The art of choosing | Sheena Iyengar | TED

TED
26 Jul 201027:18

Summary

TLDRIn this insightful talk, Sheena Iyengar explores the cultural perspectives on choice, highlighting the American ideal of 'having it your way' versus the Japanese approach of guiding choices. Through studies and anecdotes, she challenges the assumptions that more choices lead to better outcomes and that individuals always thrive under the pressure of choosing alone. Iyengar emphasizes the importance of recognizing the limits and implications of choice, suggesting that narratives about choice can vary greatly across cultures and should be approached with a more nuanced understanding.

Takeaways

  • 🌍 The speaker begins with a personal anecdote from Japan, highlighting cultural differences in the concept of choice, particularly the American expectation of customization versus the Japanese approach to preserving cultural norms.
  • 🍡 The story of ordering green tea with sugar in Japan illustrates the clash between personal preference and societal norms, leading to a humorous yet insightful discussion about the nature of choice.
  • πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ The American perspective on choice is characterized by the belief in individual autonomy and the right to have one's preferences met, as exemplified by slogans from Burger King and Starbucks.
  • πŸ‡―πŸ‡΅ In contrast, the Japanese perspective is to protect individuals from making culturally inappropriate choices, emphasizing the role of societal guidance over individual desires.
  • 🧐 The speaker discusses the first assumption about choice: that individuals should make choices affecting them to ensure their interests are accounted for, which is a core American belief.
  • πŸ“Š A study conducted by the speaker and Mark Lepper shows that Anglo-American children performed better when they had choices, while Asian-American children performed better when choices were made for them, suggesting cultural differences in how choice impacts performance.
  • πŸ€” The second assumption is challenged: more choices do not necessarily lead to better decisions. The speaker's experiences in Eastern Europe reveal that an overload of choices can be overwhelming and lead to decision paralysis.
  • πŸ›’ The American consumer culture is critiqued for promoting an excessive number of choices, which can lead to confusion and a sense of artificiality in decision-making.
  • 🚫 The third assumption discussed is the reluctance to say no to choice, with the speaker providing examples of how this can lead to negative emotional outcomes, particularly in the context of end-of-life decisions.
  • πŸ“š The narrative of limitless choice is central to the American dream, but the speaker argues that this narrative may not serve everyone and that it's important to consider alternative perspectives on choice.
  • 🌐 The speaker concludes by advocating for a broader understanding of choice that acknowledges its complexity and the importance of cultural narratives in shaping our perceptions and experiences of choice.

Q & A

  • What cultural misunderstanding did the speaker encounter in Kyoto, Japan?

    -The speaker ordered green tea with sugar in Kyoto, which is against the Japanese custom, and despite the waiter's polite refusal, the speaker insisted on their preference, leading to a discussion with the manager who eventually said they did not have sugar.

  • How does the American perspective on choice differ from the Japanese perspective as described in the script?

    -The American perspective emphasizes individual choice and the right to have one's preferences met, as exemplified by the 'have it your way' philosophy of Burger King and Starbucks' emphasis on choices for happiness. In contrast, the Japanese perspective is about protecting those who may not know better from making the wrong choice, focusing more on cultural standards and saving face.

  • What was the purpose of the study involving children and anagram puzzles conducted by the speaker and Mark Lepper?

    -The study aimed to explore how different cultural backgrounds influence children's performance when they have a choice versus when choices are made for them, highlighting the impact of cultural values on individual preferences and performance.

  • What did the study involving children and anagram puzzles reveal about Anglo-American and Asian-American children's preferences for choice?

    -Anglo-American children performed significantly better when they were allowed to choose their anagram puzzles and markers, indicating a strong preference for individual choice. Asian-American children, however, performed best when they believed their mothers had made the choice, suggesting a cultural preference for collective decision-making and deference to authority.

  • How did the speaker's research findings challenge the American assumption that more choices always lead to better decisions?

