Tricking your brain to crave hard work is easy, actually

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21 Jul 202403:20

Summary

TLDRThis video script explores the psychology behind procrastination and offers practical strategies to overcome it. It introduces the '2-minute rule' to make starting tasks less daunting, suggests 'gaslighting' oneself into the right mindset, and recommends combining chores with rewards. The script also emphasizes reshaping self-identity to align with desired behaviors and building momentum to naturally increase motivation. The goal is to transform hard tasks into enjoyable routines, ultimately enhancing productivity.

Takeaways

  • 🧠 Procrastination is often a result of our brain's natural resistance to tasks that feel difficult or inconvenient.
  • 🌐 The '2-minute rule' is a strategy to overcome initial resistance by committing to a task for just two minutes, making the first step feel less daunting.
  • πŸ‹οΈβ€β™€οΈ Dressing up for a task, like putting on workout gear, can trick your brain into feeling ready to engage in the activity.
  • πŸ“š Mixing chores with pleasure, such as promising a treat after completing homework, can make the task feel more enjoyable and less like a chore.
  • πŸ† Redefining your identity to align with your goals, like seeing yourself as someone who hits the gym, can help in overcoming the ego's resistance to change.
  • πŸš€ Building momentum is crucial as it can help in maintaining motivation and making the task feel more enjoyable over time.
  • 🎯 The dread of a task often grows with its perceived size, making it feel overwhelming and less likely to be started.
  • πŸ”„ Reassessing after completing the initial two-minute task can help in gradually increasing the commitment to the task, making it feel more achievable.
  • πŸ€Έβ€β™‚οΈ Starting with small, manageable steps, like one set of push-ups or one sentence of an essay, can make the task feel less intimidating.
  • 🌟 The idea of 'tricking' your brain into doing hard things by making them feel like enjoyable activities, like scrolling on TikTok, can be an effective strategy.
  • πŸ’­ Changing your narrative and how you perceive yourself in relation to your goals can help in reshaping your identity and making progress towards them.

Q & A

  • Why is it difficult to resist procrastination when it comes to tasks like studying or going to the gym?

    -It's difficult because our brain, similar to a moody teenager, creates emotional resistance and ego barriers when faced with tasks that are perceived as challenging or inconvenient.

  • What is the 2-minute rule and how does it help in overcoming procrastination?

    -The 2-minute rule involves convincing yourself to start a task for just two minutes. This makes the initial step feel less daunting and more manageable, tricking the brain into starting the task.

  • How does the script suggest using physical actions to trick the brain into being productive?

    -The script suggests getting into the right gear or setting up the environment for a task (like dressing for a workout) to make it feel silly not to start the task, thus tricking the brain into action.

  • What is the concept of 'gaslighting' in the context of the script, and how is it used to motivate oneself?

    -In the script, 'gaslighting' is used metaphorically to describe the act of tricking oneself into starting a task by setting up the environment or conditions that make it feel natural to begin, rather than forcing oneself.

  • How can combining chores with pleasure help in building a habit?

    -Mixing chores with pleasure, such as promising a treat after completing homework, can make the chore feel less of a burden and more enjoyable, thus encouraging the habit formation.

  • What is the importance of reshaping one's identity in overcoming procrastination?

    -Reshaping one's identity to fit the desired outcome, like seeing oneself as someone who hits the gym, can help in overcoming the ego's resistance and making the task feel more natural and less like a chore.

  • How does building momentum play a role in maintaining productivity?

    -Once momentum is built by starting tasks and seeing progress, motivation naturally increases. This makes continuing the task feel less forced and more enjoyable.

  • What is the psychological barrier that the script refers to as 'ego' and how does it affect our actions?

    -The 'ego' in the script refers to the part of us that wants to maintain our self-image at all costs. It creates a barrier that prevents us from taking actions that might lead to potential embarrassment or discomfort.

  • Why is it beneficial to start a task with a small, manageable step?

    -Starting a task with a small step makes it feel less overwhelming and more achievable, which can help in overcoming the initial resistance and making it easier to continue with the task.

  • How does the script suggest using rewards to motivate oneself to complete tasks?

    -The script suggests using rewards as a form of motivation by promising oneself something enjoyable after completing a task, which can help in making the task feel more appealing and less like a chore.

  • What is the final call to action in the script and what is its purpose?

    -The final call to action is to 'pay up' by subscribing to the channel, which serves as a metaphor for taking action and committing to the strategies discussed in the script.

Outlines

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🧠 Overcoming Procrastination

This paragraph discusses the common struggle with procrastination and introduces the concept of 'brain bending' to trick the mind into doing difficult tasks. It highlights the emotional resistance and ego issues that often hinder productivity. The speaker shares personal experiences and suggests that understanding these psychological barriers is the first step towards overcoming them.

