5 Things You Shouldn’t Do Around Women (Lowers Your Value)

Summary

This video explains the subtle mistakes men make that lower their value in the eyes of women. Key mistakes include auditioning for approval, over-explaining, accepting disrespectful behavior, being uncomfortable with silence, and relying on a woman's reactions to feel confident. The speaker emphasizes that women are attracted to men who exude confidence and value themselves, not those who are desperate or seeking validation. It’s not about material accomplishments, but about how a man makes a woman feel in the interaction. The key takeaway is that a man’s value is conveyed through his energy and presence, not external achievements.

Takeaways

• 😀 Avoid seeming like you're auditioning for a woman's approval. Instead, assess if there’s chemistry and if you're genuinely interested in her.
• 😀 Over-explaining or justifying your actions signals insecurity. Own what you say confidently without constantly seeking validation.
• 😀 Don’t tolerate disrespect or bad behavior from a woman. Set boundaries and avoid acting like you’re willing to accept anything.
• 😀 Be comfortable with silence. If there's a pause in conversation, don't panic. A confident man can handle quiet moments without feeling awkward.
• 😀 Avoid needing a woman’s approval to feel confident. True confidence comes from within, not from constantly seeking validation from others.
• 😀 Women are attracted to men who value themselves and don't feel desperate or needy for approval.
• 😀 Avoid acting like you're 'lucky' to get a chance with a woman. Instead, be in the mindset of assessing if she’s a good match for you.
• 😀 Women are more interested in how they feel during the interaction than in your external accomplishments or appearance.
• 😀 If you act like you're auditioning for a role, you’ll come across as lower value. Instead, show that you're a valuable man with options.
• 😀 It’s not about what you have or how successful you are; it’s the feeling you give her that matters. You don’t need to have everything figured out to be attractive.

Q & A

What is the main mistake that lowers a man's value in the eyes of a woman?

The main mistake is acting like you're auditioning for her approval, rather than assessing whether there's mutual chemistry. This makes the woman feel like she's in a higher value position, which lowers your value in her eyes.

How does over-explaining affect a man's perceived value?

Over-explaining or justifying yourself shows insecurity and lack of self-belief. When a man is confident and owns his words, it signals higher value because he doesn't need constant validation or approval.

Why is it important not to tolerate disrespect from a woman?

Tolerating disrespect signals to a woman that you value her more than yourself. This makes you appear lower value. A man with high self-worth won't accept disrespect and will naturally distance himself from bad behavior.

How does a man’s comfort with silence influence attraction?

A man who is comfortable with silence shows confidence and does not feel the need to fill every pause with conversation. This signals to the woman that he is self-assured and secure in his value.

What is the significance of assessing chemistry in a relationship rather than auditioning?

Assessing chemistry means the man is interested in seeing if the relationship is mutually beneficial. It flips the dynamic, where the man is not trying to win a woman’s approval, but is simply evaluating if they both connect.

How does a woman’s behavior impact the dynamic of attraction with a man?

A woman's behavior can affect attraction by signaling whether or not she respects the man and if there's a genuine connection. If she perceives a man as lower value, she will disengage or act distant, which can decrease attraction.

What role does self-approval play in how a man interacts with women?

Self-approval is critical because a man who validates himself internally doesn't need external approval to feel confident. This inner confidence increases his perceived value and attraction, as he doesn't rely on a woman to affirm his worth.

Why is it misleading to think that external achievements (like wealth or success) are the main factors in attracting women?

While external achievements can be attractive, women are more drawn to how a man makes them feel in the interaction. It’s not about what a man has, but how he presents himself and the confidence he exudes that plays a key role in attraction.

How does a man’s mindset influence his behavior during interactions with women?

A man with a mindset of abundance and self-worth will naturally assess whether he clicks with a woman, rather than trying to win her over. This mindset makes him appear higher value and attractive, as it doesn’t give off desperation or neediness.

What is the impact of a man acting ‘needy’ during interactions with a woman?

When a man acts needy, constantly trying to gain approval, it lowers his value in the woman’s eyes. She perceives him as lower value because he’s seeking her approval rather than presenting himself as a confident, self-assured individual.