    -The speaker's research showed that when people are given 10 or more options, they tend to make poorer decisions, indicating that an abundance of choices can lead to decision paralysis and reduced satisfaction, rather than improved outcomes.

  • What was the cultural reaction of Eastern Europeans to the sudden influx of consumer choices after the fall of communism?

    -Eastern Europeans often perceived the variety of consumer products not as multiple choices but as one choice, such as 'soda or no soda.' They expressed feelings of being overwhelmed and not needing the excessive number of options, with some associating the experience with fear and confusion.

  • What was the significant difference in how life support decisions were made for infants in the United States versus France, as described in the speaker's study?

    -In the United States, the decision to remove life support for infants rested with the parents, while in France, doctors made the decision. This difference impacted how the parents coped with the loss, with American parents expressing more negative emotions and feelings of guilt and anger.

  • How did the speaker's blindness influence her perspective on the study of choice?

    -The speaker's blindness provided her with a unique vantage point to observe how sighted people make choices, particularly noting the influence of visual inputs and the names given to products, as demonstrated in her nail polish experiment.

  • What did the nail polish experiment reveal about the impact of product names on consumer choice?

    -The experiment showed that when the labels were removed, half of the participants could not distinguish between the two shades of pink nail polish, suggesting that the names 'Ballet Slippers' and 'Adorable' influenced their perception of the colors.

  • What is the overarching message of the speaker's talk about the concept of choice?

    -The speaker emphasizes that while choice is often seen as a universal good, its impact and interpretation vary greatly across cultures and contexts. She encourages a broader understanding of choice that acknowledges its complexities and the potential for it to be both empowering and overwhelming.

  • How does the speaker suggest we should approach the concept of choice to better realize its potential?

    -The speaker advocates for an open-minded approach to the many narratives of choice, learning from different cultural perspectives and understanding that not all choices are created equal. She suggests that by engaging in these 'translations' of narratives, we can better understand and utilize the power of choice.

Outlines

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🌏 Cultural Differences in Choice: A Personal Experience in Japan

The speaker begins their journey around the world with a personal anecdote from Kyoto, Japan, where they experienced a cultural clash regarding the custom of adding sugar to green tea. This encounter highlights the fundamental differences in the concept of choice between American and Japanese perspectives. The American ideal of individual choice and personal preference is contrasted with the Japanese sense of duty to protect others from making culturally inappropriate choices. The speaker suggests that the American belief in the pinnacle of choice is based on assumptions that do not universally apply, setting the stage for a deeper exploration of the nature of choice across cultures.

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πŸ“š The Impact of Choice on Performance and Cultural Perspectives

The speaker delves into the first assumption of choice, which posits that individuals perform best when they make their own choices. Through a study conducted with Mark Lepper, the impact of choice on the performance of Anglo-American and Asian-American children is examined. The results show that Anglo-American children perform significantly better when they have the freedom to choose, while Asian-American children excel when they believe their choices are made by their mothers, reflecting a cultural preference for community and harmony over individuality. The speaker emphasizes that the American paradigm, which demands independence in choice, may not be universally beneficial and can sometimes be detrimental to performance and relationships.

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πŸ›οΈ The Paradox of Choice: More Options, Less Satisfaction

The speaker challenges the second assumption that more choices lead to better decisions. Using the example of Eastern Europeans transitioning from communism to a capitalist society, the overwhelming abundance of choices is shown to cause confusion and fear rather than satisfaction. The speaker's interviews reveal that these individuals often perceive many options as a single choice, highlighting a cultural difference in the value and perception of choice. The American tendency to view every difference as significant and the pressure to make the best choice is contrasted with the Eastern European experience, suggesting that too many choices can be paralyzing rather than liberating.

