Toxic Femininity - Do Not Date These Women

Summary

This video script delves into the concept of toxic femininity, focusing on the traits and behaviors that characterize it. It addresses men who find themselves repeatedly attracted to women exhibiting these traits and offers guidance on breaking the cycle. The speaker outlines behaviors such as self-serving attitudes, impulsivity, emotional instability, and a lack of empathy. The script also touches on the impact of toxic femininity on relationships, suggesting that it can erode trust and respect. It concludes by encouraging those who recognize these traits in themselves to seek change, offering help through the speaker's expertise in reprogramming the subconscious mind.

Takeaways

• 🚫 Toxic femininity is characterized by self-serving behaviors and a disregard for the rights and needs of others.
• 🧭 A lack of empathy is a core trait of toxic femininity, with individuals viewing others as objects for their own fulfillment.
• 🔄 These individuals often exhibit impulsive behavior without considering the consequences, prioritizing their own desires over the well-being of others.
• 🌀 Emotional instability is common, with quick aggression, irritability, and the use of emotions to manipulate situations and gain attention.
• 💔 There's a tendency for jealousy and envy, leading to affairs or undermining the success of others to cope with feelings of insecurity and low self-worth.
• 🚨 Recklessness and disregard for safety are evident, with behaviors such as promiscuity and engaging in risky activities without concern for others.
• 🔗 A lack of independence is a key feature, with individuals relying on others for emotional support, financial means, and attention due to a sense of learned helplessness.
• 🤝 Difficulty in forming healthy relationships due to an inability to take accountability and a tendency to blame others for their problems.
• 👥 A sense of rivalry and competition with other women, often stemming from a zero-sum mentality where one person's success is perceived as a threat.
• 🔮 The speaker offers help to those who are attracted to or exhibit toxic feminine traits, suggesting that change is possible through reprogramming subconscious patterns.
• 👍 The video encourages viewers to reflect on their experiences with toxic femininity and to seek support if they recognize these traits in themselves or others.

Q & A

What is the main focus of the video script?

The main focus of the video script is to discuss toxic femininity and its traits, and to offer help for those who find themselves repeatedly attracted to such individuals or who exhibit these traits themselves.

Who is the target audience of this video?

The target audience of this video is primarily men who are attracted to women with toxic feminine traits, but it also includes women who may exhibit these traits and wish to change.

What does the speaker suggest is a characteristic of toxic femininity?

The speaker suggests that a characteristic of toxic femininity is self-serving behavior, where individuals lack empathy and disregard the rights, needs, and time of others.

What is the purpose of asking viewers to leave a comment about their experience with toxic femininity?

The purpose of asking viewers to leave a comment is to engage them in a discussion, share their experiences, and possibly offer insights or support to others who may be dealing with similar issues.

What are some behaviors that individuals with toxic femininity might exhibit according to the script?

Some behaviors include lying, manipulation, playing the victim, impulsiveness, emotional instability, jealousy, and a lack of empathy.

How does the speaker describe the emotional state of individuals with toxic femininity?

The speaker describes the emotional state of individuals with toxic femininity as unstable, with quick aggression, irritability, and a chronic sense of emptiness that leads them to draw energy from others.

What is the potential impact of being in a relationship with someone displaying toxic femininity?

The potential impact includes emotional distress, damage to one's psyche, heart, and soul, financial strain, time wastage, and distraction from personal or business success.

Why might someone be repeatedly attracted to individuals with toxic feminine traits?

Someone might be repeatedly attracted to such individuals because of their upbringing, where they may have been exposed to toxic femininity in their family, leading their subconscious mind to associate this behavior with survivability and attraction.

What does the speaker offer to help those who want to change their toxic feminine traits?

The speaker offers assistance in reprogramming the subconscious mind to change these negative traits, with the contact information provided in the video description.

What is the speaker's view on the possibility of change for individuals with toxic feminine traits?

The speaker believes that change is possible for individuals who can self-reflect and recognize their toxic traits, suggesting that awareness is the first step towards change.

How does the speaker define 'toxic femininity' in the context of the video?

In the context of the video, 'toxic femininity' is defined as a set of self-serving, empathy-lacking behaviors that disregard the well-being of others and focus solely on personal gain and fulfillment.

Outlines

00:00

🚫 Understanding Toxic Femininity

This paragraph introduces the topic of toxic femininity, particularly its impact on men who are repeatedly attracted to such women. The speaker offers help to break these patterns and invites viewers to share their experiences with toxic femininity in the comments. The paragraph emphasizes traits such as self-centeredness, lack of empathy, and manipulative behaviors, which are characteristic of toxic femininity. It also touches on impulsiveness and emotional instability as common behaviors among individuals with these traits.

