‘NLP (Neural Linguistic Programming)
π‘Self-worth
π‘Frame control
π‘Attraction
π‘Reframe
π‘Agreement and Amplification
π‘Misinterpretation
π‘Qualifier
π‘Approach Anxiety
π‘Friend Zone
Highlights
Introduction to the Unapologetic Man Podcast, focusing on self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without apologies.
Mark Singh's background as an NLP dating coach and his unique approach to using NLP to remap clients' confidence and self-worth.
The concept of frame control in attracting women and its importance in dating success.
Explanation of frame check and how women use it to test men's strength of character.
The five essential frame control reversals to handle frame checks effectively.
The technique of 'agree and amplify' to strengthen one's frame in conversation.
Misinterpretation as a frame control method to redefine the context of a woman's statement.
The power of reframing a question back to the woman to demonstrate strong frame control.
Using the 'ignore' technique to dismiss a challenge and maintain frame control.
Reframing into a qualifying question to turn the tables and have the woman qualify herself.
The impact of a strong frame on attracting women and the importance of not explaining oneself.
How to handle rejection and turn it around to appear as if the man is the one doing the rejecting.
The importance of masculine energy in leading conversations and interactions with women.
Strategies for dealing with overbearing men and maintaining upper hand in social situations.
The significance of maintaining a playful vibe while using frame control techniques.
Mark Singh's offer for additional resources for listeners who leave a review for the podcast.
Transcripts
welcome to the Unapologetic man podcast
the only podcast that's all about
self-improvement confidence success
women and being a man without making any
apologies for
it what is up your Champions thank you
for tuning in to another episode of the
UMP I really do appreciate it if this is
your first time listening welcome my
name is Mark Singh I'm an NLP dating
coach NLP stands for neural linguistic
programming I'm the only dating coach
for men that uses NLP to go into the
heads of my clients and remap things
like confidence things like self-worth
so you behave correctly in front of
women and thus get their attraction and
this boys is why I have such a high
success rate but we will talk about that
in a different episode in this episode
we're going to jump right into it I know
you guys want the content I know you
want to learn and this one is an
absolute must listen because I am going
to give you the five essential frame
control reversals that you must know
because women are going to do what I
call frame check you and if You' never
heard of frame control you've definitely
come to the right episode they're going
to frame check you and if you don't pass
that frame check they will not get
attracted to you the first thing I want
to communicate to you gentlemen is this
if she discovers that she has a stronger
frame than you do she will not get
attracted to you so frame control is
literally the most important thing when
it comes to attracting women but most
guys have never heard of it they haven't
been educated on this so they go into
dates not knowing what to do and for
some reason women don't get attracted to
them and they often don't get phone
numbers they don't get second dates they
get blown out so hard their mustache
blows off their best friend's face when
the concussion hits and they're like
what the did I do you have to have
frame control so I'm excited that you're
listening to this especially if you're a
new listener if you've been listening
for a long time I may have r reviewed
some of these I'm not sure if I've
reviewed all of them but it's worth
reviewing again because this is so
unbelievably important that if she does
this to you and you don't pass it and
you do what most guys do which I'm going
to explain in this episode she's going
to blow you out she's going to walk away
she's going to be like eh he's not
attractive so we're going to get into
these today gentlemen five of them and
I'm going to save a couple bonuses for
the very end so make sure to stay tuned
till the end how to turn around a
rejection if she's really mean to you
then how to turn it around on her so it
makes it look like you rejected her this
is really good stuff Gentlemen let's
jump into the content so if you have INF
heard of frame control what it
essentially is is who is leading the
conversation who has the conversational
power who's least affected emotionally
by the conversational Dynamic who cares
less about what happens and who's
essentially in the masculine energy you
of course have to be in that masculine
energy leading the conversation taking
her to where she wants to be led in
order for her to get attracted to you if
on the other hand you do what many guys
do which is to give her the power she's
not going to get attracted to you why do
