How I learned to SELL...[mindset training]

Alex Hormozi
16 Jun 202210:40

Summary

TLDRIn diesem fesselnden Interview spricht der Unternehmer über seine Leidenschaft für das Geschäft und seinen intensiven Arbeitsstil, der oft 80-100 Stunden pro Woche umfasst. Er beschreibt, wie er es schafft, trotz seiner Arbeitslast fit zu bleiben und seine Ehe zu pflegen, indem er und seine Frau, die ebenfalls Geschäftspartnerin ist, ihre Aufgaben teilen. Außerdem reflektiert er über seine anfängliche Unsicherheit und wie positive Rückmeldungen ihn dazu motivierten, weiterzumachen. Das Gespräch deckt auch seine Überzeugung auf, dass Erfolg im Verkauf durch Vertrauen und Überzeugung entsteht, und endet mit einem Aufruf, den Kanal zu abonnieren.

Takeaways

  • 😀 Die Person im Gespräch scheint ein sehr harter Arbeiter zu sein, der in der Vergangenheit 80 bis 100 Stunden pro Woche gearbeitet hat.
  • 👫 Die Person hat eine Ehefrau, die in demselben Unternehmen arbeitet und 50/50 Partnerin ist, was als selten angesehen wird.
  • 💡 Die Ehefrau ist die Hauptoperatorin des Unternehmens, verantwortlich für Infrastruktur, Personalbeschaffung, HR und Unternehmenskultur.
  • 🏋️‍♂️ Der Sprecher teilt sein Leben zwischen Arbeit, Fitness und sozialen Aktivitäten, was zeigt, dass er ein Gleichgewicht gefunden hat.
  • 🔥 Es wird angedeutet, dass der Sprecher ein starkes Bedürfnis hat, ständig zu arbeiten und nicht bereit ist, sich für das, was er liebt, zu entschuldigen.
  • 🤔 Der Sprecher reflektiert über seine Arbeitsethik und die Bedeutung des Gleichgewichts in seinem Leben, was zeigt, dass er sich mit seinen Entscheidungen abfindet.
  • 💰 Er erwähnt, dass sein ursprünglicher Antrieb von Unsicherheit und der Notwendigkeit der Anerkennung geprägt war, was zu einer Verhaltensbedingung führte.
  • 📈 Der Sprecher hat sich im Laufe der Zeit von seinen Unsicherheiten befreit und nutzt sein Vermögen als emotionale Untersützung.
  • 🌴 Letztes Jahr hat er sich eine Auszeit genommen und viel gereist, was ihm zeigte, dass er liebt zu arbeiten und dass er keine Schuld für seine Arbeitsethik empfinden sollte.
  • 🌱 Er verwendet die Metapher der 'Saisonen', um seine Arbeitsphasen zu beschreiben und betont die Bedeutung von Zeitboxing für Produktivität.
  • 🎯 Der Sprecher legt großen Wert auf die Bedeutung von Überzeugung und Vertrauen im Verkauf, was entscheidend für den Erfolg ist.
  • 🗣️ Er betont die Notwendigkeit, die richtigen Fragen zu stellen, um potenzielle Kunden zu einem Schluss zu führen, anstatt sie zu einem Ergebnis zu drängen.

Q & A

  • Wie beschreibt der Sprecher seine Begeisterung für das Unternehmertum?

    -Der Sprecher liebt das Unternehmertum und findet, dass es ihn mehr stimuliert als alles andere. Er vergleicht das Hören seiner eigenen Erlebnisse mit dem Lesen eines gut geschriebenen historischen Buches, das in jedem Satz Faktoren enthält.

  • Was bedeutet das für den Sprecher, wenn er sagt, er sei 'ein Grind'?

    -Als 'Grinder' bezeichnet der Sprecher jemanden, der sehr hart arbeitet, oft 80 bis 100 Stunden pro Woche, um seine Geschäftsideen umzusetzen.

  • Wie ist die Beziehung zwischen dem Sprecher und seiner Ehefrau im Geschäftsalltag?

    -Die Ehefrau des Sprechers ist sein Geschäftspartner und sie teilen die Arbeit 50:50. Sie ist die Operatorin, die die Infrastruktur aufbaut, das Recruiting organisiert, die HR-Angelegenheiten und die Unternehmenskultur leitet.

  • Wie findet der Sprecher einen Work-Life-Balance?

