5 Irresistible Ways to Flirt With Men (⚠️ use #4 carefully!) (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

Summary

This script offers five tips to naturally encourage a romantic kiss on a date. It suggests initiating light touch, sipping a drink to draw attention to the lips, glancing at his lips to create a seductive moment, playfully telling him not to look at you in a certain way to build tension, and acting cute when teased. The speaker also promotes a program called 'How To Talk To Men,' offering a chapter on flirting techniques for free.

Takeaways

• 👉 Light and casual touch during a date can make the idea of kissing feel more natural.
• 👀 Taking a sip of a drink can draw attention to your lips and provide a moment for your date to observe you without direct eye contact.
• 💋 Glancing at your date's lips after making eye contact can create a seductive moment, even if unconsciously done.
• 😉 Playfully telling your date 'You can't look at me like that' can create tension and playfulness in the interaction.
• 😜 Acting cute or pretending to be upset when teased can be endearing and may prompt a desire to kiss.
• 💬 The script suggests using specific phrases and actions to flirt, which can be learned and practiced.
• 🎁 The speaker offers a free chapter from a program called 'How To Talk To Men' focusing on flirting techniques.
• 🌟 Physical contact, even if innocent, is a key factor in building intimacy during a date.
• 🎭 The importance of non-verbal cues such as looking away and creating vulnerability is highlighted for flirtatious effect.
• 📚 There's a mention of a structured program that provides lines and actions for flirting, indicating a more in-depth study on the topic.
• 💕 The overall message is about creating a flirtatious atmosphere through subtle actions and phrases to encourage a romantic connection.

Q & A

What is the main topic of the video script?

The main topic of the video script is providing tips on how to make someone want to kiss you, with a focus on flirting techniques.

What is the first tip given in the script for creating a natural progression to a kiss?

The first tip is to introduce light and carefree touch throughout the date, which makes the act of kissing feel more natural.

Why does taking a sip of a drink draw attention to the lips?

Taking a sip engages the lips, drawing attention to them, and also provides a moment for the other person to look at you without you staring back.

What is the purpose of glancing at the person's lips during a date?

Glancing at the person's lips creates a seductive moment, signaling interest and making the person feel noticed in a different, more intimate way.

How does the script suggest responding when someone looks at you in a sexy way?

The script suggests playfully telling the person 'You can't look at me like that,' which creates tension and playfulness.

What is the fifth tip mentioned in the script for flirting?

The fifth tip is to do the 'cute act,' where you give a serious face when being teased and say 'Don't be mean to me,' which can make the other person want to kiss you.

What is the additional resource mentioned in the script for learning more about flirting?

The additional resource mentioned is a program called 'How To Talk To Men,' which includes a chapter specifically about giving lines and things to do to flirt.

Why is the chapter from 'How To Talk To Men' being offered for free?

The chapter is being offered for free as a gift to the viewers, presumably to encourage them to explore the full program and learn more about flirting techniques.

What does the script suggest about the importance of physical contact on a date?

The script suggests that having some level of physical contact on a date, such as touching the arm, is important as it helps to build a connection and makes the idea of a kiss feel less abrupt.

How does looking away after saying 'You can't look at me like that' add to the flirtatious moment?

Looking away adds vulnerability and tension to the moment, making it seem like the person is doing something they shouldn't be, which can be very attractive.

What is the overall goal of the tips provided in the script?

The overall goal of the tips is to enhance the viewer's ability to flirt effectively and create opportunities for a romantic connection to develop, specifically leading to a kiss.

Outlines

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💋 Five Ways to Encourage a Kiss

This paragraph outlines five strategies to create a natural and flirty atmosphere that may lead to a romantic kiss. The first technique involves light, non-intimate touches to establish physical connection. The second suggests taking sips of a drink to draw attention to the lips and provide an opportunity for the date to admire you without direct eye contact. The third strategy is to glance at his lips after making eye contact, creating a seductive moment. The fourth involves responding playfully to a sexy look with a light admonishment, which can build tension and playfulness. The final technique is to act cute when teased, which can be irresistibly endearing. The paragraph concludes with an offer of a free chapter from a program called 'How To Talk To Men,' focusing on flirting techniques.

Keywords

💡Physical Contact

Physical contact refers to any form of touch between two individuals. In the context of the video, it is suggested as a subtle way to build intimacy during a date. The script emphasizes that light and carefree touches, such as touching someone's arm, can make the idea of a kiss feel more natural and less abrupt.

💡Seduction

Seduction is the act of enticing someone with a desire for something or someone. The video discusses seduction in the form of glances and body language to create a romantic atmosphere. For instance, slowly glancing at a man's lips after looking into his eyes is described as a seductive moment that can unconsciously attract him.

💡Lip Engagement

Lip engagement is the act of drawing attention to one's lips, often by taking a sip of a drink. The script explains that this action not only highlights the lips but also provides an opportunity for the other person to admire you without direct eye contact, which can be an attractive and flirtatious move.

💡Eye Contact

Eye contact is the act of looking into someone's eyes, which is a powerful form of non-verbal communication. The video suggests that maintaining eye contact before breaking it to look at the lips and then returning can create a seductive moment, indicating interest without being too forward.