guys give her the power because we think
it's logical right we think if I do her
favors if I let her lead if I give her
what she wants she's going to like me so
I'm going to blow smoke up her ass I'm
going to fluff her feathers and I'm
going to get blown out so hard yes your
mustache is going to launch off your
face when the concussion hit so what we
need to understand is that women are
going to frame check you frame check is
exactly as it sounds she's checking the
strength of your frame imagine you go to
Home Depot and you're buying some piece
of plywood for a project that you have
you have to lean on that thing in order
to make sure that's strong enough to do
the job women do this to guys to make
sure that he's strong enough to be
attractive to her because she wants a
guy who can lead her who can protect her
who can show her good time and who can
take the masculine role now that doesn't
mean she's expecting you to protect her
and provide for her she just likes to
know that that option is there so she
wants to know does he have a strong
frame does he believe in his reality is
he a leader is he willing to lead me and
does he understand how to lead me to
where I want to be led so she starts
feeling something inside herself she
starts feeling a little bit uncertain
about you is this guy really strong or
not and she just want wants to say
something kind of to you she
wants to test you she wants to see if
you're going to explain yourself to her
or if you're actually an alpha male and
you're going to reframe it on her and
not buy into her frame and I want you to
listen to that terminology very
carefully buying into another person's
frame is going along with the frame that
they've set forth so if she asks you a
question in order for you to explain
yourself to her and you buy into it and
you do explain yourself to her she's
going to lose attraction For You
especially if the question is somewhat
mean or disrespectful if she's
questioning things like your style why
are you there why are you drinking a
certain drink why don't you have a
girlfriend how many girls have you
talked to oh this this what you do you
walk up to all girls and you try to get
phone numbers how many phone numbers
have you gotten tonight you're a player
aren't you all these things are going to
be said to you to test your frame now
yes or no question for you listeners
would she say this to you if she wasn't
at all attracted to you there was
absolutely zero attraction that's
correct she would not say it because the
reason she's saying it is just like the
Home Depo plywood example you have to
lean on that thing because you're
interested in buying it so you lean on
it to see if it's strong enough to do
the job she's essentially leaning on you
now what do most guys do when women say
something such as why you talking
to us they get butt hurt they walk away
with their tail between their legs and
they hate women forever but the correct
thing to do do is to reframe it as I'm
going to teach you today with my five
essential frame control reversals
reframe it on her show her that you're
unaffected by her frame you're not going
to explain yourself to her you are your
own judge and jury and your opinion of
yourself is the only one that matters
and you're not going to explain yourself
to her if on the other hand a guy has a
weak frame and she says something like
why you wearing that shirt he'd explain
himself to her he'd be like oh well it's
Gucci and it looks really nice and it
was expensive so I think it's pretty
good don't you think what did he just do
he bought into the frame that she put
out thus she's leading the conversation
and look at this guys she's in the
masculine role do you think women want
to be in the masculine or feminine role
heterosexual women that are attracted to
men obviously they want to be in the
feminine role femininity follows
masculinity leads but femininity is
going to test masculinity by saying mean
things to it seemingly mean but it's
actually a sign of attraction mean
things to it to see if it will Buckle if
it will break down if it is in essence
not a strong frame not masculine but
actually is a so this has probably
got a lot of you guys blown out and you
didn't even know it and this is why it's
the single most important thing in
seducing women and this is also why it's
the backbone of my entire program where
I teach guys how to attract women over a
3-month period frame control is woven
throughout all interactions in
everything I teach cold reading Push
Pull storytelling sexual tension
qualifying all of it is done with frame
control as the underlying meaning so
you're talking to a girl that's going
well and then she says something
to you and as I said there are five
different ways to reframe or pass her
test when she throws the test at you
they are agree and amplify number two is
Mis interpret number three is reframe
number four is ignore and number number
five is to reframe into a qualifying
