How to manifest a new life

Summary

本视频讲述了一个从破产、抑郁到彻底改变生活的故事。视频中分享了改变现实、实现愿望的方法，强调了自我认知、目标明确性、一致性、自我成长和感恩的重要性。提到了在线治疗平台BetterHelp，鼓励通过专业帮助解决心理问题。同时，视频也讨论了如何通过正面对话、专注目标、自我反省和改变环境来吸引丰富和成功。

Takeaways

• 😀 我曾经两年半前一无所有，情绪低落，但通过努力改变了生活。
• 😔 如果你感到困惑和卡住，可以通过改变心态和行为来改变现实。
• 🙏 感谢BetterHelp赞助本视频，他们提供方便的在线治疗服务。
• 🎒 我们的情绪背包里装着什么影响我们的日常反应和能量状态。
• 🔍 具体明确你的目标，这样你才能更好地集中精力实现它们。
• 💪 要实现目标，需要坚持不懈，明确自己想要什么并为之努力。
• 🎯 自我认知和观察自己的行为模式，可以帮助你打破重复的负面循环。
• 🌟 通过提升自己的能量频率，你会更容易吸引到与你目标匹配的事物。
• 🏡 有时你需要改变环境来实现自己的人生目标，跟随直觉行动。
• 📝 把你想要的东西写下来，感恩现有的一切，并相信它们已经在路上。

Q & A

视频中提到了'EDS'，这是指什么？

EDS可能是指'环境缺陷综合症'（Environmental Deficiency Syndrome），这是一种非正式的术语，用来描述由于环境因素导致的身心不适或功能障碍。

视频中提到的'better help'是什么服务？

Better Help是一个在线治疗平台，它将用户与持牌治疗师连接起来，帮助处理各种问题。它拥有超过30,000名治疗师的网络，并提供个性化匹配服务。

视频中提到的'backpack'比喻是什么含义？

这里的'backpack'是一个比喻，指的是个人所携带的负面情绪或态度，比如恨、抱怨、愤怒等，这些都会影响个人对日常情况的反应和能量状态。

视频中提到了'specific needs'，这在better help服务中是如何体现的？

在better help服务中，用户需要填写一个问卷，以帮助评估用户的特定需求，然后根据这些需求匹配合适的治疗师。

视频中提到了'self-awareness'，为什么它对于改变现实很重要？

自我意识对于改变现实很重要，因为它能帮助个人识别和理解自己的行为模式和内在动机，从而做出有意识的改变，改善生活。

视频中提到的'vibration'是什么意思？

'Vibration'在这里指的是个人的能量频率或情绪状态，它需要与想要实现的目标或愿望相匹配，以便能够吸引和实现这些愿望。

视频中提到的'detachment'是什么概念？

'Detachment'是指在情感上不依赖或不过分执着于某些人或事物，这有助于个人保持内心的平静和自主性，避免被外界因素过度影响。

视频中提到的'gratitude'为什么对于实现愿望很重要？

感恩是一种高振动情绪，它能够帮助人们更好地连接到他们已经拥有的东西，从而吸引更多的正面事物进入生活。

视频中提到的'solution-oriented thinking'是什么？

面向解决方案的思考是指在面对问题时，不纠结于问题本身，而是积极寻找解决问题的方法和途径。

视频中提到的'life works itself out'是什么意思？

这意味着生活有时会以我们意想不到的方式自行解决问题或改善情况，我们应该相信并放手让事情自然发展。

视频中提到的'invest in yourself'为什么重要？

投资自己重要，因为通过自我成长和扩展，个人可以变得更有知识、更健康、更自知，从而以最好的版本出现，吸引更多正面的机会和关系。

Outlines

00:00

🌟 人生逆袭与自我提升

这一段讲述了作者从破产、抑郁、严重EDS（环境敏感症）到生活发生巨大转变的过程。作者强调了通过积极改变心态和行动，每个人都能够改变自己的生活。此外，作者感谢Better Help平台的赞助，并介绍了Better Help作为一个在线治疗平台，如何帮助人们找到合适的治疗师，以及其提供的服务和优惠。

