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Summary

TLDRThis video tells the inspiring story of Edwin Bernard and Cornelius Leo, two brothers who were destined to inherit a steel construction business but found a higher calling. While studying in America, they felt a divine pull towards priesthood and joined Catholic religious orders. Despite initial parental concerns, their family embraced their decisions, and their spiritual journeys brought newfound faith and purpose to all involved. This narrative highlights the transformative power of faith and commitment, showing how unexpected paths can lead to profound fulfillment.

Takeaways

  • 🙌 Edwin Bernard and Cornelis Leo were initially prepared by their parents to inherit a steel construction business but felt a divine calling to become Catholic priests.
  • 🙏 Edwin experienced a spiritual awakening after watching 'The Song of Bernadette' during his studies in the US, leading him to pray the Rosary daily and eventually pursue religious life.
  • 📚 Edwin began reading various religious books, which deepened his spiritual knowledge and strengthened his resolve to join the Dominican Order.
  • 📆 On May 24, 2013, Edwin was ordained as a Dominican priest in Washington, D.C., a journey that began with his entry into the monastery in July 2006.
  • 🎶 Edwin was inspired by the Dominican sisters' chanting of Psalms and Gregorian chants, which felt like a glimpse of heaven to him.
  • 💡 Cornelis Leo also felt a conflict between his professional and spiritual lives while pursuing a PhD in Geographic Information Systems, leading him to join the Community of Saint John.
  • 🌍 Cornelis adapted to the different lifestyle in the monastery, finding joy in a simpler, more realistic way of living despite the initial challenges.
  • 👨‍👩‍👦‍👦 Their parents, Aloysius Sanjaya and Ester Widyawati, initially unaware of their sons' religious inclinations, fully supported their decisions despite societal expectations to continue the family business.
  • ✝️ The family's faith grew stronger after Edwin and Cornelis entered the monastery, with the parents becoming more active in their church community.
  • 🕊️ Despite the family business not being passed down, Sanjaya and Ester found peace and saw it as a divine blessing, trusting in God's plan and continuing their charitable efforts.

Q & A

  • Who are Edwin Bernard and Cornelis Leo Adrianus?

    -Edwin Bernard and Cornelis Leo Adrianus are brothers who were prepared by their parents to inherit a steel construction business but later decided to become Catholic priests.

  • What event in 2004 significantly influenced Edwin Bernard's spiritual journey?

    -In 2004, Edwin Bernard was significantly influenced by watching the film 'The Song of Bernadette,' which touched his conscience and sparked his interest in religious life.

  • Where were Edwin Bernard and Cornelis Leo Adrianus studying when they felt the call to join the clergy?

    -They were studying in the United States, specifically at the University at Buffalo, New York State.

  • What religious order did Edwin Bernard join?

    -Edwin Bernard joined the Order of Preachers, also known as the Dominicans.

  • How did Edwin Bernard's family react to his decision to join the clergy?

    -Edwin's parents accepted his decision with steadfastness, and his choice did not surprise them as they had always observed his special behavior.

  • What inspired Cornelis Leo Adrianus to join a religious order?

    -Cornelis was inspired by reading his brother Edwin's religious books and watching Catholic television programs, which made him feel a conflict between his professional life and his spiritual calling.

  • What religious order did Cornelis Leo Adrianus join?

    -Cornelis Leo Adrianus joined the Community of Saint John (CSJ).

  • How did Cornelis describe the change in his life after joining the monastery?

    -Cornelis described his new life as more realistic, where he had to work for everything he needed, unlike his previous life where he could buy whatever he wanted.

  • How did the decision of Edwin and Cornelis to join the clergy affect their parents' business plans?

    -Their decision meant that they would not continue the family steel construction business, but their parents saw this as a blessing from God rather than a setback.

  • How did the religious choices of Edwin and Cornelis impact their parents' spiritual lives?

    -The religious choices of their sons led their parents to become more active in their faith, particularly in their local parish, St. James in Kelapa Gading.

  • What was the reaction of Sanjaya and Ester to their sons not continuing the family business?

    -Sanjaya and Ester accepted their sons' decisions with grace, believing that God's plan is the best and feeling blessed by the spiritual growth in their family.

Outlines

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😃 Edwin and Cornelius's Spiritual Journey

Edwin Bernard Timothy and Cornelius Leo Adrianus were prepared by their parents to inherit the family's steel construction business. However, both felt a divine calling to become Catholic priests. Edwin, while studying in the U.S., was deeply moved by the movie 'The Song of Bernadette,' leading him to embrace a spiritual path, joining the Dominican order. Cornelius, influenced by his brother and spiritual readings, followed suit, joining the Community of Saint John. Both found fulfillment in their new lives, despite initial uncertainties and the sacrifice of their professional aspirations.

