Pengantar Ilmu Komunikasi - Komunikasi dan konsep diri

Summary

This video script delves into the concepts of self-concept, self-esteem, and self-awareness, emphasizing their impact on communication. It explores how self-image is shaped by feedback from significant others and social comparisons. The Johari Window model illustrates how self-awareness affects personal interactions, with quadrants representing open, hidden, blind, and unknown selves. The script also discusses the cycle of low self-esteem and its detrimental effects on communication performance. Lastly, cultural values and the process of self-disclosure are highlighted, showing how societal influences shape our concept of self and communication behaviors.

Takeaways

• 😀 Self-concept refers to how we perceive ourselves and influences how we communicate with others.
• 😀 The 'Looking-glass self' theory explains that our self-image is shaped by the feedback we get from significant others.
• 😀 Significant others are people with significant influence over our self-concept, like close family members or friends.
• 😀 Social comparison is the process of evaluating ourselves based on others' behaviors, affecting our self-perception.
• 😀 Cultural values and teachings are passed down from previous generations, shaping our self-concept and views.
• 😀 Self-reflection and self-evaluation after communication help us understand our performance and improve interactions.
• 😀 The Johari Window model highlights the different aspects of self-awareness, including the Open, Hidden, Blind, and Unknown selves.
• 😀 Low self-esteem leads to negative thinking and self-doubt, which can negatively impact communication and performance.
• 😀 A cycle of negative self-esteem can reduce communication effectiveness, leading to failure and self-blame.
• 😀 Disclosure in communication occurs at various levels: Superficial, Intimate, and Core, with the Core level being the deepest connections with significant others.
• 😀 Cultivating self-awareness and positive self-esteem helps in breaking negative communication cycles and improving interactions.

Q & A

What is the concept of 'self' in communication?

The concept of 'self' in communication refers to how we perceive ourselves, which influences how we communicate and respond to others. It affects the way we interact and convey messages, both verbally and nonverbally.

What is the significance of the 'Looking Glass Self' in communication?

The 'Looking Glass Self' refers to how individuals develop their self-image based on how others respond to them. The feedback we receive from significant others, such as family or close friends, shapes our perception of ourselves and influences future communication behaviors.

Who are considered 'significant others' in the context of self-concept?

Significant others are individuals who have a strong influence on our self-concept due to their close relationship with us. These people are trusted to shape our views and behaviors, and their reactions to our actions and communication are particularly impactful.

How does social comparison affect our self-concept?

Social comparison involves evaluating ourselves in relation to others. This can shape our self-concept, as we often compare ourselves to others in areas such as appearance or behavior, which can influence our self-esteem and communication style.

What is the role of cultural teachings in shaping our self-concept?

Cultural teachings are passed down through generations and play a crucial role in shaping our self-concept. These teachings instill values and beliefs that influence how we perceive ourselves and interact with others. For example, cultural norms around relationships or behaviors can impact how we view certain actions.

What is the Johari Window, and how does it relate to self-awareness?

The Johari Window is a model used to explore self-awareness by dividing personal knowledge into four areas: Open Self, Hidden Self, Blind Self, and Unknown Self. It helps individuals understand how they perceive themselves and how others perceive them, enhancing communication and personal growth.

What is the Open Self in the Johari Window?

The Open Self refers to the aspects of a person that are known both to themselves and others. This includes information that is openly shared, such as one's profession or personal interests, and helps establish clear communication with others.

What is the Hidden Self in the Johari Window?

The Hidden Self consists of personal information that is known to the individual but is kept hidden from others. This may include personal aspirations, fears, or beliefs that one chooses not to disclose.

What is the Blind Self in the Johari Window?

The Blind Self contains aspects of a person that are known to others but not to themselves. These may include unconscious behaviors or traits that others notice, but the individual remains unaware of them.

How does low self-esteem affect communication?

Low self-esteem can lead to negative thoughts and self-doubt, which can impair communication. Individuals with low self-esteem may struggle with confidence, leading to poor performance in communication, increased self-criticism, and a cycle of failure and frustration.