Allah Loves Your Mother | Episode 25 | Ramadan 2019
Summary
TLDRDans cette vidéo, l'orateur parle de l'importance de montrer de l'amour et de la bonté à sa mère. Il cite des hadiths du Prophète (pbsl) qui mettent en avant la mère comme la personne la plus méritante de respect et de gentillesse. Il partage des anecdotes illustrant comment servir et honorer sa mère peut attirer la miséricorde d'Allah. Il mentionne également l'importance de la tante maternelle et du père. En conclusion, il souligne que montrer de la patience et de la bonté envers ses parents, surtout en vieillissant, est une voie vers le paradis. Salamualikoum wa rahmatollahi wa barakato.
Takeaways
- 📌 Salamualikoum wa rahmatollahi wa barakato, bienvenue à Allah Loves.
- 📌 L'importance de l'amour pour les autres pour l'amour d'Allah, en commençant par sa propre famille.
- 📌 L'accent particulier mis sur la mère, comme souligné par le Prophète (pbuh) qui a dit que l'honneur et la gentillesse doivent d'abord être dirigés vers la mère.
- 📌 La mention que le Paradis est aux pieds de la mère, soulignant son statut élevé dans l'Islam.
- 📌 L'obéissance aux parents est incluse dans le Coran avec l'obéissance à Allah, montrant leur importance.
- 📌 La tolérance envers les injustices ou les préjudices n'est pas incluse dans ce concept.
- 📌 L'histoire du Prophète (pbuh) conseillant à un homme de montrer de la bonté à sa tante maternelle après la mort de sa mère.
- 📌 Le récit d'Ibn Abbas, qui a demandé à un homme ayant commis un meurtre si sa mère était encore en vie, soulignant l'importance de la bonté envers la mère.
- 📌 Ibn Abbas a déclaré qu'il ne connaissait pas d'action plus aimée d'Allah que de servir sa mère.
- 📌 L'encouragement à utiliser la possibilité de servir et de montrer de l'amour à sa mère et son père comme une porte vers le Paradis.
Q & A
Quel est le principal message de la vidéo?
-Le principal message de la vidéo est l'importance d'aimer et de respecter sa mère pour plaire à Allah, ainsi que la grande valeur de la bonté envers ses parents dans l'islam.
Pourquoi le Prophète (pbsl) a-t-il insisté sur l'importance de la mère?
-Le Prophète (pbsl) a insisté sur l'importance de la mère parce qu'elle occupe une position privilégiée dans l'islam, étant mentionnée trois fois avant le père lorsqu'on demande à qui donner son honneur et sa gentillesse.
Quelle est la relation entre l'obéissance à Allah et la bonté envers les parents?
-L'obéissance à Allah et la bonté envers les parents sont étroitement liées, car Allah a jugé que l'on doit adorer Lui seul et montrer de l'excellence envers ses parents, ce qui est mentionné dans le Coran.
Comment le Prophète (pbsl) a-t-il répondu à un homme qui avait commis un péché majeur?
-Le Prophète (pbsl) a demandé à l'homme s'il avait encore sa mère vivante. Lorsqu'il a répondu non, le Prophète (pbsl) a demandé s'il avait une tante maternelle vivante et lui a conseillé de lui montrer de la bonté et de l'excellence.
Quelle est la signification de l'affirmation 'le paradis se trouve aux pieds de ta mère'?
-Cette affirmation souligne que le respect et la bonté envers sa mère peuvent conduire à la satisfaction divine et à une place au paradis, montrant ainsi l'importance de la mère en islam.
Qu'a dit Ibn Abbas à un homme qui avait tué quelqu'un?
-Ibn Abbas a demandé à l'homme si sa mère était vivante. Lorsque l'homme a répondu non, Ibn Abbas lui a conseillé de demander sincèrement pardon à Allah et d'espérer en Sa miséricorde.
Pourquoi Ibn Abbas a-t-il demandé à propos de la mère de l'homme?
-Ibn Abbas croyait qu'il n'y avait pas d'action plus aimée d'Allah que de servir sa mère, et il espérait que la bonté envers la mère aiderait l'homme à obtenir la miséricorde divine.
Quel conseil Zain el Abedeen a-t-il donné si l'un des parents est décédé?
-Zain el Abedeen a conseillé que si un parent est décédé, il faut montrer de la bonté et de l'obéissance à l'autre parent, car leur satisfaction est également précieuse pour Allah.
