How Duaa Works - Khutbah by Nouman Ali Khan

Summary

The transcript narrates a woman's spiritual journey and struggle with faith. Despite her devout prayers and lifelong reliance on Allah, she faces unexpected hardships, causing her to question her worthiness and Allah's favor. The narrative emphasizes that immediate answers to prayers are not indicators of Allah's pleasure or displeasure. Through the story of Maryam (Mary), who endured public humiliation despite her piety, the speaker illustrates that trials can lead to greater purposes, and Allah's wisdom and honor prevail beyond human perception. It highlights the importance of patience, faith, and understanding the true essence of dua (prayer) in Islam.

Takeaways

• 🙏 Reliance on Allah: The speaker discusses a woman's strong faith and reliance on Allah from a young age, noting how her prayers were always answered.
• 😔 Facing Unexpected Difficulties: The woman faces increasing problems despite her increased prayers and devotion, leading her to question her worthiness and Allah's favor.
• 📜 Prophets' Trials: The speaker highlights that even prophets faced unanswered prayers and hardships, emphasizing that difficulties are not a sign of Allah's displeasure.
• 🛐 Purpose of Dua: Dua is about connecting with Allah, not just getting immediate solutions to problems.
• 💡 Maryam's Example: Maryam (AS) faced severe trials, including societal humiliation and personal distress, yet her story is one of ultimate honor and Allah's plan.
• 🌍 Struggles in Life: Life is inherently full of struggles and toils; even those close to Allah, like prophets and righteous people, faced immense challenges.
• 📖 Lessons from Yusuf: Prophet Yusuf's (AS) hardships, including being wrongfully imprisoned, were part of a divine plan that ultimately led to greater good.
• 💬 Misconceptions about Difficulties: The speaker urges believers not to equate unanswered prayers or hardships with Allah's displeasure or punishment.
• 👩‍👧 Blessing of Daughters: The Quranic story of Maryam’s birth is highlighted to emphasize the honor and blessing of having daughters.
• 📣 Facing Accusations: Maryam (AS) had to endure false accusations and societal humiliation, yet Allah repeatedly honored her and her son, Isa (AS), in the Quran.

Q & A

Who is the main subject of the talk?

The main subject is Maryam (Mary), a significant figure mentioned in the Quran.

What inspired the speaker to discuss Maryam's story?

The inspiration came from a question about why prayers are sometimes not answered, despite strong faith and consistent devotion.

What was the woman’s relationship with Allah since childhood?

She had a close relationship with Allah, regularly praying and making du'a, and her prayers were always answered.

What dilemma did the woman face later in life?

She encountered unexpected difficulties, despite increasing her devotion and prayers, leading her to question if she had displeased Allah.

What is the speaker’s view on unanswered prayers?

Unanswered prayers do not necessarily mean Allah is displeased; there is no direct correlation between the two.

How does the story of Prophet Nuh relate to unanswered prayers?

Prophet Nuh prayed for his son and wife for many years, but his prayers were not answered, illustrating that even prophets faced such challenges.

What lesson can be learned from Maryam's story?

Despite her strong faith and past miracles, she faced great trials, showing that faith does not exempt one from difficulties.

Why did Maryam wish for death before facing her community?

She feared the humiliation and accusations of having a child without being married, which was a severe trial for her.

How does the Quran repeatedly honor Maryam?

Maryam is honored through the repeated mention of her name with her son, Isa (Jesus), as ‘Isa ibn Maryam’ (Jesus, son of Mary).

What is the broader purpose of du'a according to the speaker?

Du'a is a means of connecting with Allah and finding solace, rather than merely a tool for obtaining worldly desires.

Outlines

00:00

💬 Introduction and Story Setup

The speaker begins with a recitation and prayer, setting a solemn tone. The story focuses on a woman who had a close relationship with Allah from a young age. Despite facing many hardships, her prayers were always answered until recently, when she experienced a series of difficulties despite increasing her worship. She questions why her prayers are no longer being answered, leading to a reflection on the nature of faith and reliance on Allah.

