When to Let Go: Recognizing When a Relationship Is Truly Over
Summary
TLDRThis video script delves into the complexities of relationship breakups and the decision to let go. It emphasizes the importance of assessing the relationship rationally, considering factors like communication, emotional connection, trust, and shared goals. The speaker advises against idealizing past relationships and offers a free quiz to help viewers determine the feasibility of reconciliation. The script encourages self-reflection, personal growth, and understanding that not all relationships can or should be repaired, advocating for moving forward with clarity and emotional health.
Takeaways
- 💔 Relationships often end permanently, and many breakups are definitive despite efforts to reconcile.
- 🤝 Communication is crucial in a relationship, and lack of effective communication is a primary cause of breakups.
- 🧠 Emotional investment can cloud judgment, making it difficult to assess a relationship rationally.
- 📊 Most breakups result from a combination of poor communication, loss of emotional connection, and eventual infidelity.
- 🔄 Regaining trust and rebuilding a relationship is a gradual process that requires consistent effort over time.
- 🎯 It's essential to clearly understand what you want in a relationship rather than focusing solely on getting back with an ex.
- 👥 Assessing whether both partners are willing to work on repairing the relationship is vital for recovery.
- 🌱 Growth mindset and openness to change are important for overcoming challenges in a relationship.
- 💬 Healthy boundaries and mutual respect are fundamental to a resilient relationship.
- 🔍 Reflecting on the relationship's past and understanding personal and partner's needs is necessary for moving forward, whether together or separately.
Q & A
What is the main purpose of the video?
-The main purpose of the video is to discuss signs that indicate a relationship cannot be recovered and to provide guidance on when it's time to let go and move on.
Why do people often struggle to assess their relationship situation after a breakup?
-People struggle to assess their relationship situation after a breakup because they often do so from an emotional point of view, which can paint a different reality due to the pain and anxiety they are experiencing.
What is the importance of the free quiz mentioned in the video?
-The free quiz is designed to help individuals assess whether they have any chance of getting back with their ex and to rule out cases where there are no options for reconciliation.
What is the first sign of a difficult-to-recover relationship mentioned in the video?
-The first sign is a lack of communication, which is often the root cause of breakups as many people do not communicate properly.
Why is assessing the potential for recovery in a relationship important?
-Assessing the potential for recovery is important because it helps to determine whether both parties are willing to come together and work on repairing the relationship, which is essential for reconciliation.
What does the video suggest as the most important question to ask oneself when considering getting back with an ex?
-The most important question to ask is 'What do you want in terms of a relationship?' focusing on the ideal relationship and how close the current situation is to that ideal.
How does the video address the issue of emotional connection in a relationship?
-The video discusses the difficulty of repairing emotional connection after years of resentment and lack of intimacy, and the importance of assessing whether both partners were emotionally connected before the breakup.
What is the significance of trust in the context of relationship recovery?
-Trust is significant because if it has been broken, it needs to be repaired through consistent actions that demonstrate reliability and change, which is a process that takes time.
Why is having different life goals a challenging obstacle in relationship recovery?
-Different life goals can be challenging because they indicate that one or both partners have changed and have new aspirations and desires that may not include the other, making it difficult to envision a shared future.
What role does conflict play in determining the recoverability of a relationship?
-Conflict is important to assess because if there is a history of unresolved conflicts or a pattern of repeating arguments without resolution, it can indicate that the relationship may be unrecoverable.
How does the video suggest people reflect on their relationship after a breakup?
-The video suggests using reflection and self-assessment, possibly with the help of a journal or feedback from friends and family, to understand the dynamics of the relationship and personal growth opportunities.
What is the final piece of advice given in the video regarding getting back with an ex?
-The final advice is to focus on personal growth and presenting oneself in the best possible way, rather than begging or proving love, as it's the demonstration of change and a better dynamic that can convince an ex to consider reconciliation.
Outlines
🔍 Assessing the Possibility of Relationship Recovery
The speaker emphasizes the importance of recognizing when efforts to repair a relationship are futile. They discuss the emotional difficulty of breakups and the tendency to idealize past relationships. The video aims to provide rational analysis tools to determine if a relationship can be salvaged, suggesting that most breakups are definitive. The speaker introduces a free quiz to assess the chances of rekindling a relationship and cautions that a high score doesn't guarantee success, but helps to eliminate impossible cases and encourages moving on.