    -Der Sprecher und seine Ehefrau arbeiten gemeinsam in ihrem Unternehmen und finden ihre Balance durch gemeinsame Aktivitäten wie gemeinsames Mittagessen und Abendessen, sowie regelmäßiges Training im Fitnessstudio.

  • Was war der Antrieb hinter dem harten Arbeiten des Sprechers?

    -Der Sprecher gab an, dass sein Antrieb ursprünglich von lauter Unsicherheit und dem Bedarf nach Anerkennung geprägt war. Durch positive Verstärkung wurde er dann darauf trainiert, diese Aktivitäten fortzusetzen.

  • Wie hat sich der Sprecher im Laufe der Zeit verändert?

    -Der Sprecher sagt, dass er sich im Vergleich zu früher um etwa 30% verbessert hat, was möglicherweise durch seinen finanziellen Erfolg als 'emotionalen Krutch' gestützt wird.

  • Was passierte, als der Sprecher letztes Jahr weniger arbeitete?

    -Letztes Jahr machte der Sprecher eine Pause und reiste viel. Er fand jedoch, dass er leere Zeiten hatte und dass er lieber arbeitete, als sich inaktiv zu fühlen.

  • Was versteht der Sprecher unter 'Saisonen' im Unternehmertum?

    -Der Sprecher teilt sein Leben in 'Saisonen' ein, die etwa fünf Jahre lang sind. Jede Saison ist ein Zeitraum, in dem er sich auf eine bestimmte Aufgabe konzentriert oder ein Projekt durchführt.

  • Wie sieht der Verkaufsprozess aus, den der Sprecher beschreibt?

    -Der Verkaufsprozess, den der Sprecher beschreibt, beinhaltet das Verstehen des Problems des Kunden, das Erklären der Vorteile des Produkts anhand der Erfahrungen, die der Kunde haben wird, und das Schließen des Verkaufs mit einer naturnotenbasierten Methode.

  • Was ist der Schlüssel zu einem erfolgreichen Verkauf nach Ansicht des Sprechers?

    -Der Sprecher glaubt, dass der Schlüssel zu einem erfolgreichen Verkauf das Bestehen auf der Überzeugung (Conviction) und dem Vertrauen ist. Verkäufer sollten das Produkt glaubhaft und mit Expertise verkaufen.

  • Wie kann man Konfrontationen beim Verkauf vermeiden?

    -Der Sprecher schlägt vor, mit kindlicher Neugier zu verkaufen, indem man Fragen stellt, um die Kunden zu verstehen, anstatt sie zu konfrontieren. Dies fördert eine offene Kommunikation und hilft, das Vertrauen aufzubauen.

Outlines

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🏋️‍♂️ Balance zwischen Arbeit und Fitness

Der Sprecher spricht über die Balance zwischen intensiven Arbeitswochen und körperlicher Fitness. Er erwähnt, dass er und seine Frau gemeinsam im Geschäft arbeiten und dass sie beide ihre Aufgaben aufteilen. Die Frau des Sprechers kümmert sich um die operative Seite des Geschäfts. Der Sprecher liebt es zu arbeiten und findet keine andere Aktivität so stimulierend. Er beschreibt seinen Tagesablauf, der Arbeit, Fitnessstudio und gemeinsames Abendessen umfasst.

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🧠 Getrieben von Unsicherheit

Der Sprecher reflektiert über seine ursprüngliche Motivation, die von tiefer Unsicherheit und dem Bedürfnis nach Anerkennung angetrieben wurde. Durch positives Feedback verstärkte sich sein Verhalten, und obwohl die ursprüngliche Unsicherheit nachgelassen hat, bleibt seine Arbeitsmoral stark. Er hinterfragt, ob sein finanzieller Erfolg echte persönliche Entwicklung oder nur eine Kompensation ist. Trotz eines arbeitsfreien Jahres erkennt er, dass er die Arbeit liebt und sich nicht von äußeren Urteilen beeinflussen lassen sollte.

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🌍 Reisen und Selbsterkenntnis

Der Sprecher beschreibt sein Jahr der Auszeit, in dem er viel reiste, sich aber letztlich leer fühlte. Er erkennt, dass er Pausen von der Arbeit braucht, aber auch, dass diese Pausen eine Veränderung in der Denkweise darstellen, ähnlich wie ein Wechsel von detaillierter Arbeit zu strategischem Denken. Er spricht über den Begriff 'Saisons' im Unternehmerleben, was ihm hilft, Entscheidungen weniger belastend zu machen.