05:00

🌟 Prophets and Unanswered Prayers

The speaker discusses the trials faced by prophets, such as Noah, who prayed for his son and wife for many years without seeing a change. This segment emphasizes that even the most pious individuals faced unanswered prayers and hardships, suggesting that unanswered prayers do not imply that Allah is displeased with someone.

10:01

🙏 Understanding the Purpose of Prayers

The speaker highlights the distinction between dua (supplication) and talab (demand). The true essence of dua is the act of turning to Allah and engaging in conversation with Him. The importance lies in the relationship and connection with Allah rather than the immediate resolution of one's problems. The story of Yusuf (Joseph) is used to illustrate how difficulties can lead to greater good, sometimes not immediately apparent.

15:01

👶 Mary's Trials and Miracles

The narrative shifts to Maryam (Mary), whose life was marked by divine interventions and miracles from a young age. Despite her special status and answered prayers, she faced immense trials, particularly the miraculous birth of her son Isa (Jesus) and the subsequent societal humiliation. This section underscores that even those favored by Allah endure significant hardships.

20:02

😢 Facing Humiliation and Wishing for Death

Maryam's emotional turmoil is explored as she faces public humiliation. She even wishes for death to escape her suffering, which is acknowledged in the Quran as a legitimate human reaction to extreme distress. The speaker relates this to the experiences of individuals facing severe humiliation or false accusations.

25:04

🌹 Honor Through Trials and Connection to Allah

The speaker concludes by explaining that Allah's trials can lead to greater honor and elevation, as seen in Maryam's story. Despite public disgrace, she is repeatedly honored in the Quran. The section emphasizes that true honor comes from Allah's perspective, not from people's judgments. The purpose of dua is to maintain a connection with Allah through life's inevitable struggles.

Keywords

💡Dua

Dua refers to the act of supplication or calling upon Allah for help or guidance. In the video, the speaker discusses how people often turn to dua when facing difficulties, and how the immediate or delayed response to dua does not necessarily reflect Allah's pleasure or displeasure with the supplicant.

💡Maryam (Mary)

Maryam, also known as Mary in Christian tradition, is a significant figure in the Quran. The video highlights her life, the challenges she faced, and how her faith and relationship with Allah serve as a model for believers, especially in the context of patience and perseverance during trials.

💡Trial

Trials refer to the difficulties or challenges one faces in life. The speaker emphasizes that trials are a part of the human experience and that even prophets and pious individuals, like Maryam, faced severe trials. These trials are not necessarily a sign of Allah's displeasure but can be a means of growth and closeness to Allah.

💡Faith

Faith is the belief and trust in Allah and His wisdom. In the video, faith is discussed in the context of maintaining trust in Allah's plan despite not understanding the reasons behind one's suffering. The speaker reassures that maintaining faith during tough times is crucial and brings a person closer to Allah.

💡Prophet

Prophets are messengers sent by Allah to guide humanity. The video mentions several prophets, including Noah and Jacob, to illustrate that even they faced prolonged and severe difficulties despite their high status and closeness to Allah. This serves to remind believers that facing hardships is a common experience for all, regardless of one's spiritual status.

💡Humiliation

Humiliation refers to the feeling of shame or disgrace. The speaker discusses how Maryam faced public humiliation when she returned to her community with baby Jesus, as they accused her of immorality. This example is used to highlight that Allah’s chosen individuals can face severe public scorn, yet remain dignified in Allah’s sight.

💡Reliance on Allah

Reliance on Allah involves trusting in His plan and wisdom, especially during difficult times. The video underscores the importance of relying on Allah by sharing the story of Maryam, who relied entirely on Allah for her sustenance and protection, even when facing seemingly insurmountable challenges.

💡Patience

Patience is the capacity to endure hardship and delay without frustration. In the context of the video, patience is highlighted through the stories of Maryam and other prophets, showing that enduring trials with patience is a key aspect of a believer's faith and relationship with Allah.