πŸ‹οΈβ€β™‚οΈ The 2-Minute Rule

The speaker introduces the '2-minute rule' as a strategy to combat the dread of starting a task. By convincing oneself to start a task for just two minutes, the barrier to entry is significantly lowered. This approach is illustrated with examples such as beginning a workout with a single set of push-ups or starting an essay with a single sentence. The idea is to make the initial step feel manageable, which can lead to continued progress.

πŸ‘• Dressing for Success

This paragraph suggests that preparing for a task by dressing appropriately can help overcome the initial reluctance to start. The speaker uses the analogy of 'playing dress up' to describe the process of getting into workout gear, which can create a psychological readiness to engage in physical activity. The idea is that by physically preparing for a task, one is more likely to follow through.

🍬 Mixing Chores with Pleasure

The speaker discusses the power of combining chores with rewards to make tasks more appealing. This strategy involves promising oneself a pleasurable activity after completing a chore, such as hanging out with friends after a study session. The paragraph emphasizes the importance of aligning tasks with personal desires to create motivation and facilitate the completion of less enjoyable tasks.

πŸ‹οΈβ€β™€οΈ Redefining Self-Image

This paragraph addresses the issue of self-image and how it can be a barrier to productivity. The speaker suggests reframing one's identity to align with desired behaviors, such as seeing oneself as someone who regularly hits the gym. This subtle shift in perception can be powerful in motivating oneself to act in line with the new self-image.

πŸš€ Building Momentum

The final paragraph emphasizes the importance of building momentum once a task is started. The speaker explains that while initial motivation might be tricked or coerced, the natural progression and visible progress in tasks can lead to genuine motivation. The paragraph concludes with the idea that enjoying the process, rather than just the end result, is key to sustained productivity.

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Keywords

πŸ’‘Procrastination

Procrastination is the act of delaying or postponing tasks or actions, often to engage in less urgent or pleasurable activities. In the video's context, it is depicted as a common obstacle to productivity. The script uses the metaphor of 'the burrito of procrastination' to illustrate the tendency to put off tasks like studying or going to the gym.

πŸ’‘Productive

Productive refers to being efficient and effective in one's work or activities, yielding positive results. The video contrasts productive individuals with those who procrastinate, emphasizing the importance of overcoming procrastination to achieve productivity.

πŸ’‘Ego

Ego, in this context, represents the part of one's self-image that seeks to maintain a certain perception of oneself, often at the cost of avoiding potential embarrassment or discomfort. The script mentions the 'ego bruise' as a reason why people might avoid certain tasks, highlighting the need to overcome this to be more productive.

πŸ’‘Emotional Resistance

Emotional resistance is the internal resistance one feels when faced with tasks that are perceived as difficult or inconvenient. The video likens the brain to a 'moody teenager' that creates emotional resistance when confronted with chores or homework, which is a key barrier to productivity.

πŸ’‘2-Minute Rule

The 2-Minute Rule is a technique mentioned in the script to overcome procrastination by committing to start a task for just two minutes. This approach makes the initial step seem less daunting and more manageable, as exemplified by starting with one set of push-ups or writing one sentence.

πŸ’‘Brain Bending

Brain bending, as used in the video, refers to the process of manipulating one's mindset to make difficult tasks feel easier. It involves tricking the brain into starting tasks by making the initial steps seem trivial and easy, which is a central theme of the video.

πŸ’‘Gaslighting

In the video, 'gaslighting' is used metaphorically to describe the act of tricking oneself into starting a task by preparing for it as if it were a different, less daunting activity. For example, getting into workout gear to feel silly not going to the gym, which is a strategy to overcome the initial reluctance.

πŸ’‘Reward System

The reward system is a psychological concept where a reward is given to reinforce a behavior. In the script, it is suggested to mix chores with pleasure, such as promising oneself to hang out with friends after completing a study session, to motivate oneself to be more productive.

πŸ’‘Momentum

Momentum, in the context of the video, refers to the build-up of motivation and progress that occurs once a task is started and continued. The script suggests that once momentum is built, the tasks that were initially hard to start become enjoyable and easier to continue.

πŸ’‘Identity

Identity, in this script, is the self-perception or the way one sees oneself. The video talks about reshaping one's identity to fit the desired outcome, such as seeing oneself as someone who hits the gym, which is a subtle but powerful way to change behavior and increase productivity.