💼 Überzeugung im Verkauf

Der Sprecher teilt seine Überzeugungen über den Verkauf und betont, dass Überzeugung und Vertrauen die wichtigsten Elemente sind. Er glaubt, dass erfolgreiche Verkäufer von Natur aus eine höhere Neigung zum Verkaufen haben und dass die Überzeugung des Verkäufers entscheidend für den Erfolg ist. Er erklärt, wie das Vertrauen durch Expertise und Rapport aufgebaut wird und wie das Stellen der richtigen Fragen den Verkaufsprozess unterstützt. Der Sprecher betont, dass eine kindliche Neugierde und das Vermeiden von Konfrontation entscheidend sind.

📚 Wissensvermittlung und Abschluss

Der Sprecher wird für seine Fähigkeit gelobt, komplexe Informationen verständlich zu präsentieren. Am Ende des Videos ermutigt er die Zuschauer, den Kanal zu abonnieren und die Benachrichtigungsglocke zu aktivieren, um keine zukünftigen Videos zu verpassen, da er keine regelmäßige Veröffentlichungsfrequenz hat.

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Keywords

💡Grinder

Ein 'Grinder' bezieht sich auf eine Person, die hart arbeitet und viel Zeit und Energie in ihre Aktivitäten investiert. Im Video wird der Sprecher als 'Grinder' beschrieben, da er 80-100 Stunden pro Woche in das Aufbauen seiner Unternehmen investiert hat. Dies zeigt seine extreme Arbeitsethik und sein Engagement für das, was er tut.

💡Work-Life-Balance

Das Konzept der 'Work-Life-Balance' bezieht sich auf die Harmonie zwischen beruflichen Verpflichtungen und persönlichem Leben. Im Video spricht der Sprecher darüber, wie er seine Balance gefunden hat, indem er sein Arbeitsleben mit dem persönlichen Leben verbindet, z. B. indem er mit seiner Frau zusammenarbeitet und gemeinsam Zeit für Fitness und soziale Aktivitäten einplant.

💡Insecurities

Insecurities beziehen sich auf die inneren Zweifel und Ängste einer Person. Im Video erwähnt der Sprecher, dass seine ursprüngliche Antriebskraft von 'crippling insecurity' und dem Bedarf an Anerkennung resultierte, was zeigt, wie persönliche Gefühle und Überzeugungen das Verhalten und die Ziele einer Person beeinflussen können.

💡Conviction

Überzeugung ist die feste Überzeugung oder das tiefe Glaube an etwas. Im Video wird 'Conviction' als ein entscheidender Faktor für erfolgreiches Verkaufen hervorgehoben. Der Sprecher erklärt, dass Verkäufer eine starke Überzeugung in das Produkt oder die Idee haben müssen, um es anderen überzeugend verkaufen zu können.

💡Sales

Der Begriff 'Sales' bezieht sich auf den Prozess des Verkaufs von Produkten oder Dienstleistungen. Im Video diskutiert der Sprecher seine Ansichten über Verkaufsstrategien, wie das Aufbauen von Vertrauen und die Bedeutung der Überzeugung für den Verkaufserfolg.

💡Seasons

Im Video wird 'Seasons' verwendet, um verschiedene Phasen des Lebens oder des Geschäftsbetriebs zu beschreiben. Der Sprecher spricht von 'entrepreneurial seasons', um zu veranschaulichen, wie er verschiedene Perioden seines Lebens mit unterschiedlichen Fokussierungen und Zielen betrachtet.

💡Expertise

Expertise bezieht sich auf das fundierte Wissen oder die Fähigkeiten in einem bestimmten Bereich. Im Video wird Expertise als ein wichtiger Bestandteil des Verkaufsprozesses angesehen, da es Verkäufer dabei hilft, Vertrauen zu schaffen und fundierte Empfehlungen zu geben.

💡Rapport

Rapport ist die Beziehung oder das Verständnis zwischen Menschen, das auf gemeinsame Interessen und eine positive Interaktion beruht. Im Video wird Rapport als ein Element erwähnt, das beim Verkaufsprozess hilfreich ist, um Vertrauen und eine gute Kommunikation mit dem Kunden aufzubauen.

💡Childlike Curiosity

Kinderliche Neugierde bezieht sich auf eine offene, neugierige und interessenbezogene Herangehensweise an neue Informationen oder Ideen. Im Video wird dies als eine nützliche Verkaufstechnik beschrieben, bei der der Verkäufer die Defensive des Kunden abbaut, indem er oder sie offen und neugierig erscheint.