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πŸ₯ The Heavy Burden of Choice in End-of-Life Decisions

The speaker discusses the third assumption that one must never say no to choice, using the heart-wrenching example of parents faced with the decision to remove life support from their newborn. A comparative study between American and French parents shows that the burden of making this decision in the U.S. leads to more negative emotions and regret, while in France, where doctors make the decision, parents express gratitude and a sense of peace. Despite the emotional toll, American parents still prefer to retain the right to choose, reflecting a deep-seated belief in the power and purpose of choice.

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🌟 The Power and Limitations of the American Choice Narrative

The speaker concludes by reflecting on the American narrative of limitless choice and its promise of freedom, happiness, and success. They argue that while this story is appealing, it is not universally applicable and can be limiting. The speaker calls for an openness to diverse narratives and perspectives on choice, suggesting that this can lead to a more nuanced understanding and a fuller realization of choice's potential. They also touch upon their personal experience as a blind person observing the choices of sighted individuals, offering a unique perspective on the influence of visual inputs on choice.

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Keywords

πŸ’‘Cultural Differences

Cultural differences refer to the variations in customs, beliefs, and behaviors among different societies. In the video, the concept is introduced through the anecdote of ordering green tea with sugar in Japan, which highlights the clash between the speaker's American expectation of customization and the Japanese practice of traditional preparation. This example sets the stage for discussing broader themes of choice and its cultural interpretations.

πŸ’‘Choice

Choice is a central theme of the video, exploring how it is perceived and valued differently across cultures. Defined as the power or right to select from different options, the video discusses the American ideal of individual choice and contrasts it with other cultural perspectives that may prioritize collective decision-making or adherence to tradition. The script uses the green tea anecdote to illustrate the American desire for personalized options versus the Japanese approach of guiding customers towards traditional choices.

πŸ’‘American Perspective

The American perspective on choice is depicted as emphasizing individualism and personal preference. The video suggests that Americans believe in the importance of personal choice as a means of expressing identity and achieving happiness. For example, the speaker cites the slogans of Burger King and Starbucks to illustrate the American 'have it your way' mentality and its influence on the perception of choice.

πŸ’‘Japanese Perspective

The Japanese perspective is presented as one that values tradition and the guidance of experts or authority figures in making choices. The video contrasts this with the American perspective by describing the green tea incident, where the waiter and manager adhere to cultural norms and refuse to provide sugar with green tea, even when the speaker insists on it.

πŸ’‘Individualism

Individualism is the idea that the individual's goals and desires are of primary importance. The video discusses how individualism influences the American view of choice, suggesting that personal preferences should dictate decisions. This is exemplified in the script by the notion of 'being true to yourself' and the impact of this belief on performance and well-being.

πŸ’‘Collectivism

Collectivism is the cultural orientation where the group's goals and needs take precedence over individual desires. The video contrasts individualism with collectivism, particularly in the context of the Asian-American children in the study who performed best when they believed their mothers made choices for them, indicating a cultural preference for collective harmony over individual autonomy.

πŸ’‘Overchoice

Overchoice refers to a situation where individuals are presented with so many options that the process of choosing becomes overwhelming and potentially paralyzing. The video uses the example of the vast number of products available at Walmart or the number of books on Amazon to illustrate how an excess of choice can lead to decision fatigue and reduced satisfaction, challenging the assumption that more choices are always better.

πŸ’‘Interdependence

Interdependence is the concept of mutual reliance or influence among individuals or groups. The video suggests that in cultures that value interdependence, choice is often a collective act, and individual decisions are made with consideration for the group's preferences and well-being. This is in contrast to the American paradigm, which emphasizes independent choice and personal autonomy.

πŸ’‘Narrative

A narrative is a story or account that explains a series of events or experiences. In the context of the video, the American narrative around choice is portrayed as one that promises freedom and success through limitless options. The speaker challenges this narrative by presenting alternative perspectives and suggesting that a more inclusive understanding of choice can lead to a broader appreciation of its potential.

