Everyone Will Have Regrets | Barzakh | Other Side Ep.29 | Dr. Omar Suleiman | Ramadan Series

Summary

This powerful script reflects on the profound human emotions of regret and longing in the afterlife, using narrations from Islamic texts. It explores how every soul experiences regret, from the righteous wishing they could have done more good to the sinful yearning to repent. The script draws on stories of figures like Ataa as-Salimi and Ibn Taymiyyah to emphasize the importance of striving for righteousness. The message conveys that no one will regret missed worldly opportunities but will deeply regret moments they could have dedicated to Allah. Ultimately, it calls for self-reflection and a focus on seeking Allah's mercy and forgiveness.

Takeaways

• 😀 Regret is a universal experience that every soul will carry into the Barzakh, with the words 'if only.'
• 😀 The Prophet SallAllahu 'Alaihi Wasallam taught that everyone who dies will experience some form of regret.
• 😀 A good-doer will regret not doing more good, while an evil-doer will regret not ceasing their sin.
• 😀 The believer longs to return to life to share good news with their family, but ultimately desires to reunite with them in the Hereafter, earning greater rewards.
• 😀 Disbelievers regret their missed opportunities to do good deeds and wish to delay the Day of Judgment due to fear.
• 😀 Ataa as-Salimi Rahimahullah expressed deep grief in his life but later found eternal happiness and a high rank in the Hereafter.
• 😀 Even those in high ranks, like Ibn Taymiyyah, experience regret over missed opportunities to do even more good.
• 😀 The people of Gaza, despite their suffering, would want to experience their trials again for the rewards and honor they would gain in the Hereafter.
• 😀 Those who are martyred (Shaheed) would wish to return to Earth repeatedly, not for the physical experiences but for the spiritual rewards they receive.
• 😀 At the time of death, people will regret not having prayed more, given more charity, or done more good deeds, regardless of their past actions.

Q & A

What is the central theme of the video script?

The central theme of the video is the concept of regret, especially in the context of life and death. The script reflects on how individuals, regardless of their actions, experience regret at the time of death. It emphasizes the importance of doing good deeds, repenting for sins, and seeking Allah's mercy.

What does the Prophet SallAllahu 'Alaihi Wasallam say about regret at death?

The Prophet SallAllahu 'Alaihi Wasallam, as narrated in al-Tirmidhi, stated that everyone will experience regret when they die. A good-doer will regret not doing more good, while an evil-doer will regret not stopping their sins.

What does the script say about the desire for the people of Gaza to have never lived?

The script suggests that despite the immense suffering of the people of Gaza, they would not wish to have never lived. It references the Prophet's teaching that those who face hardships, such as martyrs (Shaheed), would actually desire to return to the world to experience the rewards of their sacrifices, despite the pain.

How does the script connect the concept of regret to martyrdom?

The script highlights that martyrs, particularly those who die in the way of Allah, would not regret their sacrifice but would instead wish to return to the world to be martyred again due to the immense rewards and blessings they experience in the afterlife.

What is the significance of the dua of Ataa as-Salimi mentioned in the script?

Ataa as-Salimi's dua expresses his profound sense of sorrow and his desire for mercy from Allah for his estrangement in the world, his death, and his standing before Allah. The dua reflects the emotional and spiritual struggles that a believer faces in this life.

What does Ibn al-Qayyim say about striving for higher spiritual ranks?

Ibn al-Qayyim, in his book 'Kitab ar-Ruh', shares a dream where he encounters his teacher Ibn Taymiyyah, who indicates that even those with high spiritual ranks still felt they could have done more. This emphasizes the need for continuous striving toward higher spiritual achievements and ranks in the afterlife.

How does the script portray the regret of the disbeliever at death?

The disbeliever, upon death, regrets not having accepted faith and wishes they could return to the world to embrace Islam, repent, and live a better life. This sentiment reflects the eternal remorse of those who did not fulfill their spiritual duties during their lifetime.

What is the script's message about missed opportunities and worldly regrets?

The script emphasizes that no one in the Barzakh (the realm between death and resurrection) regrets missed worldly opportunities, such as not acquiring a particular job, house, or relationship. Instead, they regret the moments they failed to spend for Allah, the sins they didn't repent from, and the good deeds they neglected.

What does the verse 'La'alleee a'malu saalihan, feemaa tarakt' refer to in the script?

The phrase, which translates to 'If only I could return and do more good,' reflects the regret of individuals at the time of death. They wish for another chance to perform righteous deeds they neglected while they were alive.

How does the script address the concept of mercy and forgiveness in the face of regret?

The script concludes by reminding the audience that despite all the regret and shortcomings, the ultimate hope lies in Allah's mercy and forgiveness. The believer must rely on Allah's grace to overcome their sins and shortcomings, trusting that Allah’s mercy encompasses everything.