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😊 Family Support and Transformation

Cornelius and Edwin's parents, Aloysius Sanjaya and Ester Widyawati, initially did not foresee their sons joining the clergy, as the family led a typical religious life. Despite their hard work in the steel business and hopes for their sons to continue the enterprise, they accepted their sons' spiritual callings as a divine blessing. Their acceptance and support grew their faith, leading them to active church involvement. The family's perspective shifted towards altruism and community service, finding happiness in their sons' decisions and trusting in God's plan for their lives.

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Keywords

💡Edwin Bernard Timothy

Edwin Bernard Timothy is one of the main figures in the video. He was initially prepared to inherit a steel construction business but felt a calling to become a Catholic priest. This shift in his life's path underscores the video's theme of divine intervention and personal transformation. Edwin's journey began after watching 'The Song of Bernadette' and led him to join the Dominican order.

💡Cornelius Leo Adrianus

Cornelius Leo Adrianus is Edwin's brother, who also transitioned from a planned career in steel construction to a religious life. Like Edwin, Cornelius was influenced by spiritual readings and Catholic broadcasts. He joined the Community of Saint John. His story parallels Edwin's, highlighting the theme of unexpected spiritual callings and the impact of faith on life choices.

💡Dominican Order

The Dominican Order, also known as the Order of Preachers, is a Catholic religious order focused on preaching and teaching. Edwin chose to join this order, marking a significant step in his spiritual journey. The order's focus on community life, prayer, and study played a crucial role in Edwin's decision and subsequent life as a Dominican priest.

💡Community of Saint John (CSJ)

The Community of Saint John is a Catholic religious community that Cornelius joined. This order emphasizes contemplative life and community living. Cornelius found a different rhythm and simplicity in life within this community, contrasting with his previous professional life, thus reflecting his dedication to a more spiritually fulfilling existence.

💡The Song of Bernadette

The Song of Bernadette is a film that profoundly influenced Edwin. The virtues and faith of Saint Bernadette, as depicted in the film, sparked Edwin's spiritual awakening and eventual decision to pursue the priesthood. This film serves as a catalyst for the transformative journeys of the video's protagonists.

💡Rosary

The Rosary is a form of prayer in the Catholic Church, involving the repetition of Hail Marys, Our Fathers, and Glory Bes. Edwin began praying the Rosary daily after his spiritual awakening, symbolizing his deepening faith and commitment to a religious life. This practice played a significant role in his journey towards becoming a priest.

💡Spiritual Calling

A spiritual calling refers to a strong inner urge to pursue a life dedicated to religious service. Both Edwin and Cornelius experienced this calling, leading them to leave their professional paths and join religious orders. This concept is central to the video, illustrating the profound impact of faith on personal decisions.

💡Imam Katolik

Imam Katolik, or Catholic priest, is the role that Edwin eventually takes on. His ordination marks the culmination of his spiritual journey and commitment to serving the Church. This role embodies his dedication to his faith and his lifelong commitment to religious service.

💡Family's Acceptance

The acceptance of Edwin and Cornelius's decisions by their parents, Aloysius Sanjaya and Ester Widyawati, is a significant theme. Initially prepared to inherit the family business, their parents' acceptance and support of their sons' religious callings demonstrate the transformative power of faith within the family. This acceptance also leads to their own spiritual growth and active involvement in church activities.

💡Steel Construction Business

The steel construction business represents the initial career path planned for Edwin and Cornelius by their parents. This business symbolizes their family's expectations and the conventional route they were expected to follow. Their decision to pursue religious vocations instead highlights the theme of divine intervention and the redefinition of life paths.

Highlights

Edwin Bernard Timothy terjaga dari tidurnya dan menonton film 'The Song of Bernadette' yang menyentuh nuraninya.

Edwin Bernard Timothy merasa terinspirasi oleh sikap Santa Bernadette dan mulai mendalami kehidupan rohani.

Edwin mulai berdoa Rosario setiap hari dan terlibat dalam misa.

Edwin Bernard Timothy merasa panggilan membiara dan memutuskan untuk masuk Ordo Dominikan.

Edwin Bernard Timothy memulai perjalanan imamat pada tanggal 24 Mei 2013.

Cornelius Leo Adrianus terinspirasi oleh adiknya dan merasa ada konflik antara kehidupan profesional dan rohani.

Cornelius Leo Adrianus memutuskan untuk masuk ordo Community of Saint John (CSJ).

Cornelius merasa bahagia dengan kehidupan membiara yang lebih realistis.