05:01

🔍 Characteristics of Toxic Femininity

The second paragraph delves deeper into the characteristics of toxic femininity, including a disregard for morality, lying and manipulation, impulsiveness, emotional instability, and a tendency to engage in risky behaviors. It discusses how individuals with toxic femininity may rely on others for their needs, lack independence, and exhibit learned helplessness. The paragraph also highlights the tendency to blame others for their problems and the lack of empathy, which makes it easy for these individuals to hurt others for personal gain.

10:01

🛑 Overcoming Toxic Femininity

The final paragraph addresses the consequences of engaging with women who display toxic femininity, such as emotional and financial drain, and the potential damage to one's personal and professional life. It provides insight into why some people might repeatedly date individuals with these traits, often due to subconscious programming from childhood experiences. The speaker offers assistance for those who wish to change, emphasizing that self-awareness is the first step towards transformation. The paragraph concludes by encouraging viewers to engage with the content, share their thoughts, and seek help if they identify with the described traits.

Keywords

💡Toxic Femininity

Toxic femininity refers to a set of behaviors and attitudes traditionally associated with women that are harmful or detrimental to themselves or others. In the video, it is described as being self-serving, with a lack of empathy and disregard for others' needs. The term is central to the video's theme, highlighting how these traits can negatively impact relationships and individuals.

💡Self-Serving

Self-serving behavior is when an individual acts primarily for their own benefit, often at the expense of others. In the context of the video, toxic femininity is characterized by individuals who are self-serving, focusing on their own needs and desires without considering the impact on others, as seen in the script's discussion of manipulative and impulsive behaviors.

💡Empathy

Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of others. The video script notes a lack of empathy as a key characteristic of toxic femininity, where individuals are unable to put themselves in others' shoes, leading to hurtful and mistreating actions towards others.

💡Manipulation

Manipulation is the act of influencing someone or something in a clever or unscrupulous way. The script describes how individuals displaying toxic femininity may use lies, guilt-tripping, and playing the victim as manipulative tactics to get what they want, often at the expense of others.

💡Impulsive

Impulsive behavior is acting without thinking about the consequences. The video mentions that individuals with toxic femininity are impulsive, acting on their immediate desires without considering the potential negative impacts on their relationships or others.

💡Emotional Instability

Emotional instability refers to a state of being prone to rapid and extreme changes in emotions. The script describes how those with toxic femininity can be quick to aggression, irritable, and use their emotions to manipulate situations, reflecting their emotional instability.

💡Recklessness

Recklessness is the state of being careless or not considering the potential consequences of one's actions. The video discusses how individuals with toxic femininity may engage in risky behaviors, such as promiscuity and unprotected sex, without regard for their own or their partners' safety.

💡Independence

Independence is the state of being self-sufficient and not relying on others. The script contrasts this with the behavior of those displaying toxic femininity, who are often described as relying on others for their needs, lacking the ability to be fully independent.

💡Blame

Blame is the act of attributing responsibility for an action or event to someone. The video script notes that individuals with toxic femininity often blame others for their problems instead of taking personal accountability, reflecting a lack of self-awareness and growth.

💡Rivalry

Rivalry is a state of competition for the same objective or superiority in certain aspects. The video discusses how women with toxic femininity may feel threatened by the success of other women, leading to jealousy, envy, and a competitive 'zero-sum' mentality.

💡Projection

Projection is a psychological defense mechanism where one's own undesirable thoughts or feelings are attributed to someone else. The script mentions that individuals with toxic femininity may project their low self-esteem and lack of self-worth onto their partners, causing unnecessary stress and misunderstanding in relationships.

Highlights

The video addresses men repeatedly attracted to toxic femininity and offers help to break the cycle.

Toxic femininity is characterized by self-serving traits and a disregard for others' needs and rights.

Individuals with toxic femininity often lack empathy and perceive others as objects for their own fulfillment.

The video invites viewers to share their definitions and experiences with toxic femininity in the comments.

People displaying toxic femininity may have no moral compass and engage in lying and manipulation.

Toxic feminine individuals can be impulsive, acting without considering the consequences of their actions.

Emotional instability is common, with quick aggression and irritability often used to manipulate situations.

Toxic feminine individuals may struggle with depression, anxiety, and a chronic sense of emptiness.

These individuals may engage in reckless behaviors, such as promiscuity and unsafe practices.

Inability to be fully independent is a trait, with reliance on others for needs and support.

Toxic feminine individuals often blame others for their problems instead of taking accountability.

A lack of empathy makes it easy for these individuals to hurt and mistreat others for personal gain.

Rivalry and competition with other females are common, with a zero-sum mentality affecting relationships.

Jealousy and envy can lead to undermining the success of others and backstabbing behaviors.

The video discusses the subconscious attraction to toxic femininity due to early life experiences.

The presenter offers expertise in reprogramming the subconscious mind to change attraction patterns.

Healthy relationships require emotional stability and mutual support, which are lacking in relationships with toxic feminine individuals.