question the first one agree and amplify
what that means is you agree with what
she says and you amplify it to make it
10,000 times worse for example she says
you're gay aren't you a guy with a weak
frame would be like no no I'm not gay
I'm heterosexual like why would you
think I'm gay thus explaining himself to
her a guy with a strong frame on the
other hand is so secure in his own
reality he's going to make a joke out of
it thus agreeing with it yes I am gay
and amplifying it I sucked 2,000 dicks
yesterday my jaw is killing me now at
first blush you think wait a minute
wasn't he like buying into her frame no
because buying into a frame would mean
you explain yourself to her this is
basically like a politician making a
joke out of it I'm not going to even
address what you said because it's so
stupid and honestly I don't give a
what you think about me so I'm going to
make a joke of it thus making you laugh
and myself laugh so not only is it a
power play but it makes her laugh same
thing happens when a girl asks you how
many girls have you talk to you tonight
rather than being like Oh I'm not
talking to a lot of girls I'm just you
know I'm just social and I just like to
go around instead you agree and amplify
let me ask you how would you agree how
many girls did you talk to tonight and
amplify that you're right you say I've
talked to 250 girls my goal is 300 girls
just 50 more to go hopefully I can get
that done it's getting a little late but
I have faith I'm going to achieve my
goal tonight I know it and then she
laughs so she throws a frame check at
you you agree with it and amplify it
thus showing you're unaffected by it and
then the question doesn't matter you
will be amazed at how quickly you just
blow past it when you agree with it and
you amplify it another thing she might
say is you're such an and you
say oh wait wait wait wait wait I'm not
an I am the king of the
King of the Army in fact they
Nam me the butthole Master that's what
an I am so thank you for the
compliment I appreciate that which goes
into my next one misinterpret
misinterpret obviously comes from the
word misinterpretation you're
misinterpreting what she says to you to
mean something else this is frame
control in its Essence a frame is
essentially your vision of reality the
way you see reality we can see it as a
picture frame going around a picture
what does that picture have on it well
everybody interprets it differently
don't they so your interpretation of
reality is your frame so if she throws a
frame at you and you misinterpret thus
interpreting it differently that shows a
strong frame for example she says why
are you wearing that shirt going back to
the example that I said and what did the
beta guy do he explains himself well
it's Gucci it's really nice it fits me
good the guy who's good with women on
the other hand might misinterpret what
she said and say whoa whoa whoa whoa I
know you're trying to take off my shirt
right now but relax we just met so by
saying that he's basically saying my
interpretation of reality is more
important to me than your interpretation
of reality and boys that is attractive
that is masculine this is what masculine
men do their own interpretation their
own filters are the only thing that
matters to them now mind you and this is
the biggest mistake when it comes to
frame control she's asking it in a
way when she asks it in a
way you can use these reversals if on
the other hand she's like well why don't
you have a girlfriend you're really
handsome and you're a great speaker and
you're so nice you're not going to be
like look look look I know you're trying
to be my girlfriend right now but we
just met which is something I would say
if she's like why don't you have a
girlfriend and she's real about
it then I flip it on her so it's the
vibe that she throws at you that
dictates whether or not you use these so
as you take these five reversals moving
forward have them with you and use them
on girls who ask you a thing and
I'm going to get to the creme de La
Creme one in a second that you can use
on almost any question she asks you but
really focus on this agree and amplify
misinterpret and that misinterpret one
where she's like why don't you have a
girlfriend you're like look I know
you're trying to be my girlfriend right
now but relax is another great example
of misinterpreting what she says the
other day I was showing this girl a
picture of me and my girlfriends and my
pants were a little bit High I got these
long ass legs they used to call me deer
legs in college because I got long
skinny legs and oftentimes girls will
make fun of them as I'm going to discuss
in a second well she looks at the
picture and the first thing she says is
your pants are too high what I said back
to that is why are you staring at my
crotch so you see how I miss interpreted
she's saying that the pants are too high
I'm reframing it by saying you're
staring at my crotch which goes into