💡Guidance

Guidance refers to the spiritual direction and support provided by Allah. The speaker discusses how, despite the difficulties and delays in receiving answers to prayers, believers should continue seeking Allah’s guidance, as He knows what is best for them in the long run.

💡Community

Community refers to the social and religious group one belongs to. The video discusses Maryam's relationship with her community, the support and later the humiliation she faced from them. It underscores the role of community in providing support, as well as the potential challenges it can present.

Highlights

The speaker shares a story about a woman's close relationship with Allah and how her prayers were consistently answered until she faced unexpected difficulties.

The woman increased her worship and prayers during her difficulties, but her problems worsened, leading her to question if Allah was displeased with her.

The speaker emphasizes that the immediate or delayed response to prayers does not reflect Allah's pleasure or displeasure with a person.

The story of the Prophet Noah is used to illustrate that even prophets faced unfulfilled prayers despite their righteousness and dedication.

The speaker highlights the importance of understanding the true purpose of du'a (prayer) as a means to communicate with Allah, not just to demand solutions to problems.

The speaker narrates the story of Prophet Yusuf, who faced numerous trials from childhood, emphasizing that difficulties may serve a greater purpose.

Prophet Yusuf's trials eventually led to a significant role in preventing a famine and saving many lives, illustrating how individual suffering can lead to greater good.

The speaker mentions Robert Davila, a man with severe physical disabilities, whose condition has inspired many to turn back to Islam.

The story of Maryam (Mary), the mother of Prophet Isa (Jesus), is discussed, particularly her miraculous provision of food and the trials she faced as a young woman.

Maryam's acceptance of her fate, despite the potential for humiliation, is highlighted as an example of ultimate faith and submission to Allah's will.

Maryam's wish for death to avoid the impending humiliation is acknowledged as a profound moment of despair, yet it underscores the gravity of her trial.

The speaker stresses that Maryam's trials were not a sign of Allah's displeasure, but rather a means to honor her in the Quran and through history.

The speaker reflects on how individual struggles can bring about greater good, either for the individual or others, in this life or the hereafter.

The importance of maintaining faith during trials and not equating hardships with divine displeasure is reiterated.

The sermon concludes with a reminder that struggles are a part of life and that prayers are a means to cope with these struggles while maintaining a connection with Allah.

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today's Kaaba is dedicated to a very