The video concludes by encouraging viewers to reflect on their experiences and consider seeking help for change.

Transcripts

so I wanted to do another video on toxic

femininity now this video is

specifically for people who are

attracted to these types of women if you

are a man and you find yourself

repeatedly attracted to these types of

women and you're unable to break the

cycle then please consider reaching out

this is what I help people with I help

people stop the patterns that they find

themselves in when it comes to romantic

relationships when it comes to anything

in their life really that they want to

stop so you can find my information in

the description below but in this video

what I want to go over with you

specifically are those toxic feminine

traits that you're going to want to stay

away from and women too if you have

these traits they are revisable for some

people they are revisable and if you are

looking to heal uh you can consider

reaching out as well when it comes to

toxic femininity what makes it toxic is

that they're self-serving it is all

about them and it can't be enough about

them there's a complete disregard for

other people other people's rights

others people's needs other people's

time it's almost as if these individuals

uh perceive others as ponds as objects

and they have a disconnection there is

this lack of empathy Within These

individuals that for everybody outside

of them they're objects to be used for

their own uh fulfillment and their own

gain and that's what makes it super

toxic and hard to be around and

dangerous to be around sometimes when

you're in the room with these

individuals they suck up all the energy

in the room like it cannot be enough

about them they will do certain

behaviors and we're going to go over

what these behaviors are in these traits

to get their needs met at the expense of

others and you can kind of feel this

when you talk to them it's like you

could be talking about something that's

concerning to you yet they find a way to

turn it around and put the conversation

back on them but before we get started

into these behaviors and these traits

that I want to share with you today I

want you to go ahead and leave in the

comments down below what is toxic

femininity to you how would you define

it and then what are some of the

behaviors and traits that you've come

across and maybe somebody that you've

met who displays toxic femininity so

let's get right into it the first one I

want to share with you is there is a

disregard for what is right or wrong so

this is a trait that you will see in

someone who's displaying toxic

femininity they're they don't have any

kind of moral compass and they don't

care if something is going to hurt

someone because remember it's all about

them and can't be enough of about them

so they're doing what they have to do in

order to get their needs and wants and

desires met at the expense of others so

there's a disregard for what is right or

wrong or what is moral even ethical and

legal sometimes the other thing you're

going to notice with these individuals

is that they're going to lie and

manipulate to get what they want of

course at the expense of others you got

to remember that at the core of this is

the selfservice they're in service to

self and they don't care about others

they'll engage in guilt tripping others

and passive aggressive behaviors in

order to manipulate others to get what

they want and a way to be manipulative

is that they'll uh play the victim with

people to get their needs and wants met

and another way they can use

manipulation is through sex a third

characteristic you will know notice in

these individuals is that they are super

impulsive they do not think before they

act when we think before we act we can

include the consequences of our Behavior

right and we might go hey if I behave in

this way or engage with somebody in this

way way that's going to have negative

impact on my

relationships these individuals think do

not think about those consequences they

act right in the moment because they are

doing it for pleasure they're doing it

to satisfy their own pleasures and their

own

needs even if that means that it could

damage and destroy their relationship

that they're in a fourth characteristic

that you'll notice with individuals who

display toxic femininity is that they

are emotionally unstable they can be

quick to aggression they can be very

irritable

uh they can use their emotions again to

play the victim and to manipulate the

situation and others in order to get

what they need and want they may even

struggle with depression or anxiety and

a chronic sense of emptiness internally

and so because they feel empty inside

they need others to fill that emptiness

so they're constantly drawing on the

energy of others to fill that black hole

inside of them and they might even use

emotional Outburst in order to get

attention especially if you're in a

relationship with them and they're not

feeling like they're getting the

attention that they deserve and

sometimes they feel like all eyes should

be on them 100% of the time and so if

you're putting your attention somewhere

else they might have a big blow up or

some kind of you know session where they

act out in order to get your attention

and sometimes these individuals will go

ahead and um if they see that you're

talking to somebody else even if you're

engaging in a conversation let's say

with another woman they'll perceive this

internally they'll feel envious and

jealous and what they might do is go and

have an affair or hook up with somebody

else in order to make you feel the pain

that they felt because of this emotional

instability and this lack of self-worth

internally that they have and this gets

into the fifth characteristic is that

there is there's a recklessness to them

and a disregard for safety so there are

they are going to be they tend to be

more promiscuous and sometimes more

often than not are having unprotected

sex with other partners putting their

partner at the risk of getting a

sexually transmitted disease so they

engage in dangerous activities without

the regard for others who are involved

and their safety another characteristic

you'll notice with uh individuals that

display toxic femininity is that they

aren't able to be truly fully

independent because they're relying on

others to get their needs met because

they don't know how to do this for

themselves uh they also can be relying

on others for financial means emotional

support uh attention because they're

very attention seeking and they can have