🤝 Importance of Communication and Mutual Effort
This paragraph focuses on the necessity of communication and mutual willingness to reconcile in the recovery of a relationship. It highlights the difficulty of reestablishing a connection with someone unwilling to meet halfway. The speaker stresses the importance of understanding one's desires for an ideal relationship and assessing emotional connection and support within the relationship, especially considering different attachment styles and the potential for change.
🔄 Dealing with Trust Issues and Life Goals Divergence
The speaker addresses the complexities of regaining trust and aligning life goals as critical factors in relationship recovery. They discuss the challenges of repairing trust after betrayal and the difficulty of reconciling when partners have divergent aspirations for their lives. The importance of recognizing and respecting these differences is emphasized, as well as the potential need for personal growth and adaptation to new circumstances.
🚫 Conflict Resolution and the Significance of Boundaries
The paragraph delves into the role of conflict in relationship breakdowns, the importance of resolving repetitive arguments, and respecting boundaries. It suggests that a lack of conflict can be a red flag for poor communication. The speaker advises assessing whether both partners are willing to work through disagreements and whether they respect each other's boundaries, which is crucial for a relationship's resilience.
🌱 Growth Mindset and Personal Development
The speaker discusses the importance of personal growth and a growth mindset in relationships, contrasting it with a fixed mindset that resists change. They suggest that assessing whether both partners are open to growth and change is vital for relationship recovery. The paragraph also touches on respecting boundaries and the speaker's approach to helping clients realistically assess their situations.
💔 Reflection and Moving Forward Post-Breakup
In this paragraph, the speaker encourages individuals to reflect on their past relationship and personal growth post-breakup. They advise against immediate contact with an ex and instead recommend self-reflection, journaling, and seeking external perspectives to gain insight into the relationship's dynamics. The speaker stresses the importance of emotional regulation and presenting oneself in the best possible light during potential future interactions with an ex.
❓ Seeking Clarity and Embracing Uncertainty
The final paragraph invites viewers to ask questions and reflects on the uncertainty inherent in dealing with human relationships. The speaker acknowledges the complexity of their role in helping clients navigate the process of possibly rekindling a relationship, emphasizing the lack of a guaranteed outcome and the importance of embracing the unpredictable nature of personal connections.
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Keywords
💡Let go
💡Dynamic of relationships
💡Emotional investment
💡Communication
💡Emotional connection
💡Trust
💡Life goals
💡Conflict
💡Growth mindset
💡Boundaries
💡Personal growth
Highlights
The importance of understanding when to let go in a relationship that cannot be recovered.
The common mistake of idealizing a past relationship and the need to recognize its flaws.
Statistical insights on the likelihood of most relationships not working out.
The emotional bias in assessing post-breakup situations and the need for rational analysis.
The introduction of a free quiz to assess the possibility of rekindling a relationship.
The reality that sometimes it's impossible to repair a relationship due to irreparable dynamics.
The first sign of a difficult recovery: lack of communication and its implications.
The necessity of open and honest communication for relationship recovery.
The importance of understanding what you truly want in a relationship beyond just getting an ex back.
Assessing the emotional connection in a relationship and its difficulty to repair.
The role of trust in relationships and the process of regaining it after a breach.
The impact of different life goals on a relationship and the challenges it presents.
The significance of conflict in a relationship and its potential to indicate a need for a breakup.
The role of personal growth and stagnation in the health of a relationship.
The importance of respecting boundaries and needs in a relationship for resilience.
A therapist's approach to helping clients realistically assess their chances of getting back together.
The advice against expressing desperate love to an ex as a means to reconcile.
The reminder that personal growth and change are more persuasive than pleading in a breakup recovery.
The final advice on using breakups as opportunities for self-reflection and growth.