05:01

🎒 背包比喻与自我反省

作者通过与治疗师的对话，使用背包的比喻来说明人们日常行为和反应如何影响他们的情绪状态。作者意识到自己过去抱怨太多，关注负面事物，从而影响了自己对生活的积极反应。通过改变关注点，专注于积极和感激的事物，作者成功地转变了自己的能量状态。

10:02

🔍 自我认知与目标明确化

在这一段中，作者强调了自我认知的重要性，以及明确自己真正想要的东西。作者分享了自己如何通过专注于一个目标（如健康或理想身材）来减少分心，并最终实现目标。同时，作者也提到了持之以恒和内在动机的重要性，以及如何通过了解自己的真正需求来找到生活的目的和动力。

15:05

🌱 自我成长与环境影响

作者讨论了自我成长的重要性，包括识别和摆脱生活中的消极模式和人际关系。通过自我观察和学习，作者意识到自己过去的行为模式，并学会了如何改变它们。此外，作者提到了环境对个人信念和成长的影响，以及如何通过改变环境来促进个人发展。

20:07

💰 财富观念与成功心态

在这一段中，作者分享了自己对财富的看法以及如何通过改变信念和期望来吸引财富。作者强调了不以物质来填补内心的空虚，而是找到真正的生活目的和自我价值。同时，作者提到了感恩的重要性，以及如何通过感恩现有的一切来吸引更多的丰富和成功。

📝 明确愿景与放手的艺术

作者在这一段中讲述了如何通过具体地写下自己的目标，并以现在时态来表达，来帮助自己实现愿景。同时，作者强调了放手的重要性，即放下那些不再服务于自己最高利益的事物，让生活自然展开。作者分享了自己如何通过放手和信任生活的过程，最终实现了意想不到的奇迹和祝福。

Keywords

💡转变

转变指的是人或事物的状态或性质发生重大变化。在视频中，转变是主题之一，讲述者通过个人经历展示了如何从破产、抑郁的状态转变为吸引丰富、智慧和新体验的积极生活。例如，讲述者提到'I completely turned my life around in 2 and A2 years'，说明了个人生活的巨大转变。

💡背包

在视频中，背包是一个比喻，代表着个人所携带的负面情绪或积极态度。讲述者通过'what is in your backpack'这个比喻，来说明人们如何通过改变日常的言行来改变自己的生活态度，例如减少抱怨、增加感恩和爱。

💡具体化

具体化是指将抽象的愿望或目标转化为明确、具体的形式。视频中提到，人们在追求爱情或财富时，需要具体化他们的愿望，比如明确想要什么样的爱情或具体要多少钱。例如，讲述者问'what does love look like for you'，强调了具体化愿望的重要性。

💡一致性

一致性在这里指的是在追求目标时保持持续性和稳定性。讲述者强调，无论是追求健康、财富还是其他目标，都需要保持一致的努力和专注。如讲述者所说'you have to have consistency'，说明了在实现目标过程中一致性的重要性。

💡自我认知

自我认知是指个人对自己特性、情感和行为的理解和洞察。视频中讲述者提到通过了解自己、观察自己的行为模式来识别和改变生活中的问题。例如，讲述者通过自我反省发现了自己吸引不诚实朋友的原因，并学会了'Detachment'。

💡振动频率

振动频率在视频中被用来比喻个人的能量状态和心态。讲述者提到，如果想要实现某个愿望，个人的振动频率需要与愿望相匹配。例如，如果想要成为百万富翁，就需要有与之相符的信念和能量状态。

💡感恩

感恩是指对所拥有的一切表示感激和欣赏。视频中讲述者分享了通过感恩来吸引更多积极事物进入生活的经验。如讲述者所说'be a grateful butterfly'，强调了感恩的重要性。

