You Won't Believe the Shocking Truth About Philippine Relationships

Summary

In this candid conversation, Gio opens up about his amicable separation and future plans, including moving to a new location in the Philippines and reconnecting with his sons in the U.S. He discusses the complexities of divorce laws in the Philippines, the cultural resilience of Filipinos, and his desire for a more independent lifestyle. Gio reflects on his journey in content creation, acknowledging the support he’s received from friends like the speaker. The video highlights personal growth, changes, and the positive impact of Filipino culture, offering valuable insights for viewers navigating similar transitions.

Takeaways

• 😀 Gio and the interviewer have known each other for a long time but haven't seen each other in years, rekindling their friendship.
• 😀 Gio discusses his amicable separation from his partner, highlighting that while they are no longer together, they still maintain a positive relationship.
• 😀 Gio is in the process of moving, considering four possible locations for his new home, including Deva in Cebu, Mton New Town, Bohol, and Iloilo.
• 😀 Divorce is common in the Philippines, but the legal system makes it difficult for many people to get divorced due to high costs and legal hurdles.
• 😀 In the Philippines, foreign nationals can get divorced, but the recognition of foreign divorces requires paperwork and can take some time to process.
• 😀 Gio explains that while his separation is amicable, he is moving away from the area to avoid potential discomfort from seeing his ex-partner with someone else.
• 😀 Gio prefers condo living for the security and flexibility it offers, especially with his plan to travel more, including returning to the US frequently.
• 😀 Gio shares his experience of paying taxes and contributing to Social Security over 30 years of work, which helps him qualify for Social Security benefits.
• 😀 Gio acknowledges the kindness and support of Filipinos, recalling how people helped him when his car broke down in the mountains, without asking for anything in return.
• 😀 Looking forward, Gio plans to prioritize spending time with his children, with a focus on being in the US more to maintain their relationship, especially after reconnecting with them.
• 😀 Gio reflects on his life in the Philippines, appreciating the resilience and positivity of Filipinos even in the face of adversity, such as during a typhoon.
• 😀 Gio has decided that he is unlikely to marry again, preferring to focus on his sons and personal reflection for the time being.

Q & A

What led to Gio and his partner's decision to separate?

Gio and his partner decided to separate amicably after realizing that they were better off apart. They are not enemies and have maintained a respectful relationship despite the split.

Why does Gio want to move away from Dumaguete?

Gio wants to move to a new location for a fresh start and to live in a condo, as he feels more comfortable in condo living. Additionally, he plans to travel more, including trips back to the US, and prefers a secure, easy-to-manage living space.

What are the four possible locations Gio is considering for his move?

Gio is considering four locations: Deva in Cebu, Mactan New Town, Bohol, and Iloilo. He has previously liked these places, but the situation has changed since the pandemic.

What is the situation regarding divorce in the Philippines, according to Gio?

Divorce is not legally available in the Philippines, but many couples separate and live independently. Some foreigners live with Filipino partners who are technically still married but keep their relationship off the radar. Annulment is an option, but it can be expensive and difficult to qualify for.

What challenges do foreigners face when living with legally married Filipino partners?

Foreigners living with legally married Filipino partners face the risk of their relationships being exposed, especially if the ex-spouse is vindictive. However, as long as the relationship stays out of the public eye, there are typically no legal issues.

How does Gio feel about living in the same town as his ex-partner?

Gio feels that living in the same town as his ex-partner would be uncomfortable, especially if he saw her with someone else. This was a significant factor in his decision to move to a new place.

What motivates Gio to not immediately date after the separation?

Gio is focused on enjoying some solo time and reflecting on his life. He is not currently interested in dating and prefers to prioritize his personal growth and needs.

Does Gio plan to file for divorce, and what would that mean for his ex-partner?

Gio plans to file for divorce, but if he doesn’t provide his ex-partner with a copy of the divorce papers, she could remain legally married in the Philippines. However, she can file for recognition of a foreign divorce in the Philippine courts to become officially single.

What is Gio’s perspective on working in the US again for Social Security credits?

Gio has already worked for over 30 years and qualifies for Social Security benefits, so he doesn’t need to return to the US to work a 9-to-5 job just to earn credits. He continues to pay taxes and has invested in a 401k for future financial security.

What does Gio value most about his experience in the Philippines?

Gio values the Filipino people's resilience and positive attitude in the face of adversity. He recalls seeing people smiling and laughing during natural disasters, which has had a profound impact on him and continues to inspire him.