number three reframe the most powerful
of the five frame control reversals and
the one that I use all the time boys
steal this one for Words the real
question is so when a girl asks you a
question you just say the real question
is and you ask a question back to her
she says why are you wearing a pink
shirt tonight you say the real question
is why aren't aren't you wearing a pink
shirt tonight this is the she says
Mark why do you have such skinny legs
you got deer legs over there the real
question is why are you staring at my
legs are you like attracted to Deer legs
or something because you seem pretty
obsessed with it your friend asks you
dude why are you listening to that
stupid podcast and hiring a dating coach
the real question is why are you so
concerned about what I'm doing bro is me
trying to better myself making you a
little bit insecure and this goes into a
concept Boys called all about the other
when you say the real question is you're
flipping the frame on them aren't you
and now it becomes about them so
anything anybody says to you just say
the real question is and ask the
question back to them why are you
wearing a black hat the real question is
why aren't you wearing a black hat or
the real question is why are you so
focused on my hat or the real question
is why are you trying to take my hat off
bro are you secretly attracted to me see
how you can flip it on them and then
just ask him a question back this is
frame control in its Essence I want you
guys to remember this tattoo it on your
forehead the real question is Gangster
level I use it on girls all the
time and gentlemen I am telling you when
a girl frame checks you which again she
asks you a question in a way like
the other night I had a girl ask me is
that one of your pickup lines and I said
the real question is is that one of your
pickup lines is that what they teach you
to say to all the guys when they come
pick you up in the girly magazines relax
we just met no need to use your lines on
me it's all good Sarah and then I blew
right past it amazingly when you you
reframe it on them and show them that
you're going to take the conversational
power 99% of the time they will acques
to your strong frame to your masculinity
and go right along with you very rarely
will they fight you on it and if they do
let's say she reframes it on you then
reframe it back on her she does it again
then do it back to her and I've had
battles with chicks where I used all
these five different ones and then they
couldn't keep up and I won after I won
attraction was on just skyrocketed
through the roof in fact girls who are
highly in their masculine energy want to
be into their feminine energy but most
guys can't put them there so when you
show them that you have a strong frame
this gets massive attraction with girls
who are often times challenging to guys
or who are two in their masculine they
go into their feminine they love
it bro you are going to get so laid
you're going to get more ass in the
toilet seat I promise you this works
that well fourth one ignore if she says
something and you didn't hear it it's
like she didn't say it so she asks you
why are you here alone do you really
come to the nightclubs alone you kind of
look at her at a second you'd be like
hey did you hear the story about the
fight outside and you completely change
the subject this kind of goes into one
frame control thing that I do a lot
where a girl be drinking a drink and
I'll just grab the drink drink it and
hand it back to her and then keep
talking as if nothing happened it's
communicating my frame is so strong my
reality is so strong that you can't even
get into me like I'll ignore it if if I
don't want to talk about it or as in a
recent episode I just recorded being a
politician so for example on that one
the politicians on stage and one of the
reporters asks so what are you going to
do about the environmental problem
that's happening I don't know in Texas
and he doesn't want to answer that
question so instead he says I think the
better question is what am I going to do
about Israel and Hamas you guys are
focused on these infinit testly small
issues here in the states where we have
a war going on overseas we have famine
happening in Palestine so what I'm going
to do there is XYZ thing and this is
what politicians do now a lot of you
guys listening might be getting but hurt
about this you may think this guy's an
he's just trying to control
things he's avoiding things but guys you
have to understand she's the one who's
bringing the energy into it she's
like oh my God why are you wearing that
shirt that level of being you
need to reframe it because if you don't
she is going to lose any and all
attraction for you so in essence if you
are getting but about this that kind of
tells me a little bit about your frame
by the way if you're getting butt hurt
that says that I can get into your frame
you don't believe enough in what you
believe to be unaffected by what I'm