unique individual mentioned repeatedly

in the Quran it's maryam salam on alaihe

and the reason i decided to give a haba

on some aspects of her life that Allah

highlights in the Quran are actually

inspired by a question somebody asked me

this week somebody came to me this week

and said that they've had a very close

relationship with Allah since childhood

and that they make they've been taught

to Allah from a very early age

praying tahajud even even you know when

they were a teenager and they whatever

they ask Allah for something a lot

provided this person actually had a

pretty tough life you know father passed

away at an early age no brothers and

this this woman has lived a pretty

lonely life and basically decided to

really truly depend on Allah and so as

she grew and developed in her years she

found that Allah miraculously answers

her prayers every time she asks a love

for something Allah has never left her

prayer unanswered so she developed this

reliance and this closeness with Allah

and would always turn back to Allah

anything I mean I need something she

goes in praise to Allah cars and

she makes draw to Allah so really

beautiful connection she had with a love

of where the question come from the

question came from a fact that more

recently she went through quite a series

of very unexpected difficulties in life

and she decided that she's going to

increase her ibadah to Allah and

increase her drawers because her

problems have also increased so you

figured the more your problems increase

the more you're going to ask Allah to

help you solve your problem and so she

does that and she prays like she's never

prayed before fasts like she's never

fasted before begged a lark rise to

Allah sheds tears before Allah like

she's never done before but the problems

keep getting worse they don't they don't

get any better and she starts thinking

to herself maybe Allah is not happy with

me because before I used to pray and

everything used to get answered I've

never had this problem before every time

I had a need I turned back to Allah and

Allah solved my problem but now I'm

making dua after du'a after God and I

continue to begged a line my problems

are not getting solved they're only

getting worse what could possibly be the

reason and in her mind the reason was I

must have done something wrong along

must no longer be answering my prayers

because somehow I've been disqualified

I no longer I'm not in a lot of good

books anymore the reason I decided to

give this hope is that this is a very

common notion that can creep into

somebody's mind we make God every human

being mixed law and we're expecting that

allows in which it will give us an

answer we're hoping that a love will

solve our problem there are two kinds of

draws basically for most of us the one

kind of door and I'm talking about the

ones we make for ourselves one kind of

draw is we want a problem that we have

right now to be solved we have an issue

we have some some circumstance and we

want a large that with them to protect

us from falling into a worse problem to

secure the good things that we have etc

and of course we make dua for our future

we make go out for ourselves or children

and to take care of things in the future

things are good right now you'll not

keep them this way preserve what we have

here you know these are the kinds of

gods that we make for ourselves the

thing that I wanted to highlight and

I've talked about this in another photo

but today so by slightly different on

slightly different note and that's why I

chose Maryam salami Nadia but the first

thing I wanted to highlight is a quick

reminder to all of you is that your dois

getting answered immediately or not

getting answered immediately has nothing

to do with whether or not a lives happy

with you it has nothing to do with that

there is no connection between those two

things and even if there was a

connection you will never know you

cannot guess what the reason is you know

you have the case of nooh alehissalaam

who was a very loving father he made he

made that wa he invited his people to

Islam for nine hundred and fifty years

can you imagine you think he may draw

for his son you think he made the offer

for his wife all those years

or he didn't care about them someone who

cares so much about his nation they spit

on him they insult him and he goes back

to them and makes the while for them

nine hundred and fifty years you think

he ignored his own son his own wife all

those years of glob and they didn't

change isn't that the case does he blame

himself yep maybe I didn't do something

right or maybe Allah stopped listening

to me

the reason I'm starting with that is

people that were much better than we are

much much better than we are

we're also they also had similar

problems there are parents in the

audience that make du'a for their kids

and they see that their children are

going away from the religion they're

going down a dark path and they can't

control it and they're making to offer

them and they're not seeing that their

door is being answered and now they're

getting frustrated there's something

wrong with me

why isn't Allah answering well you're

not the first one to be put in that

position our messenger are they

inaudible Saddam made lots of dog you

don't think he may draw for his uncle

his family you don't think he considered

Abu Lahab when he made the offer