πŸ’‘Translation

Translation in the video is used metaphorically to describe the process of understanding and adapting ideas from one cultural context to another. The speaker argues that engaging with different narratives about choice through 'translation' can lead to a richer and more nuanced understanding of its meaning and value, rather than viewing one's own cultural narrative as the sole valid perspective.

πŸ’‘Blindness

Blindness is the lack of sight or the inability to see. The speaker, being blind, offers a unique perspective on the study of choice, noting that it provides a different vantage point for observing how sighted people make choices, particularly those influenced by visual cues. The anecdote about choosing nail polish colors without labels illustrates how the names given to products can influence choices, even when the actual product differences are minimal or imperceptible.

Highlights

Cultural differences in Japan led to misunderstandings, such as the refusal to serve green tea with sugar.

American belief in individual choice contrasts with Japanese duty to protect customers from wrong choices.

Study shows Anglo-American children perform better when they can choose their activities, unlike Asian-American children.

Choice is seen as a collective act in some cultures, influencing individual preferences and success.

The American paradigm of choice emphasizes independence but may not suit interdependent cultures.

Assumption that more choices lead to better decisions is tested with Eastern European perspectives.

Former communist residents saw an overload of choices as daunting rather than liberating.

The value of choice is in the ability to perceive meaningful differences between options.

Unlimited choice can lead to poorer decisions due to the cognitive load of processing too many options.

American parents given the choice in end-of-life decisions for their babies experienced more negative emotions.

The narrative of limitless choice in America may not be as fulfilling as it seems.

The pressure of choice can lead to feelings of being trapped, guilty, and angry.

The story of choice is culturally constructed and may not apply universally.

Engaging with different narratives of choice can lead to a richer understanding of its potential.

The responsibility to understand choice in its complexity and beauty across cultures.

Sheena Iyengar's personal experience as a blind person provides a unique perspective on the study of choice.

An experiment with nail polish names and colors shows the influence of labeling on choice perception.

Transcripts

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Today, I'm going to take you

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around the world in 18 minutes.

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My base of operations is in the U.S.,

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but let's start at the other end of the map,

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in Kyoto, Japan,

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where I was living with a Japanese family

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while I was doing part of my dissertational research

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15 years ago.

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I knew even then that I would encounter

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cultural differences and misunderstandings,

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but they popped up when I least expected it.

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On my first day,

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I went to a restaurant,

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and I ordered a cup of green tea with sugar.

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After a pause, the waiter said,

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"One does not put sugar in green tea."

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"I know," I said. "I'm aware of this custom.

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But I really like my tea sweet."

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In response, he gave me an even more courteous version

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of the same explanation.

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"One does not put sugar

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in green tea."

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"I understand," I said,

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"that the Japanese do not put sugar in their green tea,

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but I'd like to put some sugar

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in my green tea."

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(Laughter)

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Surprised by my insistence,

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the waiter took up the issue with the manager.

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Pretty soon,

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a lengthy discussion ensued,

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and finally the manager came over to me and said,

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"I am very sorry. We do not have sugar."

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(Laughter)

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Well, since I couldn't have my tea the way I wanted it,

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I ordered a cup of coffee,

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which the waiter brought over promptly.

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Resting on the saucer

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were two packets of sugar.

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My failure to procure myself

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a cup of sweet, green tea

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was not due to a simple misunderstanding.

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This was due to a fundamental difference

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in our ideas about choice.

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From my American perspective,

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when a paying customer makes a reasonable request

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based on her preferences,

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she has every right to have that request met.

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The American way, to quote Burger King,

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is to "have it your way,"

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because, as Starbucks says,

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"happiness is in your choices."

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(Laughter)

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But from the Japanese perspective,

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it's their duty to protect those who don't know any better --

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(Laughter)

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in this case, the ignorant gaijin --

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from making the wrong choice.

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Let's face it: the way I wanted my tea

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was inappropriate according to cultural standards,

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and they were doing their best to help me save face.

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Americans tend to believe

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that they've reached some sort of pinnacle

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in the way they practice choice.

