10 Signs She’s Not Into You (Stop Wasting Time)

Summary

In this video, dating coach Marie shares the top 10 signs that a woman is not romantically interested in you. These signs include constant excuses for not meeting up, being the only one initiating contact, and avoiding future plans. Marie highlights that if she talks about other men, doesn’t make an effort to look good around you, or only texts you late at night, these are clear red flags. Trust your instincts and don’t ignore these signs, as they could prevent you from wasting time and emotional energy on someone who isn’t interested in a deeper connection.

Takeaways

• 😀 She’s not making you a priority if she constantly gives excuses like being busy or too tired when you ask to meet up.
• 😀 If she never initiates plans or checks in with you, it means she’s not emotionally invested in the relationship.
• 😀 If she avoids making future plans with you, like weekends or trips, it’s a sign she’s not interested in moving forward.
• 😀 If your interactions are always casual (e.g., coffee or smoothies) but she avoids romantic settings, you’re probably in the friend zone.
• 😀 If she talks about other men in front of you, she doesn’t see you as competition or a potential romantic partner.
• 😀 Texting you late at night but never during the day suggests she may only want temporary attention or physical connection, not romance.
• 😀 If she doesn't put effort into her appearance or show interest in impressing you, it indicates she’s not attracted to you.
• 😀 A lack of emotional and physical safety with you means she’s not comfortable enough to open up or get closer.
• 😀 If she doesn’t ask about your life or show interest in your goals and feelings, she’s emotionally disconnected from you.
• 😀 If you feel anxious or confused in the relationship, trust your gut—it’s a sign things may not be right, and she may not be the one.

Q & A

What is the first sign that a woman is not into you?

The first sign is that she's not making you a priority. If she constantly gives excuses for not seeing you, like being too busy, tired, or having other plans, it could indicate that she's avoiding spending time with you.

How can you tell if a woman is emotionally invested in you?

If a woman is emotionally invested, she will make the effort to reschedule dates, suggest future plans, and initiate contact. If she's not doing any of these things, it suggests a lack of emotional investment.

What does it mean if she only texts you late at night and never during the day?

If she only reaches out to you late at night, it might indicate that she views you as a friend, or possibly a 'backup' option. This behavior suggests that she's not interested in a romantic relationship and might be reaching out when she's bored or lonely.

What does it signify if a woman never makes an effort to look good when she’s with you?

If she doesn't pay attention to how she looks when she's with you, it suggests that she's not trying to impress you. A woman who's truly attracted to you will usually make an effort to present herself in a positive light.

What is the importance of emotional security in a relationship?

Emotional security is vital because it creates a foundation of trust. If a woman doesn’t feel emotionally safe with you, she won't open up, making it hard to form a meaningful connection. A lack of emotional safety can also prevent physical closeness.

Why does a woman talking about other men in front of you indicate a lack of romantic interest?

When a woman talks about other men in front of you, it shows that she doesn't view you as a romantic competitor. She's comfortable sharing details about other people because she doesn't feel attracted to you in that way.

What is the significance of a woman not asking about your life or showing curiosity about you?

A woman who likes you will ask questions about your life, goals, and experiences. If she doesn’t show curiosity about you, it suggests that she is not emotionally connected and is not looking for a deeper connection.

What does it mean if you're always the one reaching out and making plans?

If you're always the one initiating contact and suggesting plans, it can indicate that she’s not as invested in the relationship. She may enjoy your company, but she doesn't see you as someone she wants to pursue romantically.

How can you differentiate between feeling nervous or anxious and true romantic attraction?

Anxiety is often a sign of discomfort or past emotional baggage, while romantic attraction should feel exciting and fulfilling. If you're feeling anxious rather than excited, it could mean that the relationship isn't right for you or that the other person isn't truly invested.

What does it mean when a woman avoids suggesting future plans or gives vague responses?

If a woman avoids making concrete future plans with you or responds with vague answers like 'we'll see,' it suggests a lack of interest. She might not want to commit to anything with you, showing that she’s not emotionally invested.