💡Time Boxing

Time Boxing ist eine Technik, bei der man eine bestimmte Zeit für eine Aufgabe oder Aktivität zuweist. Im Video wird Time Boxing als Produktivitätswerkzeug verwendet, um festzulegen, wie viel Zeit man für eine Aufgabe benötigt und sich an diesen Zeitrahmen zu halten.

Highlights

The speaker describes their business-building process as intense and fact-packed, akin to reading a historical book where every sentence is rich with information.

The speaker's wife is a 50-50 partner in the business, running the other half with a high level of operational output.

The speaker's role is more about coming up with ideas and sticking with them until they materialize, while the wife is the main operator of the business.

A daily routine is described, including working from morning till night with a gym session in between, showcasing a dedication to both work and fitness.

The speaker admits to a compulsive or obsessive drive, possibly rooted in deep-rooted insecurities and a need for approval.

A shift in the speaker's approach to work is noted, moving from a place of insecurity to a more confident stance, supported by financial success.

The speaker took a year off and found it to be an enlightening experience, realizing the importance of work in their life and rejecting societal norms of 'balance'.

The concept of 'seasons' in life and business is introduced, with the speaker breaking down their entrepreneurial journey into distinct phases.

The speaker emphasizes the importance of conviction in sales, stating that belief in the product is a key predictor of sales success.

A sales approach is outlined that focuses on building trust and rapport, and using childlike curiosity to navigate objections without confrontation.

The speaker discusses the importance of understanding the customer's perspective and using that to guide the sales conversation effectively.

A method for closing sales is described, which involves asking for permission and using a no-basis close technique.

The speaker shares insights on how to handle objections by using curiosity and empathy, rather than argumentative tactics.

The transcript includes a discussion on the importance of believing in the product to sell it effectively, and how this belief can be conveyed to the customer.

The speaker reflects on their sales team's performance, noting the high turnover but also the high performance due to a short allowance for people to fail.

The concept of 'time boxing' for productivity is mentioned, drawing a parallel to the speaker's approach to focusing on specific tasks or goals within set periods.

The speaker encourages viewers to subscribe and enable notifications for their channel, due to the irregular release schedule of their content.

Transcripts

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you know a lot of [ __ ] and like you've

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clearly packaged this in really easy to

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understand ways it's almost exhausting

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listening because it's like every it's

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like when you read a really good

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historical book or something it's like

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every sentence is packed with a fact

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you seem like a grinder when you were

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building these businesses were you just

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like doing 80 hour 100 work weeks and

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what about now because you're like

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yolked you're huge you're like a

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bodybuilder so so like how did you

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balance like being fit and getting

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married and you but i don't know you

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well but you seem like you'd be grinding

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hard so my wife works in the business

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with me so we are true 50 50 partners

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like it's very rare i like i recognize

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how rare it is she actually is 100

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matched with me and like should just as

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much be on this call because she runs

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the other half like she from a work

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standpoint she has more output than i

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did she is the operator so she builds

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the infrastructure she does the

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recruiting she sets the they are the hr

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stuff she does the culture she like she

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does i mean she runs everything um i

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just you know occasionally come up with

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a good idea and try and stick with it

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long enough um to see it come true but

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in terms of grinding like i love

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business like i love this and there's

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nothing that really stimulates me like

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this and so i do as much of it as i can

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and if we want to go out to dinner we'll

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go out to dinner you know but like worst

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i was just saying we're single so we

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don't have kids and so we work from like

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five-ish to four and then you know

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usually in the middle of the day we'll

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probably go to the gym for an hour or

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two and then come back and keep working

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and go out to dinner at night and that's

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that's kind of our lives you seem pretty

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um this isn't i would say i'm a little

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bit i'm i'm definitely this sean has a

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little bit of it too like manic's not

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the right word but like neurotic maybe

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is a better word um where it's like uh

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there's something that's deep rooted

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inside of you it's not like you want to

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do something necessarily it feels like

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you're it's more compulsive or obsessed

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you're obsessed about stuff which i am

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as well if that's true what's that

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rooted in what are you trying to get

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done so i think originally the drive was

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from just crippling insecurity and

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needing approval right and then i think

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from like a behavioral conditioning

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standpoint i got immediate feedback that

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was positive and then i was conditioned

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to continue those actions now i continue

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to do them without the original catalyst

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that got them going to begin with i

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don't think i suffer you know from the