this sense of learned helplessness to

them where they constantly need others

to do things for them and to take care

of them almost like a child they don't

feel they're not fully capable of being

independent and on their own and like I

said earlier they can be the Damsel in

Distress and they constantly blame

others for what's going wrong in their

life instead of taking accountability

and being like my life is the way it is

I'm the one who did this I'm the one who

needs to fix this there's none of that

they will constantly blame others and be

like I'm you know I am the way I am

because of my mother I am the way I am

because of my boss or I am the way I am

because of X Y and Z it's always

external to them you got to remember

these individuals are energy vampires

they're just sucking and sucking and

sucking the energy from everybody else

around them another characteristic

you're going to notice with people who

display toxic femininity is that there

is a lack of empathy empathy is when

we're able to put ourselves in somebody

else's shoes see the world through their

eyes understand their perspective and

feel what they feel these individuals

aren't able to do that which makes it

very easy for them to hurt and mistreat

others for their own gain and for the

ladies out there who might be friends

with other women who display these toxic

feminine traits you're going to notice

that there's a lot of rivalry between

them and you they do they they compete

with other females it's almost like um

if someone if their friend I'll put that

in quotes if another woman in their

Circle or tribe or somebody that they

know is doing well that to them is

threatening to their their ability to do

well they engage in this what's called

Zero Sum mentality so if somebody's

doing well that means they're not doing

well if somebody's happy that means

they're they're taking the happiness

away from them if somebody's talking to

their partner that means their partner

is no longer interested in them it's

black or white their their brains don't

know how to include the gray area so

that makes them you know that can

contribute to the emotional instability

that can contribute to the impulsive

decision making uh because they are

doing things based off these intense

emotions that they feel they can have

damaging consequences due to the

behavior that they engage in based off

those emotions based off how their mind

is interpreting the situation so when it

comes to being being friends with these

types of women you're going to notice

that there's a lot of jealousy and there

maybe even be some backstabbing too so

if you do well and you notice that a

friend is trying to rip you down take

note maybe they're displaying some

characteristics of toxic femininity and

you might want to reconsider whether or

not you want to be friends with this

individual and because they experience

that jealousy and envy they can do

things that undermine your success that

undermine the people in their group

success the other women that they're

engaging with so let me know in the

comments Down Below have you dated

someone like this what was your

experience like are you still in the

relationship with them or did you get

free what was it like recovering do you

find yourself constantly dating the same

type of woman are you repeating this

over and over again the reason why

someone might repeat dating this type of

woman over and over again is because

this is what they grew up with maybe

their mother displayed traits of toxic

femininity and because a child when it's

growing up the subconscious mind is

what's online when they're little and it

learns that this is survivable so if the

child is seeing mom display these toxic

feminine traits or someone in the family

maybe their primary caregiver the

child's brain is learning to survive

this type of behavior so when they

become an adult the subconscious mind is

going to be attracted to those types of

women it's going to spot those women out

in a room and highlight them with like a

light around them as the most attractive

woman in the room but really what's

happening is that the subconscious mind

is going I know how to survive this this

is the devil that I know if you are

interested in changing this I'm a master

at reprogramming the subconscious mind

and my information is down below

engaging with women like this in

relationships is damaging not only to

our psyche but our heart our soul our

finances our time and it can even

destroy your chances of being successful

in your business because it's super

distracting being around these type of

women they suck up all the energy in the

room healthy relationships require

emotional stability and mutual support

which you're not going to get in these

relationshipss and consistent

manipulation just erodes respect and

trust and another thing you can

experience in relationships with these

women is because they have such a low

self-esteem and a lack of self-worth

they can unconsciously project this onto

their partner and make their partner

feel like they're the ones with all the

issues when really it's them projecting

that onto them so it can be stressful if

you're a man dating one of these women

because you feel like maybe you do have

these problems maybe this is what's

going on with you when really it is not

it is them projecting that on to you in

a healthy relationship we want to be

able to two individuals have to see

their own faults and Character defects

so that they can work on it not only for

themselves but for the health of the

relationship so that both Partners can

grow and evolve together with women who

display toxic feminine traits they have

an inability to perceive themselves as

what is wrong they perceive everybody

else as what is wrong now even for the

women out there who experience this if

you are sitting there thinking just man

I have a lot of these traits but I want

to change if the fact that you have that

you're able to self-reflect and see that

means that you have the ability to

change if a woman were to watch this who

has these negative traits and can't see

this in herself then she can't change

but the fact that you can see it means

that there's a doorway for you to change

and if you're open to changing and

having a different experience in life

getting rid of that emotional

instability in gaining more selfworth

and self-confidence and gaining more of

a sense of Independence and autonomy

then go ahead and reach out there's a

link in the description below I can help

you with this if you made it this far in

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