guidance and if he did despite all of

that loving God Allah sodium with

himself tell him in the calendar that a

demon except you don't get to guide who

you love you know there are people among

us they are children among us who wish

their parents or their elders were

acting in a more guided way

I've met so many young people whose

parents are in a column explicitly hard

on business and the children the son of

the daughter is trying to tell the

father and the mother please get out of

this we're dependent on you you're

paying my college tuition you're

providing for us but you're providing

for us from Kurama income and I'm not in

a position to provide for the family

right no but this is wrong and then

they're told you are being disrespectful

you shouldn't talk back to your parents

etcetera etcetera now it's the flip side

it's the children making Goyle for the

guidance of their parents but things

aren't changing things are where they

were these frustrating situations happen

and then on top of that are situations

like health calamity not just family

problems but health calamity or you

can't find a job you have money problems

and you're making dua to Allah you ask

yourself ice I even did their takeoff

last year I kept making draw and I

didn't pick my head up from such the all

night long and still I have this problem

still it didn't go anywhere so the first

thing I want to remind myself in all of

you is that prophets prophesied English

authors from all of them

much before us Allah mentioned their

draws consistently in the Quran and

Allah also mentions their problems

consistently in the Quran you don't

think for example the that Yaakov

alehissalaam the father of 12 sons made

law for all of his sons and especially

for his son Yusuf when he lost his son

Yusuf you don't think he may draw for a

use of safety that use of should come

back home that he could spend he could

look at his beautiful son once again we

know that he cried so much he lost his

eyesight a bit but I know he lost his

eyes over crying over his son and all of

those they asked for so many years go

unanswered and then they eventually they

get answered you don't think that you

know the mother of Musa alayhi Salaam

when she put her baby in the water and

it the river just takes the basket away

the basket could flip over anytime and

how do you know the basket is waterproof

how do you know it's not going to weak

how do you know if I'm going to hit a

rock and it's done you know and she's

throwing something in a river it's not a

baby in a river you don't think that

mother is making drama

and notice the difference in that case

in the case of Moses mother she made

to a line a few hours later she's

reunited with her son just a few hours

later by the time of the baby he's

hungry for the next meal he's back with

his mother and in the other case with

the case of use of hot Insadong he was

separated from his father but he wasn't

reunited with his father for many years

for many many years we are going to go

through difficulty in life and are all

of our problems are not going to be

solved because we made a dot to Allah

understand the reality of God what is

the purpose of God

we often consume we often confuse the

hell with bulb bulb in Arabic means to

ask for something to demand something

though our means literally to call

that's what it means now to whom I

called you I invited you I cried out to

you this is wrong when we make dua to

allah sometimes in that drought we are

making demands it's true we're making

requests but we should never forget that

all of those requests you know what they

are at the end of the day it's a humble

slave of Allah turning back to Allah and

begging Allah to help him with whatever

problem but it's more than Allah solving

your problem it's just the act that you

communicated with Allah that's the most

valuable thing the fact that you

actually engage the line conversation

that is the goal in the end whether or

not Allah will solve your problem maybe

immediately in tho is a separate problem

and I want to share just a quick thing

about that then I come to Mariam sadawa

Nadia sometimes you go through problems

and you ask yourself what is my fault in

all of this why do I have to go through

these problems what did I do to deserve

this

Leah ask you this Yusuf alayhi Salaam

with a child right a child by definition

is innocent what did the child do to

deserve being kidnapped when as a child

ever done to deserve being thrown inside

of a well in the middle of the woods

what does the child ever done to deserve

being sold as a child slave in a

different land

what is that yet when he grows up as

young man what did he ever do to deserve

being thrown in jail over a false

accusation and he spent many years in

jail not because of something he did he

was innocent

and he spent all those years in jail he

went through situations in life that if

anybody else went through those

situations you'll say life is unfair man

what you're going to do life is unfair

you know but you know what happens to a

believer they don't just say life isn't

fair they say a live impaired Mahalo

unlighted that him yet Allah says in

surah Yousuf Allahu Hana Fuda nominee

Allah was overlooking everything he did

in his decision every decision that was

made for use of Allah was dominating

that decision overlooking that decision