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They think that choice, as seen through the American lens

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best fulfills an innate and universal

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desire for choice in all humans.

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Unfortunately,

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these beliefs are based on assumptions

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that don't always hold true

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in many countries, in many cultures.

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At times they don't even hold true

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at America's own borders.

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I'd like to discuss some of these assumptions

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and the problems associated with them.

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As I do so, I hope you'll start thinking

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about some of your own assumptions

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and how they were shaped by your backgrounds.

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First assumption:

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if a choice affects you,

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then you should be the one to make it.

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This is the only way to ensure

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that your preferences and interests

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will be most fully accounted for.

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It is essential for success.

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In America, the primary locus of choice

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is the individual.

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People must choose for themselves, sometimes sticking to their guns,

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regardless of what other people want or recommend.

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It's called "being true to yourself."

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But do all individuals benefit

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from taking such an approach to choice?

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Mark Lepper and I did a series of studies

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in which we sought the answer to this very question.

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In one study,

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which we ran in Japantown, San Francisco,

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we brought seven- to nine-year-old Anglo- and Asian-American children

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into the laboratory,

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and we divided them up into three groups.

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The first group came in,

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and they were greeted by Miss Smith,

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who showed them six big piles of anagram puzzles.

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The kids got to choose which pile of anagrams they would like to do,

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and they even got to choose which marker

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they would write their answers with.

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When the second group of children came in,

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they were brought to the same room, shown the same anagrams,

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but this time Miss Smith told them

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which anagrams to do

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and which markers to write their answers with.

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Now when the third group came in,

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they were told that their anagrams and their markers

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had been chosen by their mothers.

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(Laughter)

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In reality,

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the kids who were told what to do,

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whether by Miss Smith or their mothers,

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were actually given the very same activity,

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which their counterparts in the first group

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had freely chosen.

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With this procedure, we were able to ensure

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that the kids across the three groups

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all did the same activity,

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making it easier for us to compare performance.

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Such small differences in the way we administered the activity

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yielded striking differences

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in how well they performed.

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Anglo-Americans,

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they did two and a half times more anagrams

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when they got to choose them,

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as compared to when it was

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chosen for them by Miss Smith or their mothers.

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It didn't matter who did the choosing,

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if the task was dictated by another,

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their performance suffered.

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In fact, some of the kids were visibly embarrassed

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when they were told that their mothers had been consulted.

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(Laughter)

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One girl named Mary said,

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"You asked my mother?"

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(Laughter)

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In contrast,

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Asian-American children

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performed best when they believed

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their mothers had made the choice,

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second best when they chose for themselves,

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and least well when it had been chosen by Miss Smith.

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A girl named Natsumi

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even approached Miss Smith as she was leaving the room

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and tugged on her skirt and asked,

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"Could you please tell my mommy

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I did it just like she said?"

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The first-generation children were strongly influenced

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by their immigrant parents'

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approach to choice.

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For them, choice was not just a way

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of defining and asserting

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their individuality,

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but a way to create community and harmony

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by deferring to the choices

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of people whom they trusted and respected.

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If they had a concept of being true to one's self,

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then that self, most likely,

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[was] composed, not of an individual,

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but of a collective.

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Success was just as much about pleasing key figures

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as it was about satisfying

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one's own preferences.

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Or, you could say that

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the individual's preferences were shaped

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by the preferences of specific others.

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The assumption then that we do best

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when the individual self chooses

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only holds

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when that self

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is clearly divided from others.

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When, in contrast,

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two or more individuals

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see their choices and their outcomes

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as intimately connected,

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then they may amplify one another's success

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by turning choosing

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into a collective act.

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To insist that they choose independently

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might actually compromise

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both their performance

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and their relationships.

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Yet that is exactly what

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the American paradigm demands.

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It leaves little room for interdependence

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or an acknowledgment of individual fallibility.

