10 Minimalist Rules That DON'T Actually Work

Summary

In this video, the speaker reflects on the rise of minimalism trends, sharing insights from personal experience as a former minimalist. They discuss common misconceptions and rules that don't work, such as the six-month rule for decluttering and strict limits on the number of possessions. Instead, they emphasize the importance of practicality, intentionality, and emotional connection to possessions. The speaker also stresses that minimalism should be seen as a tool for reducing overwhelm, not a strict lifestyle, and encourages viewers to adopt a balanced, flexible approach that suits their individual needs.

Takeaways

• 😀 Minimalism is trending again, but it’s important to approach it thoughtfully, rather than following every popular rule blindly.
• 😀 The rule of discarding items you haven’t used in 6 months doesn’t always work, as life can be unpredictable. Consider the potential future need for items instead.
• 😀 Minimalism is not a numbers game. The amount of items someone owns should depend on their life situation and needs, not an arbitrary limit.
• 😀 Making minimalism your whole identity can lead to an existential crisis. Instead, view minimalism as a tool or set of values that enhance your life.
• 😀 Decluttering everything in one weekend, especially as a reaction to feeling overwhelmed, can lead to rash decisions and regret. Instead, declutter in phases over time.
• 😀 The 'spark joy' rule is incomplete. Sometimes, functional items that don't spark joy (like a kitchen spatula) are necessary and should be kept.
• 😀 Having a few backups or duplicates of essential items is practical. Don’t feel pressured to follow strict rules about owning only what you need in the exact amount.
• 😀 Minimalism doesn’t mean being cheap. Spending more on higher quality items that last longer can be a smarter, more intentional way to practice minimalism.
• 😀 Hobbies and collections don’t have to be sacrificed for minimalism. If they bring authentic joy and aren’t overwhelming, they can align with minimalist values.
• 😀 Minimalism is a continuous process. Regularly question the value and necessity of your possessions to maintain a clutter-free and purposeful environment.

Q & A

Why is minimalism trending again?

Minimalism is trending again due to factors like Emma Chamberlain's decluttering efforts, the rise of under-consumption, and the influence of de-influencing, where people are encouraged to reduce their purchases and focus on more intentional living.

What is the first rule of minimalism that doesn't work according to the script?

The first rule that doesn't work is the idea that if you haven't used something in 6 months, you should simply get rid of it. The script suggests that this rule often leads to unnecessary expenses and regrets, as life is unpredictable, and some items may have future value.

How should you approach decluttering instead of relying on the 6-month rule?

Instead of relying on time as the sole barometer, ask yourself questions like why you purchased the item, why you don't use it now, and whether you can realistically foresee a scenario where it would be useful in the future.

What is the problem with the 'numbers game' in minimalism?

The problem with the 'numbers game' is that minimalism is not about owning a specific number of items. People’s needs vary greatly depending on their lifestyle, hobbies, and circumstances, so focusing on numbers like owning only a certain amount of clothes or items doesn't fit everyone.

What mistake do people make when they turn minimalism into their whole personality?

Turning minimalism into a whole personality can lead to an identity crisis, as people feel pressured to constantly conform to the minimalism label, which can make them feel boxed in and lead to justifying actions that might not align with their true values.

What is the recommended approach to decluttering rather than doing it all at once?

The script advises decluttering in phases, starting small and focusing on one area at a time, rather than trying to tackle everything in a single weekend. This approach reduces rash decisions and helps build decluttering as a habit.

How should you handle items that don’t spark joy, like a kitchen spatula or tax paperwork?

Instead of following the 'spark joy' rule strictly, it's important to consider whether the item is meaningful, useful, or necessary. Some items might not bring joy but are essential, like tools or important documents.

What is the issue with the rule 'never have backups or duplicates'?

The rule against backups or duplicates is unrealistic. Having a few backups for essential items can be practical, as it avoids shortages and the need for immediate replacements, which could be inconvenient or costly.

What is the difference between being frugal and being cheap in minimalism?

Being frugal means making intentional, informed purchases that are of good quality and built to last, while being cheap focuses on buying the lowest-cost options that may end up breaking quickly. Minimalism encourages spending on quality rather than quantity.

Can you still have hobbies or collections while practicing minimalism?

Yes, minimalism does not require you to erase your hobbies or collections. If they bring genuine joy and don’t overwhelm your space or finances, it’s perfectly fine to continue enjoying them. The key is to keep these items aligned with your values.

What is the mistake of thinking you can declutter once and be done?

The mistake is assuming that decluttering is a one-time event. Minimalism requires ongoing maintenance as things will naturally accumulate over time, so it’s essential to continuously evaluate and remove unnecessary items.

What does the script suggest about sentimental items in minimalism?

The script advises against the rule that you must get rid of all sentimental items. These items can hold significant emotional value, and it’s okay to keep them if they bring meaning and joy to your life. Minimalism should allow you to hold onto what’s meaningful.