Orang tua Cornelius dan Edwin, Aloysius Sanjaya dan Ester Widyawati, awalnya tidak menyangka kedua putranya akan masuk biara.

Cornelius dan Edwin memiliki perilaku yang cenderung tidak merepotkan sejak kecil.

Cornelius dan Edwin dikirim ke Amerika Serikat untuk menuntut ilmu agar dapat meneruskan usaha keluarga.

Rencana hidup Cornelius dan Edwin berubah saat mereka memutuskan untuk menjadi biarawan.

Kehidupan iman orang tua Cornelius dan Edwin bertumbuh sejak kedua putranya masuk biara.

Orang tua Cornelius dan Edwin aktif dalam pelayanan di Paroki ST Yakobus, Kelapa Gading.

Edwin yang baru ditahbiskan sebagai Imam berkesempatan mempersembahkan ekaristi di Jakarta.

Transcripts

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Hai

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[Tepuk tangan]

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sagup

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selampai

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se-solo

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muchus

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qowaidus dirimu

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sahabat ku

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Hai

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banget

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[Tepuk tangan]

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Edwin Bernard multi dan Cornelis Leo

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Adrianus oleh orang tua mereka sudah

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dipersiapkan untuk mewarisi usaha

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dibidang konstruksi baja namun Tuhan

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punya rencana tersendiri yang sangat

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misterius Tuhan mengisikan sebuah

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panggilan hidup yang penuh misteri ke

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dalam hati mereka mereka pun memutuskan

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masuk biara dan menjadi Pastor imam

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Katolik Tuhan memanggil sewaktu mereka

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studi lanjut di Amerika beginilah kisah

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selengkapnya suatu malam di penghujung

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tahun 2004 Edwin Bernard Timothy terjaga

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dari tidurnya yang lelap lantas secara

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tak sengaja ia menonton film the song of

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bernadette di layar kaca

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keutamaan sikap Santa Bernadet yang

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mengemuka dalam Hitam Putih produksi

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tahun 50-an itu menyentuh Nurani pemuda

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yang tengah studi S2 bidang geografi

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Information System di Universitas

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Buffalo New York state Amerika Serikat

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ini ada sesuatu yang indah sesuatu yang

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belum pernah saya rasakan sebelumnya

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ungkapnya saat ditemui di kediaman

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orangtuanya di Kelapa Gading Jakarta

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Utara Kamis tanggal 6 Juni tahun 2013

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kisah Santa Bernadet itu membuat hidup

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rohani Edwin menggeliat sejak itu Setiap

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hari saya berdoa Rosario dan ikut bisa

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kenangnya

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selanjutnya pria kelahiran tanggal 25

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Jan toh Unsri Bu

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982 ini Mendulang pengetahuan rohani

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dari beragam buku agama hal yang

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sebelumnya tak terlintas dibenaknya

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hingga Suatu hari ia membaca buku

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mengenai hidup Bakti dalam gereja

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Katolik

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panggilan membiara pun mulai menggeliat

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hatinya saya merasa klik Saya tertarik

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menjadi biarawan ujarnya 6 bulan

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berselang seusai studi S2 Edwin memilih

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ordo saya masuk ordo pengkhotbah

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dominikan katanya seiring bergulirnya

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waktu panggilan yang ditelusuri Edwin

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bermuara pada tanggal 24.mei tahun 2013

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tatkala ngisi Nur Christopher kardon Oke

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menghabiskan yang menjadi imam dominikan

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di gereja Sheikh Dominic kucing ton DC

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Amerika Serikat ketika pertama kali

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edrin menjejakkan kaki di biara

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suster-suster dominikan di Buffalo New

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York state kekaguman menyergapnya

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sister sister dominikan sedang

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mendaratkan Mazmur dan lagu-lagu

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Gregorian dengan begitu indah saya

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seperti berada di surga ujar Edwin

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sembari melepas tawa namun seulas

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kekhawatiran tak sanggup berkhotbah

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mengganjarnya lalu saya memohon kepada

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Tuhan Hai Jikalau memang dia memanggil

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saya Tolonglah saya setelah itu batin

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Edwin terasa lapang Juli tahun 2006

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Edwin masuk biara Saya bersyukur orang

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tua menerima keputusan saya dengan

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keteguhan hati Edwin meniti Titian

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imamar bagi saya panggilan ini merupakan

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lifetime commitment meski sejak awal

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saya tak pernah ragu ucap alumnus SMP

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dan SMA Kanisius Menteng Jakarta Pusat

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ini

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Ternyata hidup membiara juga mempesona

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sang kakak Cornelius Leo Adrianus