Transcripts
when should you finally let go when
should you finally figure out all the
efforts that you're making all the
energy that you're
wasting will not lead you
anywhere in this video I'm going to
share with you some
signs the dynamic of relationships that
cannot be recovered and sometimes it
happens sometimes it's impossible to get
back with the next regardless of who you
working with whether it's myself or
anyone else
and the thing that I hate the most is
for people to waste their time waste
months or years of their life trying to
repair trying to get back with someone
who a doesn't deserve them and prevents
them from moving forward so this video
is very important watch it if you're not
sure whether you want to get back
whether you have any possibilities of
getting back with your ex jingle I get
myx
back.com everyone deserves a second
chance
so you have to understand that sometimes
we cling to a magnified idea of a
relationship we idealize our partner we
put that person on a pedestal we fail to
recognize that in a way that
relationship was not necessarily Al good
for us right what you have to understand
is statistically most breakups are
definitive right statistically if you've
been in this relationship maybe for a
few years you've had other relationships
before right so statistically most
relationships uh won't work
out the problem that you have when you
are going through a difficult breakup is
that the way you assess the situation is
more from an emotional point of
view the pain the
anxiety sort of paints another
reality my job in this video is to show
you how you can analyze
rationally setting the emotions on the
side your
situation very often when people come to
see me and we have a first assessment
together I can see the situation more
clearly than they can because there's an
attachment because there's an emotional
investment there's this idea of um s
cust uh Sun cust sorry they invested so
much in this relationship they had uh
this this sort of loss um that they feel
that creates a sense of I need this
person again to feel better but that
prevents you from seeing things clearly
if you're confused and want also another
way to assess the situation there's a
free quiz in the description where you
can assess whether you can have any
chance of getting back with your
X quick caveat if you have a high score
that doesn't mean you will get back with
your X for share nobody can guarantee
that now the way it's design is that and
the way I ask my clients to take the
quiz is because it's going to rule
out all the cases where you actually
have no option and then to move on I
think it's my responsibility to you know
be up front it's not being pessimistic
but be clear that sometimes it's just
impossible because what you had is not
enough what the dynamic the way you guys
broke
up is something you can't repair and it
happens it's hard it sucks but that
happens and you have to face that
reality and the faster the quicker you
realize that the faster you can move on
and you can move forward and that's the
only thing that I wish you for um it's
not necessary to get back with your X
but it's to see clearly to be able to
move forward so in this video take some
notes there are few prompts and
questions I want you to use this video
take a notepad and spend some time today
to answer those question so the first
sign thing that will indicate it's going
to be very hard for you guys to get back
together is lack of communication this
is the first cause of breakup and I
think it's because we tend to put
everything thing with
miscommunication the thing is most
people don't communicate properly so
basing your analysis on the fact that
you didn't communicate properly is not
enough what is very important is how you
would repair so the thing is you're not
perfect your partner your ex is not
perfect I'm not perfect nobody's perfect
what matters is what can we do to repair
when we make a mistake right especially
in the context of a loving relationship
when we love that person when you want
to invest with this person when we make
a mistake when we screw up what are we
doing to repair what are we doing to
make amends um also assess whether you
were able to communicate openly and
honestly this is very important because
that will indicate whether you were
truly
yourself for instance if you had this
sort of people pleasing attitude where
you felt you were doing things that you
didn't didn't necessarily enjoy the
question is you know do you really want
to be in that kind of relationship so
it's really assessing a the potential of
the
recovery and it's going to be very hard
to get back with someone who is not
willing to come your way because it's it
takes two to get back together it takes
two to start a relationship it also
takes two to repair and recover from a
breakup and the second part B is really
about what do you want it's very
important it's probably the most
important question you need to ask
yourself right now is what do you want
and the answer is not I want my ex back
no the answer is what do you want in
terms of a relationship ideal
relationship and try to tend to be
closer to this ideal now what about
emotional connection so the way I design
this presentation is really looking at
different angles to have a big accurate
picture of your relationship it's very
important to look at the different
angles sometimes we only focus on one
side of this sort of of object it's very
important to turn around and look at
different angles so emotional connection
which is obviously the hardest one to
repair I have historically a hard time
helping people with that because what
happens is that after years of
resentment after years of you know lack
of intimacy lack of sex lack of
connection you create a new Baseline
with your partner and what happens is