saying but if you have an open mind to
this which I'm sure a lot of you
listening do you see how this is Truth
where a girl's going to test you she's
going to do to see if you have
boundaries to see as I always say if
you're not to be with and if a
girl decides that you can be with
she's gone she's out like sourkraut
she's off like a prom dress see you
later masturbat after a while pedophile
you're all blown out trust me boys I
have been in thousands and thousands of
interactions I have coached over 5,000
men in this this works and this is the
way it is so believe me when I tell you
when she comes at you with this energy
you have to either agree and amplify you
have to misinterpret you have to reframe
or straight up ignore it because when
you ignore it it says I'm not going to
even let that in my reality I just don't
even want to talk about it so instead
we're going to talk about this thing and
if you don't like that I'm afraid I
can't help you with that that frame is
going to make her acques and a lot of
guys who get mad by the way they haven't
had any experience with women they're
like this can't be true it sounds like
such a douchebag thing it's not a
douchebag thing it's a guy who respects
himself who has boundaries do you want
to be the guy who explains himself to
women who does them favors and gets put
in the friend zone or do you want to be
the dude who's cool leads the friend
leads women to where they want to be led
and when they act up push boundaries or
are to you you put out the fire
by using these reframes of course you
want to be that guy cuz that's the guy
who gets girls this stuff works number
five is reframe into a qualifying
question so she says something like is
this what you say to all the girls what
we're going to do is make her explain
herself to us rather than explaining
ourselves to her was so a gangster so
she's like is this what you say to all
the girls and say only the ones that
seem adventurous you're not boring are
you and she's like no I'm fun be like
good cuz I don't talk to boring girls
you just see what happened she tried to
challenge me I flipped it on her saying
only girls who seem adventurous then
asked her a question you're not boring
are you then she's going to explain
herself to me saying no I'm fun I'm
adventurous you say cool I accept you
you just passed the test that's called
reframe into a qualifying question so
let's go over him one more time boys
agree and amplify
anything she says you make it a 100
times worse she's like how many phone
numbers did you get tonight you say I
got 330 phone numbers I really wanted
350 so I got to keep going and get more
or my favorite one is I got nine numbers
tonight one more and I would have had a
full phone
number thank you for that Liam Liam is
my awesome podcast editor all right so
that's the first one agree and amplify
number two is misinterpret she says
something to you you misinterpret it to
mean something else she's like why are
you here you say look I know you're
trying to leave with me right now but we
just met so calm down a little bit
little Casanova see how I misinterpreted
she said one thing I misinterpret it as
something else and then I say that to
her and she buys into that frame now you
may ask what if she doesn't buy into the
frame then you keep going she throws it
back at you you throw it back at her and
this can be really fun and eventually
you guys are going to laugh she's going
to go into your feminine energy and
you're going to win because you will not
quit until you win you have to win
number number three is my all-time
favorite reframe the real question is
those four important words so your
friend comes up to you and asks you any
question about you why are you doing XYZ
thing why did you buy that car why are
you in that job or anything else you say
the real question is why are you so
obsessed with me bro why are you paying
such close attention to my life it's a
little creepy now again your friend's
being a dick he's like bro why would you
buy that car that thing's stupid bro the
real question is why are you so focused
on my life why are you so concerned
about it it's a little creepy man focus
on you bro focus on you and now you
flipped it on him again guys when people
are being dicks to you you have to use
this stuff number four is ignore if she
says something and you didn't hear it
it's like she didn't say it so you
choose what you interact with it is a
core tenant of frame control and number
five is reframe into a qualifying
question she says is this what you say
to all the girls you say only the girls
that seem fun and adventurous you're not
boring are you she says no I'm fun cool
you just went up 20 points in my book
you're now A-6 congratulations and guys
again if you think I'm being a dick here
it's always with the smile it's always
playful it doesn't have negative energy
behind it she's throwing negative energy
at me I'm catching it I'm twisting it
around and throwing it back at her in a