how sometimes you and I go through

difficulty because Allah knows something

better is coming

sometimes that better thing that is

coming is for you sometimes it's for

somebody else sometimes it's not for you

sometimes it's for somebody else

sometimes the benefit of your difficulty

will come back to you the return will

come back to you while you are still

alive

sometimes the return is meant to come

back to you after you will go back to

Allah

what happened would you suffer Islam a

father was separated from a child it's a

tragedy isn't it but imagine if he was

never kidnapped he would never be in the

well if he was never in the well he

would never end up in Egypt if he was

never in Egypt he would have never grown

up there and been thrown into prison if

he was never in prison

he would have never met those two guys

he met in prison whose dream he

interpreted if he never met those two

people one of them who got to live and

go back to the king and when the King

saw a dream a strange dream he would

have never said wait I know someone who

can help interpret your dream and if

that never happened and you know what

that dream was seven good years in the

country and seven years there's not

going to be any crop and he produce any

harvest people are going to starve to

death if Youssef was not in prison on

any salam and then was taken out to

interpret that dream at that time there

would have been an economic financial

social crisis in the country and

thousands of children would have starved

to death one child suffered for a few

years but because of that child

suffering a loss plan was to save a lot

of families a lot of fathers and mothers

from losing their children to starvation

because of the plan that use of Hani

Salaam came back when he interpreted the

dream and interpreted the dream and gave

when he became the treasurer I have a

friend some of you might have heard of

him his name is Robert Davila I asked a

sister about him if she knows when she

said yes she's heard of him the man

can't move any part of his body other

than his face he can't move any part of

his body what did he ever do to deserve

that nothing but how many people have

accepted Islam because of his disability

how many people have just heard about

that and could come back to Allah how

many people that were ungrateful in life

even though they were Muslim they were

only Muslim by name and decided to

submit their heart back to Allah because

that land is sitting in a bed his

suffering his pain becomes guidance for

millions of people you understand

sometimes the difficulty you and I go

through is actually a small price to pay

for a lot of pain a lot of good that

will either come to me now or it will

come to me in the acid I will come to me

after I go back to Allah so our laws are

not the same as placing an order now I

get to Maryam Salah manali and I really

when she spoke to me I remembered her

because the thing with Maryam Salaam

ladi hell was what even when she was

young her birth was strange it was

mentioned in the Quran not many people's

birth is mentioned in the Quran and you

know the mother was expecting a son but

she had a daughter instead and Allah

says they said the Caloocan antha you

know which has a multiple multiple

layers of meaning but I'll just

highlight one of them this boy this girl

is my like no other boy this girl is

and by the way please remember those

words next time any of you if you're

expecting a child and that you were

hoping and your mother was hoping and

your father was hoping and your extended

cousins we're hoping it's going to be a

son then you have a daughter you

remember that Allah didn't highlight the

birth of a child like he did the worth

of Maryam Salaamu Nadi huh

it's an honor to have a daughter it's a

gift of Allah to have a daughter and

it's actually the behavior of the mushi

kun to be upset that you had a daughter

one the one who misled them waha colleen

his face turns dark and he's depressed

he's swallowing his upset attitude

because he had it he had a girl girls

are a blessing from Allah so it was an

honor and to disrespect not only of the

gift of Allah but of the ayat of the

Quran when you're upset that you had a

daughter

you should we should be mindful of that

but that's on a side note this child is

born she's actually given a special

place in what was then the central house

of Allah and the curia alehissalaam used

to take care of her and every time he

used to come to visit her to make sure

she's doing okay because she was

dedicated living in the house of Allah

Khulna Muhammad Ali has a Korean Rob was

at the end Ahava son every time he'd

walk in he'd see fruits food in front of

her and he'd say where did you get these

fruits these foods don't even grow here

and these fruits aren't even from this

season these fruits grow in the winter

this was going to summer you have them

in offseason where did you get them from

she would respond harlot woman and Allah

these come especially from Allah these

fruits come to me from Allah imagine

somebody whose drawers are answered in a

way that special delivery from the sky

of food for this woman and so when the

sister was telling me her dolls get

answered in life I remembered Maryam

phenomena and how miraculously Allah

would intervene and provide for even

matters like food things that we can get

up and get ourselves she didn't even

have to get up for that very special