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insecurities as much as i used to i'd

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say i'm probably 30 better than i was at

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the beginning and it might just be

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because i have this massive big pile of

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money that i can use as an emotional

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crutch to why i'm not a piece of [ __ ]

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that would help i'm just being like i

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mean and if it were all disappeared i'd

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find out how much actual growth i had or

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if i just compensated by circumstance

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and you know compensate for the division

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yeah i don't know you can send it to me

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and we'll we'll find out we'll see

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let's run the experiment

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i like so there's the compulsion and

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like this last year i pretty much took

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off like i did not work that much and so

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i saw the difference and i have come to

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accept that i love working and i don't

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need to judge myself for that or or take

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in other people's judgment on how much i

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should quote do like this is my life and

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this is what i like doing and their

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ideals that they've arbitrarily made up

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as what they define as balance are

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irrelevant to me you said you took last

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year off what'd you do what'd you get up

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to um we traveled a lot uh went to cabo

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went to scottsdale went to sedona went

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to flagstaff traveled all over one out

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felt felt honestly pretty empty like you

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can only eat so many times like there's

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just not a lot to do it feels good

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having that rest though like you can't

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be in the trenches i think like or

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rather you need breaks from being at war

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i think and maybe even phrasing it i'm

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just throwing this out there like

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phrasing it is instead of a like a break

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is a shift in how you're thinking

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because like it's going from dirt to

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clouds but i still think it's high

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leverage activity you know i mean or

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like output it's just a different type

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of output you said something on one of

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your videos that uh you're one of the

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only other people that i have heard say

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this phrase i use it a lot which is yeah

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i had a season like or this season i'm

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doing this or i had a season where i was

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really just focusing on x and that's

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been like a game changer for me my

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personal trainer and kind of coach she's

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like my mindset coach plus trainer he

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does this all the time but he's like

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he's like i'm in a season right now

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where i'm i'm just uh he'll be like you

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know i'm practicing not waiting and he's

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like he comes up with these little

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themes or he'll be like right now i'm in

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a season where i'm going to eat whatever

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i want and it's kind of like in the

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entrepreneurial world it's like time

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boxing's like all right i'm going to

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give myself two hours to get this [ __ ]

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[ __ ] done or i'm going to launch in the

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next two weeks no matter what right like

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we i've used time boxing for

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productivity and now this season's thing

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it makes every like decision you're

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making less heavy of a commit because

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you're like it's okay yeah because

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there's yeah there's beginnings and ends

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and this season is gonna feel a little

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different just like winter feels

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different than summer that's how i use

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it do you do you use it like that i just

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noticed you said that phrase 100 yeah i

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mean i i think about it in terms of

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entrepreneurial seasons and i at least

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for me might have been like five-year

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chunks and so this is gonna be my fourth

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season and they've roughly been about

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the same length so i think that it

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probably takes me like three ish years

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to like really see something through and

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then two years to figure out how i'm

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going to transition from that thing or

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realize or mod you know whatever that's

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right it's kind of like a pe cycle

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almost give us kind of like um give us

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an example of normal like here's the

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default way people are doing something

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and then here's the rephrase of the

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reframe that has better results um i

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would love to get two minutes of

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learning sales from alex sure so it's my

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belief if you look at belford you look

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at bradley you look at grant cardone

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some of the big sales trainers that are

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out there almost all of them invariably

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have the same story which was i started

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selling and was the best guy on the team

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by a [ __ ] mile and then i tried to

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figure out what i was doing and so i do

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think that some people naturally based

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on their childhood their upbringings

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their whatever or just have a higher

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proclivity for selling which yeah just a

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gift of gab and and empathy yeah and i

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think it carries over into how you

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recruit for selling too because we built

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a lot of sales teams and i actually have

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a very short allowing for people to fail

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at sales cycle probably much shorter

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than most people and it's just because

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i've never had a killer salesperson who

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didn't do pretty well the first week and

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so for me we you know we turn through

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this quickly but as a result of that the

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team is just killers and they know that

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in terms of uh sales stuff i think

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people don't know how people are really

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freaked out about the idea of selling

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and the front part of that is that i do

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think that the number one predictor of

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good sales is conviction fundamentally

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you have one person who should believe

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in something another person who does not

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believe it yet and trust is the thing

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that transfers that conviction so if

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fundamentally there's the two things you

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need you need trust and need conviction

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most times sales people don't have 100

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trust sorry 100 conviction and so the

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also the idea of conviction as a binary