Quelle est l'importance de la patience envers les parents âgés?
-La patience envers les parents âgés est importante car elle montre l'amour et le respect pour eux, et c'est une voie pour obtenir la satisfaction et la bénédiction d'Allah.
Que demande l'orateur à la fin de la vidéo?
-L'orateur demande à Allah de nous permettre de satisfaire nos parents, de nous rejoindre avec eux et d'autres proches au plus haut niveau du paradis, Jannat al firdous.
Outlines
🌟 L'importance de la mère dans l'islam
Salamualikoum wa rahmatollahi wa barakato. Dans cet épisode, nous explorons le concept de l'amour pour Allah, en particulier envers les membres de la famille. Le Prophète (pbuh) a insisté sur l'importance de l'honneur et de la bonté envers la mère, répétant à plusieurs reprises que la mère devait être priorisée avant même le père. L'obéissance aux parents est placée juste après l'obéissance à Allah dans le Coran. Cette section souligne la nécessité de montrer de l'amour et de l'excellence envers sa mère pour gagner l'amour d'Allah. Même en cas de péchés graves, le Prophète (pbuh) a conseillé de montrer de la bonté envers la mère ou la tante maternelle comme un moyen de rechercher la miséricorde d'Allah.
🤲 La bonté envers les parents comme porte vers le paradis
Servir, montrer de la gentillesse et de l'amour envers ses parents, surtout lorsqu'ils vieillissent, est essentiel. Il n'y a pas de personnes que l'on peut aimer pour Allah plus que ses parents. Nous demandons à Allah de nous permettre de satisfaire nos parents et de les réunir avec nous au plus haut niveau de Jannat al firdous. Ces actes simples mais significatifs sont des moyens de rechercher la satisfaction d'Allah et d'atteindre le paradis.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Amour pour Allah
💡Mère
💡Ihsan
💡Amitié maternelle
💡Repentir
💡Péché majeur
💡Abdullah Ibn Abbas
💡Pardon d'Allah
💡Jannah
💡Bienveillance envers les parents
Highlights
Introduction to the concept of loving someone for Allah's sake, emphasizing the importance of loving those inside our households, especially our mothers.
The Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) prioritized honoring and showing kindness to one's mother, stating 'Your Mother' three times before mentioning 'your father'.
The Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) highlighted the special status of mothers by saying 'paradise lies at your mother's feet'.
The Quran associates obedience to parents with obedience to Allah, emphasizing their significant status.
The importance of showing love to one's mother as a means of earning Allah's love is discussed, with a caveat that it does not include tolerating injustice or harm.
A narration from the Prophet (pbuh) where a man who committed a major sin is advised to show excellence to his maternal aunt if his mother is not alive, emphasizing the importance of maternal figures.
The Prophet (pbuh) equates the maternal aunt's status to that of the mother, showing the value of maternal relationships in Islam.
Another narration from Ibn Abbas, where a man guilty of murder is advised to show kindness to his mother as a means of seeking Allah's forgiveness.
Ibn Abbas's students ask why he inquired about the man's mother, to which he responds that he knows no action more beloved to Allah than serving one's mother.
The advice to make use of the opportunity to serve one's mother if she is still alive, and if not, to show kindness to the father.
The Prophet (pbuh) mentioned that the pleasure of the father is the pleasure of Allah, highlighting the importance of parental approval.
Emphasizing that parents are a gate to paradise, and showing kindness, patience, and love towards them, especially as they age.
A prayer asking Allah to be pleased with us, our parents, spouses, children, and other relatives, and to join us in the highest level of Jannat al firdous.
Closing salutations with a dua for everyone’s well-being and peace.
Transcripts
Salamualikoum wa rahmatollahi wa barakato everyone.
Welcome back to Allah Loves.
So last time we talked about this concept of loving someone else for Allah's sake.
And a lot of times unfortunately we immediately expand that and extend it to others outside
of our households but we forget the people inside of our households.
And there is no person that you should think of more when you hear those ahadiths than
your mother.
Because the Prophet (pbuh), when a man asked him to whom should I give my honor and kindness
to, the Prophet (pbuh) said 'Your Mother' and then he said 'who' and he said 'your mother'
then he said 'who' and he said 'your mother' then he said 'who' and he said 'your father'.