💡解决方案

解决方案是指针对问题所提出的解决方法或策略。讲述者鼓励观众不要只关注问题，而应该寻找解决方案。例如，讲述者提到'start thinking in solution'，鼓励观众积极寻找解决问题的方法。

💡自我投资

自我投资是指个人在提升自己的知识、技能、健康或自我意识方面的投入。视频中讲述者强调了自我投资的重要性，认为只有通过不断自我提升，人们才能实现更好的自我。如讲述者所说'pour a lot into yourself'，说明了自我投资的概念。

💡放手

放手是指放弃那些不再服务于个人最高利益的事物或关系。讲述者分享了自己的经历，说明了放手的重要性，以及放手后生活如何变得更加美好。例如，讲述者提到'let go when they need to let go'，强调了放手的概念。

💡奇迹

奇迹是指非凡的、意想不到的、通常是积极的结果或事件。在视频中，讲述者通过分享自己生活的变化，表达了对奇迹的信仰。如讲述者所说'I believe in miracles'，展示了对生活中不可预见积极变化的信仰。

Highlights

个人转变：从破产、抑郁到吸引丰富和智慧，作者在两年半内彻底改变了自己的生活。

BetterHelp赞助：介绍了BetterHelp在线治疗平台，其拥有超过30000名治疗师的网络。

背包比喻：治疗师用背包比喻个人日常的精神状态和反应。

具体目标：强调设定具体目标的重要性，如爱情或财富的具体定义。

专注与一致性：建议专注于一个目标，并通过一致性实现它。

自我认识：了解自己和观察自己的行为模式对于改变生活至关重要。

振动频率：讨论了个人的振动频率与想要实现的目标之间的匹配。

感恩的态度：通过感恩现有的一切来吸引更多。

寻找解决方案：面对问题时，专注于寻找解决方案而不是纠结于问题本身。

生活自我完善：相信生活会为你找到最佳路径。

投资自己：强调自我成长和扩展的重要性。

放手与接受：学会放手不再服务于你的事物，接受生活的安排。

写下目标：在日记中以现在时态写下目标，仿佛它们已经实现。

言语的力量：注意自己的言语，因为它们可以成为现实。

感恩蝴蝶效应：通过感恩现有的小事物来吸引更大的事物。

不羞于求助：鼓励人们在需要时寻求帮助，不要独自挣扎。

环境的影响：改变环境可能有助于实现个人目标和梦想。

自我意识：意识到自己的行为模式和重复出现的人，了解生活中的教训。

Transcripts

I used to be broke two and a half years

ago I was broke depressed I had severe

EDS and I was living with my mom crying

all day okay I completely turned my life

around in 2 and A2 years and the

abundance I've attracted the wisdom I've

attracted the new experiences like guys

it's shocking to me it's shocking to me

that I'm living this life I want to show

you guys how you can change your reality

around and what you need to do if you

are in a stuck place B right now in

order to change it around and actually

manifest reality that you want to live

in and create for yourself I want to say

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let's get into it first things first you