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It requires that everyone treat choice

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as a private and self-defining act.

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People that have grown up in such a paradigm

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might find it motivating,

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but it is a mistake to assume

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that everyone thrives under the pressure

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of choosing alone.

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The second assumption which informs the American view of choice

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goes something like this.

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The more choices you have,

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the more likely you are

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to make the best choice.

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So bring it on, Walmart, with 100,000 different products,

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and Amazon, with 27 million books

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and Match.com with -- what is it? --

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15 million date possibilities now.

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You will surely find the perfect match.

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Let's test this assumption

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by heading over to Eastern Europe.

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Here, I interviewed people

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who were residents of formerly communist countries,

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who had all faced the challenge

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of transitioning to a more

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democratic and capitalistic society.

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One of the most interesting revelations

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came not from an answer to a question,

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but from a simple gesture of hospitality.

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When the participants arrived for their interview,

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I offered them a set of drinks:

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Coke, Diet Coke, Sprite --

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seven, to be exact.

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During the very first session,

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which was run in Russia,

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one of the participants made a comment

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that really caught me off guard.

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"Oh, but it doesn't matter.

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It's all just soda. That's just one choice."

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(Murmuring)

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I was so struck by this comment that from then on,

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I started to offer all the participants

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those seven sodas,

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and I asked them, "How many choices are these?"

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Again and again,

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they perceived these seven different sodas,

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not as seven choices, but as one choice:

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soda or no soda.

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When I put out juice and water

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in addition to these seven sodas,

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now they perceived it as only three choices --

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juice, water and soda.

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Compare this to the die-hard devotion of many Americans,

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not just to a particular flavor of soda,

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but to a particular brand.

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You know, research shows repeatedly

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that we can't actually tell the difference

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between Coke and Pepsi.

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Of course, you and I know

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that Coke is the better choice.

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(Laughter)

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For modern Americans who are exposed

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to more options and more ads associated with options

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than anyone else in the world,

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choice is just as much about who they are

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as it is about what the product is.

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Combine this with the assumption that more choices are always better,

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and you have a group of people for whom every little difference matters

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and so every choice matters.

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But for Eastern Europeans,

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the sudden availability of all these

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consumer products on the marketplace was a deluge.

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They were flooded with choice

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before they could protest that they didn't know how to swim.

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When asked, "What words and images

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do you associate with choice?"

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Grzegorz from Warsaw said,

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"Ah, for me it is fear.

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There are some dilemmas you see.

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I am used to no choice."

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Bohdan from Kiev said,

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in response to how he felt about

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the new consumer marketplace,

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"It is too much.

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We do not need everything that is there."

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A sociologist from

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the Warsaw Survey Agency explained,

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"The older generation jumped from nothing

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to choice all around them.

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They were never given a chance to learn

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how to react."

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And Tomasz, a young Polish man said,

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"I don't need twenty kinds of chewing gum.

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I don't mean to say that I want no choice,

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but many of these choices are quite artificial."

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In reality, many choices are between things

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that are not that much different.

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The value of choice

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depends on our ability

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to perceive differences

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between the options.

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Americans train their whole lives

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to play "spot the difference."

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They practice this from such an early age

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that they've come to believe that everyone

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must be born with this ability.

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In fact, though all humans share

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a basic need and desire for choice,

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we don't all see choice in the same places

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or to the same extent.

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When someone can't see how one choice

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is unlike another,

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or when there are too many choices to compare and contrast,

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the process of choosing can be

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confusing and frustrating.

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Instead of making better choices,

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we become overwhelmed by choice,

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sometimes even afraid of it.

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Choice no longer offers opportunities,

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but imposes constraints.

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It's not a marker of liberation,

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but of suffocation

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by meaningless minutiae.

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In other words,

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choice can develop into the very opposite

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of everything it represents

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in America

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when it is thrust upon those

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who are insufficiently prepared for it.

