Pengetuk Hati: "Ghibah Saat Berpuasa" - Dr. Rubiyanah, M. A.

Summary

This video emphasizes the true essence of fasting during Ramadan, beyond merely abstaining from food and drink. It highlights the importance of self-restraint from actions that can nullify the fast, such as gossiping (ghibah), which is forbidden in Islam. The speaker encourages focusing on beneficial activities during fasting, such as reading the Qur'an, engaging in charity, and refraining from harmful behaviors. The message calls for a deeper understanding of fasting as an opportunity for spiritual growth and a path to immense rewards from Allah.

Takeaways

• 😀 Fasting is not just about abstaining from food and drink, but also about refraining from actions that invalidate the fast.
• 😀 Fasting's purpose is to avoid all actions that can break the fast, starting from dawn to sunset.
• 😀 Common actions during fasting may unknowingly cancel out the rewards of the fast.
• 😀 Backbiting (gibah) is a major sin in Islam and can invalidate the rewards of fasting.
• 😀 Allah strongly forbids backbiting, as it is equated with eating the flesh of a dead brother.
• 😀 The Qur'an warns against backbiting in Surah Al-Hujurat (49:12), calling it a severe wrongdoing.
• 😀 The analogy of eating the flesh of a dead person highlights the harmful nature of backbiting.
• 😀 Despite its prohibition, many people continue to indulge in backbiting, unaware of its consequences on their fasting.
• 😀 True fasting should be focused on beneficial acts like reciting the Qur'an, giving charity, and doing good deeds.
• 😀 The goal of fasting is to earn immense rewards by avoiding sinful actions and refraining from backbiting, ensuring that the fast is spiritually meaningful.

Q & A

What is the true meaning of fasting in Islam?

The true meaning of fasting in Islam is not just about abstaining from food and drink during the day, but it is about controlling oneself from all actions that invalidate the fast, from dawn until sunset.

What is the common misconception about fasting?

A common misconception about fasting is that it is only about refraining from food and drink, while the actual purpose is to refrain from all actions that can invalidate the fast.

Why is gossip (ghibah) considered a harmful act during fasting?

Gossip, or ghibah, is considered harmful during fasting because it is an act that can nullify the reward of fasting. Even if one refrains from food and drink, engaging in ghibah can lead to losing the spiritual benefits of the fast.

What does the Quran say about gossip (ghibah)?

The Quran condemns gossip and compares it to eating the flesh of a dead brother, highlighting how repulsive it is. This is stated in Surah Al-Hujurat, verse 12, where Allah warns believers to avoid such behavior.

What comparison does Allah use to describe the act of gossip in the Quran?

Allah compares the act of gossip (ghibah) to the act of eating the flesh of a dead brother. This analogy emphasizes how unpleasant and harmful gossip is in the eyes of Allah.

What are some recommended acts to enhance the value of fasting?

To enhance the value of fasting, it is recommended to engage in beneficial activities such as reading the Quran (tadarus), making dhikr (remembrance of Allah), giving charity (sadaqah), and performing good deeds that benefit the community.

Why is it important to focus on positive activities during Ramadan?

Focusing on positive activities during Ramadan helps to not only preserve the spiritual benefits of fasting but also to gain greater rewards and avoid actions that could negate the fast's purpose.

How can someone ensure they are fasting with the correct intention?

To fast with the correct intention, a person must strive to avoid any actions that would invalidate the fast, such as gossip, backbiting, and engaging in sinful behavior. Fasting should be done with the purpose of gaining closeness to Allah.

What does the phrase 'the reward of fasting is great' mean?

The phrase 'the reward of fasting is great' means that fasting, when observed correctly, leads to immense spiritual rewards, including forgiveness, mercy from Allah, and the purification of one’s soul.

What should people focus on to make their fasts more meaningful?

People should focus on refraining from harmful actions like gossip, while also filling their time with acts of worship, charity, and beneficial deeds. This will make their fasts more meaningful and spiritually enriching.