have to realize what is in your backpack

I have a therapist right and I was

talking to my therapist and we were

basically discussing that I feel so

depleted and so tired all the time and

then he told me he's like Liz what is in

your backpack and I was like what do you

mean and he's like okay day to day how

are you engaging with things are you

complaining more are you reacting to

hate and angry messages are you engaging

into conversations that are hateful or

are you loving are you pointing out

what's beautiful are you being

optimistic and

grateful and then I was like you know

what I've been complaining a lot these

days like literally so much and have

been focused more on what I don't have

than what I have so I started to think

about it and he's like well so that's

what you have been carrying in your

backpack so your backpack is filled with

hate complaining Ang anger so what your

first reaction will be to every

situation is that it's hate it's anger

it's complaining okay he said if you had

filled your backpack with love and

loving conversations with laughter with

being grateful that would be your first

reaction and you would energetically not

be depleted said to me the issue is when

we are energetically depleted no sleep

can fix that when you have a workout for

example you can have a good day of sleep

and that's it the next day you feel fine

again okay but when you're energetic

depleted no matter how much you sleep

you're always tired how do we Tire

ourselves out energetically by engaging

a negative things by uh having negative

conversations by gossiping by constantly

saying what's wrong instead of what is

right so then I swear to God guys when I

just realized that one thing what he

said to me about like what is in your

backpack from that moment on I started

to actually watch the things that I talk

about with my sister with with my

friends and started to point out

beautiful things and good things I

started to say out loud what I'm

grateful for and I swear to God my whole

energy shifted another thing you need to

realize is what do you want what do you

want exactly like a lot of people say oh

I want love okay what does that mean

what does love look like for you cuz for

a lot of people they can get love from

children pets from for from themselves

from friendships do you mean romantic

love do you mean you want to attract a

man honey you have to be specific about

this a lot of you guys are not specific

or they say like oh I want to be rich

okay how much money how much money in

what way do you want to be rich how do

you want to attract that money when you

figure out what you want specifically

then you have to focus on that one thing

if for example you want to be more

healthy or you want to create your dream

body right focus on that only focus on

okay how do I get my dream body what

exercise do I need to do do I need to

squat whatever and you create that whole

plan when you focus on that all the

other things will come in when we have

too much that we need to think about as

humans we are more likely to not get

anything done because there's too many

distractions remove all the distraction

focus on one thing and all the other

things will come because if you start

working on let's say your dream body

your self Leve will increase people will

look at you differently because you love

yourself more now so all the other

things you're trying to manifest will

come anyways then honey you have to be

consistent about it what you want you

have to have consistency there see I'm a

hustler I've been a hustler ever since I

was young I had one goal in life and

that was to make money because I saw my

mother's struggle and my siblings and I

did not want that to be my reality so

what did this have to do okay how do I

create money how do I make money what am

I good at what would people pay for to

see me do or or whatever and then I

realized you know wait a minute everyone

comes to me for advice constantly I'm

really good at giving advice so then I

started my channel and the money came in

because now I'm helping people and I'm

doing what I'm good at a lot of people

they always say like oh yeah I tried and

it didn't work out whatever when you

want something and you want it bad

enough it does not matter people will go

over bodies to get what they want when

they want something bad okay you have to

have that mindset you want you have to

want it as bad as you want to breathe

and that's when you will achieve what

you want I need you to ask yourself why

do you want it you know why I was

talking to this um famous YouTuber we

were sitting I was talking to him and he

was like yeah you know I kind of lost

purpose and I lost motivation for my

work and all these things and he said

but you know like maybe I'm going to get

motivation again and then I can buy a

private jet or like expensive car and

this and that and I looked at him and I

was like why do you want that do you

want a private jet to impress others or

is that because it's going to feel

something in you because this guy has a

lot of money he has all the cars and yet

he's still sitting here not feeling good

about himself so I'm like what is a

private jet going to do try to fill a

void again that cannot be filled because

a lot of people they think that

materialistic things will fill a void

when it never will you have to have

purpose in life you think that if you

die someone will say like oh my God this

guy had a private jet oh he was a great

guy no one will say that it's the Legacy

you leave on this Earth You you guys

need to think bigger and Huger what