💡Flirting

Flirting is a playful way of showing interest or attraction towards another person. The video provides several tips on how to flirt effectively, such as touching, lip engagement, and creating tension through playful admonishment like saying, 'You can't look at me like that.'

💡Tension

Tension, in the context of attraction, refers to the anticipation or suspense that can build between two people. The script mentions creating tension by playfully telling the man he can't look at you in a certain way, which can make the interaction more intriguing and attractive.

💡Vulnerability

Vulnerability here refers to the emotional openness and the willingness to show one's softer side. In the video, looking away after creating tension is described as a moment of vulnerability that can be appealing and invite a more intimate response, such as a kiss.

💡Playfulness

Playfulness is the quality of being light-hearted and fun. The video encourages using playfulness in flirting, such as giving a 'serious face' when being teased and saying 'Don't be mean to me,' which can make the interaction endearing and increase the desire to kiss.

💡Adorable

Adorable is a term used to describe someone who is very pleasing or attractive in a charming way. The video suggests that acting in an adorable manner, especially when being teased, can elicit a strong desire to be kissed due to the cuteness of the act.

💡Program

In the context of the video, a 'program' refers to a structured course or set of instructions aimed at teaching specific skills or knowledge. The speaker mentions a program called 'How To Talk To Men,' which includes a chapter on flirting techniques, and offers this chapter as a free gift.

💡Free Gift

A free gift is an item or service given without charge, often as a promotional offer or incentive. The video concludes with the offer of a free chapter from a program as a gift to the viewers, aiming to entice them with additional value related to the video's theme of flirting and attraction.

Highlights

Five ways to make him want to kiss you are introduced.

Touch him lightly and carefree to make kissing feel natural.

Avoid touching the groinal region, opt for innocent touches like on the arm.

Making physical contact gradually prevents the feeling of going from zero to sixty.

Taking a sip of a drink can draw attention to your lips and create a moment of attraction.

Looking away while sipping gives him a chance to admire you without direct eye contact.

Glancing at his lips slowly creates a seductive moment.

Looking into his eyes then at his lips and back creates an unconscious attraction.

When he looks at you in a sexy way, playfully tell him 'You can't look at me like that'.

Creating tension by playfully telling him what he can't do is very sexy.

The act of looking away adds vulnerability and playfulness to the interaction.

Responding seriously when he teases you and saying 'Don't be mean to me' can be endearing.

Being cute and adorable prompts the desire to kiss.

The five suggestions are practical ways to flirt effectively.

A program called 'How To Talk To Men' is mentioned, with a chapter on flirting techniques.

The chapter on flirting from 'How To Talk To Men' is being offered for free.

Transcripts

Okay.

Let's just get down to business.

Five ways to make him wanna kiss you.

Number One

Touch him.

No, I don't mean his

groinal region.

I just mean touch him somewhere.

Even innocently on the arm.

That actually looks good, what that guy has over there.

♫♫♫

Because on a date

when two people haven't even touched,

made physical contact for the entire date,

and then all of a sudden,

one of them has got to think about leaning in and kissing the other one...

That feels like going from zero to sixty miles an hour,

but if you've been introducing light,

and carefree touch through-out the date...

Kissing is a much more natural progression.

Number Two

Take a sip.

When you take a sip of your drink

it engages your lips so it draws attention to them,

but at the same time, if you look away

it has the added benefit of giving him a moment

to look at you, and take you in

without you staring right back at him.

That is too funny, Monkey.

♫♫♫

That is something that we actually

don't get to do that frequently on a date,

and when someone is looking at us,

that's when they get a chance to really get attracted.

Number Three

Glance at his lips.

Now, the more slowly you do this

the more seductive it's gonna be,

but if you take a moment

to look into his eyes,

and then look down at his lips,

and then back up at his eyes...

That moment becomes a very seductive moment

even if it's unconscious.

Even if he doesn't know

that you're actually looking at his lips.

He registers that you're taking him in,

in a different way.

So like,

what part of the jungle were you in when that happened?

♫♫♫

Number Four

When he looks at you in a certain sexy way,

maybe he smiles with it.

I want you to say to him,

"You can't look at me like that."

The words, 'You can't'

followed by looking away

creates this real tension in the moment.

You're telling him something he can't do...

Always very sexy when done playfully,

and in that moment when you look away

there's that vulnerability to it too.

It's like he's doing something to you that he shouldn't be.

Ah, Monkey... You can't look at me like that.

♫♫♫

Number Five

Do the cute act.

Choose a moment when he's teasing you

to give him a serious face

when he thinks you should be laughing,

and say,

"Don't be mean to me."

Don't be mean to me.

♫♫♫

And when someone's being cute and adorable,

you just wanna grab em' and kiss em'.

That's the effect we're going for.

Look these five things I've just given you

are essentially just practical ways to flirt.

I have a program called, How To Talk To Men,

and one of the chapters in that program

is specifically about giving you lines,

and things you can do to flirt.

Well I am gifting you that chapter

absolutely free today.