Communication Skills:Depression

Darrell Fitzgerald
28 Jan 201405:33

Summary

TLDRIn this emotional exchange, nurse Kathryn meets with Terry, who is struggling with life after a separation and loss of her children. Terry expresses a sense of hopelessness and hints at suicidal thoughts, though she denies a concrete plan. Kathryn, empathetic yet professional, promises to discuss medication options with Terry's doctor, emphasizing the importance of honesty and care for Terry's well-being.

Takeaways

  • 👋 Introduction: Kathryn introduces herself as Terry's nurse for the day and sets the ground rules for confidentiality regarding self-harm or harm to others.
  • 😔 Emotional State: Terry expresses a general sense of hopelessness and being 'done with everything', indicating a low mood.
  • 🏥 Hospital Admission: Terry was admitted to the hospital due to personal issues, not specified in the script.
  • 💔 Family Situation: Terry is separated from her husband, who has taken the children, leaving her feeling abandoned.
  • 🚫 Lack of Support: Terry feels that her family and friends do not care about her and that she has no one to turn to.
  • 🤔 Ambiguity: Terry is unsure about her future plans and what she will do after leaving the hospital.
  • 😢 Emotional Distress: Mentioning her children makes Terry sad, and she prefers not to talk about them.
  • 💊 Past Medication: Terry has been on medication for depression in the past, prescribed by her family doctor, but stopped because it didn't help.
  • 🚫 No Current Plan: Terry denies having a current plan to harm herself, but she has thought about it in a hypothetical sense.
  • 🤔 Reluctance to Share: Terry is hesitant to share her feelings and thoughts, possibly due to distrust or feeling misunderstood by the healthcare team.
  • 📝 Follow-up Plan: Kathryn intends to discuss the possibility of medication with Terry's doctor and emphasizes the importance of honesty in their communication.

Q & A

  • Who is the main character in the script?

    -The main character in the script is Kathryn, who is a nurse.

  • What is the initial purpose of Kathryn's conversation with Terry?

    -Kathryn's initial purpose is to assess Terry's mental health and to inform her about the confidentiality rules regarding self-harm or harm to others.

  • What does Terry express as the reason for her hospital visit?

    -Terry expresses that she feels everything has been going wrong in her life, and she doesn't want to be here anymore, indicating a sense of hopelessness and despair.

  • What personal crisis is Terry facing according to the script?

    -Terry is facing a personal crisis involving her separation from her husband and the loss of her children, which has left her feeling that there is nothing left for her.

  • How does Terry respond when asked if she has any intentions of hurting herself?

    -Terry indicates that she has thought about it, suggesting that sometimes it might be easier to just go to sleep and not wake up, but she has not attempted to hurt herself before.

  • What is Terry's attitude towards discussing her plans after leaving the hospital?

    -Terry is uncertain and does not have any specific plans. She feels that her family and friends may not care about her and she is unsure of who she can rely on.

  • How does Terry feel about the healthcare team's approach to her situation?

    -Terry feels frustrated and believes that the healthcare team does not genuinely care about her, as they keep asking her the same questions without seeming to offer any real help or understanding.

  • What does Terry reveal about her relationship with her family?

    -Terry reveals that her family does not care about her anymore and that they were the ones who put her in the hospital.

  • What is Terry's emotional state when discussing her children?

    -Terry is very emotional and sad when discussing her children. She expresses that she does not want to talk about them anymore because it makes her too sad.

  • What is the final outcome of the conversation regarding Terry's current plan to harm herself?

    -Kathryn concludes that Terry does not currently have a plan to harm herself, so she does not need to share this information with the healthcare team. However, she emphasizes the importance of honesty and the need for Terry to communicate if she develops such a plan.