impact do I leave want to leave this

earth with life you have to find

something that fills your soul and not

the validation of other people because

honey this validation you will never get

these people will always look down on

you and there's always people that are

bigger and bigger in you so you're

competing in a race that you will never

win way of changing your reality is

getting to know who you are and I know I

I speak about this a lot but this is

actually so important when you know who

you are and You observe yourself and you

know your own toxic traits or the toxic

traits that you allow from other people

then you can actually change things in

your life cuz a lot of you guys you want

to change but you're not self-aware at

all you know I can list things that are

toxic about me I know this because I've

for example been in a relationship and

then I start to work and work on these

things because I'm not going to blame

everyone around me and not look inside

of the mirror that's also why you should

look at the repeating patterns in your

life cuz I had this I had this with a

lot of friendship that I would

constantly attract the same person again

and again and again and they were always

dishonest to me and I have an issue with

that because I'm too honest I I will say

everything about my life and I I I love

friends and family deeply okay so I if I

love someone I I go way too deep into it

so when they they lie to me or I catch

them in like betrayal or stuff it really

hurts me on a deep level but then I

started wondering okay Liz why are you

constantly attracting the same same same

person then I realized I think there is

a desperation inside of me especially

with female friendships to be loved and

to be seen because growing up I never

had that I didn't have like female

friendships and I even had like one

traumatic event with a friend that

yelled in front of all like the what's

it called the kitchen where everyone

eats that I'm a stalker and I I should

leave her alone but I thought that this

girl was my friend and subconsciously I

had clocked that memory in my mind and

ever since then I was acting like to

much in friendships like I really just

wanted the validation of a female

friend but because of that because I was

too desperate for it I constantly

attracted liars and liars and Liars that

kept hurting me until I learned the

lesson of Detachment from female

friendships it was almost like it was so

easy for me to detach from men and male

relationships I didn't care but with

women I held them in such a high regard

to a point where even if they did

something wrong I I would Overlook it

like I would just be like oh no they're

perfect you know and I needed to learn

that lesson Detachment uh stepping away

from desperation but I had to look at

the patterns first and I have to

recognize where is this coming from so I

cannot repeat them again right now if I

have a friendship it's not like that

anymore it's an equal friendship and I

also know what I want in friends now

because I studied myself first and my

own behaviors what I want you to do is

just look at the people in your life

friendships relationships whatever and

look at the patterns are these people

repeating themselves cuz these patterns

reveal where your lesson lies other

thing when you're trying to manifest

something you have to ask yourself is

what frequency are you vibrating on if

your vibration does not match the thing

that you're want to manifest you will

not manifest it period period period

okay a lot of you guys say oh I want to

be a millionaire I want to manifest that

money but you don't really believe that

you can have that you will never

manifest it your vibration is not

matching the energy of a person that has

that much money another thing is a lot

of people say oh I want to attract love

want to attract a good partner but you

don't love yourself you you're not

connected to the love within you you

will not attract a partner that is

loving or showing you love or you will

attract a partner you will attract

someone and they will show you there

will be a lesson for you that you need

to connect to your self l so so through

them you will learn to connect to your

self love so you'll anyways have to come

back to yourself a lot of things that

you guys are seeking outside are already

within you the money you're trying to

manifest is your abundance in you if you

can conect to what you already have on

this Earth and you feel grateful for it

you're a rich person and everything you

have will amplify but you're just

looking at what isn't there instead of

what is and that's why nothing else is

coming in you know when I started

unlocking a lot of money when I just

truly started believing that I deserve

to be wealthy other thing I need you to

look at is who is growing you I want you

to actually take pen and paper and

actually write down who is growing me in

my life a lot of you guys will have have

no one to write down because a lot of

you are just picking people up healing

them looking for people that are

shattered to help them but no one is

growing you when you don't have someone

you can look up to and can look at and

be like you know what if this person did

it it's possible for me too when you

don't have that you cannot change your

belief system see when I used to live

back in Europe for example like a

Mercedes was a luxury car to see

Mercedes was like oh my God crazy you

know and now I live I live for example

in a wealthy City you see rolls-royces

that are normal cars here nothing is

crazy here ever since I moved here my