that partner at some stage feels like
I don't want this life anymore so the
question is not figuring out who's
responsible for the dynamic because I
think it always takes two it's kind of a
chicken andg
situation really assess whether you
haven't had so too many years in this
kind of um roommate syndromes um so
assess
whether you know six months before the
breakup you did enjoy spending time
together assess whether you felt
emotionally connected so if you were for
instance dating an avoidant it's also
important to assess whether this person
was willing to open up so obviously an
avoidant person like
myself we have a hard time opening up
however it doesn't mean that we don't
want to open up or that we don't aim to
be closely connected to our partner it's
just that it's harder for us so it's
about how you can judge depending on
their attachment style what they were
willing to give you what you have to
assess is more of the the motivation not
necessarily the result so look at those
things and the important element as well
is how you would support each other
again because we make mistakes because
we're not perfect what you have to
assess is not what people have done
necessarily but how they repaired how
they show that they could support you
whether they dismissed you or whether
they were like okay let me help you out
it's very important but again in the
context of relationship
recovery the ability for your ex to have
this sort of mindset of how can we
repair how can we change things
is super important so loss of trust this
one is very tricky because it really
depends on people some people will never
forgive something that has been done to
them some people would you know you're X
better than me um assess whether you've
done something to break their trust and
ass say whether there's something you
can do to repair that's it and then it's
really down to them historically I don't
have a lot of people in that situation
people who cheated on their partner Etc
um maybe because they don't want their X
back afterwards or I don't know uh I
don't make I don't want to make any
conclusions uh to to that because um I
think it's quite frequent for people to
I think if you look at the US statistics
cheating is the number the third reason
people divorce but I think cheating
comes after that lack of emotional
connection and after uh lack of
communication in terms of um sort of if
we draw timeline you communicate badly
with with your partner you lose
emotional connection and then you cheat
uh and then people break up because
they're um one of them cheated on on the
other but it comes after the whole
process so lost of trust again can you
repair it is there something you can do
and about how can you show it and
demonstrate that to your partner and
obviously regaining trust is a process
and I've mentioned that to a client the
other day getting back with an next is
also in a way the same process
don't expect that okay I've made am M
I've changed those things I broke up
with my mistress or whatever um or I'm
going through therapy I'm trying to be a
better person etc
etc they need your ex will need to be
convinced and when the way to convince
someone is not just to tell them and
seeing them once it's really about the
con the the um sort of being consistent
in your approach in how you can show
them okay I'm a new person every time
you'll see me you'll see that new person
and it takes a bit of time so understand
that regaining trust getting back with
an ex is a process it takes several
weeks of regular slow progress to bring
your partner to a level of confidence so
usually when I help my clients getting
back with the X their exes are more you
know okay I still have feelings for them
but I'm not sure I'm like 20% sure
whether I want to get back together the
job is to bring them to a level of
certainty of confidence above 50% 60 70%
and you don't do it in one date you
don't do it in one text so people think
like okay I'm going to send this letter
and they fall back again it doesn't work
like this they need to be convinced they
need to be brought on that journey and
that's your job is to bring them on that
Journey another very difficult ult thing
to repair is different life goals so
this happens um sometimes when you have
a long relationship 10 15 20 years maybe
um the kids um are leaving the house and
you don't know what to do anymore you
new career you have to travel life
crisis midlife crisis or any sort of
life crisis where one
feels I have a new set of desires needs
I want to have another life right and
for some reason they feel that this life
that they had with you and you in that
sense is kind of a a collateral damage
of this realization if you I don't want
this life I want a new life right and
you're not part of that Vision so the
only thing to do is perhaps let them
experience a little bit this new life
right make let them make a bit of
mistakes um and see whether you can
adjust in this new life maybe it's about
you know they want to change jobs and
they want to travel the world so is that
something you can do is that something
you can discuss um also assess whether
it's something you want because the same
way they've changed and they had um they
have new aspirations new needs and
desires what about you maybe you know if
you have if you have um you know
children and they they left the house
maybe you also want to do something
different so it's an opportunity for you
to assess this and realize what you want
conflict is also something you need to
to assess when you look at the history
of a relationship and whether a
relationship can be
recovered either you had too many
conflict and that create a precedent of
like okay we need to break up because
it's unbearable and it seems that every
time we have the conflict on the same