Outlines

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🤔 Initial Assessment and Patient's Struggle

The first paragraph introduces a nurse named Kathryn who is beginning an assessment with a patient named Terry. Kathryn informs Terry of the confidentiality rules regarding self-harm and proceeds to inquire about the reasons for Terry's hospitalization. Terry expresses a general sense of hopelessness and dissatisfaction with life, mentioning a separation from their spouse and the loss of their children. Terry hints at suicidal ideation but denies having a concrete plan or a history of self-harm. The conversation also touches on Terry's lack of support from family and friends and their reluctance to discuss their children due to the emotional pain associated with the separation.

05:00

📝 Concluding the Session and Discussing Medication

In the second paragraph, Kathryn wraps up the session by informing Terry that she will discuss the possibility of medication with the doctor. She reiterates the importance of Terry communicating any plans of self-harm. Although Terry does not currently have a plan to harm themselves, the conversation highlights the ongoing assessment of Terry's mental state and the potential need for medication to address depression. The summary also notes the patient's past experience with medication, which they discontinued due to perceived lack of effectiveness.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Nurse

A nurse is a healthcare professional who provides care and support to patients. In the script, Kathryn introduces herself as Terry's nurse for the day, indicating her role in providing care and gathering information about Terry's mental state.

💡Self-harm

Self-harm refers to the act of intentionally causing physical harm to oneself. It is a serious concern in mental health and is a key topic in the script, as the nurse must inform Terry that any expression of self-harm intent must be reported to the healthcare team.

💡Depression

Depression is a mental health disorder characterized by persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and a lack of interest in activities. The script implies that Terry may be experiencing depression, as she expresses a lack of desire to continue with life and mentions a previous medication for it.

💡Separation

Separation, in the context of the script, refers to the end of a marital relationship. Terry's separation from her husband and him taking the kids is a significant event contributing to her emotional distress.

💡Intentions

Intentions here refer to Terry's thoughts or plans regarding self-harm. The nurse is trying to assess whether Terry has any current intentions to harm herself, which is crucial for her safety and the nurse's duty to report.

💡Support System

A support system consists of friends, family, or other individuals who provide emotional and practical support. In the script, Terry feels she lacks a support system, as she mentions her family doesn't care and she has no loved ones to rely on.

💡Medications

Medications in this context refer to drugs used to treat mental health conditions like depression. Terry mentions she was on some medication previously, indicating a history of treatment attempts.

💡Hospital

The hospital is the setting of the script where Terry is receiving care. It is a place where she is supposed to feel safe and receive help, but she expresses a lack of desire to be there.

💡Care Plan

A care plan is a strategy or set of actions designed to meet a patient's health needs. The nurse is trying to establish a care plan for Terry after her hospital stay, but Terry is uncertain and unresponsive to these efforts.

💡Emotional Distress

Emotional distress is a state of intense emotional suffering often associated with a significant life event or ongoing stress. Terry's statements about being 'done with everything' and not wanting to talk about her children reflect her emotional distress.

💡Honesty

Honesty is the quality of being truthful and open. The nurse emphasizes the importance of Terry being honest about her feelings and intentions, especially regarding self-harm, to ensure appropriate care and support.

Highlights

Nurse Kathryn introduces herself and explains the confidentiality policy regarding patient's self-harm statements.

Patient Terry expresses general dissatisfaction with life and hints at a lack of desire to continue living.

Terry is unsure about the meaning of not wanting to be 'here', indicating potential confusion or ambivalence.

Terry reveals personal crisis including separation from husband and loss of children, suggesting a deep emotional distress.

Nurse Kathryn probes for suicidal ideation, a critical aspect of mental health assessment.

Terry contemplates the idea of suicide but denies having a concrete plan, indicating a need for close monitoring.

Terry has not attempted self-harm in the past, which is an important factor in risk assessment.

Lack of a support system is highlighted as Terry feels abandoned by family and unsure about friends.

Terry's reluctance to discuss future plans post-hospitalization suggests a lack of hope or direction.

Nurse Kathryn emphasizes the importance of post-hospitalization planning for Terry's wellbeing.

