CARA BERTAMU Ke Rumah Teman di Jepang!

Summary

This video provides a guide to the cultural norms and etiquette for visiting a Japanese person's house. It covers important aspects such as asking for permission to visit, being mindful of appropriate visiting hours, offering a small gift (TNI Age), and using the right greetings and expressions like 'Dozo' (Please come in) and 'Ojamashimasu' (Excuse me for disturbing you). It emphasizes respecting personal space and privacy while offering practical phrases for engaging in polite conversations. The video concludes with a guide on how to say goodbye and thank the host, making the visit culturally respectful and enjoyable.

Takeaways

• 😀 Always ask for permission before visiting a Japanese friend's house to ensure you’re not interrupting them.
• 😀 Be mindful of the visiting hours in Japan. Avoid visiting late at night or early in the morning.
• 😀 Japanese people value personal space, so be careful not to invade your friend's privacy during a visit.
• 😀 A polite way to ask permission to visit a friend’s house is by saying 'Asobi ni kite mo ii desu ka?' which means 'Is it okay to come to your house?'
• 😀 When entering a Japanese house, you should say 'Ojamashimasu,' which expresses 'Excuse me for disturbing you.'
• 😀 Upon visiting, it’s customary to bring a gift, typically food or drinks, as a gesture of politeness (TNI Age).
• 😀 The phrase 'Dozo' is often used to invite someone into the house, meaning 'Please come in.'
• 😀 After leaving, you can say 'Arigatou tanoshikatta desu,' which means 'Thank you, I had a great time.'
• 😀 To show more formality, you can say 'Arigatou gozaimashita' when thanking your host in a more formal context.
• 😀 When saying goodbye, adding 'Matane' or 'Subarashii' expresses 'See you' or 'Be careful on the road.'

Q & A

Why is it important to ask for permission before visiting a Japanese friend's house?

It is important to ask for permission before visiting a Japanese friend's house to avoid disturbing them or arriving when they are not home. It also helps ensure you don't inconvenience them by showing up at an inappropriate time.

What should you consider when choosing a time to visit a Japanese friend's house?

When choosing a time to visit, it's important to avoid times that might be considered impolite, such as late at night when people might be resting or early in the morning when they are just waking up.

What is the meaning of 'ojamashimasu' and when should it be said?

'Ojamashimasu' means 'Sorry to bother you' or 'Excuse me.' It is said when entering someone's house, particularly as you step into the entrance area, called the 'genkan,' to show respect and acknowledge that you're interrupting their space.

What is the 'genkan' in a Japanese house?

The 'genkan' is the small area near the entrance of a Japanese home where guests remove their shoes before entering the main living area.

What is 'omiyage' and why is it important to bring when visiting someone's house in Japan?

'Omiyage' refers to a gift, often food or drinks, that is brought when visiting someone's home. It is a cultural practice that shows thoughtfulness and respect for the host. It is especially appreciated when visiting someone for the first time or on special occasions.

What type of items are typically brought as 'omiyage' when visiting a Japanese friend's house?

Typical 'omiyage' items include food or drinks such as cakes, tea, coffee, wine, or other items that suit the taste of the host. It’s best to bring something you know your friend will enjoy.

How should you say goodbye when leaving a Japanese friend's house?

When leaving a Japanese friend's house, you can say 'Arigatou' to express gratitude, or for a more formal tone, 'Arigatou gozaimashita.' You can also add 'Ojamashimashita' to acknowledge that you may have disturbed them.

What is the appropriate way to respond when your Japanese friend invites you to their home?

When invited to a Japanese friend's home, a polite response would be to express gratitude and accept their invitation warmly. For example, you might say 'Arigatou, I’m looking forward to it!'

Why is it important to avoid visiting a Japanese friend's house unannounced?

Visiting unannounced can be seen as intrusive, especially since Japanese culture places a high value on personal space. It’s important to respect your friend's privacy and avoid causing inconvenience by showing up unexpectedly.

What does 'tanoshikatta desu' mean and when is it used?

'Tanoshikatta desu' means 'It was fun' or 'I enjoyed it.' It’s used when expressing gratitude or appreciation for the time spent at a friend's house before leaving.