topic usually people fight for the same
same reason again and again and again
without any resolution so it feels like
there's no other option you know I've
wasted one year two years expressing
those concerns but it's still feels like
maybe we don't fight for a month or two
and then again same argument on the same
thing the kids education you're working
hard maybe there's a addiction problem
and again and again but it's it feels
like it's a repeating patterns and I
don't want this I'm done with that so
that's something you need to address
also if you have had if you've never had
any conflict for me it's a red flag it's
important to disagree it's important
important to work things out if you if
in your relationship you feel like we
never thought to me that's a sign that
it's something wrong because that's a
sign of lack of
communication so you need to assess if
your partner is willing to discuss again
it takes to and it's a question of
timing this video is not about the how
to or the the process on how to get back
with the next is just to really assess
the relationship um if you want to know
how to get back with the and the process
they have made other videos on that on
that subject and if you're not sure
there's a link to book a 50 minute call
with me and I'll uh explain in detail
based on your situation because
obviously every situation is unique it's
it's funny because everyone who calls me
tell me like you'll see this situation
is
unique and I was like yeah you always
tell me this and it's actually true
every situation is unique so I know
there's a bit of limitation when I make
those videos
because I'm trying to speak to everyone
but obviously there are always detail
and things that are really really
tailored or unique to your situation um
another element about conflict is
whether your ex is able to forgive and
move forward after argument some people
they you know I've done that you've said
this and there's no other way around and
I'm not going to change my mind it's
very hard I can't change your ex's
character right the only thing that you
could do the only thing that we could do
is work on yourself address the things
that need to be
addressed um Market in a way this new
personality this new person it's not new
personality this new person this new
life um and present yourself the way in
a
way you were when you met each other
because the thing is it's way easier for
me to help people get back with the ex
than coaching people on how to date
random people what you have is something
you should leverage and this is why it's
important to assess what you had maybe
the relationship itself was not as
qualitative was not as meaningful as you
thought when you answer those questions
it's very important to assess this
because again I don't want you to waste
your time another element is growth
stagnation it's very important in our
life to to feel a sense of growth to
feel that we evolve there's nothing
worse than stagnation um see your
relationship a little bit like a lake if
the water is St stagnate the water would
be like little gross if you have like
fresh water coming in that doesn't mean
the image maybe wrong let me know in the
comment section that doesn't mean you
should include other partners in your
relationship because I see like the
river coming into the lake anyway it's
more about like bringing novelty and
bringing growth in this relationship um
and what you have to assess and I've
done a real the other day which was very
popular the idea of fixed and growth
mindset so fixed mindset people who have
a fixed mindset they tend to feel we
have a set of capabilities things are
like this leopards never change their
dots and therefore when we have a
problem the only option is to leave that
situation with a growth mindset it's
more about like when we have a challenge
regardless of the challenge there are
always ways to work on things because
there are always ways for us to progress
to make it better and again it's not
something you can necessarily change if
your partner is 40 50 60 years old and
he has had a fixed mindset it's going to
be very hard for you to make them switch
to a growth mindset so maybe send them
the Ted talk about uh growth mindset
from Carol D which is one of the most
viewed tedex uh and I need to remind
myself to put a link if you interested
in watching this STC really interesting
uh growth mindset and fixed mindset it's
something that she developed and now
it's an ential field of of study um
growth stagnation so now boundaries and
needs obviously it's very important how
to express respect boundaries when you
have healthy boundaries in your
relationship you create the right
foundation you make it more resilient
basically and so assess whether your
boundaries were respected whether you
also respected your uh ex's boundaries
something that I say in the quiz for
example because it's very important if
you kept on disrespecting their
boundaries on crossing their boundaries
it's going to be very hard to get back
together because they will always have
this idea of like if we get back
together things will always be the same
you never listened you always you know
did things your way so why would that
change now so it's very important to
assess those things so my Approach and
this is my Approach My Method U maybe
you'll see other sort of approach online
but my Approach is to really be real um
when I have people on the phone for the
50 minute calls sometimes I tell them
like you you're wasting your time you
know looking at the whole dynamic the
whole history you're wasting your time
and I don't want people to waste their
time or I don't want to sell a dream of
like yes if you follow my plan and my
90day plans and you book this package or
whatever you're going to get back
together that doesn't work like this so