Terry expresses frustration with repetitive questioning, indicating a possible sense of being misunderstood.

Terry's narrative about family dynamics and perceived rejection adds depth to her emotional state.

The mention of children and Terry's emotional response provides insight into a significant loss in her life.

Terry's denial to continue discussing her children indicates the topic's emotional intensity for her.

Nurse Kathryn's attempt to discuss medication options shows a proactive approach to Terry's treatment.

Terry's past experience with antidepressants and her perception of their ineffectiveness is noted.

The conversation concludes with Kathryn reassuring Terry about confidentiality regarding her current lack of a suicide plan.

Transcripts

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hi Terry hi my name is Kathryn and I'm

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going to be your nurse today

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okay I'm going to be talking with you

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for about five minutes and I have to

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inform you that if you express any

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interest in hurting yourself or anybody

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else that I have to share that with the

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other members of the healthcare team

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okay yeah sure okay you understand so

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tell me a little bit about what brought

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you into the hospital today no I just

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everything's been going wrong lately I

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just you know kind of done with it all I

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really don't want to be here anymore

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you say you don't want to be here

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anymore do you mean you don't want to be

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in the hospital anymore

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I don't know you figure out what it

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means no I want you to tell me Terry

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I'm just I'm done with everything when

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you say you're done with everything

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I'm just out you know what I'm sick of

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it all you know I mean my husband and I

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separated he took the kids there's

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nothing left for me anymore

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I'm just done so when you say you're

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done do you have any intentions of

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hurting yourself now thought about it

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maybe you've thought about when have you

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thought about it I don't know I mean it

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just seems like sometimes maybe it would

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just then just be easier let's go to

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sleep and not wake up have you ever

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tried to hurt yourself before no

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so tell me what your plans are when you

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get out of the hospital well I don't

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know I don't think I really have any

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plans are you going to go be with family

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my family doesn't care about me anymore

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if they only were the ones that put me

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here do you have a loved one or a friend

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loved ones no I don't know maybe I have

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some friends I guess I can try to call

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someone I don't know I'll figure it out

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well we need to figure out what's going

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to happen after you leave the hospital I

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don't think you really care either you

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just have to fill out your paperwork

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Terry I really do care and I need you to

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tell me can you look at me can you tell

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me tell you what what do you want to

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know I told you everything you guys keep

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asking me the same questions over and

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over just no one really cares so when

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you say that there's nothing left for

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you and your family is the one who put

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you in here tell me play-by-play what

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are the events that led up to this point

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it's the same stuff I've told everybody

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who keeps asking me you all know my

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husband left he took the kids and

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everyone just thinks I'm a problem be

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better off without me

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so tell me about your kids how old are

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they

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12 and 512 and boy boy girl boy and a

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girl okay and tell me do you like to do

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things with your kids you like to go

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play or go to the movie theater yeah oh

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my god do okay so is there anything do

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you want to go see your children after I

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don't really want to talk about my kids

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anymore

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I know I'm not going to be seeing him

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anymore okay so I just don't want to

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talk about them it makes me too sad okay

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will you keep talking about you're not

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going to be seeing them anymore Terry do

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you have a plan to hurt yourself well if

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I say yes you're going to go telling

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everybody and you're just going to lock

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me up even more so Terry I need you to

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be honest with me and I need you to tell

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me if you have a plan no I don't have a

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plan okay

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have you ever been on any medication for

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depression before yeah I think I was on

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some medicine that my family doctor put

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me on once okay when was that I think it

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was a couple years ago I don't remember

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the name of it okay and do you remember

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why you quit taking it or when you quit

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taking it I don't feel like it was

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really doing anything to help me okay

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well our time is almost over here so I

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am going to go ahead and discuss the

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possibility of a medication with your

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doctor okay and since you don't have a

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plan to hurt yourself

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currently and I don't have to tell

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anyone any information about that okay

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but if you do develop that plan you have

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to tell me all right

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mm-hmm okay