What Makes a Muslim Man Unattractive to Women | Belal Assad | Islamic Marriage

Summary

The video discusses key traits that can affect the attraction between a husband and wife, focusing on both negative and positive behaviors. It outlines what makes a man unattractive, such as lacking confidence, being overly reliant on others, dishonesty, stinginess, and abusive behavior. In contrast, it highlights four qualities a wife loves in her husband: protection, listening, tender physical affection, and regular compliments. Additionally, the importance of security and trust is emphasized, stressing that both partners should feel valued and safe in the relationship to maintain love and respect.

Takeaways

• 😀 A man can become unattractive to his wife if he exhibits feminine traits or a weak personality.
• 😀 A lack of confidence and indecisiveness can make a man unattractive in his marriage.
• 😀 Constant lying is a major turn-off for women, even if the truth is sometimes brutal.
• 😀 A man who is stingy and unwilling to spend on his family can frustrate his wife.
• 😀 Violence or degrading behavior towards a wife can lead to a permanent loss of respect and affection.
• 😀 A wife loves a husband who defends, protects, and supports her in all situations.
• 😀 A man who listens attentively to his wife and values her words fosters a stronger emotional connection.
• 😀 Tender physical touches, like a hug or kiss on the forehead, are important to a wife.
• 😀 Complimenting his wife and showing ongoing interest in her helps keep the relationship fresh and exciting.
• 😀 Women need to feel secure in their marriage and fear betrayal or infidelity, which can lead to insecurity.
• 😀 A successful marriage is built on mutual respect, constant communication, and emotional security.

Q & A

What makes a man unattractive to his wife?

A man becomes unattractive to his wife when he exhibits feminine traits, lacks confidence, has a weak personality, and is indecisive. Additionally, traits like constant lying, stinginess, and being violent or degrading are major factors that contribute to unattractiveness.

Why is being indecisive a negative trait for a man in a marriage?

Being indecisive shows a lack of leadership and direction, making the wife feel uncertain and unsupported in the relationship. When a man constantly listens to others, such as his parents or siblings, about family matters, it undermines his ability to make decisions for his own household.

How does constant lying impact a marriage?

Constant lying is detrimental to any marriage as it breaks trust, which is foundational to a healthy relationship. Women particularly hate dishonesty, and once trust is broken, it becomes very difficult to rebuild.

Are small lies acceptable in a marriage?

While constant lying is damaging, some may argue that small 'white lies' could be acceptable as long as they don't harm the relationship or cause significant emotional damage. However, honesty is still key for a strong foundation.

Why is stinginess a turn-off for women?

Stinginess makes a man seem selfish and unwilling to invest in his family’s well-being, which can create feelings of insecurity and dissatisfaction in the marriage. A wife wants to feel valued and cared for, which includes financial generosity and support.

What role does violence play in making a marriage unhealthy?

Violence, whether physical or verbal, is one of the most destructive forces in a marriage. It leads to emotional and physical harm, and once a wife is subjected to such behavior, it often marks the end of any affection or trust in the relationship.

What are the four things a wife loves in her husband?

The four things a wife loves in her husband are: 1) Defending, protecting, and supporting her, 2) Listening to her with patience and attention, 3) Giving tender physical touches, and 4) Complimenting her and showing interest in her well-being.

How important is listening for a husband in a marriage?

Listening is crucial in a marriage because it shows that the husband values his wife’s thoughts and emotions. It also fosters better communication, allowing the wife to feel heard, understood, and appreciated, even if they don't always agree.

What is meant by 'tender physical touches' in a marriage?

Tender physical touches refer to gentle gestures of affection, like hugs, kisses, or caresses, that help create emotional closeness. These acts of affection are vital for maintaining a loving and intimate connection between spouses.

How can a husband continue to show interest in his wife after the 'honeymoon phase'?

After the honeymoon phase, it’s important for the husband to continue showing interest by complimenting his wife, renewing the relationship with small gestures of love, and finding new ways to maintain excitement and emotional connection. Regularly reaffirming the commitment helps prevent boredom.

What is the greatest fear of many women in a marriage?

The greatest fear many women have in a marriage is the fear of betrayal—specifically, the fear that their husband might leave them for another woman. This fear can lead to insecurity and anxiety if not properly addressed.