what is very important for you is to
reflect and spend that time very often
people like okay yeah sure sure reflect
and then they go on Instagram and they
look at their Partners the ex story and
they're sort of Obsessed about whether
they going to have a chance of getting
back together etc etc use that time for
reflection on your own be like a kind of
a monk for a few weeks really looking at
those things and understand it's not
about how you feel because the pain the
anxiety this is because of the breakup
but that's not because of the
relationship these are two separate
things it's about you need to assess how
fulfilled you were in this
relationship so rather than focusing on
the loss focus on what you had and in a
way very simple exercise visualizing
exercise is to look
at rate your
relationship six months before the
breakup three months before the breakup
what were the things that you would want
to change in this relationship if it's
if you can't answer those questions and
it's hard for you to see like okay no
there there were that was fine it's
going to be very easy for you to get
back together because your ex will
believe the same right maybe they left
out of impulse or feeling that's it's
not working out maybe they have a fear
of commitment but if you can't find any
flows any sort of conflict or any sort
of disagreement or thing that are
structural in the relationship sooner or
later your partner will realize like I
kind of made a mistakes um made a
mistake um and in that sense I think
breakups can be a source of growth um
very often and historically personally
as well when you break up with someone
it's the opportunity to reflect on what
you want again I'm going to say that
many times but it's super
important when you're with someone
sometimes you and that's the same with
your partner
in a way for
you when you're the one when you're the
dumpy I don't like this term but when
you're the
dumpy there's an element of putting that
person on pedestal right because of the
loss because they took the decision for
you my job is to help you recalibrate
how to assess
things and from your exess point of view
the
dumper it's kind of the other way around
they feel that they're winning they feel
they they better than you they feel that
life will be better than you and they
need to recalibrate to feeling like ah
actually now I realize what I've lost so
it's like making this thing the problem
is that going from um my partner pestal
to here that means like healing that
means like emotional regulation that
means like feeling less anxious working
on being more secure okay and that's a
bit painful
and that's why you know um as a
therapist I can I help people in that
phase not only looking at assessing
those things but helping with the
emotional regulation as
well if this relationship was important
you will hear from your ex so I think a
lot of people they tell me that oh yeah
should I break break no contact should I
if your relationship was
meaningful of course your ex will you'll
get news or opportunities to hear from
them whether it's for you to break no
contact whether it's from them it
depends but you will have an opportunity
don't worry about that don't worry about
like I need to contact them right now
the question is is to find answers
yourself because right now it's not
about the answers you get from them
because you won't get those answers
right now right it's really understand
you know take some time keep a journal
answer those questions maybe ask your
friends ask your family ask people who
knew um your ex and and saw you in that
relationship and ask them how did you
feel about our relationship very often
we fail to recognize some blind spots um
and some people see things that we we
don't
necessarily when you'll be in touched if
you do the work if you do this uh
assessment properly you'll be more
equipped right because you'll have way
more insight and again in terms of the
emotional regulation you'll be able
to present yourself in the best possible
way in the sort of solution oriented way
rather than I want to get you back at
all cost please take me back I beg you
I'm nothing without you no no no it's
going to be like okay we had this
challenge we had those things that we
need to work out together and this is my
plan in a way okay it's way way more
efficient than like I need to get my I
need to get you I'm nothing with you I
love you so much um it's not in the
script but that reminds me your ex
won't get back with you if you tell them
that you love them okay they know it
already and it's not by proving your
love that they will change their mind
it's really not about that what will
change their mind is that they if they
see that another relationship can be can
be possible whether the dynamic whether
the thing that we're not working has
been removed and so there's an element
of your personal growth and there's an
element and this is a thing we can't
control of them accepting that there's
an alternative and that you can't
control and that's why it's very
important for you to understand
that it's impossible to have a you know
100% success rate when it comes to
getting back with the next and I never
never ever ever promise anyone you'll
get back together I'm always super
cautious I have a feeling whether you're
in the right direction I have the
feeling I can sense especially when we
are in touch on WhatsApp with a tone of
the message that is going in the right
direction and the person is starting to
open up to the idea etc etc but there's
always an element of uncertainty when it
comes to dealing with people that what
makes my job so fascinating if you have
any question don't hesitate to shoot
them on the comment section and I'll see
you next time byebye
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