So we know that Allah has preferred the mother in a very special way that the Prophet (pbuh)
sent a companion back to his mother and said 'paradise lies at your mother's feet' that
Allah has put the obedience to the parents in the Quran with the obedience to Him.
That you worship him and obey him and that you show a similar level of kindness and love
to your parents without of course worshiping them or preferring them of the creator.
But he included them, 'waqada rebooko al la ta'bood ila iya wa bil walidayni ihsana' He
included them by saying 'Your Lord has judged that you worship no other but him but that
you show excellence to your parents'.
So where is this concept that Allah loves your mother?
And I have to give this qualifier that that does not mean tolerating injustice or oppression
or harm.
These are things that are outside the scope of the default and need to be dealt with as
exceptional cases.
But in general the status of the mother and this concept of earning the love of Allah
by showing love to your mother.
There are two narrations that I want to share with you.
One of them from the Prophet (pbuh) the other one from Abdullah Ibn Abbas, may Allah be
pleased with him, the cousin of the Prophet (pbuh).
The Prophet (pbuh) had a man who approached him and said to the Prophet (pbuh) that I
committed a major sin, 'hali tawba' is there any way for me to repent to Allah (swt).
The Prophet (pbuh) said do you have a mother, is your mother alive.
And the man said no.
Look at the follow up question of the Prophet (pbuh, he said, well does your mother have
a sister, do you have an aunt that is alive?
A maternal aunt that is alive?
The man said yes.
The Prophet (pbuh) said then go be good to her, show her some ihsan, show her some excellence
and some love and hope for Allah's mercy in the process.
So it wasn't even after the mother the Prophet (pbuh) jumped far out, the Prophet (pbuh)
said well is there an aunt?
Of course in those societies and in many societies today the khala, the aunt, particularly the
maternal aunt plays a motherly role in a person's life.
And the Prophet (pbuh) mentioned "al khala, the maternal aunt, bimanzelatel om' that she
is in the station of the mother.
So she's the number two when it comes to that honor and that love.
But again, that idea that if, you know, you committed a major sin between you and Allah,
well go ahead and go to your mother and show her goodness and see if it's a way of opening
that door of pleasure with Allah (swt).
The narration from Ibn Abbas, radiallahu anhu, is a very profound one.
A man came to Ibn Abbas and he was guilty of murder and so he confessed to Abdullah
Ibn Abbas that he killed someone, that he became jealous and he killed someone and Ibn
Abbas responded to him 'ah omoku hay' is your mother alive?
Separate by the way from any legal proceedings and anything that would take place in the
capacity of retribution, he's worried about his akhira, he's worried about his hereafter.
Is there any chance of me to have forgiveness from Allah (swt).
And this is what he came to Ibn Abbas asking him.
Ibn Abbas said to him, is your mother alive and the man said no.
Ibn Abbas said to him well just go and seek Allah's forgiveness sincerely and hope in
his mercy.
So he gave him a generic answer after asking him specifically is your mother alive.
So the students of Ibn Abbas, the scholar of this ummah, they asked him, they said,
you know it's interesting, why did you ask him about his mother?
His mother wasn't even in the equation.
He killed somebody, he's worried if he's going to be forgiven by Allah (swt), if he still
has a chance at Allah's mercy and thats what you asked him?
Ibn Abbas said, he said, wallahi I don't know.
I swear by Allah that I don't know of an action more beloved to Allah than serving your mother.
I cannot think of an action that Allah loves more than showing kindness and obedience to
one's mother.
Subhanallah.
These are things that are so easy to us and are so accessible to us and if you're mother
is still alive, then make sure that you make use of that.
And Zain el Abedeen, may Allah be pleased with him, he said that if one gate has closed
then go to the other gate.
Then please your father and show that love to your father and that obedience to your
father as well.
And the Prophet (pbuh) of course mentioned that the pleasure of the father is the pleasure
of Allah (swt) and so our parents are truly a gate to paradise.
Serving them, showing kindness to them, showing love to them, especially as they become older
in age.
Showing patience with them as a result.
These are things we seek from Allah (swt).
There is no person and no two people that you can love for Allah ore than your parents.
We ask Allah (swt) to be pleased with us, to allow our parents to be pleased with us
and to join us all, our parents, our spouses, our children, brothers, sisters, aunts and
uncles, everyone else, we ask Allah to join us in the highest level of Jannat al firdous.
Allahoma ameen, jazakoum Allah khayran wa salamualikoum wa rahmatollahi wa barakato.
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