Membahas trend "Mokel" di kalangan generasi muda - RAMADAN TALKS (Eps 05)

Summary

In this conversation, Afifa and Adila discuss the importance of fasting during Ramadan, addressing the issue of 'mokel' – intentionally breaking the fast, often seen humorously on social media. They emphasize that mokel is forbidden in Islam and can nullify the rewards of fasting. Drawing from a Hadith, they stress that breaking the fast without a valid reason cannot be replaced, even with years of fasting. To avoid this behavior, they suggest strengthening the intention for fasting, engaging in additional acts of worship, and avoiding distractions like social media. The conversation ends with blessings for a fruitful Ramadan.

Takeaways

• 😀 Mokel refers to intentionally breaking the fast without a valid reason, which is forbidden in Islam.
• 😀 Mokel is often joked about on social media but is a serious matter as it can lead to losing rewards and bringing sin.
• 😀 It's important to strengthen the intention to fast for the sake of Allah, not for social approval or fear of missing out (FOMO).
• 😀 Engaging in acts of worship, especially sunnah prayers, can help prevent distractions like mukbang videos on social media.
• 😀 One should avoid friends or situations that might encourage gossip, sin, or activities that invalidate the fast.
• 😀 Breaking the fast without a legitimate reason is mentioned in a hadith, where it's emphasized that even a single day of broken fast can't be compensated by years of fasting later.
• 😀 Ramadan is a time to seek blessings from Allah by staying true to the fast and avoiding unnecessary temptations.
• 😀 The 24th day of Ramadan marks the nearing end of the month and the upcoming celebration of Eid al-Fitr.
• 😀 Both Afifa and Adila highlight the importance of educating others about the consequences of mokel and proper fasting behavior.
• 😀 To maintain a good fasting habit, it's vital to be mindful of one's surroundings and avoid behaviors that conflict with the purpose of fasting.

Q & A

What does the term 'mokel' mean in the context of Ramadan?

The term 'mokel' comes from the Javanese language and refers to intentionally breaking one's fast secretly. It is often used in a joking context but is forbidden in Islam as it invalidates the fast and incurs sin.

Why is 'mokel' considered a serious issue in Islam?

Mokel is serious because it involves breaking the fast without a legitimate excuse. According to Islamic teachings, breaking the fast without justification not only invalidates the fast but also causes a person to lose the spiritual rewards of fasting and brings about sin.

What happens if a person breaks their fast without a valid reason during Ramadan?

If a person breaks their fast without a valid reason, they cannot make up for it by fasting continuously for years. This is mentioned in a hadith which emphasizes the importance of maintaining the fast properly.

What is the first tip to avoid 'mokel' during Ramadan?

The first tip is to strengthen your intention for fasting. It is important to fast for the sake of Allah and not because of peer pressure or external expectations. Fasting should be driven by spiritual devotion.

How can increasing acts of worship help avoid 'mokel'?

Increasing acts of worship, such as performing additional prayers, reading the Quran, and engaging in charitable deeds, helps keep you focused on the spiritual rewards of Ramadan. This strengthens your connection with Allah and keeps you away from distractions like 'mokel'.

What role does social media play in encouraging 'mokel'?

Social media, especially with content like mukbang videos (eating shows), can act as a temptation that distracts people from their fast. Watching such content can lead to the desire to break the fast, which is why avoiding such distractions is crucial.

How can someone avoid the temptation of watching mukbang videos on social media?

To avoid temptation, it is advisable to unfollow accounts that post mukbang videos or other content that encourages unhealthy habits. Limiting exposure to such content can help maintain focus during Ramadan.

Why is it important to keep good company during Ramadan?

It is important to keep good company because the people around you can influence your behavior. Surrounding yourself with individuals who support your commitment to fasting and avoid negative behaviors like gossip or tempting you to break your fast helps you stay on track.

What is the significance of the intention behind fasting in Ramadan?

The intention behind fasting is crucial because fasting is an act of worship. When a person fasts sincerely for the sake of Allah, they gain spiritual rewards. Fasting for the wrong reasons, like to show off or because of peer pressure, undermines the purpose and benefits of fasting.

How does fasting during Ramadan bring blessings from Allah?

Fasting during Ramadan brings blessings from Allah as it is an act of obedience and devotion. Allah rewards those who fast with forgiveness, mercy, and spiritual purification. The month of Ramadan is considered a time for personal reflection, self-discipline, and increased acts of worship, all of which are highly valued in Islam.