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But it is not only other people

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in other places

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that are feeling the pressure

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of ever-increasing choice.

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Americans themselves are discovering

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that unlimited choice

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seems more attractive in theory

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than in practice.

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We all have physical, mental

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and emotional (Laughter) limitations

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that make it impossible for us

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to process every single choice we encounter,

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even in the grocery store,

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let alone over the course of our entire lives.

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A number of my studies have shown

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that when you give people 10 or more options

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when they're making a choice, they make poorer decisions,

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whether it be health care, investment,

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other critical areas.

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Yet still, many of us believe

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that we should make all our own choices

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and seek out even more of them.

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This brings me to the third,

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and perhaps most problematic, assumption:

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"You must never

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say no to choice."

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To examine this, let's go back to the U.S.

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and then hop across the pond to France.

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Right outside Chicago,

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a young couple, Susan and Daniel Mitchell,

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were about to have their first baby.

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They'd already picked out a name for her,

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Barbara, after her grandmother.

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One night, when Susan was seven months pregnant,

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she started to experience contractions

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and was rushed to the emergency room.

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The baby was delivered through a C-section,

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but Barbara suffered cerebral anoxia,

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a loss of oxygen to the brain.

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Unable to breathe on her own,

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she was put on a ventilator.

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Two days later,

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the doctors gave the Mitchells

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a choice:

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They could either remove Barbara

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off the life support,

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in which case she would die within a matter of hours,

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or they could keep her on life support,

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in which case she might still die

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within a matter of days.

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If she survived, she would remain

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in a permanent vegetative state,

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never able to walk, talk

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or interact with others.

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What do they do?

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What do any parent do?

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In a study I conducted

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with Simona Botti and Kristina Orfali,

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American and French parents

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were interviewed.

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They had all suffered

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the same tragedy.

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In all cases, the life support was removed,

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and the infants had died.

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But there was a big difference.

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In France, the doctors decided whether and when

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the life support would be removed,

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while in the United States,

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the final decision rested with the parents.

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We wondered:

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does this have an effect on how the parents

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cope with the loss of their loved one?

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We found that it did.

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Even up to a year later,

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American parents

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were more likely to express negative emotions,

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as compared to their French counterparts.

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French parents were more likely to say things like,

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"Noah was here for so little time,

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but he taught us so much.

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He gave us a new perspective on life."

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American parents were more likely to say things like,

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"What if? What if?"

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Another parent complained,

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"I feel as if they purposefully tortured me.

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How did they get me to do that?"

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And another parent said,

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"I feel as if I've played a role

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in an execution."

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But when the American parents were asked

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if they would rather have had

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the doctors make the decision,

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they all said, "No."

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They could not imagine

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turning that choice over to another,

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even though having made that choice

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made them feel trapped,

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guilty, angry.

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In a number of cases

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they were even clinically depressed.

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These parents could not contemplate

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giving up the choice,

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because to do so would have gone contrary

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to everything they had been taught

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and everything they had come to believe

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about the power

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and purpose of choice.

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In her essay, "The White Album,"

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Joan Didion writes,

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"We tell ourselves stories

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in order to live.

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We interpret what we see,

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select the most workable

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of the multiple choices.

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We live entirely by the imposition

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of a narrative line

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upon disparate images,

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by the idea with which we have learned to freeze

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the shifting phantasmagoria,

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which is our actual experience."

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The story Americans tell,

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the story upon which

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the American dream depends,

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is the story of limitless choice.

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This narrative

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promises so much:

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freedom, happiness,

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success.

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It lays the world at your feet and says,

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"You can have anything, everything."

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It's a great story,

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and it's understandable why they would be reluctant

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to revise it.

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But when you take a close look,

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you start to see the holes,

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and you start to see that the story

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can be told in many other ways.

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Americans have so often tried to

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disseminate their ideas of choice,

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believing that they will be, or ought to be,

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welcomed with open hearts and minds.