πŸ’‘Trick

Trick, as used in the video, refers to the various psychological strategies employed to deceive oneself into taking action. It is a key concept throughout the script, where the speaker describes different tricks to overcome procrastination and start doing hard tasks.

Highlights

Procrastination is often due to emotional resistance and ego.

Decoding the source of resistance can help overcome procrastination.

The 2-minute rule can help start tasks by making the first step feel manageable.

Starting with a small task can lead to completing larger ones.

Dressing up for a task can trick the brain into starting the activity.

Associating chores with pleasure can make them more enjoyable.

Using rewards as motivation can help complete tasks more effectively.

Reinforcing self-image as someone who completes tasks can change behavior.

Building momentum can lead to enjoying the tasks that were initially hard.

The speaker turned a new leaf by tricking their brain into doing hard things.

Studies show simple steps can work 60% of the time to overcome procrastination.

Emotional resistance is compared to a moody teenager or a girlfriend.

Ego is described as a part of us that wants to maintain our core image.

The 2-minute rule is a technique to start tasks by committing to just 2 minutes.

Starting with one set of push-ups or one sentence can lead to completing more.

Dressing for a workout can trick the brain into actually starting the workout.

Mixing chores with pleasure can make them feel less like work.

Reinforcing a new identity can help in reshaping behavior to fit desired outcomes.

Once momentum is built, motivation naturally increases, making tasks enjoyable.

Transcripts

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ever felt like a screen time is as high

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as melman's nuts some people are what

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you would describe as productive

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effective and efficient While others

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procrastinate by watching productivity

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videos but why is it so easy to

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procrastinate and do things we like but

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the moment you need to study or hit the

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gym

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you that was me the burrito of

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procrastination but recently I've turned

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a new leaf and it wasn't because of my

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raw sheer willpower it's about tricking

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your brain into doing hard things and

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make these hard things feel like

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scrolling on Tik Tok studies show these

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simple steps work 60% of the time every

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time step one brain bending let me

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explain how our minds work think of our

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brain as a moody teenager or in my case

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my girlfriend when faced with chores

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homework or the slightest inconvenience

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what do they do they'll make you feel

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their wrath that's our emotional

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resistance there's also our ego the part

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of us that wants to maintain our corol

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image at all cost uploading a video

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outside of your Niche nope our brain

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would rather skip the potential ego

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bruise battling our brain's emotional

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resistance headon is like wrestling and

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oiled up Ryan Reynolds you just can't

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get a good grip but if we decode the

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source of this resistance then and only

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then we might just be able to get a good

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handful let's start with those emotional

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meltdowns The Dread of a task often

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grows with its perceived size think

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about it committing to a Netflix

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Marathon feels easy because it's fun but

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committing to 2 months without your

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phone feels like nailing Jello to the

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wall so how do we fix this enter the

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2-minute rule it's simple convince

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yourself to do the task for Just 2

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minutes instead of tackling the entire

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gym session just start with one set of

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push-ups instead of writing an entire

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essay just write one sentence it's about

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making that first little step feel less

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like a leap and more like a tiny totally

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doable hop and when that's over reassess

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maybe another sentence doesn't sound so

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terrifying or another set of push-ups

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before you know it you tricked yourself

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into doing a whole workout or a chapter

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congratulations good job you've mastered

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brain bending step two

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gas light now for the times when even

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starting feels scary I play dress up not

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literally but I get into my workout gear

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lace up and by the time I look like a

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highlighter it feels silly not to go

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it's like telling yourself you're just

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prepping not actually doing next thing

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you know you're knee deep in

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productivity this morning I tricked

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myself into cleaning up my desk and

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before I knew it I'm already halfway

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through writing this very script you're

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listening to step three the reward

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system mix chores with pleasure it's

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like babysitting promise the kid a treat

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post homework and watch the magic unfold

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I used to promise myself I hang out with

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friends but only if my study session

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ended on a high note but what about our

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fragile egos they can be tricky our

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self-image is a fortress protecting us

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from potential embarrassments it's time

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to tweak that narrative instead of

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seeing myself as someone who needs to

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hit the gym I started seeing myself as

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someone who hits the gym subtle but

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powerful it's not about gas lining

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yourself it's about reshaping your

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identity to fit who you want to become

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like Run's chair step four momentum

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you're not going to be fooling yourself

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forever just long enough to build

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momentum once you start seeing progress

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whether it's muscle gains or better

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grades motivation kicks in naturally

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before you know it you're not just uring

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those hard tasks you're enjoying them at

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the end of the day we listen to the song

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to enjoy the song not to finish

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listening to it anyway the video is not

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free it's time to pay up that's going to

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cost you one subscribe and the screen's

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going to ask you some questions

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