child very special woman and so about

this woman what I wanted to share with

you is later on in life what happens to

her when she's a young woman angels

visit her tell her that she's going to

have a child

the first thought in her mind I'm not

married how what do you mean I'm gonna

have a child let me insist me blush up

no man has ever touched me what in the

world do you mean I'm going to have a

child got a leaky fella who are Ibuki

that is how your master declared it

that's I'm sorry we're just here to

deliver the news we're not here to

negotiate whether this is going to

happen or not that decision has been

made

you're having a baby now she's in shock

what am I going to do she's going to

turn back to Allah and hope that this

will not happen tired which it's going

to happen and I'll fast forward a little

bit for you just so you appreciate what

happened to this woman after she had the

baby after she had the baby and she came

back to her town the entire community

that looked up to her as a as a Dada as

a spiritual woman as a woman of worship

and I bada someone who even the prophet

of their communities the kadia had

endorsed she grew up under the tutelage

is like idiotic Saddam all the Masjid

community is standing there she's

walking back with a baby and they all

start collectively together start

humiliating her how could you do this

what have you done can you they're there

women in the Jamaat today

no Muslim woman no Muslim woman can ever

imagine being in a situation where she's

holding a baby and somebody's telling

her that child is not legitimate

she cannot imagine that kind of

humiliation no Muslim and none of us can

imagine that kind of accusation for our

sister for our mother for our daughter

we cannot imagine that pain that's

beyond us for the hue for the Muslim our

dignity is greater to us than our life

our the sense of dignity Allah given has

given us is more valuable to us than

even our life and she knows that when

she goes back with this baby that's what

they're going to say it's one thing that

they might be saying it behind her back

there

in public in front of her in front of

her now I want to take you back to how

she dealt with this problem because no

amount of Doha she made is going to

change what Allah has decided Allah has

decided that she has to face this she

has to stand in front of this and what

does she do when the child come as she's

about to deliver the child she says yeah

hey Effendi mid-table ha ha she says if

only if only I could die before this

happens hopefully I die giving birth

that she's all on her mind because that

will be an easy escape from what is

coming there is no other place in the

Quran anybody ever wishes for death this

is the only one think about that why is

it there Allah is knowledgeable is

acknowledging that sometimes people go

through such traumatic humiliating

situations where they wish they were

dead even that happens that's how

extreme her situation became and alike

knowledge that unrecorded that in the

Quran ya later limit to come the hada I

read this analysis in sha like how does

she just say that you know our messenger

and his motto is sallam told us nya Sam

and I and I had aku I had a cool mouth

none of you should ever wish for death

you should not wish for death that's not

something you should say casually and

she's actually now wishing for death why

because this is an extreme case this is

a crazy situation and so but you know

that the humiliation she will face it's

far worse than death so she says yell a

tiny metal table ha ha there are going

to be this isn't the Quran for a reason

there are going to be people that are

going to be in humiliating situations

and there's no getting out of it there

are going to be people that are going to

have to face their family that are going

to have to face false accusations that

are going to have to face up to a

mistake they made in the past who knows

and they're going to have to face that

kind of trauma and they'll have to find

comfort in the example of varium Saddam

Amalia but she didn't stop there she

said we're going to an SEM Mencia two

words nasi an Mencia

it was incredible words nasty in Arabic

they say file and fitted these to exam

the initial so in one could miss yet

another cation Sen this is similar to

zip it be in the Arabic language you

have two kinds of words a zipper and

must book nasi and Muncie the first of

these words is actually used I wrote

this down for you what are you a little

cups with Eliza or invalid them for an

animal for a goat or a ramp you don't

call it Dibley until it's ready to be

slaughtered it hasn't been slaughtered

yet

once it is slaughtered it's called the B

it's called module not before before

it's called them she uses two words

common translations say I wish I was

dead I wish I was forgotten that's what

the translation says but there are two

words of being forgotten

one of those words necie n actually

means I wish

even though because she's away from the

mush said right she's not back home I

hope nobody ever misses me they don't

even ask the question where did miriam

go I wish I could be invisible forgotten

from people's memories right now and

nobody even has the thought of me this

is messy nobody even thinks I existed

there are people that go through the

kind of depression and anxiety where

they don't come out of home they don't