belief is so like these things are so

easy to get so easy because I just live

here and I see it everywhere it's not

even special to me okay so that's how

your belief starts to change and that's

how I know I also easily can attract

these things because these things are

not special but when you are living in a

place where it's it's just so small and

you never almost see it that it will be

special for you and almost impossible

you need to ask yourself who is actually

growing you who can you look up to and

be like you know what if they can do it

I can do it too who is that in your life

is there someone like that always also I

tell always traumatized children that

come from abusive childhood have someone

in your life that has not experienced

that have someone in your life that had

a nice family good family upbringing

that you can learn from because these

people will put sanity in your head they

will tell you that there was another way

of doing life same with very successful

people they will show you how you can

also accomplish that you will become the

person you hang out with if you're

constantly hanging out to people that

will never accomplish anything and that

are just low lives you will be another

low life another thing is moving places

see sometimes uh a certain place that

you grew up in is not meant for you okay

when I was living in Europe I just knew

that country was not meant for me I knew

it from I was very young my only goal

was to get out of that country I didn't

even know why but my soul knew I was not

meant to be there and the moments that

I've asked two times in my life I asked

God please put me on the path for my

career two times when I asked those two

times I was kicked out of my house so

then I started to understand okay if I

want to do my career it cannot be in

this house and then I also when I met my

partner I moved places and I never

returned remember when I moved countries

and I actually finally got out of the

country that I didn't want to be in

completely my whole life started to

flourish it started to open up sometimes

you cannot find the love that you want

the the job that you want whatever cuz

it's just not in that country your your

soul does not match the vibration of

that country and when you realize this

when you feel like I I'm supposed to be

in this country follow your intuition

your soul might have a destiny in that

country or in that City that you're

craving to go to you know what have no

shame like a man okay I was dating this

guy and this guy is a very from a very

very important family very important

person and he was always sitting with

diplomats and people politicians

whatever and one time we were on a date

and actually he had a meeting with one

Diplomat this guy came he came up to the

guy that I was dating and he he when

they were sitting and talking he asked

maybe 10 things in the first 30 minutes

that he was sitting there he's like can

you do this for me can you that for me

oh can you figure this out blah and the

guy that I was dating was constantly

like yeah yeah I will do yeah yeah

whatever constantly like this and when

the Diplomat guy left I looked at him I

was like is this how men talk to each

other like constantly asking for stuff

he's like yeah I was like that's insane

like cuz I even feel so like weird when

I have to ask still for things but the

way men ask each other for things this

is crazy okay and that's also how they

get successful because they're not

ashamed to ask anything they're not

ashamed to ask women for anything

they're not ashamed to ask men for

anything you don't have to struggle

alone women need to stop thinking that

we have to struggle alone you know like

the whole society has made us feel bad

for wanting things or want and wanting

to ask for help and stuff no that's so

wrong no one in life has accomplished

anything on their own we all always help

each other self-made does not exist have

no shame ask when you need help also so

when you know what you exactly want

write it down in a journal or whatever

and write down in a present tense say

for example I am living in this country

with the love of my life um he sposed me

he's funny he takes care of me he's

loyal and make sure to mention

everything you want okay cuz one time I

said I kept saying oh I don't care

whatever man that is I don't care if

he's pretty or not whatever you know and

then I really got everything I wanted in

that person but he wasn't attracted

itive and I literally could not I could

not uh even date this guy okay so be

very specific about what you ask make

sure you mention looks as well or that

you're at least attracted to him because

I made that mistake other things become

a grateful butterfly see when I was

talking to my therapist I told him I was

like What if I want to manifest like

something bigger let's say tomorrow I

want to buy a mansion okay and then he's

like okay how do you manifest that

Mansion is by being grateful for the

apartment that you already have the more

gratitude you put into your apartment

the more you will get and this is so

very true guys I literally like

especially in the beginning of my career

I was grateful for anything okay

anything I was every day I was talking

to God oh my God God thank you for this

oh my God God God thank you for this oh

I got this I got that constantly okay

and the more you do that the more

grateful you are the more you get

blessed who do you want to do something

for for a person that let's say you you

buy a gift for someone yeah and you buy

it and they're like okay whatever you

know they say thank you but it's like