playful way like she throws a baseball
at my head I catch it I twist it and
make it into a fun bouncy ball and throw
it back at her and be like haha I got
you that's the vibe it's not an
Vibe it's a playful Vibe but still
showing that you're not to be
with you're not going to buy into her
frame you're not going to explain
yourself to her you're not going to be
the dude who does her favors and fluffs
her feathers and blow smoke up her ass
because we know what happens it's going
to put you in the friend zone frame
control you must have a stronger frame
than she does in order for her to get
attracted to you two bonus lessons what
if a girl's a real to you and she
says something super negative to you
which I know a lot of you guys fear in
fact one of the biggest fears that I see
time and time again from guys who come
into my three-month coaching program is
getting rejected and getting laughed at
or seen by other people that's why I
have the approach anxiety Destroyer it's
an NLP process that I bring guys who
have bad approach anxiety through to
completely eliminate their approach
anxiety and it works but if
you're afraid of a bad rejection such as
why are you talking to us or get out of
here creep or we're not interested and
she's really to you there's two
things you can do let's say for example
she's like not interested go away and
she's really now if she's not
really I'm just like all right
whatever if she's like Hey we're not
interested could you just go away I'll
be like yeah have a good night right no
big deal I'm unaffected because I have a
strong frame but if she's really
and trying to like insult you make fun
of you which is what a lot of you guys
fear here's what you do so she's like
not interested go away you say what
what' you say and the second she starts
talking again you kind of put your palm
up a little bit in her face but not
completely in her face and you say hey
not interested and you walk away so you
get her to repeat herself then you
interrupt her mids sentence kind of with
your hand in her face and you start
walking away to save your pride because
I know a lot of you guys are prideful
you don't want to get blown out in front
of others so if you're afraid of what
other people think if you're afraid of
this bad rejection that's how you twist
it on her now if she's being an ultra
1000 I'm talking pocket size Satan
up in this then you do this she's
like not interested go away you be like
oh my God your breath is kicking I
didn't want to talk to you anyway have a
good night and brush your teeth and then
walk away again we don't become vengeful
we don't become there's never
negative energy especially behind frame
control but if she's being super
to you which occasionally will happen
I'd say probably maybe one out of 500
girls with do this to me I may do one of
those reframes one of those flip
rejections as I call it to kind of get
the upper hand because we don't like to
get blown out we as men feel like we're
going in with the lower hand that dude
we have to approach her we have to put
ourselves out there how easy is it for
them to just stand there looking pretty
and just reject any guy they want to
them and that's what a lot of you
guys think but the way I think of it is
I'm not going to let them intimidate me
I am more powerful than the approach
anxiety that they put upon me think
about it that way by going up to her I'm
proving that I'm bigger than any fear I
have of her therefore I'm controlling
the frame on my fear on my anxiety but I
do have the NLP process the approach
anxiety Destroyer for guys who come into
my three-month coaching program but
gentlemen I do appreciate you listening
and here's what I'm going to do the next
two podcast so it's going to make three
podcasts total are going to be about
frame control my next podcast is going
to be about something called requests
what do you do if a woman asks you for a
favor how do you get through that favor
what if she asks you for multiple favors
what if she's super negative asking you
to be her lap dog her Lackey pulling the
company line and blowing smoke up her
ass how do you deal with that I'm going
to address that and the next podcast
after that it's going to be next Monday
is going to be about how to deal with
dudes who are who come in and
try to steal your girl who try to fleux
up on you and fight you in the club who
may Flex up on you at work or even in
the parking lot how do you deal with
these dudes and frame control them so
that you can walk away with the upper
hand so today's was the five essential
reversals of frame control Thursdays is
going to be requests how to deal with
the woman who usually puts dudes in the
friend zone and get her insanely
attracted to you and then how to deal
with overbearing men aogs as we call
them alpha male of the group and how to
frame control those guys too so that you
get the upper hand gentlemen I do
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