Your Loved Ones Never Left You | Barzakh | Other Side Ep.23 | Dr. Omar Suleiman | Ramadan Series

Summary

This video highlights the enduring connection between the living and the deceased in Islam. It emphasizes that death does not sever the bond with our loved ones, as prayers, charity, and good deeds continue to reach them. The Prophet SallAllahu 'Alaihi Wasallam's teachings reveal that the deceased recognize one another and benefit from the prayers and actions of the living. Through acts like charity and du'a, we can comfort those who have passed, ensuring they remain supported and loved even in the afterlife. Ultimately, the script inspires hope and reassurance, reminding viewers of the spiritual connection that transcends death.

Takeaways

• 😀 Losing a loved one may feel final, but the bond isn't truly severed, and there are ways to stay connected beyond this world.
• 😀 In the time of the Prophet SallAllahu 'Alaihi Wasallam, there was a connection between the living and the deceased, as shown through the story of Bishr ibn al-Bara'.
• 😀 The Prophet SallAllahu 'Alaihi Wasallam said the deceased recognize one another, much like birds on a branch, and this connection persists.
• 😀 A mother's love for her deceased son leads her to ask the Prophet SallAllahu 'Alaihi Wasallam if she could send greetings to him, and the Prophet confirms that this is possible.
• 😀 You can still connect with your deceased loved ones by sending them salaams through others who have passed, and they will recognize these gestures.
• 😀 The deceased still celebrate your accomplishments, especially when they are related to your faith and good deeds.
• 😀 The souls of deceased believers inquire about the living, showing that there is ongoing awareness of events such as marriages.
• 😀 Visiting the graves of loved ones, praying for them, and offering deeds on their behalf can bring comfort and joy to them in the Barzakh (the intermediate realm).
• 😀 Du’a and charity on behalf of the deceased are powerful acts that help them even after they have passed. These deeds can be a form of giving life to their grave.
• 😀 The Prophet SallAllahu 'Alaihi Wasallam affirmed that you can perform acts of charity on behalf of your loved ones, whether they are parents or others, to benefit them in the hereafter.
• 😀 Your relationship with the deceased continues through du’as, charity, and remembering them, creating a bridge that transcends death and strengthens the connection for future reunions in the afterlife.

Q & A

What message does the speaker convey about the connection between the living and the deceased?

The speaker emphasizes that the bond with loved ones who have passed away is not severed by death. There is still a connection, and through prayers and deeds, the living can continue to support the deceased in their journey.

What example does the speaker give from the time of the Prophet SallAllahu 'Alaihi Wasallam?

The speaker mentions the story of Bishr ibn al-Bara', a young man from Banu Salama who passed away. His mother asked the Prophet SallAllahu 'Alaihi Wasallam if she could send greetings to her son through those who passed from their tribe, and the Prophet confirmed that the deceased know one another and that greetings can be passed.

What did the Prophet SallAllahu 'Alaihi Wasallam say about the deceased recognizing one another?

The Prophet SallAllahu 'Alaihi Wasallam said that the deceased know one another 'like birds upon a branch,' meaning that there is recognition and a continued connection between them even after death.

How does Umm Bishr demonstrate her continued connection to her son after his death?

Umm Bishr would send her greetings, 'Iqra a'alaa bishrin as salaam,' to her son whenever another person from Banu Salama passed away, showing her deep, ongoing connection to him after his death.

What did Abu Ayyub RadiAllahu ta'ala Anhu say about the deceased after they pass away?

Abu Ayyub RadiAllahu ta'ala Anhu said that when a believer’s soul is taken, other believers rush to ask about the well-being of those who are still alive, showing their continued concern and interest in the lives of those left behind.

What does the speaker suggest about the impact of deeds and prayers for deceased loved ones?

The speaker suggests that the deeds and prayers (du'as) for deceased loved ones are far more beneficial than any material gifts. These actions can bring comfort to the deceased and improve their condition in the afterlife.

What example does the speaker provide about the power of visiting a grave?

The speaker tells the story of Al-Fadl ibn Muwaffaq, who dreamt of his deceased father and was told by him that he knew when his son visited his grave. This highlights how the deceased can feel comforted by the living’s presence and prayers.

What advice is given regarding giving charity for deceased family members?

The Prophet SallAllahu 'Alaihi Wasallam approved of giving charity on behalf of deceased loved ones. A story is shared where a man asks the Prophet if he could give charity for his mother, believing she would do so if she were alive, and the Prophet affirmed that it was a righteous act.

What is the significance of the du'a for the deceased that includes replacing their home, family, and spouse?

The du'a for the deceased asks for a better home, family, and spouse in the afterlife. Scholars have interpreted this as a request for a peaceful and joyful afterlife, free from any unresolved conflicts or tensions that may have existed in the dunya.

How does the speaker explain the idea of a 'family reunion' in the Barzakh (the grave)?

The speaker explains that the family reunion in the Barzakh could refer to the deceased being surrounded by righteous companions and loved ones in a place free from worldly conflicts. It signifies a gathering with a supportive, peaceful community in the afterlife.