insincere or you buy a gift for someone

and they're like oh my God thank you so

much oh you made me so happy you want to

do more for that person right the other

person like they're so happy and that

makes you

happy same way with the universe and

same way with God they love gratitude

it's a very very high vibration that

will make you attract more look for

Solutions instead of dwelling on the

problems we can sit here all day and say

like oh my God this is wrong oh my God

this is wrong okay Aunt what are we

going to do now how are we going to fix

it honey start thinking in solution see

one thing about me yeah since I was

young when somebody would come to me

with a problem I'll be like okay how can

we fix this how will we fix this bum bum

bum I would give them advice on what we

can do and I would put it into practice

with them I cannot afford to waste time

I don't want to be 80 tomorrow thinking

I've wasted my time thinking about all

the problems that I had no if I cannot

fix the problems I move on if there if

there's not physically anything that I

can do in inside of myself I move on

then those are not my problems to deal

with God will deal it for me I don't

care okay those are not my problems here

God you take it I don't care another

things is Life Works itself out for you

okay A lot of times you think like what

is this oh my God what is this situation

oh my God why did I lose this

relationship and all of a sudden you're

you're like a year later or two years

later and all of a sudden everything's

fine you're like huh my life is even

better than I thought because life Works

itself out for you you always going to

be uh gu guided towards your highest

path and your highest good but a lot of

times when people are not guided there

it's because they're not willing to let

go when they they need to let go so they

keep going back to things that were

actually not supposed to be there for

them anymore but because they don't

listen and they keep going back and keep

going back they never arrive at their

highest place but honey when you see the

toxic things and the red flags and you

actually are like you know what I

believe that God has something bigger

for me I believe that my highest good is

not this this is not my highest partner

job friendship whatever if I let go of

this I will get much better you

will life will work

out beautifully for you in ways you did

not even expect believe me God blesses

you in ways that you will never even

expect you will look at it and you'll be

like how did this even happen these are

Miracles I swear to God if I look at my

life right now versus 2 and a half years

to go I believe in miracles I have never

believed in God this much as I do now

never in my life you think that I wanted

to let go of the things that I wanted to

let go of no absolutely not because

those things were comfortable for me but

Liz had asked for more Liz wanted

something better so God needed to do

that and a lot of things that didn't

resonate with me anymore needed to be

released but I was willing to let go if

I had not let go and if I was stuck

there I would still be in the same

position right now I want you to pour a

lot into yourself and I want you to

invest a lot of in yourself you know why

because when you do that when you grow

yourself a lot and when you expand

yourself you expand yourself with

knowledge you you become more beautiful

you become more healthier you just

become more self-aware and aware about

others this is how you will show up as

your best version okay you cannot show

up for other people when you're

constantly giving to them but depleting

yourself that is a selfish way that's

self-sabotaging honey that is you

self-sabotaging yourself and you will

not get anywhere what do you want to do

what do you want to achieve how do you

want to look what do you blah blah blah

everything you do for you first and then

you do everything for everyone else too

if that's what you want and when you

have this Clear Vision of what you want

to manifest and what you want let go of

it

let go of it let go of trying to be

desperate let go of trying to achieve

that thing you know why let this goes

back to the thing that I said realize

that you already have it when you know

that you already have something you're

not desperate for it you know that you

have it right for example let's say I

want to manifest a mansion I'm not

desperate for a mansion I know I can

have it by tomorrow I don't care you

know but it's nice and if I want I can

manifest it okay the same should be with

you like you want to manifest love yeah

you you can have love but just enjoy

your own love right now if you don't

have a partner whatever and then that

partner will come in when you're

desperate for something you're showing

that you don't have it otherwise you

wouldn't have to chase it okay someone

that knows they have all the elements

and they're good

themselves people chase them things

chase them write it all down in the

present tense as if it's already

happening in your journal and then just

let it go let it go and just know it's

dusted it's done it will happen okay

whatever you write down will happen

whatever you speak will happen do not

joke honey do not joke about a lot of

things a lot of you guys say things as a

joke and it actually

happens your words are like

magic the universe and God just listens

to what you say and they create what you

say so don't speak ill things into

existence for yourself anyways guys I

hope this video helped some of you guys

and yeah I love you guys so much and

yeah I in next video bye-bye