Marriage in the Quran (The Only Story) | Friday Khutbah by Nouman Ali Khan

Summary

In this insightful video, the speaker explores the unique story of Prophet Musa’s marriage, highlighting the wisdom behind his marriage as portrayed in the Quran. Unlike other prophets whose marriages aren’t mentioned, Musa’s story provides guidance on how to approach marriage with integrity and honesty. The narrative reveals how Allah guides him through a challenging journey, from being a fugitive to meeting two women in need. The speaker emphasizes the importance of character over societal expectations in marriage, encouraging Muslims to make the halal easy and prioritize good deeds over material concerns.

Takeaways

• 😀 The Quran mentions the unique marriage story of Prophet Musa (Moses), a story not shared about any other prophet in the Quran, emphasizing that we should seek wisdom from this story regarding marriage.
• 😀 Prophet Musa (M) was a wanted criminal in Egypt, accused of murder, and had to escape into the desert, demonstrating that Allah guided him during his difficult circumstances.
• 😀 Despite his dire situation, Prophet Musa (M) helped two women at a well who were being mistreated by other men, showing his selflessness and good character.
• 😀 Prophet Musa (M) makes a sincere dua to Allah, asking for guidance and relief, showing his trust in Allah’s provision despite having nothing.
• 😀 The two women were cautious about interacting with men due to societal disrespect and harassment, highlighting the challenges women face in a corrupt society.
• 😀 The father of the two women, after hearing about Musa's good character from his daughters, recognizes him as a potential good match for one of his daughters, despite his lack of wealth or status.
• 😀 The father of the girls tests the character of Prophet Musa (M) by sending one daughter to call him, ensuring that she is not in a compromising situation, which shows his protective nature.
• 😀 When Prophet Musa (M) accepts the offer of compensation from the father, it reflects his understanding that it is an answer to his dua, emphasizing that Allah’s response can come in unexpected forms.
• 😀 The marriage proposal is unconventional, as Musa (M) was an outlaw with no money or job, but the father, seeing his honesty and character, offers him a choice of working for either eight or ten years.
• 😀 The story teaches that marriage should be based on character and integrity, not wealth or social status. The right decision is made when character is prioritized over external factors.
• 😀 The video emphasizes that making halal (permissible) actions difficult while making haram (forbidden) actions easy is a societal problem. Muslims should make it easier for others to marry in a righteous way, based on character and values.

Q & A

Why is the marriage story of Prophet Musa (Musa) significant in the Quran?

The story of Prophet Musa's marriage is unique because it is the only detailed marriage story of a prophet mentioned in the Quran. It offers valuable guidance for us on marriage, emphasizing character, integrity, and sincerity over material wealth or status.

What makes Prophet Musa's escape from Egypt unusual?

Prophet Musa's escape was unusual because he was fleeing after being falsely accused of murder, and he was considered a criminal by the Egyptian authorities. Despite this, he had no resources, job, or safety, and his escape was guided by Allah.

What is the significance of Prophet Musa's prayer to Allah while escaping?

When Prophet Musa prayed to Allah, he expressed his total reliance on Allah for guidance, asking for the straightest path. His prayer reflects humility, acknowledging his helplessness and seeking divine intervention in uncertain circumstances.

How does the story of Prophet Musa highlight the role of women in difficult societies?

The story of Prophet Musa illustrates how women in difficult societies had to endure additional hardships, such as being exposed to harassment by men. The two women at the water source protect themselves by avoiding interaction with the men, showing their strength and integrity.

What does Prophet Musa's reaction to the women's need for help teach us about helping others?

Prophet Musa's response teaches us that good deeds are an opportunity for spiritual growth and must be approached without expecting anything in return. His act of helping the women with their animals reflects his humility and his willingness to serve others, even in his own time of need.

What does Prophet Musa's prayer 'Ya Allah, whatever good you send my way, I will take' signify?

This prayer signifies complete submission and acceptance of Allah's will. Prophet Musa acknowledges his own helplessness and expresses gratitude for whatever help Allah provides, without being picky or ungrateful, showing humility in the face of hardship.

Why does the father of the two women in the story choose to send one daughter to Prophet Musa instead of both?

The father sends one daughter to Prophet Musa because he trusts her judgment and understands the subtle hints in her description of Prophet Musa. He perceives that she trusts him, and he also wants to test whether Prophet Musa will respond in a manner consistent with his good character.

What does the conversation between Prophet Musa and the father of the women reveal about the value of honesty and character in marriage?

The conversation reveals that the father's decision to offer his daughter's hand in marriage was based on Prophet Musa's honesty and character, not his status or wealth. The father's trust in Prophet Musa's integrity was more important than any material considerations.

How does the father of the women approach the concept of marriage despite Prophet Musa's difficult circumstances?

The father of the women demonstrates wisdom by valuing character over wealth or social standing. He understands that Prophet Musa's character and integrity are more important than his criminal record or financial situation, so he offers a marriage proposal, knowing that Allah can provide for him.

What lesson can we learn from the way Prophet Musa's marriage was arranged in terms of societal pressures?

The lesson is that marriage should be based on character, integrity, and mutual respect, not on societal pressures or materialistic values. The story teaches us that the right reasons for marriage should be prioritized, and societal gossip should not interfere with making wise decisions based on moral values.