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is false so it's not like i believe it

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or i don't believe it is to what extent

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do i believe right and so that's why

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like in terms of if i want to improve a

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sales team i can do the drills which we

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do and that's like blocking tackling but

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the thing that really juices the sales

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team is hearing the testimonials of the

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people that they sold last week and what

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they're doing today and how their lives

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have changed and so i noticed this

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because on my sales teams when we were

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in person whenever i did weigh out day

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which is when everyone finished their

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challenges and everybody was crying and

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so excited i tried to stack as many

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sales appointments as i could while

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people were weighing out and during

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those days we closed like 100 because

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people were like dude how can you not

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think this works it's right there and so

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the thing is is like you can either

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trick yourself into having the right

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tone or you can train yourself and i

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think that it's much easier to trick

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yourself into it by just simply

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believing because if you talk if you

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truly believe in the product you will

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talk about it differently and so in

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terms of an understanding of selling if

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you need to have conviction you need to

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have trust trust is going to come from

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expertise and some level of rapport

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right i think that overarchingly to help

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someone sell we just have to ask the

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right questions to get someone to come

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to the conclusion on their own and so

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most sales conversations follow more or

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less the same framework if you know what

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you're doing otherwise people are just

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chasing their tail and trying to chase a

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prospect to an outcome that the prospect

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doesn't know how like we've had this

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conversation a hundred times they have

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only had it once we should be the one

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knowing how this conversation's supposed

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to go right we should also come in with

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a massive advantage to how to have this

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conversation go the way we wanted to

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because we do it on [ __ ] day right

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and so big front end pieces is like why

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are they there what's the problem what

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have they done so far understanding

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where they failed seeing why our product

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is different from the things that they

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failed asking for permission to explain

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about the product explaining the product

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not in any way based on features but

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only based on the experiences that they

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will have as a result of it and using

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analogies to explain those experiences

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and then having a close at the end which

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the the tick tock i think that you he

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references like a no base close and i

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think a lot of natural sales people do

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this anyways like if i want something i

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might be like hey can you do this for me

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i'm like hey would you mind and they say

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no they don't i don't mind right like

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it's natural communication dynamics that

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most people who naturally know how to

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persuade people or at least influence do

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that on their own this is just

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retroactively looking at it and saying

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what did i do different like why is this

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different in terms of like overcoming

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because people are afraid of

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confrontation right that's what they're

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afraid of and so i believe that you can

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sell without ever having confrontation

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and you can do that with what i like to

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call childlike curiosity and so if

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someone says well my husband's not going

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to approve that i'm like why wouldn't he

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like huh that's so interesting tell me

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more about that rather than like all

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right let's like your husband's an

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[ __ ] like that's not going to work

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because in arguments no one wins right

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and so you're like why why would he

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think that because because i would think

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that he wants what's best for you right

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yeah he wants what's best does he know

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you're struggling with this right now

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well i mean yeah he knows i'm struggling

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with it okay so he wants a specialty he

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knows you're struggling with it so why

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do you think he would be opposed of

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solving something that you're currently

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struggling with just so i understand

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would he be happier if you continue to

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struggle well no it's like well great

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then would you be opposed to moving

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forward today and that way and hey if

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you go home to your husband and you make

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a joke in the lightning scenario then

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you close it right and so it's i think

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child like curiosity is the immediate

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that you have to train because people

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get defensive so that is one thing that

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like fighters talk about when they're in

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the ring like in the beginning you

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breathe in too much right i don't know

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if like if you've been like sparring and

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stuff like you breathe in you breathe

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too much you hyperventilate and so the

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guys who've done it enough they slow

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down their breathing because when they

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get things get intense they can slow it

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down and so i think sales is a lot the

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same way where you're like your

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adrenaline kicks in start breathing

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faster as fight or flight so you gotta

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be able to slow down and be like huh

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that's crazy i wouldn't have thought

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that okay tell me more about that and

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like now you're interested and then they

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don't feel like you're combating them

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they feel like you genuinely are

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interested and want to help them which

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is what you should be doing because you

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should be

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only if it makes sense you are full of

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like interesting insights and like you

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know a lot of [ __ ] and like you've

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clearly packaged this in really easy to

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understand ways it's almost exhausting

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listening because it's like every it's

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like when you read a really good

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historical book or something it's like

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every sentence is packed with a fact

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yeah and it's like oh my gosh like i cuz

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i got it i want to pay attention

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i was like exhausting this is awesome

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