leave home they don't take a phone call

they don't answer text messages they get

anxious being around people they're

going through so much trauma that they

wish they were forgotten as a matter of

fact even if somebody knocks on the door

they say I wish they didn't remember me

I wish I didn't have to face anybody

they want to just crawl away away away

but just be by themselves this is

nacional and i'm and she's hoping

already that she died and nobody even

comes looking and then later on even if

years go by and nobody found out what

happened to her mantheon she's

completely forgotten there's no memory

of her in the future either I hope

nobody thinks of me right now and I

become invisible in the future also I

wanted to highlight this woman's trial

because this is a woman of du'a whose

dolls used to get answered immediately

she used to didn't

have to ask for food any news to come

and this is the situation of love

puttering this is the trial that Allah

put and think about that this is not

because Allah hates her this is not

because a lot forgot about her this is

not because Allah wants to humiliate her

this is actually all of this ended up

becoming Allah honoring her all of this

became Allah honoring her what was her

humiliation her humiliation was people

are going to say you had this child

without being married you had a Haram

child that's what people are going to

say and what was the child's name you

know his name was an ISA there is no

other prophet in the Quran who when

allah mentions their name he honors

their parents also accept visa any sapna

maryam mary Sapna maryam he's helping

them over and over again these are the

son of Maryam these are the son of

Maryam do you find 100 the son of

Abdullah do you find Yahoo the son of

his hock is half the son of ibraheem use

of the son of your from you know do you

find these no no everytime Allah honors

that messenger are they insult or not

every time but multiple times when Allah

will honor that messenger he honors his

mother and by the way this is important

because for the Arabs when you say even

and for the even the somatic people when

you say even right after even you

mentioned the father's name

you mentioned the father's name your

last name comes from your father

Allah goes out of his way to remind

people that no he has no father and we

are going to go out of our way to honor

that mother any sub number iam everytime

Allah mentioned that humiliation for

another reason and I close with that I

told you last time and earlier on in

this whole block sometimes your pain is

going to be a relief for other people

you're going through difficulty because

it's meant to serve a greater cause than

yourself and you will be the fabric

acharya for them you'll be a way of

goodness for them this is the pain of

Maryam Salam o naughty every time a

woman is humiliated every time a woman

has falsely accused

every time a woman wishes she was dead

then to face what she's supposed to face

then she's going to find comfort in Risa

in mudiyum Salomon alia and every time

she finds that comfort the rank of

lidium rises again and again and again

and again how along our laws are a means

by which we connect to Allah our laws

are not a means by which this world

becomes heaven this world is going to be

full of trials people that were much

better than we are had difficulty in

life that's okay

Dakka Dakka an insanity Chabad we

created all human beings in toil and

labor and struggle struggle is a part of

life the purpose of du'a is to help you

and me deal with those struggles and to

never forget that Allah is with us

whether it's hard times or easy times we

Eliza would have not make us people that

lose faith and allow so what you'll

honor us and make help us remember that

no matter how much people try to

humiliate you people try to put you down

people until you like it buddy I'm

Saddam Lunardi huh Allah still honors

you there's a big difference between

what people say about you and what a lot

of things about you because if you go

what why what people said

then Maryam was the most humiliated

insulted person in society and if you go

by what Allah says she's one of the most

honored women in all of human history so

we go by what Allah says Allah is the

one who honored us well that kind of

nominee Adam we honored the children of

Adam may allah azzawajal makers

dignified before allah azza wajal before

he makes us dignified before people

barakallahu li walakum Kapoor Aanand

Hakim when a fanny wa iyyaka bill IIT

would be clean Hakim hamdu lillahi wa

kafa wa salatu wassalam Ori body he

latinas pasa pasa nada of body he

Muhammad ibn Muhammad Amin Amin wa ala

alihi wa sahbihi ajma'in yahu Allah Azza

WA JAL vegetable cream butter and Ahuja

audhu billahi min ash-shaytaan-i'r

rajeem inna llaha la casa y la luna ala

nabi johan de vino' amanu sallu alayhi

wa salamu sliema allahumma salli ala

muhammadin wa ala ala muhammad

rasulallah' rahim allah and Ibrahim

Afellay demean in Makaha middle Majeed

allahumma barik ala muhammadin wa ala

muhammad came a varactor Allah my Allah

and Ibrahim Al Amin in Makaha media

Majid robado la víctima como la epic ala

inna llaha mobilized election Rita evil

Baba when her and in fact even one cup

melodic allahu akbar allahu allah ma was

a stirring the masala in the salat

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