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But the history books and the daily news tell us

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it doesn't always work out that way.

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The phantasmagoria,

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the actual experience that we try to understand

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and organize through narrative,

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varies from place to place.

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No single narrative serves the needs

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of everyone everywhere.

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Moreover, Americans themselves

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could benefit from incorporating

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new perspectives into their own narrative,

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which has been driving their choices

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for so long.

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Robert Frost once said that,

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"It is poetry that is lost in translation."

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This suggests that

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whatever is beautiful and moving,

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whatever gives us a new way to see,

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cannot be communicated to those

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who speak a different language.

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But Joseph Brodsky said that,

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"It is poetry

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that is gained in translation,"

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suggesting that translation

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can be a creative,

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transformative act.

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When it comes to choice,

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we have far more to gain than to lose

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by engaging in the many

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translations of the narratives.

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Instead of replacing

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one story with another,

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we can learn from and revel in

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the many versions that exist

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and the many that have yet to be written.

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No matter where we're from

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and what your narrative is,

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we all have a responsibility

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to open ourselves up to a wider array

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of what choice can do,

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and what it can represent.

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And this does not lead to

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a paralyzing moral relativism.

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Rather, it teaches us when

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and how to act.

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It brings us that much closer

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to realizing the full potential of choice,

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to inspiring the hope

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and achieving the freedom

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that choice promises

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but doesn't always deliver.

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If we learn to speak to one another,

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albeit through translation,

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then we can begin to see choice

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in all its strangeness,

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complexity

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and compelling beauty.

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Thank you.

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(Applause)

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Bruno Giussani: Thank you.

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Sheena, there is a detail about your biography

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that we have not written in the program book.

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But by now it's evident to everyone in this room. You're blind.

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And I guess one of the questions on everybody's mind is:

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How does that influence your study of choosing

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because that's an activity

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that for most people is associated with visual inputs

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like aesthetics and color and so on?

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Sheena Iyengar: Well, it's funny that you should ask that

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because one of the things that's interesting about being blind

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is you actually get a different vantage point

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when you observe the way

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sighted people make choices.

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And as you just mentioned, there's lots of choices out there

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that are very visual these days.

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Yeah, I -- as you would expect --

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get pretty frustrated by choices

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like what nail polish to put on

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because I have to rely on what other people suggest.

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And I can't decide.

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And so one time I was in a beauty salon,

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and I was trying to decide between two very light shades of pink.

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And one was called "Ballet Slippers."

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And the other one was called "Adorable."

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(Laughter)

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And so I asked these two ladies,

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and the one lady told me, "Well, you should definitely wear 'Ballet Slippers.'"

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"Well, what does it look like?"

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"Well, it's a very elegant shade of pink."

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"Okay, great."

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The other lady tells me to wear "Adorable."

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"What does it look like?"

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"It's a glamorous shade of pink."

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And so I asked them, "Well, how do I tell them apart?

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What's different about them?"

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And they said, "Well, one is elegant, the other one's glamorous."

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Okay, we got that.

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And the only thing they had consensus on:

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well, if I could see them, I would

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clearly be able to tell them apart.

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(Laughter)

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And what I wondered was whether they were being affected

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by the name or the content of the color,

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so I decided to do a little experiment.

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So I brought these two bottles of nail polish into the laboratory,

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and I stripped the labels off.

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And I brought women into the laboratory,

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and I asked them, "Which one would you pick?"

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50 percent of the women accused me of playing a trick,

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of putting the same color nail polish

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in both those bottles.

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(Laughter)

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(Applause)

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At which point you start to wonder who the trick's really played on.

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Now, of the women that could tell them apart,

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when the labels were off, they picked "Adorable,"

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and when the labels were on,

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they picked "Ballet Slippers."

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So as far as I can tell,

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a rose by any other name

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probably does look different

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and maybe even smells different.

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BG: Thank you. Sheena Iyengar. Thank you Sheena.

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(Applause)

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