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Cornelius yang sebelumnya selalu tinggal

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satu rumah dengan Edwin Di Negeri Paman

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Sam grafikus membaca buku-buku rohani

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milik adiknya Ia juga mengikuti siaran

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siaran rohani di saluran televisi

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Katolik setempat meski ia Tengah studi

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S3 bidang geografi Information System di

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kampus yang sama dengan khusus adiknya

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niatnya masuk biara tak terbendung Saya

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mulai merasakan ada konflik antara hidup

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profesional saya dengan hidup rohani

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tandas Cornelius yang sudah menjadi

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dosen di kampusnya

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setahun setelah Edwin masuk biara

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dominikan

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Cornelius masuk orde community of Saint

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John csj di biara Cornelius mendapati

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Irama hidupnya sungguh berbeda dengan

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sebelumnya tapi saya bahagia karena

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hidup lebih realistis dulu semua yang

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saya butuhkan bisa saya beli sekarang

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semua yang saya butuhkan harus saya

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kerjakan sendiri ucap pria yang saat ini

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menjadi Frater Jedi Perancis pria

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kelahiran tanggal 30 Juli tahun

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1980 ini mengibaratkan panggilan

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hidupnya sebagai mutiara

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Hai Tuhan memberikan mutiara kepada kami

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dan untuk itu kami harus meninggalkan

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semua yang kami miliki tuturnya

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semula orang tua Cornelius dan Edwin

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Aloysius Sanjaya dan Ester Widyawati tak

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pernah menangkap semburat tanda bahwa

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kedua putranya bakal masuk biara semasa

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di Jakarta mereka enggan bergabung

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dengan Putra altar atau orang muda

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Katolik omk hidup rohani Kami

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biasa-biasa saja hanya masuk gereja

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setiap minggu itu lechter namun sejak

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kecil perilaku Cornelius dan Edwin

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cenderung tak merepotkan orangtua mereka

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tak pernah bertengkar atau irihati

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nyaris tak ada tangis anak-anak di rumah

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keluarga Sanjaya Dulu saya merasa semua

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itu wajar saja tetapi belakangan saya

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tersadar bahwa mereka memang spesial

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Kenanga Ester sejak awal perkawinan

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79 pasangan ini merintis usaha

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konstruksi baja kami bekerja keras

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mengembangkan usaha demi anak-anak kata

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Sanjaya selepas SMA mereka mengirim

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Cornelius dan Edwin ke Amerika Serikat

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guna menuntut ilmu agar kelak bisa

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meneruskan usaha ternyata jalan hidup

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bertutur lain rencana saya dengan

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rencana Allah berbeda tapi saya meyakini

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rencana Allah pasti yang terbaik

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tegasnya

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berbagai komentar pun menyinggahi

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telinga Sanjaya dan Ester karena

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Cornelius dan Edwin tak mungkin

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meneruskan usaha tak sedikit yang

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menganggap realita ini musibah terlebih

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karena garis keturunan mereka tak

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berlanjut tetapi kami menerimanya

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sebagai rahmat Tuhan yang luar biasa

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tanda saja ya sejak kedua putranya masuk

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biara kehidupan Iman pasangan ini

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bertumbuh mereka aktif dalam pelayanan

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di aja khususnya di Paroki ST Yakobus

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Kelapa Gading

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sementara dalam mengepakkan sayap usaha

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pandangan mereka bergeser ada hak

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orang-orang lain pada rezeki yang kami

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terima tutur pasangan yang peduli pada

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Pendidikan anak-anak tak berpunya ini di

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usia menyongsong sejak pasangan ini

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tetap giat berkarya meski tak bisa

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mewariskan bisnisnya kepada Cornelis dan

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Edwin tak ada suruh berfung Sesal

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melekat dihati mereka Kami yakin Tuhan

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yang telah memulainya dengan baik akan

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menyelesaikannya dengan baik pula tugas

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Sanjaya awal Juni tahun 2013 kebahagiaan

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menyelimuti pasangan ini karena kedua

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Putra mereka datang ke Jakarta

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Edwin yang baru ditahbiskan sebagai Imam

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berkesempatan mempersembahkan rangkaian

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ekaristi di beberapa kota termasuk di

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kediaman orangtuanya pada Kamis siang

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tanggal 6 Juni tahun 2013

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itu bersamaan ini tentu tak berlangsung

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lama karena Edwin dan Cornelius harus

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kembali ke biara masing-masing di

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Amerika dan Perancis

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keikhlasan hati Sanjaya dan Ester

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mengiringi Langkah kedua Putra mereka

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berkat Tuhan melimpah mengalir dalam

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hidup keluarga terpanggil ini

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